Fgwa:
House plz don't mind my English

I have been married for ten years plus now, we have 3 kids. we are living in peace till date, but these days I find myself cheating on my wife with another woman, now the strang woman is pregnant for me, I tried advising her the other way round but she declined saying I should just go and leave her with her pregnancy, that she will be fine. Dear house, how can my wife wake up one day and discovered I have a child out of wedlock and to her I am a saint? My strang woman on the other hand said she want a child from me so that after I go she can be seeing me, that at her age she can not abort even though she have two kids with her ex Husband.
What will I do to save my marriage? Am afraid my wife will be troubled if she finds out.

If the reverse were to be the case now we no go hear word o.
Anyways, tell your wife about it now rather than concealing it, she might find out later.

Openbusiness:
He didn't commit adultery. The woman he had an affair with is not a married woman. What he did is fornication.

Oga please try and check dictionary/google before you correct me.
Adultery is a voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person that is not his/her spouse. It does not neccesarily mean that the both has to be married. Once a married man/woman engage in sexual intercourse outside their marital home.. It is adultery.
Fornication is sex btw unmarried folks.

FManager:


Your face should be on those beauty cream commercials. You look handsome by the way.

thank you sir. You must look beautiful too.. I guess

lefulefu:
she go use the child dey exhort money from u.Anyway its a good thing cos at least that will teach u lesson to be going about chooking ur pingolo in random women

abi o, uncle lefulefu

Alexaonfleek:

Penis people on the beat again.
This is the female version of paternal fraud.

On a serious note pls just tell your wife.
Beegggg her like your life depends on it,because it kinda does.
Any decision she takes,respect it.

What would you have done if you're in the position of the wife?

LedRock:
Wetin this one dey feel like na OP get time sef, assuming he get money and game na the two women go dey beg

You this small boy,you don't know anything.

Albertone:
What would you have done if you're in the position of the wife?

Tbh I don't know what I would've done.
Just thinking about the answer to your question is giving me heartache.

Powerfly:
You take a Queen to the alter and make her promise you forever and always... Then you slip out of your skin and start cheating.. Disrespecting God, and the love of your life.
How would you feel if you found out that one of your kids aren't yours? You'll feel betrayed right?
you betrayed her love for you and you counted all her efforts void.
I would love to insult and abuse you but hey!.. I have also cheated on a very beautiful, caring and loving girl i used to date back then and i regretted it.

But just have it mind that what you did can never be undone. And she may never forgive you. Las las God was right when he said 'thou shall not commit adultery' e bin get why. And na one of the why's be this ur matter now.

So you are planning to take a Queen to the alter? Shame! Don’t you get it? We don’t want women taking women to alter. It’s a straight society no inbetween

And why are you always talking about sex and adultery and fornication and prostitution? Shame on you

Zzor:
I hate you on behalf of your wife,i wish I have her number to reach her and reveal everything you did and hiding from her. You men don't appreciate good women,if she has been peppering you very well at home,you won't have dared such thing.Its not good to be too good for any man.

U started well but ended it up with hate.
If u go into marriage with this mentality u know that marriage no be relationship.

Easy!

Alexaonfleek:
Tbh I don't know what I would've done.
Just thinking about the answer to your question is giving me heartache.

I asked cos of your last sentence "Any decision she takes,respect it".
The decision might be a divorce yunno.I think it's best for him to decipher his wife's possible decision before telling her.

0KNM:
So you are planning to take a Queen to the alter? Shame! Don’t you get it? We don’t want women taking women to alter. It’s a straight society no inbetween

And why are you always talking about sex and adultery and fornication and prostitution? Shame on you

This guy.. Please don't crush on me oo. Btw i know... Learning how to read is one thing, while understanding is another thing.. We.. We.. We..
see your ugly, mumu, face.

DaInferno:
... the look on your face when cuming and the look on your face right now may look similar , you adulterous modafucka

You seriously would expect her to keep loving and respecting you as before? Not possible, you traded that love and respect all because of sex.

Fgwa:

I appreciate u bro. My biggest challenge is how to tell her. My biggest fear is, if my wife will ever love me again?

Albertone:


I asked cos of your last sentence "Any decision she takes,respect it".
The decision might be a divorce yunno.I think it's best for him to decipher his wife's possible decision before telling her.

lol
Do you really think that she won't find out eventually?

Powerfly:



[s]This guy.. Please don't crush on me oo. Btw i know... Learning how to read is one thing, while understanding is another thing.. We.. We.. We..
see your ugly, mumu, face[/s].

You mean I shouldn’t crush you with a tractors? Well, the hands of the law will soon crush you if you don’t desist from you bad ways

Ewu

Alexaonfleek:
lol
Do you really think that she won't find out eventually?

That's true tho.
Unless they abort the baby.

