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Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by ericmor: 10:48am On Apr 13, 2018
She’s even reading your message self so what’s the use. Is better u face your life so u won’t loose all you have worked for
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Ratuk: 10:53am On Apr 13, 2018
If she picked someone or something over you at one time, a good guess is that she can do it again. Her beauty is like the sunrise does not mean that there is no one like her or better out there. It all depends on you

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Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by tundebaba234: 11:02am On Apr 13, 2018
We fuccking all the bitches this year and send them all out of slay queendom and back to finding a job to cater for themselves.oloshos

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Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by propanet(m): 11:03am On Apr 13, 2018
tunize:

Bros this tin u type harsh oooh be like one girl don do u strong thing b4..anywayz u still gat some good ones mayb u jst jam the bad one.
Truth hurts!
Truth is harsh!
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by chrisjohn234: 11:05am On Apr 13, 2018
ericmor:
She’s even reading your message self so what’s the use. Is better u face your life so u won’t loose all you have worked for
He must have changed or added something differently to the story for security concern.We all do it to protect our identity. The ID was created about the minute he posted this and moreover millions of nigerian girls are begging guys for money this minute

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Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by xtervaganza(m): 11:05am On Apr 13, 2018
lwanga1993:
my dear go to bed.. you no get talk
I swear down
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Originalsly: 11:07am On Apr 13, 2018
bassey87:


I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return.

Go after a prostitute..... you will get more than enough for your ehmmm......investment. What's will you do if her mouth tells you she'll be with you?...empty your bank account?
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by luminouz(m): 11:08am On Apr 13, 2018
lefulefu:
girls are smart. They have men who spend on them and they manipulate them like remote control.these are their magas. In the university they manipulate those gullible young single lecturers. Promising them marriage in exchange for high grades.when they get what they want dey dump those naive single young lecturers. Some men allow themselves get manipulated to sponsor a girl through WAEC and jamb to the university and when she graduates she dumps him. Money that u could have saved to start a good business or sponsor urself overseas for further studies u use on one girl because she promise u marriage. Some men will even sell their father or grandfather's ancestral land and use d money to sponsor a random girl overseas and when she gets there and cut off links from them they start crying and posting sob stories on social media. Guys should try and work on their self esteem. Don't use money to impress a woman or use it to make her notice u. Women look down on men who depend on using money for a lady to get their attention. They will chop ur money ,dump and laugh at u and call u maga or mugucheesy.

Oil dey ur head bro!!
I have never used dough to get a girl in my life!!! I don't plan to start soon!! When u have game n ur real,u will have the ones who admire u n despite d online rubbish from feminists, I discover they like it when a man is strong willed,independent n brave. Being too nice to please women is for sissies. N they always get DUMPED!!!!

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Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Nobody: 11:21am On Apr 13, 2018
summerflame:
she's an idiot like u, Friend zoning good guys and still taxing him as if u have a work doing for him and expecting salary..
God bless u brother, may u live long.
That lady has a record of spewing thrash on every thread and trying to vent her frustrations in guys all because of cheap likes.
Who knows if she's one of those wannabe e-rats trying to from staunch when in reality they are gullible.

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Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by slex(m): 11:25am On Apr 13, 2018
enonche85:


20k x 18 = 360k

No be small thing oo
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Nobody: 11:27am On Apr 13, 2018
MhizzAJ:
Clothes cover a lot of people's misery
You will see them looking all beautiful and smart outside but one kobo they don't have especially men they will use all the money they have to purchase clothes just to impress one babe somewhere that is busy fuçking some other guy

By the way don't be a stingy man
If you have the means to help,help without expecting anything in return
Must there be a commitment for you to help

it's not by force to be someone's boyfriend
Your time will come



you have not concluded if she's lying about being poor, even the op hasn't. you have not considered whether she's just using him for finance as the op once gave her without her asking, you have not wondered why the boys she gave her body to in the past cannot help her in time of so-called need, but the op whom she denied is the one she has run to for help. but the summary of your advice is that he should just help her if he can.


women always have this innate thing to just take sides with other females irrespective of the situation on ground.

