BRASH:
see one of them here. How much do u charge per nigth?

you can't afford what I charge per night, so do me a favour, swerve

zicoraads:
Preach sister.. Preach.

Hope you gonna share house chores too?


Money - a woman should be independent - Nigerian men

House chores - cooking and cleaning are a woman's responsibility - Nigerian men.

Confused sets

Chubhie:

Funny! I remember in Phil class when Dr Idowu made all the guys argue in favor of feminism while the ladies argued against it for 30 marks!

I believe that non of the ladies present in that class would ever remain the same.

Hey!! are a philosophy student of Oou?

DonFreshmoney:
The Fact is that if I notice you are a female parasite, I wil blast u up.. u can't be acting like a beggar everytime. Relationship is meant to be a two way thing, but in Nigeria and Africa at large, it has turn into business for some ladies. When I was in UK, I couldn't coun how many times my white babe took me out for dinner and even paid for my vacation to Blackpool. I miss that babe very well, I haven't seen any lady in Nigeria like her.

What am saying is most ladies think it's the right and responsibilities for a guy to cater for her every need, I mean if we were married it would have been better. Am very sure most of these ladies can't ask their parent what they asking their boyfriends. It's outrageous.

I met a lady few months back, we started chatting on whatsapp, then she asked us to hang out. I didn't wanna ask, cos I knew I was the one that will pay the bills. Because she asked, I accepted. On arriving to the Chinese restaurant in Abj, i paid for our meal. Following week, she said we shld hang out at jabi lake mall, I accepted. When we reached dere, she said she was hungry. In my mind, I was like you just left your house why didn't you eat there. I bought snacks for both of us. Coming Saturday, I invited her to my place, I then joked with her she should make food, for both of us, she told me she don't like cooking in guys house that I should order food if am hungry. I was really mad, but didn't talk, I didn't order food. The following week I invited her to signature Wuse 2, I had a friend who was the manager, I told him I what the girl was doing to me earlier, and planned with him that I would order food for us, and I will leave her to settle the bills. So, I ordered food of #5,900 and she ordered around #4,800. I made sure I ate to my satisfaction. I then signalled the manager that am leaving, I told her I wanna get something from my car. I started getting calls and messages from her asking where I was, that she wants to go home that I should come and settle the bill and drop her home. She doesn't know I was already home chilling, and didn't get answer her. She had a techno phone worth around 25k, the manager seized it from her till she paid his money. This babe didn't even come with money not even her atm. What the manager told me after that she was very ashamed, she cried and had to beg th guest there to help her pay d money. Fortunately, the manager kept my food and sent it to me via uber to my house. I didn't even know how she went home. I blocked her line completely.

Good plan. All Selfish females MUST go through this experience several times before they get sense.

The very least she could do is cook when you are both together, at least that would be some minute sort of contribution.
But no, she sounds like the typical shameless nigerian parasite.

It's only guys who think with their deeks that would go out of their way to grant a lady's wanton desires. Even if she makes demands and has expectations, it behoves on him to determine if she really needs or deserve that money, ofcus taking into consideration how comfortable he is.
Having said that, I don't consider it out of place if a guy feels he has sufficient money to give his gf or lady friend, guys shouldn't twist this thread on its head. There are some who naturally give, not just to ladies, but to guys in need.
The hand that gives is always on top.

victorian:
Are some women still waiting for men to feed them? At this catastrophic economic level ?

Na hunger go kill such girl o.

Except she's into sugar daddies.

If not boyfriend? Her neck go long like ostrich!

LMAO.. Even you too want to endorse her post too

You have commented more than 5 times on this section that your man must pay your bills... Seem I'll take some screenshots

Fake people everywhere.

Chubhie:
I wonder why men oppose feminism. Op is a very good reason every man should encourage and fund the advancement of this noble ideology.

The reason some people oppose feminism is that most who claim to practice it think it's same as femi-nazism. Since they do not depend on men they find it alright to express hatred towards men openly. That is no more feminism.

True feminists were our mothers and grandmothers. They worked hard, ran own businesses and built their own houses. Yet never neglecting their responsibilities as mothers and wives. Never disrespected their hubby because they have bigger houses than hubby.

I respect feminists like Cherry Booth Blair, Hillary Rodham Clinton, Michelle Obama, etc.

