alexistaiwo:

Had a quarrel, left her without any form of communication for seven weeks.
Came back to her only to find out that she already has a new boyfriend, okay I am back discard the new guy, she said no.

Okay what will we do now?
She said that she thought I was gone for good so she moved on.
She said new boyfriend is going to be out of the country next month, we will be together again by then (see mumu) .
She wants to eat her cake and have it


I am not the one proposing the knacking arrangement oo.

I will have my pound of flesh if and when her new relationship fails or even when new boyfriend is out of the country.

Will bring her back then replace her as soon as she's getting comfortable.

Nobody messes with Alexistaiwo

alexistaiwo:


Protection is very importance na

americanson:
no need bro. U never loved her...

alexistaiwo:

Had a quarrel, left her without any form of communication for seven weeks.
Came back to her only to find out that she already has a new boyfriend, okay I am back discard the new guy, she said no.

Okay what will we do now?
She said that she thought I was gone for good so she moved on.
She said new boyfriend is going to be out of the country next month, we will be together again by then (see mumu) .
She wants to eat her cake and have it


I am not the one proposing the knacking arrangement oo.

I will have my pound of flesh if and when her new relationship fails or even when new boyfriend is out of the country.

Will bring her back then replace her as soon as she's getting comfortable.

Nobody messes with Alexistaiwo

jugz:


How do u leave for 7 weeks without any form of communication??
Warraheck?!

alexistaiwo:

Well she did something that really pissed me off.
Seems you want to make excuses for her.. What else?

alexistaiwo:

Had a quarrel, left her without any form of communication for seven weeks.
Came back to her only to find out that she already has a new boyfriend, okay I am back discard the new guy, she said no.

Okay what will we do now?
She said that she thought I was gone for good so she moved on.
She said new boyfriend is going to be out of the country next month, we will be together again by then (see mumu) .
She wants to eat her cake and have it


I am not the one proposing the knacking arrangement oo.

I will have my pound of flesh if and when her new relationship fails or even when new boyfriend is out of the country.

Will bring her back then replace her as soon as she's getting comfortable.

Nobody messes with Alexistaiwo

jugz:


Did she apologize for wateva she did?

I'm not making excuses for her but if u 'switch off' for 7 weeks without any form of communication, despite the fact that I apologized for wateva I did, I'll more or less assume u r done

IamHopeful:



Uwc sir, Amen!

BTW, you need to work on the way you talk carelessly (sorry to say) to almost all ladies on a public forum like this. You tend to insult every lady that comes your way if she doesn't agree with your views and that's bad. You might even do the same to me now that I've chastised you........ Lemme jejely carry my mat and leave this thread

Rangojack:

Ore wa, please add me in your prayers too biko.

alexistaiwo:


How did you arrive at this conclusion

americanson:
Just let her go... u can use the vengeance energy to make a good development in yourself with the energy.

alexistaiwo:


I will think about it

americanson:
I have been where you and much worse and this was the same advice i was given right here on nairaland... besides, i swore i was gonna start treating girls like trash and guess what...?

Someone adviced me and I quote "if you close your eyes because you don't want to see the devil, you won't know when an angel will pass"

Boy, did those words came to pass? They did... and they happened while i was still fooling around as i had little patience for girls at that peak of my life. I was swimming in my own past, instead of letting go and focus on the present. I regret that action and that made me adjust so much that I became more patient than I should be even when a girl messes me up... until I end everything based on their action.

I am someone who likes telling my story with the other party as the predator, the one who does good while other party does bad. wHEN It became obvious that I had messed up an opportunity to be with a really nice girl... i hated my life so much. At the end, I had to cut all ties with her, deleted her picture and phone number and unfriended her on facebook... just so i can stop thinking about her as she had met another guy but I was the first to meet her before that dude. I just allow her initial shakara make me give up... within a week of starting the wooing

she even called me twice some one or two months later. I didn't know the calls where to know if i was still interested lol... just don't let ur past ruin your present bro. no time.

alexistaiwo:


No time truly.

She's presently getting the dick overnight at the guys house right now and she told me that she met him during the disagreement period which is less than two months.

Makes me wonder if this has been going on behind my back since

americanson:
just let her go... As long as u were good to her, that is all that matters.

I have learned that women know who was good to them. They know this, they always reflect on it... Even if they act like "nothing dey happen, to hell with u" in their solitude and flash back, they know the best guy that truly love and care about them from heart...

