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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Raalsalghul: 6:07pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
ornicus:This small sense you're making should not evaporate in the movie section. 1 Like |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Elliot2(m): 6:08pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
Twenty years time from now,over 20% of those who said No will end up average or below with average or below husbands and children. We all will never be rich but it is good to dream. Time and seasons must happen to us all. 2 Likes |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by felaismyhero(m): 6:09pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
Tallesty1:you have a point.but a guy in that condition shouldnt try and propose,it is wrong.building a family is expensive! |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:10pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
AntiBru.tus:They'll blackmail you with singlehood like you can't be single and be happy. 1 Like |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:10pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: What’s the matter with you I have one handsome aboki gateman right here waiting for you to join him in the one room building we built for him. He is a very hard worker and he has very big plans. Don’t miss this opportunity oh You know your evening newspaper days are ending and your suya paper days are beginning |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:11pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
Godoverevery: Dr Pastor Olukoya is an exception and not the rule. Women in recent years don't want to suffer this way and i would never encourage my Sister or female friend to. It's better to be single as a lady than live with this. Then, when or if you eventually become rich and want to cruise your way into numerous women's pants for fun because you now have money. The ball is in your court & no one can stop you. Lest i forget your children, they deserve a better life. You cannot bring them up in this situation. Life is simple Bro. 1 Like |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by DBossNG(m): 6:11pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Kingosytex(m): 6:12pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
pcguru1: Like you rightly pointed out, some have visions but no drive at all, i see no reason why a girl that loves a girl who has vision but currently broke should be discouraged like many commenters are saying. Am gonna give you some instances, the former managing director of Chivita fruits juice is my town man, he had absolutely nothing when he married his wife but he had vision and his wife believed in him. Secondly, one of the notable oil dealers in Enugu also started from the scratch with his wife but today you know the rest. |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by ImaIma1(f): 6:12pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Most of such guys only exist on this forum. I am beginning to think that Nairaland is breeding negativity in the guys on this forum. They just have this mindset of poverty...being poor, victims, etc. Any lady who doesn't marry or date a poor guy is a golddigger or many other names that they choose to use. Who will now marry the comfortable or rich guys? 2 Likes |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:12pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Lool |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:13pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
Raalsalghul: Keep following me. You will expand your narrow horizons and learn to start using your brain. Good you have taken the first step to emancipation from slavery to comic books. There is hope for you yet. |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Mummymahdi(f): 6:13pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
the northern muslims, the man only build or rent a house, parent of d bride bring everything e.g set of bedings, all kitchen utencils including bag of rice, maize, flour, sugar 20litres of cooking oil, packs of maggi etc. so also the cushions, tv set ., carpets and all rubber buckets, cups, warmers, flasks and foodflasks etc is very common here, this is the exact room of a common northern guy b4 he marries 1 Like |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:14pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
I beg all the girls on this forum ooo, nor marry this kind man say you wan help am oooo, u don’t have to be rich to live a bit better than this ooo....this one poverty no get season 2 ooooo....he go use u do ritual live.. |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by luminouz(m): 6:14pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls:Lol,no one wants to be poor...let alone want it for their kids But if you believe in his vision and drive(very important), things are guaranteed to turn around. I also know you are not redundant too. Between your hustle and his bustle,your kids will drink Nestlé! 1 Like |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by PabloAndreas(m): 6:15pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
Samakus:and why dafuq would a guy living in dat condition think he's ready to marry?...so he wants to bring his wife and innocent kids into a world of hardship...set urself ryt first...marriage doesn't define a man |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:15pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
ornicus: Give to these NL guys sisters. Obviously all their sisters married these kinda men with DRIVE. I no do! |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Kingosytex(m): 6:15pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO: If not for the fact that i don't argue with fools, i would have given you excess dosage of the insults you desire. Learn how to respect people's views. Its an advice. |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by CzarChris(m): 6:18pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
Truth be told, no man in this condition ahould ever consider marriage no matter the age. Why will a man subject someone's daugther to this kind of life. Hustle and move out from this kind of dump. |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Godoverevery: 6:18pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