We have been saying here on NL that women should learn to be independent and not see men as a mill ticket. But we were called broke ass Nicur.

Interesting that seeing a useless guy brutalise a useless lady is now the road to Damascus.
If the guy promised 10k he should pay or keep his trousers zipped. No excuses. That girl could have stabbed him in anger and maybe get away with it.

Any guy who truly wants to help a lady should assist her to be independent. Whatever the relationship: sister, cousin, wife, girlfriend or whatever. Fund her training as a hairdresser, fashion designer or whatever. That way you will be doing more to uphold the dignity of one woman at a time than giving her 20 to 50k per month to be a parasite.

2buffagain:


Good plan. All Selfish females MUST go through this experience several times before they get sense.

The very least she could do is cook when you are both together, at least that would be some minute sort of contribution.
But no, she sounds like the typical shameless nigerian parasite.

Na that one pain my soul pass.. I invited you to m house. And you couldn't even prepare indomie for us, not like u buying the food. I ave foodstuff at home. Na there I know say d babe na useless girl. If to say I wan do wetin dey my mind dat time ehn...

HITTED:
This girl should never be taken seriously. Yeye gimmick to appear intelligent whereas she's a confused housewife and feminist within.

The same person who who created a thread "before a man should date a girl, he MUST own a good job, a car and live in a 3-bedroom flat."


Nonsense and ingredients..

Bwahahaha ahhahah ah

Nice one, this is d mindset all girls should have

Besides, i am looking for an industrious lady to marry, any one available should PM me...

Women can disturb for money too much and always feel entitled

One is even calling me as I type this. Chai

safarigirl:
yes.

Is it not Nigerian men thag continually brag about spending money on girls and how quickly it will get them in a girl's pants? Men encouraged monetization of sex and women encouraged sex outside marriage.

If someone slaps you today and you don't react harshly to it, they will think they can slap you tomorrow and it will keep happening until you put a stop to it. A woman collected money from you for sex, you gave her, she tells her friends, do this and that and he will give you money, tomorrow they try it on another guy and before you know it, everybody is doing it.

Na from one person rubbish dey start. That is why today, it is abnormal to not want sex outside marriage. Since sex was usually something that came after paying a woman's bride price previously, and men now want it before getting there, Na so you go dey pay bride price for all the women you sleep with before marriage.

Carry the cross guys, na una encourage am

She writes harshly but truly.

sanpipita:


We all know some Nigerian men will look away an independent woman who can feed herself and go for one they can feed and buy everything for, we need to start telling ourselves the truth so we can sort issues if any, some men will complain about too much responsibilities but if a lady tries to do something for themselves they shut it down why?

actually u have a point here n i wouldn't deny most nigerian men have wack mentality..... sometimes i marvel by the way some of these low-life men behave at any sight of women, some can go extra-miles, do nasty foolish things just to impress n get into the panties of a mere female. honestly dogs are well civilized, well cordinated n responsible than some nigerian men,,,,,,that lady safarigirl knows exactly what she is saying.....

Plain bitter truth. I suppose u on this OP.

Radiant1020:


Gracias

Can we talk...

The grip most ladies that were shortchanged have, you'd think they'll have such grip on their man, spouse. But it's ironic it is very rare. SMH.

QuietHammer:

So Nigerian men are the ones who encouraged prostitution from its inception just as she suggested?

Nobody said so unless you want to twist words, not all but Nigerian men encouraged monetization of relationships this is a fact, Nigerian men equally have this mentality they must give money to women for them to respect them and massage thier egos, my summary here is while you blame women, also know you are part of the problem

Amarabae:

Hahahahahaha

I don't knw you have brain like this. I only know amarabae as tribalist. nice one

only blacks kowtow to every western ideology or philosophy we cant create our own,we thereby destroy ourselves in the process,this feminism is purely western ideology for white women.other races might be influenced by it but they dnt embrace it fully,only blacks do,like blackamerica did and destroyed its society

UnclePrincipal:
Hey!! are a philosophy student of Oou?

A lil Phil and Psy. Not Oou.

Chubhie:
I wonder why men oppose feminism. Op is a very good reason every man should encourage and fund the advancement of this noble ideology.

feminism, challenges men to raise the bar higher, in short , it emasculates them. This is why men are against it

Turkeelex:


actually u have a point here n i wouldn't deny most nigerian men have wack mentality..... sometimes i marvel by the way some of these low-life men behave at any sight of women, some can go extra-miles, do nasty foolish things just to impress n get into the panties of a mere female. honestly dogs are well civilized, well cordinated n responsible than some nigerian men,,,,,,that lady safarigirl knows exactly what she is saying.....

