hilaryxoxo:


I don't quite agree with you. First of all, sex or no sex, anybody can hide anything from their future spouse; from disease to character; one doesnt have to have sex to uncover the partners secret.

I personally support sex after marriage for moral and emotional reasons; I cant be opening leg everywhere and not end up marrying the person. Nevertheless, i must say that even if I won't have sex before marriage, i must see my partners unclothedness and vice versa. I gats know what i am getting myself into. I feel its kind of unfair for we ladies. Guys can size us up by marely looking at us by we cant size up. So, I must sha see before i enter.

is this sarcasm or what??

you ain't having sex and you wanna see Dick?

which man will open his dick for you to see when you guys ain't having sex... and you two ain't married?

missimelda01:
[s]so many discouraging comments!..pls If you're a Christian, abstain from fornication!

because everybody does it doesn't make it right

and remember virginity is not just about having your Hymen intact but purity of the mind

sex might be overrated but heaven isn't![/s]

Virginity will take you to heaven after all your many sins abi

Any which way..

HerexG:
As for me I'm of the opinion that "Sex before marriage" best suits our present age. I will use this short true life story to buttress my point. Please read this carefully and it should be a lesson to learn from, it's a true life story that happened to someone in my neighborhood just few months ago. The guy involved is a devoted church worker so he held strictly the church's "Sex after marriage"

It all started with "he's my brother in the Lord and she's my brother in the Lord". I got attracted to this my sister in the Lord Sis Funmibi, a devoted church worker as myself from the church but from another branch. So I thought to myself marrying a born again Sister from the church should be the best any man can ask for. After studying her character and her devotion to the church, I made my intention known to her. Sister Funmibi accepted my marriage proposal and fews days later we made our intentions known to our family and consequently the church. I was so excited that I have hit a jackpot for finding a lady like Sister Funmibi, as a church boy that I'm I must get married to her first before she can come into my house. So I kept fantasizing about our wedding night and her becoming my wife, so we further speed the marriage preparation up. I have always wanted to meet with my Fiancee's family church pastor for counseling but she will always stop me telling me that after all we are not getting there. To cut the story short, she chose a random church instead for our wedding. At this stage I have been blinded by her charms all I could think of is to bring her into my house.

Our wedding night wasn't as romantic as I thought it would be, we started making out kissing and carresing. I noticed each time I tried to press her left breast she she cry's out in pains saying " Please don't touch the left breast, you can touch the right one". I was like " waris happening here", she wouldn't even allow me to open the breast to see not to talk of sucking. We would have just sex without intimate pre-intimacy, I was thinking maybe it's because of her church background or that she's not yet used to me that's why she's behaving that way to me. She even finds it difficult to UnCloth or get dressed in my presence, I was like with time she should be able to change. Couple of months later Sis Funmibi my wife started falling sick, she will get better today but days later gets sick again. I will try to inquire from her Doctor what's exactly happening to my wife, he will mention one random common sickness. Until one day the doctor finally opened up to me that my wife has breast cancer. I was really devastated, I really felt cheated and deceived. She knew all these while that she has breast cancer and yet she kept it away from me. After battling to save her medically, spending the bulk of my resources to save her life, I finally lost her.

Now choose for yourself which is more ideal in our present world?

End-time spirits going about spreading false stories to lure the unsuspecting into damnation.

Nobody is holy on dis if nt sex b4 marriage how will I knw dat am gtin marry to female n nt male

TheUpsetGirl1:



Virginity will take you to heaven after all your many sins abi

lol our so call S.U re nw hvin sex but on Sunday u will c dem with big Bible n dey we b d Sunday school teacher too asking u to run away from sex but dey keep on having it wit dia Pastors ,God 4gv mi na wot I c n hear oooo but nw Na Williams dark ale beer dey do d talk here

This story is complete hogwash to promote immorality. God made sex for marriage simple.

Sex is both joining of two bodies into one. Sex is communion. It requires every part of the being.

People just play with fire. And let me warn you all. Everyone will give account to God, what he or she did with their body.


It was God that made the human body. He put pleasure into the human body because He loves us. But He gave us free will. We can choose to obey him or not.

Even where there is weakness of the flesh. Let us go to Him. He will give us power to overcome. And patiently wait till we get married and enjoy our bodies with our spouse.


