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Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by ericmor: 8:21pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: Just my thought, most especially those that curse their kids unnecessarily and those single parent. If he's looking at it from that point of view, then he is good to go |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by romunu(m): 8:21pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Okay,kontinue |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by ericmor: 8:29pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: Just my thought, most especially those that curse their kids unnecessarily and those single parent that their boyfriend use to run away after impregnating them . If he's looking at it from that point of view, then he is good to go |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by Nobody: 9:02pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL:thank you so much for this comment sir, people like you uphold the dignity of this forum |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by Nobody: 9:38pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Chukabiz1961:sorry but you just did |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by Nobody: 9:47pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Odinz:suicide can't be legalized because it's not a crime in the first place as you can't be charged for it when you're already dead.. The dude has a point sha.. I think it all boils down for individuals to educate each other on this matter, cause children are suffering on the streets trying to make something out of life, when it's the fault of their parents bringing them into this harsh reality, it is a taboo to disobey the first law of pro creation, don't not bring more offsprings to a world of scarce resources, as most birds and animals respect this law cos they bring in more when there's more food and less when there's less food |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:19pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
abbey621: now you are seeing the big picture boy your parents travell to nigeria to see your granparents right meaning your parents didnt stop working to look after your parents thats was my point and still my point you know very well that in west the system is totally different from africa, back home there is always a poor relative or someone who can help for nearly free, whereas here everyone wants to be paid for national wage and above as africans we see it as wrong to send parents to nursing home, but like i explain before even back home, someone does the looking after for us the only difference is its either a poor relative living out of you or someone doing the favour but getting few benefits but dont get me wrong am not against looking after the parents all am saying is to make you see both sides, most people who are in nursing homes its their money they worked for look after them when there are old meaning they prepared and planned for it they knew that their kids will be short changed if there were to pay care home, raise and plan for their own kids, built/buy house of their own etc sometimes dont rush to criticise a culture you dont understand without taking time to understand how it started and ended up the way it is if our systems in africa we good as the west and people living longer you would find that most family trapped in the same debate of sending to care homes or looking after them yourself |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by abbey621(m): 10:26pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: Perhaps you should heed your own advice and not rush. I never criticized a culture, I criticized the opening post and the supoorters who said, "YOU DON'T OWE YOUR PARENTS ANYTHING". We all have some type of responsibility towards our parents and family, as they do towards us. I never for once said children must abandon their career to take care of their parents, rather I said don't just abnadon them in a facility with strangers, there is nothing stopping a caring child from checking on his or her parents once every 2 months, there is nothing stopping them from hiring a live in caretaker. For goodness sake most of these parents in their old age qualify for retirement income and government benefits which takes care of 90% of their health and living costs, so it is not necessarily a financial burden. Like I said I've seen and heard about more elderly abuses than to ever risk my loved ones being treated so poorly. |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by Bobkayz: 10:39pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Indian hemp is working on this Indian nigga.. � How should parents seek the unborn child's consent? I can't imagine talking to an ovum or sperm cell lol.. Damn that's highly ridiculous. |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:47pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
abbey621: i understood the guy grief on suing parents, law wont help him but if you are exposed to asian culture of countries like india pakistan you would understand were he is coming from its culture thing that parents put in us to makes us believe that its priviledge to be sent to skol and look after by them whereas its not, its natures way and law so parents they sell praise to say i sacrifice for you as if there was someone else beside them to look after you, the moment you sleep without a protection and child comes out 9 months later is it your responsibility the two of you, and with capitalism type of world we live in one has to work, to earn a living to able to feed kids etc and at the same time save for your retirement and if your can give your kids a boost to start life like setting up university funds for education or a grand to given if one reaches a certian age black people we dont pass on our wealth usually it dies with parent if s/he was wealth, whites set up funds for their kids or gran kids 1 Like |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by Odinz(m): 11:15pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Debramaye: Oops, didn't really meant it that way tho. I was trying to point out the fact that attempting suicide is a criminal offence. The dude has a point sha.. I think it all boils down for individuals to educate each other on this matter, cause children are suffering on the streets trying to make something out of life, when it's the fault of their parents bringing them into this harsh reality, it is a taboo to disobey the first law of pro creation, don't not bring more offsprings to a world of scarce resources, as most birds and animals respect this law cos they bring in more when there's more food and less when there's less food Yes I agree, but I think that he should rather push for laws to enforce birth control while parents should be enlightened on the need for proper family planning. I think some high population countries are already implementing this. None-the-less, saying it's a crime to birth children is entirely wrong. |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by abbey621(m): 11:23pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: Again I'll disagree with you because you look at things at the macro instead of the micro. the average Nigerian parents do all their best to make sue their children are successful. They realize it is in their best interest if they give that child a fighting chance at succeeeding than standing by and doing nothing. This is why you have market women, meat sellers and so on, busting their butts off just so their children can feed, go to school and become great. If you say well it is their responsibility and they should expect nothing in return, I say that is BS! The same meat sellers and market women could have chosen to keep all their profits and spend it on the latest clothes, parties and so on. Furthermore you compare whites to Nigerians? If the poverty level in Nigeria swiched over to the white population they would collapse! Ordinary recession of 2006 to 2010, see as businesses collapsed and many people committed suicide. The whites are only able to set up ffunds for their kids because the resources and facilities are present. Even at that, those who set up funds or have resources left over after their deaths are less than 20% of the white population, especially in the U.S, majority of people are living paycheck to paycheck, do not be deceived! |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by ZIMDRILL(m): 12:44am On Feb 08, 2019 |
