Angy55:

I guess you are from Isoko(Delta state).
Best revenge ever to a cheating husband, pay him back by cheating on him if he refused to change and watch him die.

A woman cheating is very bad you are not only harming your husband but yourself, kids and future generations

Rozaytee:
lolz...not all women attach emotions to sex ooo

Yes ur right.. But most sha. Btw i like ur dp

MissJoy29:

Please tell me about this wise woman who should know how to keep her man from desiring sex elsewhere. How will she do that?

As they say... If u know u know

Angy55:

I guess you are from Isoko(Delta state).
Best revenge ever to a cheating husband, pay him back by cheating on him if he refused to change and watch him die.

The worst part is he doesn't have to know, just feed him with money collected from concubine or give it to him, thats all

Klinee:
A woman cheating is very bad you are not only harming your husband but yourself, kids and future generations

And a husband cheating is good?
Had two neighbours (husband and wife), both of them died of HIV. The man was a serious flirt, but to the woman she is gentle, loving calm etc. There are times this woman would sit outside and start weeping all because of the man's attitude. She was always Hoping the man would change but he didn't.
There was this period, the man became so I'll he was rushed to the hospital. It was my parents that helped them.
Long story cut short He was tested HIV positive.
Doctor advised the wife to run a test too, she was positive too. It has eaten deep into them.
They both died a year later.

Apart from HIV, what of other diseases that are spread?

As far as i am concerned nobody has the monopoly to cheat.

Toks2008:


Abeg which village be this?

Somewhere In Abakaliki, i can assure you it has send many men to early grave both innocent and non even my dad friend was a victim.

Pricelessangel0:

The worst part is he doesn't have to know, just feed him with money collected from concubine or give it to him, thats all

Pricelessangel0:

The worst part is he doesn't have to know, just feed him with money collected from concubine or give it to him, thats all

Chai! Girls are not smiling sha
Cheat me I cheat you, man no go vex eh?

Love covers all. If you truly love someone then you will not look at anybody else as better than them. Not necessarily because you will not see finer, richer, curvaceous, taller, etc people than what you have but because your love will make you “blind” to all that you see thereby been content in you heart..

ogorwyne:
Some answers here sha. Op yes he can.

You are the only smart one here.

MarieSucre:

Nope. You do not love someone if you hurt them

You're right. Point taken...

Olifiz:


When u are being tempted to cheat....u can actually decide not to cheat because u love your wife. So cheating is a decision. Or u can say hmmmmm this lady is beautiful let me f*ck her jor my wife won’t know.....that’s a decision too. So pls let’s not get it wrong cheating in anyway is a decision. It’s just like stealing u don’t steal by mistake that’s why there’s a punishment. That’s why the Bible abhors adultery. Cheating in any form can never be a mistake.

Understood...

dairykidd:

As they say... If u know u know

But I don't know....and I want to know

Olalan:
If you love someone dearly you won't even think of cheating on her, how do you love a person and want to be with another?

I keep wondering too

Adasun:
The truth is love woun't let u pound dat dat pusssy da way u want.



U can't even hang ur wives leg in north-east direction to pound and murder dat cu.nt.



U can only make love to her.




da side chick brings out dat monster in u.dat zeal to destroy dat pusssy.u neva even love her anyway.



So yes,u can love ur wife and still cheat

A lot of people think like this & thats the cause of a lot of problems today.. I knew my cousin with his wife before they got married & had kids.. So one day one gist led to another & he said he can't be fvcking his wife the same way he used to when they were just dating.. I felt like slapping him. Why? I remember him telling me how he turns her left right & centre to pound & fire the girl those days & now he is saying this.. I think its wrong & selfish for guys to reason this way bcoz its stupid & dumb to think ur so called wife doesn't miss those hard core straffing with different exciting positions.. That ur comment up there is very backward. You need to get ur mind right & make her feel brand new by fvcking her right all the damn time. Hang the leg, bend that asss, break her neck or else someone else will be do it for u while she fvcks u only as her duty to u but enjoys it with the other guy. I still cant believe men think like this in 2018... I though it ended with the older generation ( people in Buhari's age bracket ). If u fall within that age group i can understand but if ur not yet married or recently married & think like this, guy many girls when u done love way back go really hate to remember u

Pricelessangel0:

Somewhere In Abakaliki, i can assure you it has send many men to early grave both innocent and non even my dad friend was a victim.

Thanks for the info..i see...Ebonyi

Mryacks:
Love covers all. If you truly love someone then you will not look at anybody else as better than them. Not necessarily because you will not see finer, richer, curvaceous, taller, etc people than what you have but because your love will make you “blind” to all that you see thereby been content in you heart..

Love won't make you look away...it is self discipline.

Toks2008:


Love won't make you look away...it is self discipline.

That is what I mean by saying “blind”. It is not that you won’t see more attractive people, but you will be disciplined enough to look away and not chase.

donstan18:


You cannot hurt who you love.

Stop these inconsequential and irrelevant excuses.

That's rather sanctimonious. Look at it this way..love and reason are on opposite ends of human behaviour. Love goes with emotion, staying faithful deals more with reason. I've never met a man who is never attracted to any other woman apart from the one he claims to love, yet this attraction never diminishes the love for the real one one bit. My point? Cheating doesn't always mean lack of love, it's more like lack of reasoning. A balanced man should have a fair amount of both...Unfortunately, many of us are not balanced..

focus7:


It is obvious you are not married yet, wait until you are married.

in order words, you are cheating or have cheated on your wife

Olalan:
If you love someone dearly you won't even think of cheating on her, how do you love a person and want to be with another?

The media has imprinted in our subconscious and conscious minds that cheating is inevitable in relationships and marriages. The problem is most of us end up believing it and playing to the gallery.

Truth is there are several marriages that hold trust and fidelity in high esteem and this consolidates their commitment to each other. Of course it helps if both parties are God-fearing.

greiboy:
Not really

Yes, my weekend is going as planned, yours?

Sorry for the late reply. Yes the wedding party was lit, so yeah my weekend went splendid.

Yes because there are people who cheating is in their bone marrow

Mryacks:


That is what I mean by saying “blind”. It is not that you won’t see more attractive people, but you will be disciplined enough to look away and not chase.

Many people are writing here based on what they think but how I wish all male posters have been married for at least 5years....

blackweaver:

Chai! Girls are not smiling sha Cheat me I cheat you, man no go vex eh?

Abi! Not at all, what is good for the goose is also good for the......... But the fact remains 'something bad is bad' no matter the excuses we give.

prettyJoy22:
in order words, you are cheating or have cheated on your wife

It happens everywhere sweetie, don't so much trust your husband even if he's a pastor.

khiaa:


How have you been luv?

been good and u?

Yes, it is very possible

Alezy:
been good and u?

I'm good, miss you!

Yes. What keeps a man loyal to one woman is not love for her but fear of God

But if a woman fully respects a man, she will not want to cheat on him.

dalaman:


Cheating has nothing to do with love. Cheating just is. By the way many men have LEGITIMATE reasons to cheat on their wives. You guys need to be real.

Would you still say this if your wife Cheats ? Many men can't even handle it like women does, Some men have died as a result of the psychological effect of their wife cheating on them.

Many men cannot stand their partner cheating, they will boil with anger, So why do to her , the same thing you know if she does will kill you emotionally?

Cheating is bad , doesn't matter who does it.

Moji12:
you de mind dem looking for ways to justify their illicit act, can d wife also cheats n den apologize? Do unto others wat u want dem do in return

Exactly my point. Many of these guys justifying cheating cannot stand the same thing