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temi4fash:


Bros,

First things first.. Office runs is not the best.

I think you should let her be and leave her to continue her drama.

Just act as her bobo, and take charge and put your emotions aside..

She is just trying to play with your head and emotions and you allowing her have her way.

Thank yhu...

Really need to put her under

Hiploko:
Thank yhu...

Really need to put her under

For how long has this been going on sir?
Childish if u ask me...U need to man up & forget about her bro...It isn't worth it...
Try to foerget about her...You are already sounding too weak...

Pokiyo007:
OK...dere is dis girl dat we live in d same hall so I gave her d sendless attitude and I guess it worked cos wen she couldn't take it any longer she asked for mai name and other questions like dat.To cut d long story short I know she is attracted to me buh d issue is we ave not really talked dat much and me am d kind of guy dat prefers to stay indoor 24/7.So dis lack of communication is wah am concerned abt.Wah can I do or shud I collect her number or give her mine

can i have your whatsapp number

Rubbiish:

For how long has this been going on sir?
Childish if u ask me...U need to man up & forget about her bro...It isn't worth it...
Try to foerget about her...You are already sounding too weak...

Likeness dey weaken person ni o. But hse is already complaining i am been mean to her

Drlouis415:





can i have your whatsapp number

Wah do u need it for

Pokiyo007:
Wah do u need it for

i am asking on behalf of Efcc. lol

to Chat up,

Drlouis415:


i am asking on behalf of Efcc. lol


to Chat up,

lolz...08061351488

Rubbiish:

For how long has this been going on sir?
Childish if u ask me...U need to man up & forget about her bro...It isn't worth it...
Try to foerget about her...You are already sounding too weak...

Like 6 months

Hiploko:
How i wish i saw this thread 5 years ago!!!

I have this lady i met in a taxi on my way to the bank. Cute and Ok. We got talking with Charly Boy's Wuse market attack as the subject...

Incidentally, we were going to the same bank, so we went together did transactions and then strolled of the bank and walked on for a while before entering taxi back. We exchanged numbers and all i did thereafter were skeletal chats. I was not really moved to start up something. Time went on and then an opening came in my office and i helped her in. Then, we started going home together daily to HER HOUSE. She has never been to mine. Relationship emotions started building up within me(Dont know about her though) but noticed when i take calls with females she tends to jokingly complain.

I asked her out, she refused,mentioned we should date she declined but wouldnt just let me go home without her. Once i told her she cant be blocking spaces for other ladies by wanting me around always even during weekends. She got very upset and decided to stay away. I started missing her and had to go plead with her. Before you say jack, we were doing everything again. She Calls to say i abandoned her whenever i stay long without calling, chats, hangout etc. This left me very confused but i decided to stay strong and play along. One day , i heard her calling a guy baby bla bla bla. Without asking, she started to explain that the guy is based abroad and she is just playing along to collect his money. One day she walked up to my desk and saw me posting on nairaland that i need a professional lady for a serious relationship. She got very upset, went home without me and didnt pick my calls all through that evening. Same thing she did all through the weekend. When eventually we met, she said she thought i was a responsible guy and didnt know i do internet dating(she doesnt do nairaland). I tried to convince her it is not what she is thinking but then the damage was done. One thing she has kept doing after this incidence is to go home without me. I also caught her on phone chatting someone she calls "my love".

This weekend i decided to just let her be and then she sent a chat saying "so you decided to bullshit me abi, there is God o!

What can i do with this kinda lady sef

I like her..

Stop allowing this lady to use u..
Time to man up and move on
Date, go out with other girls, if she is urs, she will will come back...if not, then its aure voir

RRWraith:

Stop allowing this lady to use u..
Time to man up and move on
Date, go out with other girls, if she is urs, she will will come back...if not, then its aure voir