On another note God wants those of us that are married to really enjoy sex with our spouse. Yes. The devils two strategy is to encourage premarital sex but then discourage marital sex.

Sex is a good thing. It is very pleasurable. Married couples should truly discover the wonders of marriage sex. 1 Corinthians 7 explain it more. God expects married couple to always have regular sex, except when they agree to fast. That the wife has no authority over her body but the husband and likewise the husband has no authority over his body but the wife. So where a wife withhold sex as punishment or the husband, it is a big sin and God will judge such a spouse. If your husband or wife demands sex, it is his or her right. If you are tired, you can use wisdom to beg, but make it up when you have regained enough strength.

Thanks and God bless you all. Amen

TheUpsetGirl1:



Sex after marriage doesn't mean the marriage is gonna last..

Freedom of speech doesn't mean you should influence your opinions on others.

Lol... when I saw your name, I cldnt help but not be surprised by the response I got. if social media can influence people negatively through unnecessary post that hits front page up and down, why Am i not allowed to also use the same social media to influence people's lives positively? But well, I don't expect you to relate since u are always upset kudos all the same, Thanks for stopping by!

itsmeurLady:


Lol... when I saw your name, I cldnt help but not be surprised by the response I got. if social media can influence people negatively through unnecessary post that hits front page up and down, why Is the OP not allowed to also use the same social media to influence people's lives positively? But well, I don't expect you to relate since u are always upset kudos all the same, Thanks for stopping by!

lmao..... what's my moniker got to do with me


pray for a man who share those ideas though..

TheUpsetGirl1:


lmao..... what's my moniker got to do with me


pray for a man who share those ideas though..

It's just like asking what your name has got to do with you, your name tells a lot about your kind of person wether directly or indirectly. U might have used it for fun but it's not fun, when the first thing people get to see before they see the real you is Negative. It's just like bearing a profile name "Sadist" or "Prostitute" and sayin what has it got to do with you. Anywayz, your choice

Yes I'm praying for him already, if he doesn't then he is not the one, God never Fails! You can never Wait on God and then he will disappoint, it has never been recorded, So I'd rather be on the winning Side!

TheUpsetGirl1:



Virginity will take you to heaven after all your many sins abi

like I said ma'am.. it's about the purity of the mind, that includes staying away from any other ungodly act

itsmeurLady:


It's just like asking what your name has got to do with you, your name tells a lot about your kind of person wether directly or indirectly. U might have used it for fun but it's not fun, when the first thing people get to see before they see the real you is Negative. It's just like bearing a profile name "Sadist" or "Prostitute" and sayin what has it got to do with you. Anywayz, your choice

Yes I'm praying for him already, if he doesn't then he is not the one, God never Fails! You can never Wait on God and then he will disappoint, it has never been recorded, So I'd rather be on the winning Side!

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there's nothing wrong with sex before marriage and in this era no man will marry you without having sex with you before the marriage

They said there is nothing wrong with sex before marriage. It is no big deal. So why do you board a flight just after having sex and start praying to God for forgiveness .

Whether or not we admit it, we do not feel like we are doing the absolute right thing when having sex outside marriage. There is an uneasiness...not totally at rest.

ImaIma1:
They said there is nothing wrong with sex before marriage. It is no big deal. So why do you board a flight just after having sex and start praying to God for forgiveness .

Whether or not we admit it, we do not feel like we are doing the absolute right thing when having sex outside marriage. There is an uneasiness...not totally at rest.

We need to keep on stressing it so that they will change. And save their souls


1 Corinthians 6 King James Version (KJV)


9Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,

10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.

11 And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.

12 All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any.

13 Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body.

Heaven is very real. And if you want to make heaven then you have to go with God. Do what He tells you to do. Simple. But anyone still has the free will to do whatever he wants.But it has terrible, eternal consequences. Simple

hilaryxoxo:
Its people like you that make Nigeria backward. later you would be shouting "racism" "racism"
"you no fit be Kogi man friend"? Do people still think this retrogressively?
ABEG COMMOT FOR HERE *TUEH*

Racism and racial discrimination is real all over the world. Let's not deceive ourselves.

lalanice:
Huncle why should I encourage what I don't practice

Only God knows the heart of men.

what a funny story to buttress his point. I didnt see any link between the story and the topic. What about the negative issues that are attached with sex before marriage. Its better to follow the godly advice 'sex after marriage'. Marriage is nt what is carry out in a rush bt go to God in prayer and hear from Him before taking a bold step.