We know this but people want to pass blames, these men will meet a woman and start spending on her even without her asking, they wont even encourage these women to be independent, they even avoid the independent ones but later they will be complaining women are parasites, it was on this forum I said even if I was rich like dangote my spouse must have something of her own doing and some were laughing at me.

EsotericMonk:
It's only guys who think with their deeks that would go out of their way to grant a lady's wanton desires. Even if she makes demands and has expectations, it behoves on him to determine if she really needs or deserve that money, ofcus taking into consideration how comfortable he is.
Having said that, I don't consider it out of place if a guy feels he has sufficient money to give his gf or lady friend, guys shouldn't twist this thread on its head. There are some who naturally give, not just to ladies, but to guys in need.
The hand that gives is always on top.

you have spoken well

Elder001:


Hope you gonna share house chores too?


Money - a woman should be independent - Nigerian men

House chores - cooking and cleaning are a woman's responsibility - Nigerian men.

Confused sets

I don't have a problem with doing anything at home. I totally share in the independence of a woman. I have sisters that are as hardworking as the guys are. In short, one is even more hardworking than every one of us.

I love to cook. I love it a lot. Time does not permit it anymore. But I'll rather employ a cook than have my wife coming home tired to stress herself in the kitchen.

See, I don't take life to be all that oooo. One of my most unforgettable rships was with this lady whom we almost always ate out. The only time we cooked was on weekends. Clothes? Dry cleaners. I no dey for that she is hardworking crew. We work and earn money to make life easy for ourselves biko.

Elder001:


Hope you gonna share house chores too?


Money - a woman should be independent - Nigerian men

House chores - cooking and cleaning are a woman's responsibility - Nigerian men.

Confused sets

thats what am saying but you opposed me,men have to take care of their women if they want the woman to cook and clean for them,but most of these nairaland guys just want to be free of responsibility while requiring submission from women,unless they are ready to do away with submission men have to assume financial rezponsibility for women,but the new nigeria male is a weak sissy

Elder001:


LMAO.. Even you too want to endorse her post too

You have commented more than 5 times on this section that your man must pay your bills... Seem I'll take some screenshots

Fake people everywhere.

Am not supporting her

Read and understand

I said even bfs, that want to depend on babes cannot feed well, and girls are depending on them?
Any girl who depend on a bf at this economy situation will have long necks like ostrich that's what I said.
How many guys can feed well?

Let's be realistic? How much will they have left to spend on a babe.
That's what I meant..

My man still pays some of my bills and I take care of him too.. It's a mutual symbiotic relationship.. Not just him alone.

So read Biko and understand


Unlike you that live off and leach on an older sugar mummy in the south south region, you still get mouth to talk. Smhhh

Your fake reaction is as clear as Mtn.

sanpipita:


Nobody said so unless you want to twist words, not all but Nigerian men encouraged monetization of relationships this is a fact, Nigerian men equally have this mentality they must give money to women for them to respect them and massage thier egos, my summary here is while you blame women, also know you are part of the problem

I couldn't agree more, nice one....

funmisticqueen:
feminism, challenges men to raise the bar higher, in short , it emasculates them. This is why men are against it

This shouldn't be about competition. It should be more about understanding the various roles either delegated by nature or biology and then looking for harmonious ways to compliment each other.

Chubhie:
I wonder why men oppose feminism. Op is a very good reason every man should encourage and fund the advancement of this noble ideology.

OP is a traditional feminist, people oppose the new "feminists" aka man-haters who cry sexism about anything and everything but are quick to attack and abuse men for no reason.

Chubhie:

This shouldn't be about competition. It should be more about understanding the various roles either delegated by nature or biology and then looking for harmonious ways to compliment each other.

it isnt, a lot of men, just became irresponsible and women were left to pick up the tab. Only true nen arent afraid of feminism

Truth spoken in experience..

Amarabae:

Hahahahahaha

Well said, some ladies needs to change their mentality. Although some ladies are very hard working and I've encountered some of them in the past very clean & beautiful woman spending her time to make money in legitimate ways instead of exchanging their thing for money