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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Elliot2(m): 8:46pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Skmoda360:a girl u smash her pussay so good she calls u daddy,can not give u attitute d next minute like she is managing u. |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Damfostopper(m): 11:19pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
LivingFree:imagine what this assholee is spewing 2 Likes
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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Raskasal(m): 11:42pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
LabUdegbe: What I meant was that in any area of the house we were supposed to have physical contacts, like pass by and hit each other, and touches, she avoids them |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by karika2018: 1:11am On Jul 13, 2018 |
why must you still be with a woman like that... grow up..... quit the relationship or you will regret it... marriage is for a long time... 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by banchuz: 6:15am On Jul 13, 2018 |
pryme: Sabi man |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by banchuz: 6:18am On Jul 13, 2018 |
biafraisdead: Seen and confirmed |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Skmoda360(m): 6:43am On Jul 13, 2018 |
Elliot2:you funny uhn...that's true to some extent but on a serious note ...most women are unpredictable. |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Elliot2(m): 6:58am On Jul 13, 2018 |
Skmoda360:true! but,at least it gives u dat confidence dat she is not nagging cos u r less a man in bed. |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Skmoda360(m): 7:00am On Jul 13, 2018 |
Elliot2:yeah..you have a point though. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by aribasoye1: 8:05am On Jul 13, 2018 |
[b][/b] Have ones been in this shoes before, I love this girl from ogun too but her character and lifestyle puts me off from her, and this is the girl. I was planning of getting married to. one day I then asked myself, will I want my daughter to take after her, in my mind I know she's not the kind of mother I will like my children to take after, I prayed about it and took the bold step to QUIT, it really pained me and I cried cost this was the girl I know I love dearly and leaving her was so painful but was the best thing I need to do to live long. Bro since you have known her character and u ain't too cool or down with it and If u wanna live long, JUST QUIT. You are not loosing she is, 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by aribasoye1: 8:08am On Jul 13, 2018 |
[b][/b] Have ones been in this shoes before, I love this girl from ogun too but her character and lifestyle puts me off from her, and this is the girl. I was planning of getting married to. one day I then asked myself, will I want my daughter to take after her, in my mind I know she's not the kind of mother I will like my children to take after, I prayed about it and took the bold step to QUIT, it really pained me and I cried cost this was the girl I know I love dearly and leaving her was so painful but was the best thing I need to do to live long. Bro since you have known her character and u ain't too cool or down with it and If u wanna live long, JUST QUIT. You are not loosing she is |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Nobody: 8:13am On Jul 13, 2018 |
All these people advising play this game, give timeout etc, need to understand that marriage is supposed to be for a lifetime. Once they are married, what options are available to manage her behaviour? More to the point, this is the woman. The best that can happen is that she will temporarily suppress her character, maybe for a week, then back to status quo. There are people who are made for women like that, but you aren't. 4 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Raskasal(m): 10:41am On Jul 13, 2018 |
aribasoye1: Thank you. You really understand what I am going through |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Raskasal(m): 10:42am On Jul 13, 2018 |
oyb: Thank you jare 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by shem4soul: 7:56pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
@ OP, I think u should ask urself what u really need in life, and also if u can cope with her character on the long run, I'm also having a girl like DAT she is misbehaving(similar to ur own case),I believe DAT my own thinks DAT she is doing me a favour by staying wit me and I'm even fed up wit her character... there re a lot of ladies out side DAT re perfect and looking for husband, pls don't b fool by love...only love can't sustain a marriage when d going gets tough 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by shem4soul: 8:20pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
