IamD18:


You might loose her, [s]no woman will be happy when her man doesn't spend on her[/s], no matter how little.

But the question and problem with men is,

What can she offer?



99% of Nigerian ladies are block heads

black ladies....

IamD18:


Going for outing and paying for her friends.

Hmmmm.....sounds disturbing.
Go on.

MissJoy29:
Hmmmm.....sounds disturbing. Go on.

Gifting herself during festivity

solasoulmusic:


Last quote I promise

a woman stood up and applauded the efforts of the youth while a man, a father and grandfather could only say negative things about a generation

k

IamD18:


Gifting herself during festivity

I don't understand this please

He says he's tired of buying weaves, white women don't use weaves. Obviously the guy is exclusively dating broke African ladies living in the UK. Maybe he should date successful Nigerian/African ladies like doctors, engineers, lawyers who make good money and buy their own stuff. If you date only for beauty and not pay attention to intelligence, education, career and personality, you get leeches and gold diggers.

MissJoy29:
I don't understand this please

Buying gifts for herself during Xmas, easter, birthdays and the rest.

nero2face:
Funny enough, u can't find one in Nigeria, they're all dependent, even de working class prefer to be spending ur own money while she save hers, selfishness is understatement

imagine!

IamD18:

99% of Nigerian ladies are block heads

Interesting

TheUpsetGirl1:


you've joined ibakwee weak gang...

so you're no longer a feminist?

the power of money, jesu!

A lot of you misuse that word "feminism"
.

trustyshoess. Are you for real?

No wonder almost all the nairaland guys are following you.

Check your email.

lol Tim Tim
He loves black ladies too much... they just use him..he needs to stay away from groupies if he is really tired....

IamD18:


You might loose her, no woman will be happy when her man doesn't spend on her, no matter how little.

But the question and problem with men is,

What can she offer?



99% of Nigerian ladies are block heads

Lalas247:

AntiBrutus:
Hmmm, I keep reading things like this and I wonder why I have been so unfortunate... Where do they find these generous brothers?

Inbox me. U may be lucky

Revontuli.. You claim to be broke.

May be he is dating broke white ladies like you.

TheUpsetGirl1:


guys who rant about independent ladies are just deceiving themselves.

dating an independent lady doesn't mean you'll spend less, in fact it'll be worse.

They'd still prefer you to do the spending while they save the money they get from their work.
Unless you won't date a Nigerian lady.

I can safely conclude that you are everything you wrote up here. Otherwise, your mentality here is so warped.

It's obvious that people including you also misuse the word "independent". Now, let me school you. Being independent in this sense doesn't mean you don't EVER need anyone's help. It means you can do stuffs on your own to a veeeery large extent without anyone's help. If I'm independent, it means I can sub, make my hair, recharge my phone, buy cosmetics, makeup etc on my own comfortably without having to call up a man every minute to demand these things. But it doesn't mean a man can't decide to sub for me or do all those things on his own even without my asking. You get my drift?

If I were a man, I'd still choose an independent lady who asks me for money over a broke dependent one. Reason being that the former won't be as irritating & annoying as the latter.

Duezrome, Jenticles. Which one of you is an independent lady?

IamD18:


Buying gifts for herself during Xmas, easter, birthdays and the rest.

Those ones are different especially birthdays . But it should NEVER be one-sided.

MissJoy29:

Those ones are different especially birthdays . But it should NEVER be one-sided.

Ladies will always expect a man to gift them during my above mentioned festivities/events even when they have the money.


Right or wrong?

IamD18:


Ladies will always expect a man to gift them during my above mentioned festivities/events even when they have the money.


Right or wrong?

Of course you are right. Just the same way you should expect to be gifted on your birthday by your partner.

MissJoy29:

Of course you are right. Just the same way you should expect to be gifted on your birthday by your partner.

Who expect the most between men and ladies?

NA YOU DEE FALL MUGU NAAA. WHY YOU DEE COMPLAIN?

IamD18:


Who expect the most between men and ladies?

Let's not bother about who expects the most. It will bring up another round of discussion. I expect to be bought a gift by my partner on my birthday. Otherwise it will cause problems. Same way my partner should expect a gift from me. It's that simple

Cc Purityval
Cassyrooy

AntiBrutus:
Hmmm, I keep reading things like this and I wonder why I have been so unfortunate... Where do they find these generous brothers?

. Even as married man dis bitches don't mind. later , they will be crying spirit husband when they have hawk their future.

MissJoy29:

Let's not bother about who expects the most. It will bring up another round of discussion. I expect to be bought a gift by my partner on my birthday. Otherwise it will cause problems. Same way my partner should expect a gift from me. It's that simple

But it won't cause problem to all men when their partner fails to buy them gift.

You didn't want to bother on who asks the most because you knew where I was heading to, you get luck

IamD18:


But it won't cause problem to all men when their partner fails to buy them gift.

You didn't want to bother on who asks the most because you knew where I was heading to, you get luck

Cos you don't want it to cause problems. See, I can't be angry with my partner for not buying me a birthday gift when I know deep down I don't have plans to give him a treat on his own day. I'm not that selfish & insensitive.

No. I don't know where you are going.

MissJoy29:

Cos you don't want it to cause problems. See, I can't be angry with my partner for not buying me a birthday gift when I know deep down I don't have plans to give him a treat on his own day. I'm not that selfish & insensitive.

No. I don't know where you are going.

Lol, your first writeup made sense.

@Embolden, I wanted to ask why ladies expect most than men.

IamD18:


Lol, your first write made sense.

@Embolden, I wanted to ask why ladies expect most than men.

Thanks. I know a lot of ladies are selfish. But you guys should stop generalising. Trust me when I say there are still some ladies you will meet & you will amazed to find out they are still different from what y'all make ladies out to be.

Selfishness? Sense of entitlement? Wickedness? Poverty? Lack? Love? Could be a lot of things.

I wanted to ask who started this? What/who gave us the impression that a man is in our lives to enrich our own lives even to the detriment of his? Answer sincerely.

MissJoy29:

Thanks. I know a lot of ladies are selfish. But you guys should stop generalising. Tru when I say there are still some ladies you will meet & you will amazed to find out they are still different from what y'all make ladies out to be.

Selfishness? Sense of entitlement? Wickedness? Poverty? Lack? Love? Could be a lot of things.

We don't generalize, we spill following what we'v be seeing, hearing, reading and experiencing from Nigerian ladies, their mentality is whack and annoying.

I once argued with a lady here, she said relationship and marriage is all about transaction of sex and money, saying that all she wants from a man is financial providence and a lot of ladies supported her.


You can imagine that.

MissJoy29:

I wanted to ask who started this? What/who gave us the impression that a man is in our lives to enrich our own lives even to the detriment of his? Answer sincerely.

We needn't know who initiated the impression, it's a natural thing that lives with ladies, it's mentally inbuilt to them

obonujoker:
Lol.... I thought it was only Nigerian ladies that trouble their men with liability

look at the location up there.its written Lagos. The guy is tired of this denying hoes

FannySwindler1:
Revontuli.. You claim to be broke.

May be he is dating broke white ladies like you.

I'm broke but I buy my own stuff. Never, ever in my life any man bought me clothes, cosmetics, shoes, gadgets, anything. Every single thing I own is bought and paid for with the salary I earned myself. One can be broke and proud.