Amarabae:
I want to talk to some of my fellow ladies.
It's Oriaku rant series again
The professional table shaker.

Before I used to frown at those Girls that are fond of milking a guy's money down in a relationship or a date.
But not any more.
I blame the guys for being stupid and not sharp enough.
I don't know why someone will think that she is born to be spoon fed by men all her life just because she has a vagina.
Walking upon and down with a stupid sense of entitlement.
That's why I so much love feminism ideologies, it shaped me in many ways,
One of the things feminism taught me is that "A real woman should not be a financial parasite to a man"
A girl needs to wake up and have something doing that will be fetching her some money, am not talking about being a cheap runs girl,
Yeah runs girls are cheap sexy toys used for pleasure by men.
Oriaku says so!
God bless every hardworking lady out there,
Men owes us nothing as women when it comes to finances! Get your lazy azz up.
And it is the same girls with entitlement attitude that will be criticising feminism online because the movement exposes their flaws,
There are many skills a girl can learn, many are smiling to the bank, all thanks to their skills,
Learn one or two today so that you can be financially independent as a woman.
I hate seeing a fellow woman disgracing herself in the name of being a financial liability to men,
We need to break that cycle,
Hell will not break loose if you take him out on a date and cater for the bills,
Relationship is not a poverty alleviation program,
But some girls have turned it into one,
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Look at the society and see how some girls are messing themselves up due to money gluttony,
Laziness coupled with a sense of entitlement drove some of them into the mess they are into.
A girl that learnt catering and is working hard and making some money from it will not think of stopping so low to be a runz girl.
There are many skills that a fellow girl can pick and learn even if you are a graduate and there is no job.
Dear runs girl, I hope you will read this thread and stop embarrassing women folk.
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An incident I witnessed this afternoon left me speechless,
A guy was seriously beating one girl who should be in her middle 20s on the road, few people intervened ,but nobody could hold the enranged guy until one military guy came on board,
What's the problem?
The boiling young man brought out a torn unilag bachelor's degree certificate that the girl teared(though not in pieces, just straight tearing that can be joined again by a *cellotape*)because of 10,000,
When the stupid young girl was asked about the issue ,she accepted that she did that because the guy was owing her 10k they agreed on before having sex in his house,
After the sex, he only gave her 2k which enranged her, she managed to see the guy certificate in an envelope and took it, teared it to teach him a lesson,
When the angered guy descendent on her, she ran out for help ,
Can you imagine?
Of course the guy ran after her, caught her and brutalize her.
*you are very silly and stupid *- the angry remark came from my voice towards the silly thing.
You tored his certificate because of 10,000 ,
Why?
Just because you turned yourself into a sexx toy.

I just don't understand.
There are many girls like her who are under the sun working off sweat and maintaining their dignity,
No she doesn't want to suffer,
By the way, she has vagina, so men should spoon feed her forever.
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Women we need to wake up!
We need to protect our dignity!
We need to work hard and earn our own money.
Men owes us nothing financially.
If a man gives you freely, no problem accept if you want
But the mentality of "he must give me because he is a man and I am a woman " must be dropped.
Feminism have shaped some of us to know that whether in marriage or relationship, the both partners needs to be financially independent.
Ndewo nu.
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NB : Stupid mentions and replies will be ignored

Chubhie:
I wonder why men oppose feminism. Op is a very good reason every man should encourage and fund the advancement of this noble ideology.

babasolution:



thats what am saying but you opposed me,men have to take care of their women if they want the woman to cook and clean for them,but most of these nairaland guys just want to be free of responsibility while requiring submission from women,unless they are ready to do away with submission men have to assume financial rezponsibility for women,but the new nigeria male is a weak sissy

Chubhie:
A lil Phil and Psy. Not Oou.

victorian:







Am not supporting her

Read and understand

I said even bfs, that want to depend on babes cannot feed well, and girls are depending on them?
Any girl who depend on a bf at this economy situation will have long necks like ostrich that's what I said.
How many guys can feed well?

Let's be realistic? How much will they have left to spend on a babe.
That's what I meant..

My man still pays some of my bills and I take care of him too.. It's a mutual symbiotic relationship.. Not just him alone.

So read Biko and understand


Unlike you that live off and leach on an older sugar mummy in the south south region, you still get mouth to talk. Smhhh

Your fake reaction is as clear as Mtn.

ireneidiva:
It is 'tore' not 'teared' or 'tored'.

zicoraads:

I don't have a problem with doing anything at home. I totally share in the independence of a woman. I have sisters that are as hardworking as the guys are. In short, one is even more hardworking than every one of us.

I love to cook. I love it a lot. Time does not permit it anymore. But I'll rather employ a cook than have my wife coming home tired to stress herself in the kitchen.

See, I don't take life to be all that oooo. One of my most unforgettable rships was with this lady whom we almost always ate out. The only time we cooked was on weekends. Clothes? Dry cleaners. I no dey for that she is hardworking crew. We work and earn money to make life easy for ourselves biko.

Elder001:


Nairaland ladies and fake life, Tufiakwa.

Even the ones that can't purchase pant with their own money will turn to working class ladies that feed their boyfriends on nairaland

Weytin man no go see for social media.


Victoria it's like you think the people on this platform are fools

You said your man must take care of all your bills.

Your life, your choice but stop pretending here.


Please.

