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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by mccoy47(m): 4:18pm On Feb 17, 2018
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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Nobody: 4:19pm On Feb 17, 2018
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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by styless(f): 4:20pm On Feb 17, 2018
I read this article on dnb stories and couldn't stop laughing

http://www.dnbstories.com/2018/02/daniel-nkado-we-should-all-be-masculists.html?m=1
Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by FluidQueen(f): 4:22pm On Feb 17, 2018
CorGier:


sadly the only hypocrite here you and your lots who derive the ultimate ego trip only when engaging in a pissing contest with men.
when would you realize it's not about the thing dangling between your thighs?
No one wants that. I love my Ass and Urethra the way they are. Thank you.

Look around you, men strive to better their equals and "not be like them," so please by all means catch us if you can.
You talk about letting "nature" determine their strengths and i start to wonder what you're on about.

Honey, the world is there for the taking, men are not at war with women and have never been.



this is Balderdash. Really.

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Andrewgame42: 4:22pm On Feb 17, 2018
Lol
Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Deicide: 4:24pm On Feb 17, 2018
I wish i could join this argument but......
Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Andrewgame42: 4:24pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
when would you realize it's not about the thing dangling between your thighs?
No one wants that. I love my Ass and Urethra the way they are. Thank you.

this is Balderdash. Really.

Use the ass and urethra to be better nah.... Instead of crying for equal opportunities!

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Doctorfitz: 4:25pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
when would you realize it's not about the thing dangling between your thighs?
No one wants that. I love my Ass and Urethra the way they are. Thank you.

this is Balderdash. Really.


It's balderdash and u can't simply respond to questions??


My friend sidon for corner.

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by DavidEsq(m): 4:27pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
like I said I wouldn't indulge both of you. smiley

You both very well know the struggles of Women but both of you chose to feign ignorance and ask me belittling questions tainted with unnecessary sarcasm.
The usual APC tactics of avoiding the obvious. I'm not surprised tho

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by skales67(m): 4:28pm On Feb 17, 2018
I wish the owner of rant HQ Susan Ade Cocacola and her bunch of hungry jobless female adherents forming feminists will see this post.

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Benblaq(m): 4:29pm On Feb 17, 2018
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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Nobody: 4:29pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
this isn't What Feminism means, my dear.

It's not female favoritism, neither is it gender bias. Feminism is simply equality for both Sexes. Give one gender same Opportunities as the other. Don't praise a gender on accounts Where you discriminate the other gender. Give them equal rights and liberty to do as they please. Let nature determine their strengths. Let them lead. Equality. Feminism. Choice.

you are missing the point

this is nigerian feminism

husband and wife both have jobs and opportunities; however wife expects husbands salary to be for maintaining familiy, rent, school fees etal, while her own salary is for her own use.

and she considers this to be equality

or wife takes decisions that she expects husband to bear responsibility for . theres a story on NL a few months back of how a lady gave her entire salary to pastor, after which her husband had to support her for the month

so the lady is right. too many nigerian women want the the benefits without the accountability/responsibility

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by DavidEsq(m): 4:30pm On Feb 17, 2018
Deicide:
I wish i could join this argument but......
U nefa chop since morning smiley

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Blonchilli(m): 4:30pm On Feb 17, 2018
Okonjo Iweala, Oby (BBOG), Chimmamanda Adichie, Dora Akunyili, Stella Obasanjo and even Mama Peace are the only Feminist I know in Nigeria. The rest are just e-warriors using feminism to market their Oloshoism to stay relevant. And don't mention any celebrity, we know how they got there. Look at Toke that everyone took for a feminist until we found out she's opening her legs for her grandpa

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by skales67(m): 4:30pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
when would you realize it's not about the thing dangling between your thighs?
No one wants that. I love my Ass and Urethra the way they are. Thank you.

this is Balderdash. Really.

Simply because you own a p*ssy doesn't mean you should act like one undecided

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by FluidQueen(f): 4:31pm On Feb 17, 2018
oyb:


you are missing the point

this is nigerian feminism

husband and wife both have jobs and opportunities; however wife expects husbands salary to be for maintaining familiy, rent, school fees etal, while her own salary is for her own use.

and she considers this to be equality

or wife takes decisions that she expects husband to bear responsibility for . theres a story on NL a few months back of how a lady gave her entire salary to pastor, after which her husband had to support her for the month

so the lady is right. too many nigerian women want the the benefits without the accountability/responsibility


For starters, All women aren't feminists.
Secondly, there is nothing like Nigerian feminism.