ornicus:lol ....I don't no if u a guy or a lady but let me share u ds. my dad married my mum in a one room in idi-araba lagos..... my elder brother was born there in a face me I face you. they later moved to a two room in mushin Lagos face me i face u..public toilet...public tap....infact me and my bro fetch water on our head from d next street.....I was born there with my lil sis.....we grew up there and it was in 1999 everything changed for us......my dad travelled to Saudi Arabia to work as a nurse...cos he was a nurse at Luth den...but d pay was never enuff.....but wen he got to saudi....we were able to move to surulere to into a 3 bedroom.. bought two cars.benz 190 and lady corrola..my mum endure for gud 14yr minus courtshipof 6yrs to enjoy life.......so u have no idea of ow d early stages of my family were so is common sense u just shut up. |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:18pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
Kingosytex: Okay now that you put it like that and use those examples, it make sense then and true. Because I see a lot of people who talk more than executing so it's way I have that mindset. |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:18pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Na them go help us marry them. I don't live in such an environment. Then I will go marry a man living in such. Like that is not enough, his ego won't allow him move to my place, I will go join him in that room. I will start walking on eggshells, so that my actions will not be misconstrued as disrespect. Marrying a comfortable man isn't all about greed, it helps to protect his ego and give the woman peace. This guy is best with his class, not me. 1 Like |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by ImaIma1(f): 6:19pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
Quorax: He should use the WICKED DRIVE to make money and improve his standard of living first. |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by felaismyhero(m): 6:20pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
ornicus:lol.but bro,it is funny that guys can marry ladies in this condition-that was the 'turn it around' i expected! |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by djon78(m): 6:21pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
When poorer people than this post are marrying everyday with children littered all the places. To each his own Money doesn't even equate happiness And that condition may not always remain like that. Contentment is the key Rich or poor A lot of the rich people you see today many came from very poor background. As in poor of the poor. But today those that were rich in those days are not there match in money. So life turns around for people Life is not always constant Some guys ridiculed have gone on to make something good for themselves One thing I have discovered is that most materialistic women that come online to rant, can't even add value to made guys. Most made guys don't even go for those kind of women They are very choosy when it comes to picking a woman When it comes to choosing a woman they are very wise. 2 Likes |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Kingosytex(m): 6:21pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
pcguru1: Always understand that for the fact that a person is broke today doesn't mean that he will remain so. Situations change. |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Godoverevery: 6:21pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:yea........wat do u expect from an average Nigeria lady......d only way dey can make it in life ....... LOL the rich marry the rich........ |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:23pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
Godoverevery: Dude don't project your sisters on me o. I work for my money, been working since I was 21. I will never be blackmailed into marrying such a man. NEVER. 1 Like |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by ImaIma1(f): 6:24pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Most of the guys are commenting with the current state of their pockets and bank accounts. If they get good jobs and are staying in decent apartments, won't they expect ladies to marry them? They think that its only when they are poor that they should be considered for marriage |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:25pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
Godoverevery: So basically you were stone poor. Your dad was a nurse and your mum was a trader. Your only stroke of luck was that your dad managed to get a job as a nurse in Saudi Arabia. If not for that you would still be in the face me I face you. As a guy from a medical family, whose dad was in Saudi Arabia for 10 years from 1990 to 2000, I say your story is bullsheeet. Oya tell me where your dad worked and how many times you visited him. My old man was in tabuk at one time and dhuba at another. |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Elliot2(m): 6:25pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
It is crassness to believe that a man who is broke does not deserve love,especially from a girl above his means. Love is a feeling and not commodity to be traded with money. My elder brother had is first girlfriend pregnant in the university; he didn't have that kind of room to call his own. He was still depending on our mother for everything. Her parents didn't accept it because of his poor background. The girl had to stay with my mum until she delivered and immediately left him. After University, my brother didn't get work for several years,and had to sleep under bridges to hustle. But today,his first daughter stays with him in Australia. Her mum and some of her family members have equally been taken there. This was the same broke boy her family members nearly killed for dating their daughter. please let's be humble. 100yrs to come,there will still be poor men and women. 3 Likes |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:26pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
luminouz:And what if he doesn't have a vision? See, I am not saying there's anything bad in starting small, or having prospects, but thinking of getting married in such a condition is suicide. As a woman, I won't be helping him by saying 'Yes'. |
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by PabloAndreas(m): 6:28pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
And why dafuq does a guy living in dat condition think he's ready to marry?...just so he can bring his wife and innocent kids into a world of hardship...set urself ryt first marriage doesn't define a man |
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