Chai!May we never find ourselves in this kind of mess.What will he even tell his wife?What will he say pushed him??
*sighs* It is well.

why you ignoring me

0KNM:

You mean I shouldn’t crush you with a tractors? Well, the hands of the law will soon crush you if you don’t desist from you bad ways

Ewu

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
why you ignoring me

I know you?

Zzor:
so you can still talk about harshness,that your wife must be an angel.Do you know there are women who will kill you for doing this

no woman has the right or moral jurisdiction to do such..if she can't forgive him, then life must go on, let them go thier separate ways, or are u trying to justify extreme violence in marriage?..madam never let ur emotions cloud ur judgment..

LINTUNE:
no woman has the right or moral jurisdiction to do such..if she can't forgive him, then life must go on, let them go thier separate ways, or are u trying to justify extreme violence in marriage?..madam never let ur emotions cloud ur judgment..

Hes not remorseful at all,see the way he quickly talked about harshness,i don't know if we are supposed to praise him,that aside,why are you still up by this time,kids are supposed to go to bed early and wake early,as the saying goes "early to bed early to rise makes a child healthy and strong

Fgwa:
House plz don't mind my English

I have been married for ten years plus now, we have 3 kids. we are living in peace till date, but these days I find myself cheating on my wife with another woman, now the strang woman is pregnant for me, I tried advising her the other way round but she declined saying I should just go and leave her with her pregnancy, that she will be fine. Dear house, how can my wife wake up one day and discovered I have a child out of wedlock and to her I am a saint? My strang woman on the other hand said she want a child from me so that after I go she can be seeing me, that at her age she can not abort even though she have two kids with her ex Husband.
What will I do to save my marriage? Am afraid my wife will be troubled if she finds out.

Go Bleep another Enstrange Woman and get her pregnant.

Is when you finish getting them pregnant that they become Enstrange and you remember you have a Woman at Home you called Wife.

What can we advice a Fool other than continue in your foolishness, cause at the end of your day, your Penis urge outways your Sense of Morality so you must go Bleep outside again.

Pls go and don't think your wife is stupid enough not to have noticed slight changes in you, even if she is not certain, She that got married to a Deceiver and Wolf in Sheep Clothing must get her mind ready for suspense, and drama.

Married Men and abortions are like 5&6, you can't control your senses and you think this is your last act of stupidity. Go and Bleep na, are you tired already? Go and get laid to another Lady and another and when you are done with them they become Enstrange Women.

LINTUNE:
no woman has the right or moral jurisdiction to do such..if she can't forgive him, then life must go on, let them go thier separate ways, or are u trying to justify extreme violence in marriage?..madam never let ur emotions cloud ur judgment..

Extreme violence exists in relationship.

Newton 3rd states for every action, they is an opposite direction reaction.

If your wife kills you for you been so stupid and bringing insult to her name, it's something you deserve and if after her investing her time and effort in making a home with you was built on lies and deceit just pray you don't meet people who have very thin skin for bullshit.

They will kill you for your Mother who failed to instill good and moral behavior in her Son, and wait for your God to do his job of Judgement.

Except it's an open relationship, then you know it's both consenting adults, if not you are joking with you life for acting with considering your spouse Emotions.

Zzor:
I hate you on behalf of your wife,i wish I have her number to reach her and reveal everything you did and hiding from her. You men don't appreciate good women,if she has been peppering you very well at home,you won't have dared such thing.Its not good to be too good for any man.

Good news is u has dumb as yor name sound..the boy fok a chic & the bloody ediooot chick trap him wit pikin. Instead of advising the innocent man , u start cussin like homeless parrot. Shame on u( no oofense)

Fgwa:
House plz don't mind my English

I have been married for ten years plus now, we have 3 kids. we are living in peace till date, but these days I find myself cheating on my wife with another woman, now the strang woman is pregnant for me, I tried advising her the other way round but she declined saying I should just go and leave her with her pregnancy, that she will be fine. Dear house, how can my wife wake up one day and discovered I have a child out of wedlock and to her I am a saint? My strang woman on the other hand said she want a child from me so that after I go she can be seeing me, that at her age she can not abort even though she have two kids with her ex Husband.
What will I do to save my marriage? Am afraid my wife will be troubled if she finds out.

Anyways bro, ignore this empty heads that cant advise simply becoz u fokk babe & pregnant her..its no big deal. Bro, all men fokk outside marriage. She simply trying to trap u.. bro all u simply need to do is tell yor wife somtin bad hav happen & break it to her slowly..but make u u tell her u can only tell her wot happen if she keep it between 2 of u. Juss tell her u was depress & u mistakenly fokk a woman for one night stand & u dint no she was married. ..she will get upset & get over it after few days..truss me

0KNM:

You mean I shouldn’t crush you with a tractors? Well, the hands of the law will soon crush you if you don’t desist from you bad ways

Ewu

Today that you said 'i' it's like i'm going to win today.. Eh! Thank God. If you're working fos NL Then leave me oo. I no dey collect allowee oo. My acct dry.