That was a lesson I learned from my arrogant and egocentric biiitch... Despite all her negligence toward my feelings and how she treated me like a piece of shiiit... She eventually came back after like 3 years to BEG cos she tasted dIicks and no guy could give genuinely from the heart like I gave... She told me plainly that she doesn't regret what she did with anyone but she regretted what she did to me.

alexistaiwo:

. Thanks for the advice but it is hard knowing that the girl you thought you both have a future is presently taking dick overnight somewhere.

How do one deal with that?

americanson:
by being better version than she left u... It has always been my goal.

Besides things like this are meant to refund us and not break us.

You can get a cuter girl... Like my buddy once said, the girlfriend has to go so that the wife can come in. Simple.

alexistaiwo:


Talking about cuter girls.
The thing paining me right now is the fact that I have many options to choose from but I can't.

I don't wanna date anybody right now not even her yet the fact that she could move on and even start having sex less than two months after we fought without officially calling things quit is driving me crazy.

Hope you understand?

linnyx:


Nice one bro. It will definitely blow over albeit with time. Please keep and open mind, love will come to you. Don't listen to poeple who says there's no love, you'll definitely find love. I am a testimony but love only came because I kept an open mind and today I'm extremely happy and grateful.

This phase will pass and you will find true happiness. Hang in there bro, I will be praying for you.

hazard1759:
Bro,I've been following u and u've really complained about this particular girl.i dont know ur story,maybe I'm even supposed to mind my business but if I'm to advise u,Try and mend fences with her.For u to talk this much about her,u guys really had a thing for each other.I bet u,she spares a couple of thoughts for u too.Moving on should be when she has completely lost interest and ure deeply convinced she has moved on.

MrMakaveli20:

I passed through this same ish bro. the love was one sided. what didn't I do to make her stay? I became her driver, messenger and sometimes ATM just to make her happy. I was lucky if she replied my chats or picked up the phone when I called. she even stopped all forms of romance sef but I didn't mind.. ... this continued till I gave myself brain after she stood me up for a picnic that we planned for weeks. it wasn't easy healing my broken heart. I took solace in Asa's song 'moving on ', Passengers song titled 'let her go' and some others. she tried reaching out after some months when she had some problems. Baba I just jejely ignore. surprisingly I later fell in love with my close friend after some months of healing and today we are going strong in marriage with babies on the way.

Fussbot:
Mehn....imagine agbani darego asking you out? lol. She is that beautiful. We were good friends then she loved up, asked me out and I said yes. But deep down I never loved her. Not because of any other reason, but I thought marriage was not feasible. I sha continued sha lol.. First year I showed her pepper not calling and all. She would report me to her friends me I'd be laughing lol. Second year same then third year I lost guard! I didn't know until one day she said it was over.. First day strong man, second day strong man, third day I realized a part of me had left! Chai mehn I sharply arranged her friend to beg her! That was when it started! My God I loved her more she now loved me! ... 4th year mehn I had to let her go. Marriage not in plans for few years, I made a mistake of living in the future instead of the moment. Small ish I dabaru everything mehn.. I still miss her! and she is not yet married!but in a relationship. Who knows! Just who knows! my adunni ade! Sorry for the moments I made you cry, even though you made me cry too when I eventually was in love... Lol...Yap no serious relationship since then... Just girls to pass moment.. Waiting for my wife and give all the love jhor

smadav:
wow great lesson to learn from Peoples experiences, for me I haven't experienced hearth break before and I don't pray for that, I think it is because I don't love with all my hearth I just enjoy the moment and when I notice any red flag I move on before we call it quit.

IamHopeful:



Uwc sir, Amen!

BTW, you need to work on the way you talk carelessly (sorry to say) to almost all ladies on a public forum like this. You tend to insult every lady that comes your way if she doesn't agree with your views and that's bad. You might even do the same to me now that I've chastised you........ Lemme jejely carry my mat and leave this thread

alexistaiwo:


That's because you haven't met wall breakers.
Someone that will show you what you won't expect possible in a relationship.
Ask everyone around me, I am the most emotionally tough person they ever met (some even doubt if I have a heart sef) but when I met that one person who was willing to sacrifice everything for me.
My guard went down a little and love just happened.


Then one day you will realize that people change as they age..
That's when shiit hits the ceiling.

elo4best:

The protector of the Easter, southern, western and northern village territory what are you doing here?

summerflame:
If I catch u enh

elo4best:

but the reply he gave you was nice and gentlemanly, why try to push him to insult you because u just felt that he insult other ladies. must you girls always try to push people to the wall? this last post of yours just showed that u were not expecting him to give you a decent reply on your previous post in which you corrected him but he disappointed you by replying "Thanks love" so why try to get the bad out of the guy.