Elder001:



Earn that money - that's the new world anthem


I thought you're a traditional man(guessing from your previous threads)

Maybe you're just typing all these ones here to gain likes


Zicoraads, Zicoraads, Zicoraads

How many times did I call you?

mrAMG:
Some foolish guys will take this as an avenue to display their foolishness.

Just because she’s independent doesn’t mean you shouldn’t treat her like a baby. Spoil her as often as you can and if you’re lucky and she’s more than an angel, she’ll spoil you too.

Relationships are fun when you both chip in financially and at the same time have a great sex life.

You’re dating to mak
e each other happy and NOT to sadden one or the other with burdens. If there happens to be burdens, you both can handle it “together”. Two heads are better than one.

Elder001:


Nairaland ladies and fake life, Tufiakwa.

Even the ones that can't purchase pant with their own money will turn to working class ladies that feed their boyfriends on nairaland

Weytin man no go see for social media.


Victoria it's like you think the people on this platform are fools

You said your man must take care of all your bills.

Your life, your choice but stop pretending here.


Please.

victorian:








Lol if you feel am pretending? That's your headache.. I don't need to prove anything to u.

Tufia kwa! To your self. Yeye gold digger .. Keep digging o!


And least I forget he takes care of my bills, I never said he doesn't.. Likewise I spend on him too.. Believe or not. Am least concerned.
So think before spewing rubbish.. I cannot be with a man who cannot take of his woman..

Elder001:


Jesus is Lord

You spend on who social media has really tried for all these fakers.

This was how you were deceiving one young man early this month on this section that you've two companies and 3cars

You'll regret ever commenting that your imaginary stuff on this thread when I'm done with you

I'm not against your man footing all your bills.. Your life, your choice! But stop pretending here!

Fake life doesn't pay. You can't purchase sanitary pad with your own cash


@your last post.. Metoo , I cannot be with a woman who can't take care of me like a king

Elder001:


Sometimes I wonder if Nigerian men really understand the meaning of feminism when they insult feminists .

They just hate feminists with passion, just like the great adichie anytime her topic reach the front page Nigerian men will start insulting her for being a feminist rather than read the post.



As far as I'm concerned, feminism is the best thing that ever happened to mankind.

ggrin:
you can't afford what I charge per night, so do me a favour, swerve

nahzyla:
This article sounds too much like an attempt to kiss mens arses.

It is too pandering and meek, its like Amrabe or what is her name was only trying to gain male approval with the way she expressed herself.

First of all, I completely agree that women should be financially independent but saying men owe women nothing is too extreme. A man owes his woman emotional support and financial assistance if she needs it and if he wants to help out, likewise a woman owes her man emotional support and financial assistance if he needs it and if she wishes to help.
That is how a loving committed relationship works, a eelationship where both partners care for each other and want to assist each other to be happy and fulfilled, they both owe each other love and support.

Lastly, Amrabe should have added a vital part of feminism to her write up which includes the part where men have to relinquish sole leadership and authority and start joining women in playing the submissive roles in marriages since they are no longer responsible for providing for her because the whole reason why women were relegated to a position of subordination in the first place was because of their dependence on men. Once that dependence is gone then men just have to accept that they can no longer call themselves leaders in any relationship, dating or married.

Amara bae you should have added that bit to your post na, lets see how wela Nairaland men will embrace your feminism.

omooba969:


[s]If you know the real agenda behind feminism you will understand the grand plan to upsurp the rightful place of the MAN.

Do your research and learn what most females understand feminism to be & you will be shocked.[/s]

nahzyla:
This article sounds too much like an attempt to kiss mens arses.

It is too pandering and meek, its like Amrabe or what is her name was only trying to gain male approval with the way she expressed herself.

First of all, I completely agree that women should be financially independent but saying men owe women nothing is too extreme. A man owes his woman emotional support and financial assistance if she needs it and if he wants to help out, likewise a woman owes her man emotional support and financial assistance if he needs it and if she wishes to help.
That is how a loving committed relationship works, a eelationship where both partners care for each other and want to assist each other to be happy and fulfilled, they both owe each other love and support.

Lastly, Amrabe should have added a vital part of feminism to her write up which includes the part where men have to relinquish sole leadership and authority and start joining women in playing the submissive roles in marriages since they are no longer responsible for providing for her because the whole reason why women were relegated to a position of subordination in the first place was because of their dependence on men. Once that dependence is gone then men just have to accept that they can no longer call themselves leaders in any relationship, dating or married.

Amarabae you should have added that bit to your post na, lets see how wela Nairaland men will embrace your feminism.

victorian:











*yawns*


Is that all u can come up with?


Lol

Radiant1020:


You are very right. I heard of a lady who runs a very big saloon but is still a runs girl...
Ladies should learn to be contented

zicoraads:

Likes? What likes?

Does that add to my account balances in GTB, Diamond or Sterling banks? I don't care about those. The biggest earner here is Seun. Likes mean nothing to me. I can transfer my thousands without flinching. But when it affects my account balances, that is grave.

I have strong beliefs and sometimes, outright 'crazy' ones. I'm a bit of a traditional and a modern blend.

And then again, people are not always what they seem online. Always remember that.

Elder001:


Upsurp which rightful place?

Run along man.

Elder001:


She knows.

You can't demand for submission and expect to share bills with your wife.
Things don't work that way.. You can't eat your cake and have it.

omooba969:


You clearly have no idea the kind of ideology you side with, you're stuck in your ways & void of reason.

MissJoy29:

God Bless you. Everything you said has too much sense in it.

BRASH:
How much do u charge for short time pls