Well said sir. Regards

Hey y'all, I gat this problem.
I met a girl on Monday,it was just coincidental, she needed help finding her h.o.d's office and I helped her.He was around sha,so unlike my usual self,I decided to just talk a lil with her.it was just one of those convos where it seemed like you guys have met before in the past,things just flowed easily between us and I didn't even lie to impress her or something,but she was.I took her number and on Wednesday,I invited her to my dept's valentine fiesta.
at the event,we were just chatting,we didn't even enter d hall again.we just stayed outside ate pop corn and all.and ever since then,we always hang out after school.
she started bringing in stuffs like"who am I to you?".."what do you want from me?".."I never thought I'd ever meet someone like you,its like a dream".
Now the point is I love her,I dunno why or how and I am scared because I just met her on Monday but I see myself doing things that I normally don't do..Now,I'm not a baby in love matters,I've had my own more than enough share of relationships.my point of writing this is that I'd like to know what y'all think bout this.
she is in her 100level,fresher. she is 17yrs.she is sooooooo responsible and soft-spoken.just pure and innocent and she is up to no games.just always honest,sometimes too honest.and she completely trusts me.and so godamn respectful.
I'm in 400lvl,med student(c1).we both wear glasses.she is ambidextrous,in fact she is everything I want,although,she needs some brushing up sha,cos she dresses funny sometimes.but there is no denying her natural beauty.
I've never been in this situation before,most girls I've been with,I always have my guard up in case of anything.but with this one,there's absolutely no danger anywhere.I'm in control of everything and I don't want to ruin it.I dunno whether I should just be myself or just be this dominating guy(alpha male ish).
I've always been repulsive to marriage but with this girl,sometimes I'm entertaining the thought.She is just like 80% what I want.
so,guys any advice??
harddon
xavierblue
magikalz

fayded:
Hey y'all, I gat this problem.
I met a girl on Monday,it was just coincidental, she needed help finding her h.o.d's office and I helped her.He was around sha,so unlike my usual self,I decided to just talk a lil with her.it was just one of those convos where it seemed like you guys have met before in the past,things just flowed easily between us and I didn't even lie to impress her or something,but she was.I took her number and on Wednesday,I invited her to my dept's valentine fiesta.
at the event,we were just chatting,we didn't even enter d hall again.we just stayed outside ate pop corn and all.and ever since then,we always hang out after school.
she started bringing in stuffs like"who am I to you?".."what do you want from me?".."I never thought I'd ever meet someone like you,its like a dream".
Now the point is I love her,I dunno why or how and I am scared because I just met her on Monday but I see myself doing things that I normally don't do..Now,I'm not a baby in love matters,I've had my own more than enough share of relationships.my point of writing this is that I'd like to know what y'all think bout this.
she is in her 100level,fresher. she is 17yrs.she is sooooooo responsible and soft-spoken.just pure and innocent and she is up to no games.just always honest,sometimes too honest.and she completely trusts me.and so godamn respectful.
I'm in 400lvl,med student(c1).we both wear glasses.she is ambidextrous,in fact she is everything I want,although,she needs some brushing up sha,cos she dresses funny sometimes.but there is no denying her natural beauty.
I've never been in this situation before,most girls I've been with,I always have my guard up in case of anything.but with this one,there's absolutely no danger anywhere.I'm in control of everything and I don't want to ruin it.I dunno whether I should just be myself or just be this dominating guy(alpha male ish).
I've always been repulsive to marriage but with this girl,sometimes I'm entertaining the thought.She is just like 80% what I want.
so,guys any advice??
harddon
xavierblue
magikalz

act like everything is normal
Remember the moment u start making her feel too comfortable
You lose your balls