Zzor:
Hes not remorseful at all,see the way he quickly talked about harshness,i don't know if we are supposed to praise him,that aside,why are you still up by this time,kids are supposed to go to bed early and wake early,as the saying goes "early to bed early to rise makes a child healthy and strong

just shutup, ur silly jokes are becoming stale, be serious for once ok..back to the topic, that guys is a big fool apparently, but the wife has no right to go violent on him ok?

LINTUNE:
just shutup, ur silly jokes are becoming stale, be serious for once ok..back to the topic, that guys is a big fool apparently, but the wife has no right to go violent on him ok?

who is talking about violence here small boy,you simply misunderstood my earlier comment.who is joking with you to start with,can you say this to my face, i don't blame you,nairaland gave you that boldness

JohnOkolo:


Extreme violence exists in relationship.

Newton 3rd states for every action, they is an opposite direction reaction.

If your wife kills you for you been so stupid and bringing insult to her name, it's something you deserve and if after her investing her time and effort in making a home with you was built on lies and deceit just pray you don't meet people who have very thin skin for bullshit.

They will kill you for your Mother who failed to instill good and moral behavior in her Son, and wait for your God to do his job of Judgement.

Except it's an open relationship, then you know it's both consenting adults, if not you are joking with you life for acting with considering your spouse Emotions.

..are u encouraging violence in marriage ,cos of infidelity, do u mean she can kill me and live a life of regrets and condemnation , or she can just avoid jail by divorcing me and live life to the fullest, no human should place his/her happiness on a fellow human..guy u are really myopic for this comment, even an illiterate will not reason this way...so she should kill the man and end up in jil for life?, what would be her gain..what kind of ppl do we even have here in nairaland.. in as much as the op deserves all the evil things in this life, for what he did, would u advice the woman to do something this drastic, if she were ur sister?

JohnOkolo:


Extreme violence exists in relationship.

Newton 3rd states for every action, they is an opposite direction reaction.

If your wife kills you for you been so stupid and bringing insult to her name, it's something you deserve and if after her investing her time and effort in making a home with you was built on lies and deceit just pray you don't meet people who have very thin skin for bullshit.

They will kill you for your Mother who failed to instill good and moral behavior in her Son, and wait for your God to do his job of Judgement.

Except it's an open relationship, then you know it's both consenting adults, if not you are joking with you life for acting with considering your spouse Emotions.

..are u encouraging violence in marriage ,cos of infidelity, do u mean she can kill me and live a life of regrets and condemnation , or she can just avoid jail by divorcing me and live life to the fullest, no human should place his/her happiness on a fellow human..guy u are really myopic for this comment, even an illiterate will not reason this way...so she should kill the man and end up in jil for life?, what would be her gain..what kind of ppl do we even have here in nairaland.. in as much as the op deserves all the evil things in this life, for what he did, would u advice the woman to do something this drastic, if she was ur sister?

Zzor:
who is talking about violence here small boy,you simply misunderstood my earlier comment.who is joking with you to start with,can you say this to my face, i don't blame you,nairaland gave you that boldness

are u really stupid, or u just ignorant, oerhaps u are joking..do i look like a kid to u? can u say this shit to my face in person?..joke apart can u even stand in front of me nd talk in the manner..look if this is one of ur stupid jokes , just stop it..im at work, and i dont want one gal in a faceless forum to spoil my mood,...dont mention me again..chai imgine..i don suffer for this life...later if man beat this one to stupour them go talk sy him weak see as this small gal they challenge me cos she get fat for ss and bwest..cos say i get bby face?

LINTUNE:
are u really stupid, or u just ignorant, oerhaps u are joking..do i look like a kid to u? can u say this shit to my face in person?..joke apart can u even stand in front of me nd talk in the manner..look if this is one of ur stupid jokes , just stop it..im at work, and i dont want one gal in a faceless forum to spoil my mood,...dont mention me again..chai imgine..i don suffer for this life...later if man beat this one to stupour them go talk sy him weak see as this small gal they challenge me cos she get fat for ss and bwest..cos say i get bby face?

even if a man will beat me,definately not your type,i will so beat you that the shock will never leave your memory,you think I'm one weak lady,you are so wrong.You are so quick to get angry yet you attack people unnecessarily,i don't want you to have a bad day,so go in peace

Powerfly:



Today that you said 'i' it's like i'm going to win today.. Eh! Thank God. If you're working fos NL Then leave me oo. I no dey collect allowee oo. My acct dry.

But why are you g**? Don’t you know it’s a criminal offence in Nigeria? Don’t you know we don’t tolerate it?