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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Jman06(m): 1:43pm On Mar 10, 2018
liquidlove2018:
Some men shaaaaa!!!

When you join in messing up city girls , you will move to village virgin girls for marriage.

We must know that majority of them are the way they are (virgin) because of lack of exposure.

You may not tell the true character of an exposed lady until she is exposed.

Most of the men around me who married such girls are enjoying their marriages. It is not lack of exposure per say but high moral values. Those girls are more cultured and know more about what marriage is all about for a typical Nigerian man.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Jman06(m): 1:45pm On Mar 10, 2018
liquidlove2018:
Some men shaaaaa!!!

When you join in messing up city girls , you will move to village virgin girls for marriage.

We must know that majority of them are the way they are (virgin) because of lack of exposure.

You may not tell the true character of an exposed lady until she is exposed.

Most of the men around me who married such girls are enjoying their marriages. It is not lack of exposure per say but high moral values. Those girls are more cultured and know more about what marriage is all about for a typical Nigerian man.

Those girls have got no exes to come and ruin your marriage along the way.
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Jman06(m): 1:46pm On Mar 10, 2018
Cutehector:
continue deceiving yaself
You are the one deceiving yourself bro
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Xisnin(m): 2:25pm On Mar 10, 2018
MissRaine69:
Being a virgin does not guarantee anything when will men learn this?
Does being a non-virgin guarantee anything?

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by liquidlove2018: 3:06pm On Mar 10, 2018
Not at all my dear.

Xisnin:

Does being a non-virgin guarantee anything?
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by liquidlove2018: 3:09pm On Mar 10, 2018
It depends ohhhhh.

Its not all ohhh.

Just the way those your friends are lucky ,its possible to get nice ladies too in the city.

Well, virginity or no virginity doesn't keep marriage.

Good ladies are every where , virgin are every where.


Jman06:
Most of the men around me who married such girls are enjoying their marriages. It is not lack of exposure per say but high moral values. Those girls are more cultured and know more about what marriage is all about for a typical Nigerian man.

Those girls have got no exes to come and ruin your marriage along the way.
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by aureen: 4:11pm On Mar 10, 2018
Jman06:
Most of the men around me who married such girls are enjoying their marriages. It is not lack of exposure per say but high moral values. Those girls are more cultured and know more about what marriage is all about for a typical Nigerian man.

Those girls have got no exes to come and ruin your marriage along the way.


I know of a married woman( a church worker) with more than 2 ex, she will invite her ex boyfriend to the house without considering how her husband would feel like. Some people can be very funny.
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by mu2sa2: 6:06pm On Mar 10, 2018
All these guys looking for virgin probably don't know that there is a way they use artificial blood to fake virginity nowadays.
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Beke2020: 8:45pm On Mar 10, 2018
pls explain. am interested
mu2sa2:
All these guys looking for virgin probably don't know that there is a way they use artificial blood to fake virginity nowadays.
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Jman06(m): 9:18pm On Mar 10, 2018
liquidlove2018:
It depends ohhhhh.

Its not all ohhh.

Just the way those your friends are lucky ,its possible to get nice ladies too in the city.

Well, virginity or no virginity doesn't keep marriage.

Good ladies are every where , virgin are every where.


I am not implying that good girls can't be found in the city neither do i mean that all the girls in the village are good. My point is that the chances of finding a girl who is good and in touch with our cultural and moral values are higher among girls in the village.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Jman06(m): 9:23pm On Mar 10, 2018
aureen:



I know of a married woman( a church worker) with more than 2 ex, she will invite her ex boyfriend to the house without considering how her husband would feel like. Some people can be very funny.
I tell you. That issue of married ladies still hanging to their exes is the cause of most cases of marital infidelity among women.
That is why it is still better to marry a virgin.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by mu2sa2: 10:41pm On Mar 10, 2018
Beke2020:
pls explain. am interested
Google "faking virginity".
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by z11111: 11:03pm On Mar 10, 2018
No married lady should have any intimacy with an ex. An ex is past tense.

Highest you can do with an is to say Hy , Hello ,Finish!!

Anything aside that ,will be trobke.

Jman06:
I tell you. That issue of married ladies still hanging to their exes is the cause of most cases of marital infidelity among women.
That is why it is still better to marry a virgin.
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by z11111: 11:06pm On Mar 10, 2018
A celibate for many years can be called a virgin now ?


Beke2020:
pls explain. am interested
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Jman06(m): 11:18pm On Mar 10, 2018
z11111:
No married lady should have any intimacy with an ex. An ex is past tense.

Highest you can do with an is to say Hy , Hello ,Finish!!

Anything aside that ,will be trobke.

Unless that lady never had any strong emotional attachment to the ex in the first place. If she did eh, bro forget it. That guy would always have access to her vjay anytime he wants it. Most ladies have zero reasoning when it comes to matters of the heart, and in this society where immorality is the order of the day, they won't even give a thought to the fact that they are married. All it will take for her to fall is just for the guy to show up and reignite that old passion.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by MissRaine69(f): 12:13am On Mar 11, 2018
Xisnin:

Does being a non-virgin guarantee anything?
The state of the hymen guarantees nothing that’s the whole ethos of the situation
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by z11111: 6:15am On Mar 11, 2018
Well, Its true word actually.