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Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Erums(m): 11:29am On Apr 13, 2018
tundebaba234:
Fucck the bbitch and leave the hotel while she is sleeping.she is just a slut pretending to you because you have a good mind.most rich dude dont pay women that much.they just give them comfort and fucck them till they get tired and toss them around to the next dude

Baba... Sense will nt key u
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Nobody: 11:33am On Apr 13, 2018
i sabi ur type ,u know say u just dey fool urslf .abeg stop wastin scarce resources on a white elephant proj.
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by harsysky(m): 11:34am On Apr 13, 2018
deepwater:
OP giver her money and stop disturbing us.
You claim you have money, like stash of money, like money bag ... so give the needy WTF angry

I bet you are still broke but not as you use to be sad that is why you think you have plenty money..

Lemme tell you something brah...
If you truly get plenty money ehn... your swag and confidence go don change automatic...
Na the girl go they monkey for u anyhow! she go dey spread for your bed 24.... and guess what? you what even have time to Bleep her self as in you gonna be too busy making/counting money ...#Singing... I am counting my money, so i cant hear you!!!

u no get money, you just dey make noise
You started giving her coins when she didnt ask expecting her to open her legs (The babe be like niccur bring some notes and take the pussy)
You couldnt decode d code shocked
Now she has decided to release the code raw to u (Niccur bring the notes and take the pussy WTF)

You run to Nairaland to cry? You cant release the notes or what?

On a more serious note,give her the money and dump that girl
never wife her, you cant get all the money there is
a bigger fish will swallow her sooner than you can quote deepwater
There is a reason she kept your contact all the while.
You where just a maga in the nursery
She has been keenly monitoring your business and watch it grow
It is harvest time bro, time to dig u up and consume
Recall she went for another dude immediately she left the first guy
Dont think it was out from the blues
The second guy just left the nursery before you
and now she is done consuming him....

Be a man, dont pay for sex
Look for a better girl and stop flaunting your little money...
grin


the best advice so far. Op, pls take it and take heart!
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by ericmor: 11:42am On Apr 13, 2018
chrisjohn234:
He must have changed or added something differently to the story for security concern.We all do it to protect our identity. The ID was created about the minute he posted this and moreover millions of nigerian girls are begging guys for money this minute

Ok. And that is why I said he should face his life
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by moststylish(m): 11:48am On Apr 13, 2018
lefulefu:
girls are smart. They have men who spend on them and they manipulate them like remote control.these are their magas. In the university they manipulate those gullible young single lecturers. Promising them marriage in exchange for high grades.when they get what they want dey dump those naive single young lecturers. Some men allow themselves get manipulated to sponsor a girl through WAEC and jamb to the university and when she graduates she dumps him. Money that u could have saved to start a good business or sponsor urself overseas for further studies u use on one girl because she promise u marriage. Some men will even sell their father or grandfather's ancestral land and use d money to sponsor a random girl overseas and when she gets there and cut off links from them they start crying and posting sob stories on social media. Guys should try and work on their self esteem. Don't use money to impress a woman or use it to make her notice u. Women look down on men who depend on using money for a lady to get their attention. They will chop ur money ,dump and laugh at u and call u maga or mugucheesy.
guy no matter how you want to look at the issue, you must part with your money no whether big or small cash to be able to get or maintain a decent a girl abi na pure water or 5 alive u dey use
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Burgerlomo: 11:54am On Apr 13, 2018
DonPiiko:
Too much wisdom will not kee you, I only give a girl money once and that's it. If she like make she call me maga thats her business.

