dealing with relationship problems



Problems are a part of life ---
nothing's perfect and of
course, that goes as well with
relationships. You hear people
say it's a match made in
heaven or it's something
that's meant to be ---
however, that doesn't mean
just because you're in love,
you'll be living in bliss for the
rest of your life. To make any
relationship work, you have to make it happen --- it
requires time, effort and few hurting lessons along
the way. They say if it didn't hurt, you did all wrong
--- that's why being in romantic relationship is one of
the most fulfilling and rewarding experience in the
world. So to your romance alive, below are a few
thing to remember on dealing with relationship
problems --- and have more time for love and making
love.

*Control your temper. Talk it out. Whatever other
people say, believe in the saying that everything can
be settled calmly and diplomatically. No need for
violence or bloodshed. Although it's normal to get a
little out of control sometimes, you have to
remember that temper can be a very powerful and
destructive way to end something very beautiful.
Think it over.

*Curb that self-centeredness. We all have pride,
we know that. Sometimes we just can't help but put
our own happiness first thing in our to-do list.
However, when you've started to love someone, it's
important you become aware of your partners and
want and needs as well. It's a give and take
relationship.

*Learn how to compensate. Understand each
other. Hear each other out. Listen to what the other is
saying --- we always have that tendency that
whatever we say and think are right without much
effort of trying to comprehend the other. In a
relationship, it's essential you learn how to respect
each other.

*Give each other space. Give each other some
room to breathe in. There will be times you feel that
you're losing your individuality or that the
relationship is choking you up a bit. It's okay. Try to
step backward and let the other have some time with
himself.

*Love each other --- always. That's the entire
point. Love each other. Nothing can be more
important. It's all that matters --- plus a little work
out. Love is beautiful and be thankful if you're given
that gift. Deal with little things, stay in love and it
will surely get you a long way. And don't forget to
kiss and make up!

Doctor’s warning: No more bikini waxing!





⁠Bikini waxing⁠|

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It is claimed to increase the risk of skin infection and sexually transmitted diseases



If you're a beach babe and love to don that two-piece bikini, you might have to do without a regime that's a norm with most people...the bikini wax! Doctors are rining alarm bells over the regimen, saying it could be the worst thing to do to the skin.

(Doctor’s warning: No…)



What the claim was
As a eye opener doctor Emily Gibson, a family physician and director of the health centre at Western University, Washington, recently launched an appeal to end the "war on pubic hair", citing that it is increasing the risk of infection and of sexually transmitted diseases amongst young people. "Pubic hair removal naturally irritates and inflames the hair follicles, leaving microscopic open wounds. Frequent hair removal is necessary to stay smooth, causing regular irritation of the shaved or waxed area. When that is combined with the warm, moist environment of the genitals, it becomes a happy culture media for some of the nastiest bacterial pathogens," she wrote on the US medical website.

The announcement can quash one of the most popular trends of wellness and beauty, with salons everywhere offering patrons bikini waxing, laser hair removal we all as 'vajazzling' or doing a decoration of the genitals with jewels.

'IT's very harmful'
Apart from the time and money spent on the regime, a bikini wax is alarmingly low on the hygiene factor, say experts. Skin expert Dr Rashmi Shetty talks of how so many youngsters in Mumbai have come to her with skin problems after undergoing such a wax.

"What people don't realise is that pubic hair is there for a reason," she starts. "One, it acts as a cushion and protects against injury. In cases where you have to use a washroom in say a cinema or a mall, it can prevent from picking up skin infections as it acts as a shield. The other thing hair in the pubic area is thick so trying to yank it off can lead to pain and bleeding points, which further can cause folliculitis. And using non-sterile wax can cause boils and abscesses, which are very troublesome, so I would say trim the hair from the sides but take care or avoid a bikini wax where they just pull the hair out instantly." She is also against laser hair removal. "The skin is darker in these areas so chances of burns are higher when you do a laser hair removal," she adds.

Chance of diseases, too
If the beautician does not take the proper steps to ensure that her client will not become infected, it is dangerous. Dr Gibson also stated that herpes is also an increased risk, "due to the microscopic wounds being exposed to virus. It follows that there may be vulnerability to spread of other sexually transmitted diseases as well."

How it came about
The ancient Egyptians used a body-sugaring technique for hair removal. Then, a smooth, hairless body was considered as the standard of beauty. The bikini was introduced in France in 1946, and thus, the 'Brazilian' bikini wax has evolved. Extensive removal of pubic hair is now a common practice.

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The title isnt supposed to be taken literally!

1 and foremost every girl should keep a mystery to herself... cuz lets face it guys get bored easily!

2 if you and guy have just exchanged numbers dont call him or text him unless you're really interested. If he hasnt called or texted you in a week then don't bother, not your loss.

3 If he has called or texted within the next couple of days and asks you out, make sure there is a 5-7 day window before you 2 go out. Ex: If he asks you to go out tomorrow say you're busy and give him a day about 5-7 days later. Make sure he thinks you HAVE a life :]

4 Never bring up your ex's guys HATE THAT! & if he brings up his ex's then politely change the subject, he'll probaby get the hint.

5 its always best for the girl to be a strong figure, so he'll know he cant walk all over you. So dont be too nice but make sure you're not a complete jerk to him. Say thank you when he compliments you, but don't think you need to return the favor of complimenting him back. For every 3 compliments he gives you, give him 1 back. it's all a game...

6 it's good to make a guy laugh, they love to be entertained just as much as we do. So if there's an awkward moment make a joke or say something sarcastic(not rude or mean)

7 Hold off on kissing him your first date. Save it until your 2nd or 3rd... Some ppl cant wait til the 3rd haha And if the kissing is good or bad, tease him... Kiss his neck, breathe softly into his ear... it'll drive him crazy!

