I just broke up with her 3 days ago and since then, she keeps disrespecting me. The way she responds to my question, doesn't greet me anymore and now gives me things with left hand (which she knows I dislike). But its not that she insults me verbally, but this attitude. How do I go about this ? Do I stop totally talking with her ?
Note: we are in d same department in school...

She's ur ex, so what do u expect ?

to BREAK means to dissociate, discontinue, disconnect

so what kind of fooul question are u asking. IS IT EVERYONE IN YOUR CLASS U TALK TO?

ABEG dey your lane n move on with your life... it is only when u are jobless or less busy with your book work that you would have time to NOTICE your past.

she is dead n gone, Live your life like she never existed.

#Yorubademon

Successdude:
I just broke up with her 3 days ago and since then, she keeps disrespecting me. The way she responds to my question, doesn't greet me anymore and now gives me things with left hand (which she knows I dislike). But its not that she insults me verbally, but this attitude. How do I go about this ? Do I stop totally talking with her ?
Note: we are in d same department in school...

Smiles I cherish this line 'she doesn't greet me anymore and now gives me things with left hand'. Don't do that you will hurt yourself the more. Mind you, you don't have control over her. It seems you thought you guys are still dating. She's now EX.

wat did u expect? u just broke up wit her..so u expecting her to greet u..lolz

QueenSuccubus:



She's ur ex, so what do u expect ?

Actually the way it happened was that we were friends but as time went, she began to tell me she felt sth for me. We never had any romantic relationship tho but I call her ex cos that's from her angle. Does it mean now, she never respected me before ? What do u think

roarik:
wat did u expect? u just broke up wit her..so u expecting her to greet u..lolz

I don't get it the way you mean. But its not a fight. I can't be avoiding sum1 cos she is an ex; y must she do this ?

dojnr4real:
Smiles I cherish this line 'she doesn't greet me anymore and now gives me things with left hand'. Don't do that you will hurt yourself the more. Mind you, you don't have control over her. It seems you thought you guys are still dating. She's now EX.

I have issues keeping enmity with people most especially the female folks.... I don't have the talent for DAT.

Successdude:
Actually the way it happened was that we were friends but as time went, she began to tell me she felt sth for me. We never had any romantic relationship tho but I call her ex cos that's from her angle. Does it mean now, she never respected me before ? What do u think

As u said, u never had romantic relationship with her..SO my question is ...WHY U FEEL SO AFFECTED?

Successdude:
I don't get it the way you mean. But its not a fight. I can't be avoiding sum1 cos she is an ex; y must she do this ?

mayb she does nt want anytin to do again,it seem u dnt knw ao much break can hurt abi.d babe is vexing.

Bro can you do one thing for me?, simply move on don't let someone else give you unnecessary headache.

Lol, you sound like control freak . You broke up with her but still expect her to be nice and friendly to you. Are you well ?

QueenSuccubus:



As u said, u never had romantic relationship with her..SO my question is ...WHY U FEEL SO AFFECTED?

cos we were really good friends... As in I was dis kind of shy n so reserved guy. She really helped me boost my morale and I too, gave her advice as to her life. She grew up in a single parent home, with her mom. So I was like a fada or broad and she was to me as an elder sister. The connection was too familiar. The thing is, I really can't define correctly how dis friendship was. U must hav been in dis kind of friendship that wen you begin to explain it, u realise u can't really explain such : the sacrifices, support, gossips, secrets

Lionessza:
Lol, you sound like control freak . You broke up with her but still expect her to be nice and friendly to you. Are you well ?

I can b commanding sometimes honestly, but not disrespectfully. I didn't put up this thread to be asked if I am well....don't abuse me

It is quite obvious she hasn't gotten over you, She is showing the other side of the passion and affection she showed you while you were together.

So give her time, it will pass

Although, I have this funny feeling that you haven't gotten over her either because you cared so much about her to create a topic about her.

