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Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by Timekeeper: 8:22am On Jun 18, 2019 |
I would love to know the best ladies prefers. Who would you choose between? A guys that loves you, cares for you, adores you and treat you as if you are the only lady in this world but you don't really love him like that Or A guy that doesn't really love you, he is just your close frnd but you love him. You care for him but he doesn't really love you. And he is probably the reason you don't love the guy that cares 4u genuinely If you are told to settle down with one, who would you choose between the two? Cc: Saff Pocohantas Mannabbqgirlls Queenice Onyi22 MissRaine Makydebbie PrimadonnaO ImaIma1 (my married nairaland crush) MissSweet mercy0008 Funmisticqueen chiommy123 zinnyzee QueenSekxy Daeylar sochey MissSweet ibkayee |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by lilmax(m): 8:27am On Jun 18, 2019 |
A guy that doesn't really love you, he is just your close frnd but you love him. You care for him but he doesn't really love you. And he is probably the reason you don't love the guy that cares 4u genuinely this makes sense to you? or you don't know how Nigerian women are operated? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by Obainoneandonly(m): 8:52am On Jun 18, 2019 |
the question is for ladies. let me park here and read comments form our beloved ladies 12 Likes
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Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by EngrMcDon(m): 8:54am On Jun 18, 2019 |
The ladies should talk o, some of them can do crazy things when in love |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:01am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Love alone would not do it for me in a marriage or relationship. I need the one that would understand me.I don't even know how to love so it is better the guy has the upperhand in that area(love or understanding) To me understanding summarises love Just understand me 11 Likes |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by Phenomenal16(f): 9:04am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Timekeeper:...the guy that loves me anytime any day |
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Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by ibkayee(f): 9:08am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Guy who loves me any day lol 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:51am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Timekeeper: There's one thing my Literature teacher, Mrs Julie back in SS3 said to us; which I'll never forget. She said if at any point in life we find ourselves confused on which man to pick, we should make sure we choose he who loves us the most. At that time, I didn't really know much about love. I'd never had a boyfriend. But having grown and had experiences over the years, I realise that women love easily, but men don't. So when you find a man who truly loves you and shows it in every damn way, hold fast to him. Didn't the Bible say a woman is cursed to love her husband? A woman would more easily come to love who cares for her and f*cks her. So when you put your mind to it, it's a lot easier. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by LordKO(m): 9:57am On Jun 18, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: Understanding is it. It should always be the bond, if it's dating - with something bigger "oneness" as the target if it's marriage because it's the zenith of understanding. Feeling may be mutual, but love will always remain a man's forte while submissiveness a woman's forte. A rational you like this will always be a better you. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:00am On Jun 18, 2019 |
LordKO:The bold is not for me sir. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by LordKO(m): 10:04am On Jun 18, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: lol. How can you achieve understanding if love doesn't agree/meet submissiveness (not servility)? 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by missimelda01(f): 10:05am On Jun 18, 2019 |
I'll choose a man that loves me but I should at least like him enough to be with him, hopefully the likeness will develop into love someday. If I have my way I'd rather be with someone who loves me as much as I love him. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:15am On Jun 18, 2019 |
LordKO:Who said they had to meet each other. There is no manual for relationships.love and submission is not the only thing that matters in a relationship or marriage and there are other factors and to me understanding is of high importance it summarises both(love and submission and whatever you might add) and understanding matters to both parties. I believe in mutuality so if it has to be submissiveness(I am not a submissive person by nature and I don't plan on being one now) and love and whatever factors I expect it to be mutual not just from me but both of us with that we can reach understanding. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by MJBOLT: 10:17am On Jun 18, 2019 |
all this girls up there telling lies,they will go after the guy that does not love them and use the guy that loves them to pass away time 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:18am On Jun 18, 2019 |
MJBOLT:Commissioner for women affairs na so dem to tell you You are in no position to speak for all women |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by MJBOLT: 10:26am On Jun 18, 2019 |
i have seen it happen many times,the guy that care,adore,loves,treat a lady well always end up in the friendzone while the other guy will get all the love,care and attention from the girl AmazonTopaz: 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:27am On Jun 18, 2019 |
MJBOLT: Not always true |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by MJBOLT: 10:28am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Biglittlelois,wake up sleepy sleepy
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Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by Biglittlelois(f): 10:31am On Jun 18, 2019 |
MJBOLT: The Bible says "husband love your wife, wife submit to your husband" that is my stand on that, sorry M.J I had to go religious 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by LordKO(m): 10:32am On Jun 18, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: Love and submissiveness are compound products of goodness - unfortunately goodness (or an entity) changes its form when talking about mutuality. Variance doesn't automatically mean negative - at least not in this case - so submissiveness will always remain a variant of love. This is just like a woman is a different form of another human being, man - difference doesn't mean inequality. 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:37am On Jun 18, 2019 |
LordKO:I never talked about inequality but mutuality. All these things you mentioned goodness, love submission and what have you are human attributes or characteristics meaning such can be found in both genders.So why stereotyping saying only women got to do that and only men got to do this? |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by MJBOLT: 10:40am On Jun 18, 2019 |
i talk am,las las you will friendzone the guy that treats you well. Biglittlelois: 2 Likes
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Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:41am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Abeg it has to be balanced, equal love so that one will not be taken for granted. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:42am On Jun 18, 2019 |
MJBOLT: Wow you are really in love with her, that's why you've been ignoring my mentions cos you are scared to admit the obvious truth, lol I won't bite nah 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by Deepfeel(m): 10:42am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Timekeeper: Women don't marry for love na , Regina married Ned not because of love |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by Biglittlelois(f): 10:45am On Jun 18, 2019 |
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Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by Biglittlelois(f): 10:46am On Jun 18, 2019 |
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Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:48am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Ma'am I respect you here because most of your post always makes sense especially yesterday regarding what women brings to the table in a relationship so please kindly ignore me. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by MJBOLT: 10:50am On Jun 18, 2019 |
all ladies are the same in that regard,ignore and friendzone the caring guy but give attention and care to the non caring guy Biglittlelois: |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by Biglittlelois(f): 10:53am On Jun 18, 2019 |
MJBOLT: Lol okay. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by Texman21: 11:02am On Jun 18, 2019 |
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