The only and main problem in OP's write up was that she kept a big secret, not sex before marriage denial

faithfull18:
I stand for sex after marriage. That's what God expects from us. Premarital sex is a no-no.


Visit my profile..

God also said you should stone to death all thoae children who disobey their parents, and i also want to know how many stubborn children you have stoned to death.

you doing or not doing a thing becos your god says or did not say so, is pure nonaense to me

itsmeurLady:
I created a thread for this today, if only we knew the dangers of premarital sex, it causes so much harm than good and dats the reason y d divorce rate is high and then most married couples are not happy in their homes simply because they pursued sex first before marriage... in The OP's case, u sed it yourself, u didn't ask for God's guidance, u were led by your fleshly desires that's y u got the result u got. You don't rush into marriage, u take time to know your partner and ask yourself if this is what God wants for you, not many people practice this and dats why we get heartbreaking results... Show me a man that Genuinely waited on God for his partner and crashed and I will show u a liar and a pretender!

you mean Oyakhilome is a pretender? he said he is a man of god, and he goes in the way he is asked to go therefore god told him to marry his wife and today, they are divorced

djon78:



We need to keep on stressing it so that they will change. And save their souls


1 Corinthians 6 King James Version (KJV)


9Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,

10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.

11 And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.

12 All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any.

13 Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body.

Heaven is very real. And if you want to make heaven then you have to go with God. Do what He tells you to do. Simple. But anyone still has the free will to do whatever he wants.But it has terrible, eternal consequences. Simple

heaven is not real and there is no eternal consequence for having sex before marriage.

alot of the people who contract diseases do so while married. with proper care and education, one can have safe and healthy sex life, nothing wrong.

talking about heary break, last time i checked, many married people experience some of the moat severe heart breaks

Holuwatoobii:
so you believe sex before marriage is a good thing, partially its good for males but what about females? what if the guy has sex with her and dump her later, now imagine like tons of guys doing this to the same lady and keep dumping her

you need to spot the contradiction in your post.

it is good for men but not for women. how can men have sex if women are not willing?

and there is no such thing about a man dumping a woman. women dump men every now and then so what?

Patini147:


End-time spirits going about spreading false stories to lure the unsuspecting into damnation.

Call it whatever you like, just doing my bit as well meaning person. And if you allow religious sentiment to cloud your thinking without taking anything out of someone life experience, it's your piece of problem.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #3: Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. When a woman intentionally makes you wait for sex you are not her highest priority. Sexuality is a spontaneous chemical reaction between two parties, not a process of negotiation. It’s sex first, then relationship, not the other way around. A woman who wants to f*ck you will find a way to f*ck you. She will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your second story bedroom window, f*ck the sh*t out of you and wait patiently inside your closet if your wife comes home early from work – women who want to f*ck will find a way to f*ck. The girl who tells you she needs to be comfortable and wants a relationship first is the same girl who f*cked the hot guy in the foam cannon party in Cancun on spring break just half an hour after meeting him.

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Proffeluczy1:


Only God knows the heart of men.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nF9p-QSxWhg

lalanice:
Huncle why should I encourage what I don't practice

Keep fooling yourself, because you are not holy and has had sex before marriage several times.

HerexG:


Lol Hell my foot, who still believes in such a Whitemans myth in this 21st century.

I love God because He allows man to maintain his foolishness if he chooses. Maintain yours. kudos bro

HerexG:


My Dear no Devil, we humans are the Devil's. Why would you want to spend your life with someone you are not sure if he or she is sexually OK. My Dear don't allow religion put you in a deep mess you can never correct in life.

Henry, you no invite me for your wedding?

MrPresident1:


NwanyiAkwaetiti, how are you?

NwokeUmudunu greeting you here o

I greet you my brother.

TheUpsetGirl1:


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there's nothing wrong with sex before marriage and in this era no man will marry you without having sex with you before the marriage

What do you mean no man?

Well I am part of the few waiting for Sex after marriage.

My dear what eva rocks your boat..as for me sex before marriage speeds my boat..how wud i buy a car without testing the car. What if brake no good how i go take know?