At bolded can u stop thinking with ur dick
U think marriage is childs play huh

fayded:
Hey y'all, I gat this problem.
I met a girl on Monday,it was just coincidental, she needed help finding her h.o.d's office and I helped her.He was around sha,so unlike my usual self,I decided to just talk a lil with her.it was just one of those convos where it seemed like you guys have met before in the past,things just flowed easily between us and I didn't even lie to impress her or something,but she was.I took her number and on Wednesday,I invited her to my dept's valentine fiesta.
at the event,we were just chatting,we didn't even enter d hall again.we just stayed outside ate pop corn and all.and ever since then,we always hang out after school.
she started bringing in stuffs like"who am I to you?".."what do you want from me?".."I never thought I'd ever meet someone like you,its like a dream".
Now the point is I love her,I dunno why or how and I am scared because I just met her on Monday but I see myself doing things that I normally don't do..Now,I'm not a baby in love matters,I've had my own more than enough share of relationships.my point of writing this is that I'd like to know what y'all think bout this.
she is in her 100level,fresher. she is 17yrs.she is sooooooo responsible and soft-spoken.just pure and innocent and she is up to no games.just always honest,sometimes too honest.and she completely trusts me.and so godamn respectful.
I'm in 400lvl,med student(c1).we both wear glasses.she is ambidextrous,in fact she is everything I want,although,she needs some brushing up sha,cos she dresses funny sometimes.but there is no denying her natural beauty.
I've never been in this situation before,most girls I've been with,I always have my guard up in case of anything.but with this one,there's absolutely no danger anywhere.I'm in control of everything and I don't want to ruin it.I dunno whether I should just be myself or just be this dominating guy(alpha male ish).
I've always been repulsive to marriage but with this girl,sometimes I'm entertaining the thought.She is just like 80% what I want.
so,guys any advice??
harddon
xavierblue
magikalz

Let me quickly establish u are in love, it has nothing to do with your number of years in the game. It can happen to anyone, but managing your feelings is where the experience comes in.
Don't allow emotion to overwhelm u, just be yourself.

@first bold I have my reservation.
@second bold U better discard the mindset of being a control freak & domineering guy because u want to prove what u are not. Just be yourself.

Treat her right & always correct her shortcomings, ladies take guys for granted because they tolerate & fail to correct the ladies wrongs....Just dont start what u can condone from her...

just stumbled on this thread and already loving it...Harddon, 2dice01, u guys r good.

Hi Oga Op and other gurus in the house, please I need help on this issue. There is this girl I met January last year and just some few weeks after, I told her about my feeling without building attraction with her first. So her reply was "It can't work" she didn't give me any reason though I asked her through phone because we don't live in the same state. I was able to contact a close friend of hers and she told me that she was engaged planning to get married in few months, this was February last year. Because of this information, I backed out but we still chat casually occasionally.

Just January this year, she sent me a message that I didn't inform her about my sister's wedding and I told her that I thought she was aware of it. And she said that she wouldn't be able to attend because of distance.

Fast forward early this month I called her and she told me she was in Abuja and I was travelling to Minna via Abuja in few days, so I told her that when I get to Abuja I will ring her up.

I met with her in Abuja and while we were discussing she used style asked about my wife, girlfriend and Fiancee and I said I don't have any. She told me many things about her family and why she was in Abuja. She also told me that she lives with her uncle with two other female cousins single in their 40s. She said that her two cousins usually give her tough time at home and they go to the extent of saying it to her face that nobody will marry her. She said they had never for once asked her "when are u bringing ur man home" that it seemed they were praying for her to stay single just like them. So my question is, Is she showing me some green light? I still like her really. Should I ask her out or I should build more attraction with her first before asking her out? And now If I have to ask her out I can only do it via the phone because of our different location.

Thanks

tobaseye:
Hi Oga Op and other gurus in the house, please I need help on this issue. There is this girl I met January last year and just some few weeks after, I told her about my feeling without building attraction with her first. So her reply was "It can't work" she didn't give me any reason though I asked her through phone because we don't live in the same state. I was able to contact a close friend of hers and she told me that she was engaged planning to get married in few months, this was February last year. Because of this information, I backed out but we still chat casually occasionally.

Just January this year, she sent me a message that I didn't inform her about my sister's wedding and I told her that I thought she was aware of it. And she said that she wouldn't be able to attend because of distance.

Fast forward early this month I called her and she told me she was in Abuja and I was travelling to Minna via Abuja in few days, so I told her that when I get to Abuja I will ring her up.

I met with her in Abuja and while we were discussing she used style asked about my wife, girlfriend and Fiancee and I said I don't have any. She told me many things about her family and why she was in Abuja. She also told me that she lives with her uncle with two other female cousins single in their 40s. She said that her two cousins usually give her tough time at home and they go to the extent of saying it to her face that nobody will marry her. She said they had never for once asked her "when are u bringing ur man home" that it seemed they were praying for her to stay single just like them. So my question is, Is she showing me some green light? I still like her really. Should I ask her out or I should build more attraction with her first before asking her out? And now If I have to ask her out I can only do it via the phone because of our different location.