even if I correct her when she is wrong, I will also b d person to tell her DAT I'm sorry,I ve learnt a lot from this ur topic especially matured men that comment and contributed earlier...,70 % of what happens in a relationship re pointers to what will happen in marriage...life is too short to b in a toxic relationship 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by LabUdegbe(m): 8:24pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Raskasal: |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Vmaqween(f): 2:39pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
doskie:You are welcome 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by 2buffagain(m): 7:20am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Raskasal: You are messing up. Don't be an enabler of disrespect. How you deal with women is that you make it clear that as much as you love her and all that, there are some things you just won't tolerate otherwise she would be using her own hand to end the relationship. She must have that boundary in her mind concerning you and your matters always, both in the good and the bad times. As a man, you configure the life you want, and tolerate only what you want to. It is good to be understanding, but If your girlfriend is behaving disrespectfully without logic, it will be because you enabled, and quite possibly, encouraged it to be so. She is obviously the type that has never had a man train her before. You do so as you would a child...by positive re-inforcement. Also be prepared at any time for a woman to leave while you are training her to your spec. Simply reach out and get yourself another Examples of setting boundaries: - "<Her Name> We can talk to each other, but the moment you feel the need to yell at me, that conversation is over until further notice!" AND STICK TO IT. - If she is the type that jokingly tells you to shut up, you tell her "Hey babe, I know you thought you were joking there, but don't ever tell me to shut up. I don't use those words when speaking with you and I expect the same courtesy" - "<Her name>, I've noticed whenever I talk to you about something, you start avoiding me." to which she would likely respond with something weak and pathetic like "I'm not avoiding you". To which you follow with "Cut the shit! Listen to me, I don't do passive aggressive. And if that is how you choose to be, just leave. there's no space for that element in my house." AND LET WHAT HAPPENS HAPPEN. Stop all that begging nonsense. From experience, when you are tough on girls in the midst of their misbehavior, they generally are the ones to come back later to apologize after having had a long hiatus to think about their behavior and life plans....or not, who cares. The girl that returns back is often mentally re-adjusted for the better, and thats all that matters. 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Slimsly100(f): 9:58pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
biafraisdead: The last part though!! Reminds of R-kelly's song, SAME GIRL |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by biafraisdead(m): 9:17am On Jul 16, 2018 |
Slimsly100:hi pretty. |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Slimsly100(f): 7:40pm On Jul 16, 2018 |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by biafraisdead(m): 9:27pm On Jul 16, 2018 |
Slimsly100:why are u being rude? |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Slimsly100(f): 10:59pm On Jul 16, 2018 |
biafraisdead: Na wa o bros!!! Calm down I knew you would react to that. But na ur Monika cause quarrel o. Why biafraisdead. But bone that thing, nothing dey there I was only pulling ur legs. Shalom!!!! |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by seangy4konji: 8:29am On Aug 11, 2018 |
Raskasal:mine was from Ogun State also. Ilisha Remo...i called it quit after 5 years.. She thought and still thinking it was a joke. Nagging. Will never say sorry despite traveling miles to be with me. Would go and sit in the room when corrected. Noore convos.go out to the cat, stay glued to her phone till I say sorry. I can't deal again. Marriage another issue. I had to break up. She begging me with SMS she will change. Man.. Not interested to be a lesson teacher in this Nigerian economy. She is 33 years old now. We were supposed to Marry 3 years ago. Now who lost? 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Prakash247(m): 11:59am On Dec 31, 2018 |
Raskasal: My brother,you are not alone in this.i once experienced something like this but since you are currently looking for mature minds,I guess I will have to wait for them to b through.I don't have a mature mind,what I have is an experienced man...Are we together? |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Prakash247(m): 11:59am On Dec 31, 2018 |
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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by YIBNET: 12:52pm On Dec 31, 2018 |
Rule 1....Ladies like to be pampered Rule 1....Ladies don't like immediate corrections. My advice.. If she ignores you but still do her duties ( (cook,wash, knack, serve you food) my brother you are still in control. Lastly don't ever apologize for her wrongs as it will become irritating one day. |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Raskasal(m): 2:55pm On Dec 31, 2018 |
Prakash247: Lol. You're funny. You have forgotten that experience brings about maturity 1 Like |
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