Try to help her out since you don't mind if she call you maga, give her the money for being honest about the problems that she's facing which you did confirm yourself cool
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by graphiti: 11:58am On Apr 13, 2018
lefulefu:
girls are smart. They have men who spend on them and they manipulate them like remote control.these are their magas. In the university they manipulate those gullible young single lecturers. Promising them marriage in exchange for high grades.when they get what they want dey dump those naive single young lecturers. Some men allow themselves get manipulated to sponsor a girl through WAEC and jamb to the university and when she graduates she dumps him. Money that u could have saved to start a good business or sponsor urself overseas for further studies u use on one girl because she promise u marriage. Some men will even sell their father or grandfather's ancestral land and use d money to sponsor a random girl overseas and when she gets there and cut off links from them they start crying and posting sob stories on social media. Guys should try and work on their self esteem. Don't use money to impress a woman or use it to make her notice u. Women look down on men who depend on using money for a lady to get their attention. They will chop ur money ,dump and laugh at u and call u maga or mugucheesy.

End of story!
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by kcowen(m): 12:02pm On Apr 13, 2018
In all you said, you might even give her the money and she will go all Wakanda on you, my own 2cent advice will be since you have enough just give her the money and lockup, E get wetin person dey pass
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by prince049(m): 12:02pm On Apr 13, 2018
bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

Sorry for acting this way...it's selfish...but I need work.
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by AreaFada2: 12:10pm On Apr 13, 2018
MhizzAJ:
Clothes cover a lot of people's misery
You will see them looking all beautiful and smart outside but one kobo they don't have especially men they will use all the money they have to purchase clothes just to impress one babe somewhere that is busy fuçking some other guy

By the way don't be a stingy man
If you have the means to help,help without expecting anything in return
Must there be a commitment for you to help

it's not by force to be someone's boyfriend
Your time will come


Abeg help him found an NGO. At least he can later make a name as a philanthropist.

All this unregistered NGO charity men have been doing for girls need to become mainstream economic sector. To add to our GDP.

What pisses me off is the sense of entitlement many of them have to a man's money.

After eating men's money up and down and get played by a gigolo they become "by-force feminists" shouting all men are scum.

The same scum many of them rely on for survival.

My respect to all the real queens out there fending legitimately for themselves, through honest hard or brain work.

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Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Nobody: 12:12pm On Apr 13, 2018
bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

.

She stays in lokoja ryt.
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by delivryboy: 12:16pm On Apr 13, 2018
deepwater:
OP giver her money and stop disturbing us.
You claim you have money, like stash of money, like money bag ... so give the needy WTF angry

I bet you are still broke but not as you use to be sad that is why you think you have plenty money..

Lemme tell you something brah...
If you truly get plenty money ehn... your swag and confidence go don change automatic...
Na the girl go they monkey for u anyhow! she go dey spread for your bed 24.... and guess what? you what even have time to Bleep her self as in you gonna be too busy making/counting money ...#Singing... I am counting my money, so i cant hear you!!!

u no get money, you just dey make noise
You started giving her coins when she didnt ask expecting her to open her legs (The babe be like niccur bring some notes and take the pussy)
You couldnt decode d code shocked
Now she has decided to release the code raw to u (Niccur bring the notes and take the pussy WTF)

You run to Nairaland to cry? You cant release the notes or what?

On a more serious note,give her the money and dump that girl
never wife her, you cant get all the money there is
a bigger fish will swallow her sooner than you can quote deepwater
There is a reason she kept your contact all the while.
You where just a maga in the nursery
She has been keenly monitoring your business and watch it grow
It is harvest time bro, time to dig u up and consume
Recall she went for another dude immediately she left the first guy
Dont think it was out from the blues
The second guy just left the nursery before you
and now she is done consuming him....

Be a man, dont pay for sex
Look for a better girl and stop flaunting your little money...
grin
Technical Knock Out!!!
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 12:17pm On Apr 13, 2018
Btother, I read you have more than enough. Help her just as youbwoukd help anyone out there. Forget about what you will get in return. Love is not bought With money, it comes freely and that's why even with all the money, one may still find it hard to get love from people.

Anyway As you decide whether to help her or not, remember me in your list of benefactors. I need help too kiss
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by thunderbabs: 12:20pm On Apr 13, 2018
tundebaba234:
she is fuccking a dude as we speak and this dumb OP gonna credit her when he can spend the money on his boys who will return the favor when he finds himself in a mess.Bleep hoes

Abi guy. See me oo.