abbey621: disagree cool i still maintain my stance its parents responsibility, thats what there are supposed to do, there is no two ways about it simple, if you dont want responsibililty then dont have kid As people we dont learn we breed kids as source of income, we take them as investments 1 Like |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by abbey621(m): 12:55am On Feb 08, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: And I maintain my stance that any parent that gives the children the basic necessity is being responsible, if they can afford extra then fine but if not let no one judge them. Fine you don't owe your parents anything, feel free to abandon them and let them rot and die...Wetin concern me! |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:46am On Feb 08, 2019 |
abbey621: the moment a child is born the responsibility comes by default whether you like it not as a parent its your responsibility to provide what is required by law at the same time you are responsible for yourself as parent children will help if you want help not most african tradition whereby the moment your start working at eg 25 your father sort of let you take responsibility for the remaining 5 children 2 are in primary skol 2 in secondary and 1 in uni at the same time there are asking when are you getting married ? you get married at 27 still you are responsible for your brothers and sister at 28 your parents are asking when are you having child, financially you are not ready as already you are taking care of 5 people before even your own child is born my friend the moment we start really planning of kids poverty cycle can be broken 1 Like |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by abbey621(m): 2:01am On Feb 08, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: Look at the bold part of your comment, can you show me where in the laws of Nigeria that it states parents must provide 3 square meals for their children? Can you show me where it states that parents must send their children to universities? Go back and read my comments, you'll notice I keep mentioning basic necessities, this is what the law covers, whatever extra parents choose to do is not a right but a privilege, take it or leave it! |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by Chukabiz1961(m): 6:08am On Feb 08, 2019 |
Debramaye:Don't mind me. |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by skukimania(f): 7:52am On Feb 08, 2019 |
Hardrive: How e wan take win? Meanwhile, India government should even encourage him with his anti-natalist movement. #populationreductionthings# |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by XwhY(m): 9:13am On Feb 08, 2019 |
Odinz: You were making some reasonable points until in your last paragraph. Have you considered the pain of committing suicide? Logically, one might not get the main motive of the man about the write up or his actions. I believe his main point is people should not give birth to children they can't take care of and the children owe the parents nothing in that regard. |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:29pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
abbey621: take of your blinkers people being ignorant of the law it doesnt mean the law doesnt exist i never mention any specif like 3 meals per day, most people and me said looking after them, there are your own products you look after them in the best way you can but at the same time maintaining basic human rights having a child is like committing a crime, get caught and sent to serve your time if you dont want to be sent to jail dont commit a crime |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by Odinz(m): 4:44pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
XwhY: I guess I was not being too considerate there.
I agree with this. |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by rhames(m): 4:50pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
massmediang: Teacher : Student, summarise this story in one word. Student : Lunacy |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by ghettochild4u(m): 4:53pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
This reminds me of a part of 224 kataka where one character was telling the neighbours kids don't owe their parents anything as it was their decision to bring em to this world so they should never expect anything from their kids even when they have their own families too |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by abbey621(m): 6:11pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: Then what's your argument? My main argument is that basic necessity fulfilled by parents is more than adequate, anything extra is a privilege not a right and n law can enforce that. If you agree fine, if not then please stop wasting my time and have a good day! |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:42pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
abbey621: you are the one who diverted it to basic and what so ever my main point was parents make it as if it was a favour to look after you when it is what there are supposed to do, they emotionally blackmail as if it was someone's job to look after you |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by abbey621(m): 9:09pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: I've never seen a responsible parent do that, no responsible parent would say they are doing you a favor by raising you but that does not mean they don't have realistic expectations of you. Every responsible parent wants their sons or daughters to succeed. They won't rest till you succeed by assisting physically, emotionally and spiritually. If you think it's too much to take care of them once you succeed then by all means feel free to abandon them. We have parents that won't even send you and will use their money on drinks, parties and so on, what will you do? Kill them? If it's your right to have parents take care of you, it is also the rights of parents to expect you to take care of them once you make it, I think this is fair, unless the child is a Bastaaard! |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by baratech: 8:10pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Madness |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by Godwin2019(m): 9:12pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
What Are You Even Saying, So Because They Are Poor, They Should Not Enjoy Thier Marriage Again, Please Whether Rich Or Poor Married Couples Must Reproduce. |
Re: Indian Man To Sue His Parents For Giving Birth To Him Without His Consent by Godwin2019(m): 7:46am On Jan 01, 2020 |
BigIyanga:So Because They Don't Have Money Now, They Should Not Have Children, I Wonder How Some People Reasons |
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