Thanks

well to me she sees you are last hope after the guy she was dating dumped her


If I may ask... Why do u have to ask her out
Dis is 2000 and forever bro

*Build aťtraction
Chat.. Call... Give her a nickname
Fix date and so on

Kindly read diss page from page one


Lastly are u so in hurry to marry?

Hmmm

Hw do i open up more

i cant thank yall enough, especially harddon.
im on the way, but this is the greatest secrets to being a God in the world of wooin the Bleep shit out of them angelics.

Check out based zeus on youtube. has some great stuffs too.

im on staircase 45

RRWraith:

Stop allowing this lady to use u..
Time to man up and move on
Date, go out with other girls, if she is urs, she will will come back...if not, then its aure voir

Mehn alot have happened ooo...

I know i would be good with time. Wish i used the opportunities i had when they were there. But i was thinking marriage and playing the nice guy.

Now this girl has made bestie of another guy in the office and it is eating me up. She even wore an engagement ring some days back.

I AM IN A MESS!!!

CC:Harddon

Hiploko:
Mehn alot have happened ooo...

I know i would be good with time. Wish i used the opportunities i had when they were there. But i was thinking marriage and playing the nice guy.

Now this girl has made bestie of another guy in the office and it is eating me up. She even wore an engagement ring some days back.

I AM IN A MESS!!!

CC:Harddon

Bros, if you date this girl she would use you.

You are desperate. Calm down bros

Calm down, Why you in a hurry to lose your balls??

Let her have fun. By the way Office runx is not the best.

Stay safe bro

temi4fash:


Bros, if you date this girl she would use you.

You are desperate. Calm down bros

Calm down, Why you in a hurry to lose your balls??

Let her have fun. By the way Office runx is not the best.

Stay safe bro

tryna calm down!!! and regain my balls ni o

When I see people in your position behaving the way you are behaving, I just feel pity.

In your own case, you have been advised to back off and let this biitch be but you want to persist and keep trying.

It will not work.....even if it does, you will end up with a piece of bone other dogs have gnawed their fill from.

That's not wise.

This lady will continue to manipulate you obviously because you lack control and you don't look like you can turn the tables around sef.

Bro, forget this chick.

The best you can get here is a good f.u.ccck.

If that is what you wish to do, there are better ways of doing it.

Forget her for awhile, improve on your game all-round, come back and try to game her.

I mean really game her. Don't take her seriously or involve feelings A.K.A emotions.

If you can successfully lay her, do so and find your way......if it still proves a mission impossible, leave am find your way.

Ask yourself this - what exactly is she bringing to the table?

P.uu..sss.y and what else?

Manipulation that you don't need.

Abeg as the bros above said, calm the fuu.ck down and free this human being.

Hiploko:
tryna calm down!!! and regain my balls ni o

magikalz:
When I see people in your position behaving the way you are behaving, I just feel pity.

In your own case, you have been advised to back off and let this biitch be but you want to persist and keep trying.

It will not work.....even if it does, you will end up with a piece of bone other dogs have gnawed their fill from.

That's not wise.

This lady will continue to manipulate you obviously because you lack control and you don't look like you can turn the tables around sef.

Bro, forget this chick.

The best you can get here is a good f.u.ccck.

If that is what you wish to do, there are better ways of doing it.

Forget her for awhile, improve on your game all-round, come back and try to game her.

I mean really game her. Don't take her seriously or involve feelings A.K.A emotions.

If you can successfully lay her, do so and find your way......if it still proves a mission impossible, leave am find your way.

Ask yourself this - what exactly is she bringing to the table?

P.uu..sss.y and what else?

Manipulation that you don't need.

Abeg as the bros above said, calm the fuu.ck down and free this human being.