Most ladies will do fall for their Ex.


Jman06:
Unless that lady never had any strong emotional attachment to the ex in the first place. If she did eh, bro forget it. That guy would always have access to her vjay anytime he wants it. Most ladies have zero reasoning when it comes to matters of the heart, and in this society where immorality is the order of the day, they won't even give a thought to the fact that they are married. All it will take for her to fall is just for the guy to show up and reignite that old passion.
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Xisnin(m): 7:47am On Mar 11, 2018
MissRaine69:

The state of the hymen guarantees nothing that’s the whole ethos of the situation
If that is the case why should the man be criticised for having a positive expectations of his virgin wife
since her virginity does not guarantee that she is evil or good?
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Xisnin(m): 7:50am On Mar 11, 2018
RedDistrict:


I wonder also

The so called "village" girls that village bike men and corpers posted there chase and nak on a steady is who some men feel are innocent and good wife materials grin

God epp us o

That is not why some men go to the village for a wife, they do so because they believe that village girls
will draw the line in marriage and won't engage in irresponsible acts.
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by liquidlove2018: 11:32am On Mar 11, 2018
Not all .

These days of social media , Big Brother Nigeria, Telemundo , Zee world and co.

So called village girls now , majority of them are wild.

Such believe that all or most village girls are cool is fallacy and can land one in big mess.



Xisnin:


That is not why some men go to the village for a wife, they do so because they believe that village girls
will draw the line in marriage and won't engage in irresponsible acts.
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by liquidlove2018: 3:19pm On Mar 11, 2018
Hello Oga,

Just persevere , there is nothing too hard for God to do.

Its so bad that things turned out this way.

no need for thinking of committing suicide.

If anything happens to you ,your kids will suffer it.

Live for those kids.

z11111:
Dear Admin,

I am a young man of thirty two. I deliberately searched for a wife to marry from my village because I fear women from the city here. So when I was ready a year ago,I sent my parents to help me find a wife.

Uru my wife just finished her NCE and everybody know here in the village as a very good and quiet, I was very happy when my parents chose her for me. Even when I was courting her (we courted for like 2 months before our wedding),she used to be very shy and reserved and I was impressed by how homely and godly she was.

Our wedding came and I was very much satisfied when I found out on our wedding night that Uru was a virgin. Because of this,I didnt fear or have any cause to fear or suspect my wife. She moved to join me here in the city but what I am seeing after the marriage is......


http://livelystones.com.ng/my-wife-pretended-to-be-innocent-but-i-am-scared-of-what-she-will-do/
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Nobody: 4:01pm On Mar 11, 2018
Cutehector:
Why do men think all village girls are the best for marriage?


Don't you know that most of the prosttitutes you see in brothels migrated from their villages?
in this computer day and age its obvious many men are not just sharp at allcheesy.many village girls are very promiscuous to the bone and just like u say...majority of brothels are populated by girls that migrated from the villages..if man wan use village tinzs to measure decency wen getting a Wife he will just enter one chance. Village girls are not the way they were like in the 60s.dem don open eyecheesy.
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Nobody: 4:37pm On Mar 11, 2018
Jman06:
Unless that lady never had any strong emotional attachment to the ex in the first place. If she did eh, bro forget it. That guy would always have access to her vjay anytime he wants it. Most ladies have zero reasoning when it comes to matters of the heart, and in this society where immorality is the order of the day, they won't even give a thought to the fact that they are married. All it will take for her to fall is just for the guy to show up and reignite that old passion.
its not wise getting hooked up with a lady who still has strong emotional attachment for her ex.some guys see the signs and still go on with the relationship thinking they will be able to change her.if u notice ur lady still has strong feelings for her ex it will be better u cut off ties with her than to go on with the relationship and be sorry later.
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Jman06(m): 5:40pm On Mar 11, 2018
lefulefu:
its not wise getting hooked up with a lady who still has strong emotional attachment for her ex.some guys see the signs and still go on with the relationship thinking they will be able to change her.if u notice ur lady still has strong feelings for her ex it will be better u cut off ties with her than to go on with the relationship and be sorry later.
Some ladies even hide it such that the guy would not notice. Or for some ladies they might even think that they have gotten over the ex, but once her ex shows any slightest interest she would fall for him.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by z11111: 6:04pm On Mar 11, 2018
True talk.

Most ladies hardly get over their ex ,especially if the guy was such a nice and do give it to them in the oza room. They hardly forget.