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by ivanalimi: 4:31pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
like I said I wouldn't indulge both of you. smiley

You both very well know the struggles of Women but both of you chose to feign ignorance and ask me belittling questions tainted with unnecessary sarcasm.
when those pot-bellied senators are taking them to Dubai for shopping, gifting them cars, changing their wardrobe every two months, renting and furnishing apartments for them in high brow areas in fact, giving them 100k for 10 mins straffing nobody dey talk of feminism then o. bunch of hypocrites. its only wen things are not going their way that's wen dey remember equality. when was the last time u go on a date with ur guy and u offer to pay for the goodies acquired or u both share the responsibility equally? pls tell me an example of a government ministry or private company that pays a woman less than a man wen they are both working equally just because she is woman?

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Xisnin(m): 4:31pm On Feb 17, 2018
Dumb girl want to trend with bashing feminists.
Pretenders everywhere.
Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by skales67(m): 4:31pm On Feb 17, 2018
Blonchilli:
Okonjo Iweala, Oby (BBOG), Chimmamanda Adichie, Dora Akunyili, Stella Obasanjo and even Mama Peace are the only Feminist I know in Nigeria. The rest are just e-warriors using feminism to market their Oloshoism to stay relevant. And don't mention any celebrity, we know how they got there. Look at Toke that everyone took for a feminist until we found out she's opening her legs for her grandpa

Lol...you mean Toke Makinwa?

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by BluntBoy(m): 4:32pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
this isn't What Feminism means, my dear.

It's not female favoritism, neither is it gender bias. Feminism is simply equality for both Sexes. Give one gender same Opportunities as the other. Don't praise a gender on accounts Where you discriminate the other gender. Give them equal rights and liberty to do as they please. Let nature determine their strengths. Let them lead. Equality. Feminism. Choice.

But all these have been provided. What else do you women want if not total domination over men

Opportunities are not determined by gender anywhere. I am a data analyst and I have worked closely with statisticians and industrial psychologists. And I have also collected datas myself and painstakingly analyzed them scientifically. Women are not denied opportunities. If you insist, I will like to show me instances where women are denied opportunities.

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by DavidEsq(m): 4:32pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
like I said I wouldn't indulge both of you. smiley

You both very well know the struggles of Women but both of you chose to feign ignorance and ask me belittling questions tainted with unnecessary sarcasm.

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Matoni: 4:32pm On Feb 17, 2018
Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by kollinpowel(m): 4:32pm On Feb 17, 2018
donstan18:
The lady made a point, but made a mistake by calling them "Feminists", because I simply do not think these sets of ladies she's reffering to are feminists, they are just bunch of frustrated pained dumb and feminist wannabes cheesy
cheesy


Real feminists are beautiful, proud, confident, intelligent, smart, successful, wise and well established sets of women

They are not these set of confused lazy and frustrated women who depend on men and privately cry to get married cheesy , they are not these set of pained ladies who crave for the benefits of men, yet won't take care of the financial responsibilities of men in their families and society.

Real feminists are big turn on to some men, they don't rant online like these broke, ugly, confused, frustrated, dump,beggars and illiterates we see online cheesy , real feminists don't even have time to tell you that they are feminists, they won't even tell you what they are, you'll see it in them.


Nowadays, even ladies wee no sabi wash their pants de form feminists grin cheesy
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin Omo Bobo wan ki mi wit lafta

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by MissWrite(f): 4:35pm On Feb 17, 2018
She said "most" feminists want selective equality. And if we are referring to "feminists" (which includes anyone who fancies herself one) and not feminists (which excludes anyone who doesn't abide by the general principles of feminism), then she wouldn't be wrong altogether. By the way, she didn't say if she was advocating for "proper" feminism or if she was against the concept. So, I don't see why anyone should make this an issue.

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by laydoh(m): 4:37pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
this isn't What Feminism means, my dear.