Thank you man!

sumbody help..no longer HV problem with approaching and having number..but after dat,everything always go dry,lyk not replying calls and messages. expecialy m suck with phonegame and Chating...abeg it getting discouraging everytime, ah don taya,and i no wan give up...help pls..I nid elaborate explanation
2dice and d gurus over here abeg answer...I mid phonegame with immediate connection

This happened around 6pm today ... So I went to a chemist to get drugs with my guy .. and two girls were already there buying drugs .. I was sitting in the passage and my friend went in to get the drugs after some minutes two girls came in .. and one sat down on the chair too cos it’s a long chair and the other went on to buy the drug ... we were both pressing phones ..after some minutes ,the first set of girls that were there befor me and my guy came we’re about leaving then the one outside sitting with me called them cos she knows them and was inviting them for a party they talked and laughed and the two girls accepted to go for the party and left .. so I turned to her and this was the first thing I said
Me : ‘ you’re inviting your friends and you didn’t invite me ‘
She : you wanna come ? Well if you like .. it’s this night ...
me : okay let me have your number I will call you so we’ll go together since you know the place ..

I handed her my phone and she inserted her number and said her name is precious .. I said okay .. by that time my guy was already outside waiting for me to come out let’s go .. so I just smiled and stood up to meet my guy .. that’s how it went ...



Now how do I proceed
NB: I never wanted to go for the party I just wanted to get her number cos I know she would definitely giv me if I acted like I was gonna go for the party and she gave me ..

She’s very beautiful and has front and back

I didn’t call her .. I suppose she should be in the party by now ...

How , when do I call her now ...? And please what do I say when I call her ? And how do I answer the question she could ask ‘so why didn’t you call me for the party again I tot you were gonna call ‘


Harddon
Magikalz
Rubbiish
2dice01
Xavierblue

MaxkidOFFICIAL:
This happened around 6pm today ... So I went to a chemist to get drugs with my guy .. and two girls were already there buying drugs .. I was sitting in the passage and my friend went in to get the drugs after some minutes two girls came in .. and one sat down on the chair too cos it’s a long chair and the other went on to buy the drug ... we were both pressing phones ..after some minutes ,the first set of girls that were there befor me and my guy came we’re about leaving then the one outside sitting with me called them cos she knows them and was inviting them for a party they talked and laughed and the two girls accepted to go for the party and left .. so I turned to her and this was the first thing I said
Me : ‘ you’re inviting your friends and you didn’t invite me ‘
She : you wanna come ? Well if you like .. it’s this night ...
me : okay let me have your number I will call you so we’ll go together since you know the place ..

I handed her my phone and she inserted her number and said her name is precious .. I said okay .. by that time my guy was already outside waiting for me to come out let’s go .. so I just smiled and stood up to meet my guy .. that’s how it went ...



Now how do I proceed
NB: I never wanted to go for the party I just wanted to get her number cos I know she would definitely giv me if I acted like I was gonna go for the party and she gave me ..

She’s very beautiful and has front and back

I didn’t call her .. I suppose she should be in the party by now ...

How , when do I call her now ...? And please what do I say when I call her ? And how do I answer the question she could ask ‘so why didn’t you call me for the party again I tot you were gonna call ‘


Hard.don
Magi.kalz
Rubbi.ish
2di.ce01
Xavi.erblue

you dont have to attend bro

You could send her a short text message tomorrow morning
E. G hey tonia(dont mind me i just love that name) sorry i couldn't make it to the party last night

Something came up so urgently... Ama gist you later.. Goodmorning



Then you can call her later in the evening
Get familiar with her
Tease flirt... Have fun

You can jokingly tell her she was lucky you didnt make it to the party you would have beating her ass down with ur shaku shaku moves

She will definitely want to prove u wrong

Then you can take it as a bet/challenge

You will fix a date
That's all

Passing by

2dice01 and my bosses in the house
pls a girl just told me to tell her more about myself, what is the perfect way of replying such a question?
the girl is into all this fellowship stuffs and I don't want to ruin her life with my dirty mind right now.

hardewaih:
2dice01 and my bosses in the house
pls a girl just told me to tell her more about myself, what is the perfect way of replying such a question?
the girl is into all this fellowship stuffs and I don't want to ruin her life with my dirty mind right now.

its obvious she likes you already

Mehn you are funny
Diss same girl might have dreamt of kissing you forget fellowship stuff
If she doesn't fancy you.. You won't get any attention


Tell her dont want to start now before she start falling for you

Did she say diss through text or one on one?