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Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by MetalJigsaw(m): 12:31pm On Apr 13, 2018
MhizzAJ:
Clothes cover a lot of people's misery
You will see them looking all beautiful and smart outside but one kobo they don't have especially men they will use all the money they have to purchase clothes just to impress one babe somewhere that is busy fuçking some other guy

By the way don't be a stingy man
If you have the means to help,help without expecting anything in return
Must there be a commitment for you to help

it's not by force to be someone's boyfriend
Your time will come



What do you mean he should not be a stingy man. Is he plucking his money from trees? Is he his father or brother? The fact that he desires the girl doesn't mean he should allow himself to tow the path of a fool without an iota of self control. The girl obviously is playing a charlatan on him.

I doubt if you would advise your own brother to be such a wuss.
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by georgechibuzo: 12:46pm On Apr 13, 2018
HOLYDICK:
Oga i know say na chop u wan chop her....... So just do d needful and help a sister in need.... U dont have to tell us or need approval from us

Signed : management
I WONDER WHY MEN ARE SO FOOLISH THEY PAYMONEY FOR SEX :> WHY IS GIRL THAT SUPPOSE TO PAY US TO SERVICE THEM. Mtcheeeeeeeeeew
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by MetalJigsaw(m): 12:47pm On Apr 13, 2018
deepwater:
OP giver her money and stop disturbing us.
You claim you have money, like stash of money, like money bag ... so give the needy WTF angry

I bet you are still broke but not as you use to be sad that is why you think you have plenty money..

Lemme tell you something brah...
If you truly get plenty money ehn... your swag and confidence go don change automatic...
Na the girl go they monkey for u anyhow! she go dey spread for your bed 24.... and guess what? you what even have time to Bleep her self as in you gonna be too busy making/counting money ...#Singing... I am counting my money, so i cant hear you!!!

u no get money, you just dey make noise
You started giving her coins when she didnt ask expecting her to open her legs (The babe be like niccur bring some notes and take the pussy)
You couldnt decode d code shocked
Now she has decided to release the code raw to u (Niccur bring the notes and take the pussy WTF)

You run to Nairaland to cry? You cant release the notes or what?

On a more serious note,give her the money and dump that girl
never wife her, you cant get all the money there is
a bigger fish will swallow her sooner than you can quote deepwater
There is a reason she kept your contact all the while.
You where just a maga in the nursery
She has been keenly monitoring your business and watch it grow
It is harvest time bro, time to dig u up and consume
Recall she went for another dude immediately she left the first guy
Dont think it was out from the blues
The second guy just left the nursery before you
and now she is done consuming him....

Be a man, dont pay for sex
Look for a better girl and stop flaunting your little money...
grin
Ah I trust myself for dis kind girl How can a mere slayqueen/pussy get a full grown man so confused
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by MetalJigsaw(m): 12:53pm On Apr 13, 2018
georgechibuzo:
I WONDER WHY MEN ARE SO FOOLISH THEY PAYMONEY FOR SEX :> WHY IS GIRL THAT SUPPOSE TO PAY US TO SERVICE THEM. Mtcheeeeeeeeeew
I wonder oo
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by tundebaba234: 12:57pm On Apr 13, 2018
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Btother, I read you have more than enough. Help her just as youbwoukd help anyone out there. Forget about what you will get in return. Love is not bought With money, it comes freely and that's why even with all the money, one may still find it hard to get love from people.

Anyway As you decide whether to help her or not, remember me in your list of benefactors. I need help too kiss
meet me in my hotel room let me see what you are all about cos all you gon get is my big diick in your mouth
Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 1:06pm On Apr 13, 2018
tundebaba234:
meet me in my hotel room let me see what you are all about cos all you gon get is my big diick in your mouth
The Lord is my shepherd, I shallbnot want.
Your money your dick, keep them all. I don't need help anymore

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