Jman06:
Some ladies even hide it such that the guy would not notice. Or for some ladies they might even think that they have gotten over the ex, but once her ex shows any slightest interest she would fall for him.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Nobody: 6:29pm On Mar 11, 2018
Jman06:
Some ladies even hide it such that the guy would not notice. Or for some ladies they might even think that they have gotten over the ex, but once her ex shows any slightest interest she would fall for him.
nope, ladies find it difficult to hide their emotions.they are not like we guys who are quite good in hiding ours.if a lady has a strong attachment for her ex you will know by the little signs or gestures she shows. Is it the picture of her ex she hangs in her room? Is it by the constant comments she throws at her ex Facebook walls? Is it the constant calls she's always looking forward to receive from her ex? These are strong signs she's still under the strong influence of her excheesy. Take note dat women who get dumped by men are the ones who really can't get over them or those ladies who don't have the patience to wait for the guy they really love to propose to them . When such ladies break up with such guys,the memory always linger in their mind. The guy that takes over from where d ex stopped is the rebound guy and the ex can easily manipulate the lady sexually and emotionally while the rebound guy is powerless to do anything. To keep ur self esteem intact its always advisable to break up with such ladies ASAP. Always open ur eyes to the signscheesy.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by mukhcech(m): 7:46pm On Mar 11, 2018
BossLaifay:
One mans meat they say.... Lol. What is scaring you is what 99.9% of married men now long for because they probably get placed on a time table topped with excuses of headache and body ache and tiredness and whatever the hell else is in the book of excuses.... Ekpele

E. G. Your's faithfully
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Beke2020: 11:01pm On Mar 11, 2018
You are 100% correct! Load of excuses especially for those living in busy cities like Eko
BossLaifay:
One mans meat they say.... Lol. What is scaring you is what 99.9% of married men now long for because they probably get placed on a time table topped with excuses of headache and body ache and tiredness and whatever the hell else is in the book of excuses.... Ekpele
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by MissRaine69(f): 7:31am On Mar 13, 2018
Xisnin:

If that is the case why should the man be criticised for having a positive expectations of his virgin wife
since her virginity does not guarantee that she is evil or good?
The view that only one party (always the female) has to be a virgin is archaic if being a virgin is a gage of virtue should both individuals not be the same? And define criticised? My point is you cannot argue that a woman’s character and personality are determined by her being a virgin. That is a very short sighted way of viewing human behaviour.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by CAPSLOCKED: 10:21am On Mar 13, 2018
MissRaine69:

The view that only one party (always the female) has to be a virgin is archaic if being a virgin is a gage of virtue should both individuals not be the same? And define criticised? My point is you cannot argue that a woman’s character and personality are determined by her being a virgin. That is a very short sighted way of viewing human behaviour.



YOU CAN'T ARGUE WITH STUPID AND WIN.

AS IT IS, I'M CONFUSED HOW YOU THINK YOU CAN CONVINCE THE PEOPLE ON THIS THREAD.

IT'S THE WAY MEN REASON, PARTICULARLY AFRICAN MEN.
9 FROM EVERY 10 MEN WILL SPEND 80% OF THEIR LIFETIME SWITCHING GIRLS, THEN SPEND THE REMAINING 20% LOOKING FOR VIRGIN GIRLS THAT AREN'T THERE BECAUSE, THEY THEMSELVES SUCCESSFULLY DEFLOWERED EVERY GIRL THAT CROSSED THEIR PATH.

GIVE UP ALREADY. undecided

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by preciousluv2018: 10:30am On Mar 13, 2018
True word.

When a guy disflower so many ladies ,he start searching for virgin for marriage. That's stupidity in the highest order.

Moreever ,being a virgin doesn't say how good a lady is.



CAPSLOCKED:




YOU CAN'T ARGUE WITH STUPID AND WIN.

AS IT IS, I'M CONFUSED HOW YOU THINK YOU CAN CONVINCE THE PEOPLE ON THIS THREAD.

IT'S THE WAY MEN REASON, PARTICULARLY AFRICAN MEN.
9 FROM EVERY 10 MEN WILL SPEND 80% OF THEIR LIFETIME SWITCHING GIRLS, THEN SPEND THE REMAINING 20% LOOKING FOR VIRGIN GIRLS THAT AREN'T THERE BECAUSE, THEY THEMSELVES SUCCESSFULLY DEFLOWERED EVERY GIRL THAT CROSSED THEIR PATH.

GIVE UP ALREADY. undecided
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by MissRaine69(f): 11:07am On Mar 13, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:




YOU CAN'T ARGUE WITH STUPID AND WIN.

AS IT IS, I'M CONFUSED HOW YOU THINK YOU CAN CONVINCE THE PEOPLE ON THIS THREAD.

IT'S THE WAY MEN REASON, PARTICULARLY AFRICAN MEN.
9 FROM EVERY 10 MEN WILL SPEND 80% OF THEIR LIFETIME SWITCHING GIRLS, THEN SPEND THE REMAINING 20% LOOKING FOR VIRGIN GIRLS THAT AREN'T THERE BECAUSE, THEY THEMSELVES SUCCESSFULLY DEFLOWERED EVERY GIRL THAT CROSSED THEIR PATH.

GIVE UP ALREADY. undecided
It’s a matter of opinion at the end of the day.

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