Nitah1:
Call it off now...i am typing this with regrets in my heart.

I was asked to make a choice,the question was "whose report will you believe,God or Doctor"?
I said" God"
My first Baby is negative while my two yr old beautiful baby is positive,the pain is unbearable.
Even though i do not doubt God's faithfulness to heal her but seen her during0 crisis is is not easy.
I spend 24k every month on STC.

Cheato64:
i also know someone they are both AS but non of their 4kids is SS and they also have twins among them

Malawian:
Even the AA and AS is not certain! You still have to test for something called "Beta Thalasemia" from the AA. OTHERWISE, prepare to have an SS kid.
Believe me, Lightening has already struck twice in my family for us to have come into awareness of "Beta Thalasemia"

kenny160:
thank you... Future couples should try as much as they can not to say because of love they will marry eachother when their genotype are not compactable.. The experience of sick child will kill the love. I just pity the female na them dey suffer past. Thou during my brother own my father stood beside my mum but that doesn't stop dre son from dyn.. God will help this OP to move on o

MariaAngeles:

Are you truly from Malawi ?

Babawon1:
what make my condition worse than death. I prefer death than living. I use to wish I never exist. as a young child rain must not touch me I will have severe pain. and u said priapism is nothing , at age 10 knowing u can't have erection, u can't have a wife. u can't had sex. am 24 now, av never had erection since 14yrz. is than not worse than death. u can wish it for ur children if its nothing

Malawian:

I am Igbo Nigerian.

GenBuhari:

I don't see how your condition is merits the scaremongering. Many others suffer as much pain through illnesses that is not necessarily hereditary as I mentioned earlier.
Nothing you mentioned justifies saying you wished you never existed.
It appears all the negative propaganda and fearmongering around your condition , has made believe the propaganda and make you hate your life.

MariaAngeles:
They claim STC cures SS, how true is it ?

jesutakewe:
@Op, you are so selfish. So your reason for wanting to marry her is because of what she does for you. I'm sure she also baths you and wears you a napkin.

It was so easy for her to move on because you offered little or nothing to the relationship, atleast none that you mentioned. You're too lazy and desperate to snatch you a wife.

Cheato64:
I and Oma have dated for more than 2yrs, I intend getting married to her. When we started dating she told me from onset her genotype is AS. I taught I was AA because I did the test when I was like 10yrs.

We decided to go for HIV test just to be sure even though we had unprotected sex. On doing the HIV test, the attendance whom we didn't ask, checked our genotype, performed all the test because she taught we were couple and since it's an Anglican Church hospital and we came together, it means we are planning to get married.

The result came out HIV negative for both of us, blood group O+, while she's AB and genotype we were both AS. She insist we call it off, 2yrs courtship just like that.

Oma is a nicest person I have ever known after my mom, she takes care of me, I eat healthy, I don't repeat clothes both inner and outer wears. She makes sure I work out regularly, I don't do house chores yet my friends envy me whenever they come visiting.

Name any good thing Oma has it. Now Oma has moved on but I can't, I kept on looking for a lady like Oma, now I understand why most men talk trash about Nigerian women (no offense) and when I meet a lady the first thing I ask is her genotype.

I can recall I asked a lady her genotype even before asking for her name. I can't keep a relationship all I think about is my sweet Oma. She has moved on so she claim but we still talk and she told me she has a man right now even though we still sextexting, we talk how much we miss each other it's been over 6 months since we last saw, she relocated to delta while am in Enugu.

I invited her which she decline but invited me which I accepted I intend going this weekend and I will ask her to marry me, if we get married there is a possibility our first 2 children won't carry the sickle cell anemia. My friend is telling me not to do it but my mind is made up.

Smellingrillmea:


There is nothing shameful in an abortion.......especially when it has not gotten to the stage it will feel pain..... you are very ignorant .....pls learn to read more

Winneygirl:

I heard this a long time ago when he was a minister in abuja. That in an interview, he was asked if he wasn't scared of being killed due to his tough ministerial activities, he said he was SS and was already lucky to have lived so long.

I heard o. I didn't watch the interview.

Nitah1:
Since i have started using it there is great improvement,no more constant crisis.


There is presently but is not severe unlike before.


It's good i must confess.

Cheato64:
it's a risk I will take

MariaAngeles:
Oh wow! More strength to you

Chi59:

Don't be a f.ool for love. That love will vanish if you enter gutter.
I am the second child of my parents. I'm SS. I know a few people who are first born SS. Educate yourself.
Love is not worth the pain.