It's not female favoritism, neither is it gender bias. Feminism is simply equality for both Sexes. Give one gender same Opportunities as the other. Don't praise a gender on accounts Where you discriminate the other gender. Give them equal rights and liberty to do as they please. Let nature determine their strengths. Let them lead. Equality. Feminism. Choice.
lol,wat z d diff btw wat u said and wat d guy said.nw i knw u guys dnt even knw wia u r going,u dnt knw wat u really want. so it will b beta to just keep to ur mumblings coz ntin wil change,dia z ntin u can do abt it,it z d God's will.

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by SweetyMarvel00(m): 4:37pm On Feb 17, 2018
Alot of women in this part of the world do not understand what ferminism means...

Why is it that, base on the definition of feminism, it's only women that cry for equality the most...does it mean that men are not discriminated?

And what about a situation where people of same sex are not treated equally...what do you call that ?on[color=#000000][/color]

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Nobody: 4:41pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
like I said I wouldn't indulge both of you. smiley

You both very well know the struggles of Women but both of you chose to feign ignorance and ask me belittling questions tainted with unnecessary sarcasm.

http://www.informationng.com/2017/02/meet-sola-david-borha-highest-paid-bank-ceo-nigeria-allegedly-collecting-n484-931-daily-n117m-annually-photos.html

what are these struggles you speak of?

do you actually work in nigeria, or are you just sputtering balderdash?

that is just one example

women are represented very well in the nigerian workforce across all industries from the entry level right up to the boardroom

there have been multiple female coos, HODs and managers where i have work.

women are not restricted in anyway outside of your imagination

unless of course, you are looking for something more

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by chinnyonwu(m): 4:42pm On Feb 17, 2018
ivanalimi:
He said u should give him an instance. its an oppurtunity for u to school us on what feminism is about. instead u hide behind unnecessary sarcasm and u ran into another direction entirely. it is obvious u don't even have any idea what u are talking about.
Thats human beings for you, they make bogus claims about something they desperately want you to believe, when you ask that they prove it with hard facts, theynow say" i dont have anything to prove to you"
B*tch wtf was you trying to do all along?

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Nobodys(f): 4:42pm On Feb 17, 2018
ignorance all over this thread...so much ignorance
Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by meforkene(m): 4:49pm On Feb 17, 2018
Feminism is now a relative term and also a smoke screen to the real feminists.
What I'm I saying?

There are different parts of feminists.

A group don't want to be judged with their sexuality. They want to easily and freely express their sexualities.Eg. Amber Rose went unclad revealing her 'chocha', when she was attacked online she said it's her act of feminism.

Another group fight for confusing equal right.
Chimamanda is a known feminist(or rides on it for fame).She travelled to Finland (a feminist country) and unconsciously complained bitterly that the men in the country ignored her in as much as she had plenty luggage.

Some single mother on social media threatened to sue her daughter's school as they taught her daughter that the father is the head of the family in social/civic studies.

So you see the confusion continues....

Saw one feminists poster "Her dressing has nothing to do with immorality"...but then the most respected women we know, NOI, Late Dora, Chimamanda, Angel Merkel, Oprah etc..you never see even their knees when they are dressed.

Confusion!!!

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Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by FluidQueen(f): 4:50pm On Feb 17, 2018
BluntBoy:


But all these have been provided. What else do you women want if not total domination over men

Opportunities are not determined by gender anywhere. I am a data analyst and I have worked closely with statisticians and industrial psychologists. And I have also collected datas myself and painstakingly analyzed them scientifically. Women are not denied opportunities. If you insist, I will like to show me instances of how women are denied opportunities.
We don't. We only seek equality. smiley not matriachy.
And women have always been denied opportunities. Why you think We aren't is simply because feminists fought for our rights to education, rights to vote, rights to marry whom we please, rights to be human, rights to study whatever course we choose, rights to live.


In politics, Women are being marginalized. Don't act like you don't see it. How many women are in leadership positions in the world?

Education. The girl child struggles to go to school. Let's look at the northern states for instance. Female kids are made to get married rather than actually having ambitions.

In Saudi Arabia, women aren't Even allowed to drive cars. Lol. You think this isn't inhumane?
Feminism is simply about choice. Knowing and noticing wrongs with social constructs regarding genders before even becoming educated about it.

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