Your story resembles that of a couple having a fight

Successdude:
I can b commanding sometimes honestly, but not disrespectfully. I didn't put up this thread to be asked if I am well....don't abuse me

Lol, I'm not abusing you but your post is ridiculous. You break up with someone and expect them to continue smiling with you? It doesn't work that way. Get over yourself.

femolacqua:
Bro can you do one thing for me?, simply move on don't let someone else give you unnecessary headache.

OK bro... Tnx

greiboy:
It is quite obvious she hasn't gotten over you, She is showing the other side of the passion and affection she showed you while you were together.

So give her time, it will pass

Although, I have this funny feeling that you haven't gotten over her either because you cared so much about her to create a topic about her.

Your story resembles that of a couple having a fight

yes, I didn't say I was hundred percent gotten over her. That's y I still care to notice her attitude. But I maintain the breakup should be and remain. However don't want enmity. I can't do dat

Successdude:
yes, I didn't say I was hundred percent gotten over her. That's y I still care to notice her attitude. But I maintain the breakup should be and remain. However don't want enmity. I can't do dat

You see!!

You are both going through emotions at the moment i.e. you don't want her back and she doesn't want to see you.

I believe you need to give yourself time.

greiboy:
It is quite obvious she hasn't gotten over you, She is showing the other side of the passion and affection she showed you while you were together.

So give her time, it will pass

Although, I have this funny feeling that you haven't gotten over her either because you cared so much about her to create a topic about her.

Your story resembles that of a couple having a fight

Seconded, my thoughts too

greiboy:
You see!!

You are both going through emotions at the moment i.e. you don't want her back and she doesn't want to see you.

I believe you need to give yourself time.

as in wat u advice I do. I don't want my conscience to blame me.

izaray:
Seconded, my thoughts too

thirded.... Abeg wats yur advice now

Successdude:
as in wat u advice I do. I don't want my conscience to blame me.

Are you normal atall?

You broke up with your girlfriend and you are asking what you should do?


Must you do something?
Seems she disvirgined you.

Successdude:
as in wat u advice I do. I don't want my conscience to blame me.

Like one lady poster pointed out earlier, you cannot control her reactions.

You have taken your decision not to go back to the relationship, So let her feel how she wants to feel.

You just have to wait till she recovers.

donstan18:

Are you normal atall?
You broke up with your girlfriend and you are asking what you should do?

Must you do something? Seems she disvirgined you.

This guy is a clown

greiboy:


This guy is a clown

Yea nh

He's just doing what some ladies does when being separated from the guy that disvirgined them.

Must you do something after breakup?

Successdude:
Actually the way it happened was that we were friends but as time went, she began to tell me she felt sth for me. We never had any romantic relationship tho but I call her ex cos that's from her angle. Does it mean now, she never respected me before ? What do u think

You never had any romantic relationship...so what was the breaking up all about?

Successdude:
thirded.... Abeg wats yur advice now

If truely she is your ex, then cut every communication with her for now. But if you still have feelings for her, which seems obvious, then invite her ove rand sort things out with her...

Life is too short to worry about everything my dear.

greiboy:
Like one lady poster pointed out earlier, you cannot control her reactions.

You have taken your decision not to go back to the relationship, So let her feel how she wants to feel.

You just have to wait till she recovers.

thanks bro

donstan18:


Yea nh

He's just doing what some ladies does when being separated from the guy that disvirgined them.

Must you do something after breakup?

izaray:
If truely she is your ex, then cut every communication with her for now. But if you still have feelings for her, which seems obvious, then invite her ove rand sort things out with her...

Life is too short to worry about everything my dear.

OK thanks

Successdude:
cos we were really good friends... As in I was dis kind of shy n so reserved guy. She really helped me boost my morale and I too, gave her advice as to her life. She grew up in a single parent home, with her mom. So I was like a fada or broad and she was to me as an elder sister. The connection was too familiar. The thing is, I really can't define correctly how dis friendship was. U must hav been in dis kind of friendship that wen you begin to explain it, u realise u can't really explain such : the sacrifices, support, gossips, secrets

Let me get this right...your supposed relationship was in actual fact, a boy/girl friendship. So, why the breakup ? You don't want to be friends with her anymore? Since you claim it was nothing romantic.