8 once you've started dating talk about both of your qworks or pet peeves it helps keep arguments at bay. And always do fun/new things with each other. It's best to not get romantic too fast it's better to be spontaneous for a while!

9 if he's busy find something to do, don't constantly call or text him. That makes you seem needy. And if you are the needy type FIGHT THE URGE, IT TOTALLY PAYS OFF! And dont always question guys they hate that as much as we do! Ex: He doesnt answer, he calls you back and your immediate reaction is "so what were you doin? you couldnt answer?!" makes things very hostile.

10 Always impose honesty. Make sure you let him know he can tell you anything, even if he screws up. But ladies dont always forgive them if they screw up 2x it's time to leave. However, forgive but dont always forget! And if you have a cheating problem, try to avoid situations of temptation! Relationships are 2way streets, it's a compromise.

11 if you're not happy with the relationship, it's better to call it quits. If you're asking your girls about if you should stay with him, you should already know that you cant hold on to it anymore.

12 if you're in a bad mood, give him a warning so if youre pms-ing and you snap he knows whats up!

13 it's not only up to guys to show they care, us girls need to do the same. Bake him cookies, or buy him a cute shirt... It's never about how much something costs, it matters if it came from the heart! but DONT EVER spoil a guy, they take advantage just like some girls do!

14 If you're in a rush to sleep with your significant other, try to wait a while. Guys like girls that play hard to get(***ually), even if you've been dating for 6months it's ok to not have ***! And if the *** is bad... well work on it! haha

15 Remember, treat your men the way you would wanna be treated!

16 If your boy bosses you around dont stand for it! stand your ground. If you feel like wearing a skirt do it. But if you look trashy.. then ya he knows wat hes saying, it's usually out of love.

17 AND LADIES PLEASE!!! DONT GET TATTOOS WIT YOUR BF'S... those tattoos are considered curses PLUS if you break up youre stuck wit their name in ur face constantly!

Hope it works!

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ALL MEN ARE THE SAME

"Men are all the same." I have heard that expression so many times from all sorts of women. From the women that I have spoken to, they always tell me that "there are not many decent guys left. If you think you had found one he goes and shows you that he is exactly like the last one." Is this true? Do you agree with this expression or disagree?

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Hello, my love, husband

This is my first letter to you. I never really thought anything of writing a letter to you, my future husband, until my friend esther’s wedding. I was a bridesmaid in her wedding and remember her giving a journal to her brother with a note right before the ceremony. In the journal were letters upon letters to him that she had been writing for years.

I can’t imagine what his thoughts were when he read those letters, written by the hand of a teenager caught up in figuring out who she was, where her place in the world belonged, and who she would one day give her heart to.

And so I’m writing you this letter. Right now, at the moment in my life, I have no idea who you are. I have no idea if I’ve met you or if you’re some stranger I will one day come in contact with. I have no idea if you live in Florida or somewhere foreign. I have no idea if you know Jesus or if you’re an atheist.

It’s exciting, thrilling, and scary. We haven’t even begun our love story yet and I think about you on a daily basis. I wonder what we will fight about and what our home will be like. I wonder about the look on your face when I walk down the aisle in a beautiful, white wedding gown. I wonder if we’ll fight to save our marriage if things get rocky…or if we’ll forget the reason we fell in love in the first place.

Do know this, dear husband. I love you. I love you to my very core. I love the man you will one day be, the man I will stand beside and respect.

I’m nowhere near the woman God has called me to be. I have major sins and major faults that I need to take care of. I don’t think I’m ready for you yet. But I am waiting for you and I am holding on to my romantic, albeit naive heart, knowing I will give it to you one day, fully trusting you to keep it safe.

I love you.

Your future wife,
To my love.

No name (bt I call u my paradise)

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The most common issue that you face while sorting out your relationship problems is where and how to start with. Talking about the most common relationships is a daunting task because they vary in their range and complexity. It becomes difficult for the individual alone to go towards a solution. But thankfully, now a days there is professional help that is available and can be sought where the councilors try to help you as much as possible.

The most common problems faced by the modern couples in the contemporary times are the following

Comfort levels and compatibility

There are several factors that govern the compatibility quotient between couples. Their likes, dislikes , habits and day to day behavior towards certain things and situations all come under this umbrella. Without adequate levels of compatibility it is natural to have problems in relationship.

Level of intimacy

Physical and emotional intimacy is a governing factor for a love relationship. You need to know how your partner is feeling mentally or physically all the time and support him/her on those aspects. Same applies to you partner too. If there is no intimacy, there is a disconnect and people tend to fall apart from a relationship.

Violence

Domestic violence is a commonly reported problem that ends marriages and long term togetherness.

Inequality in the couple

Not being loyal to the partner.

Infidelity is another top reason why people in a relation generate hatred and dismay in a relation and choose to move out. Always try to be loyal to your partner as it is good for your physical as well as mental health.

Not communicating well enough.

Sexual problems and orientation.

The day started out as a glorious sunshine-filled Sunday. My family and I were at the neighborhood softball game watching our team lose again.

Nearby I heard one ballplayer say, "Real men don't hit a ball like a girl. Maybe if some players learned how to batter up we just might win a game." His darling dog nodded in agreement.

This piqued my interest. I thought what else "Don't Real Men Do?" I wondered if I could come up with a lengthy list.

So I thought I would ask the spectators. At first they thought that maybe I should sit in the shade since the 93* temperatures might be affecting me. Yet, they were more than pleased to participate. I also found friends and family members who were more than happy to oblige with their witty responses.

This article in no way is meant to ridicule men. Men are awesome! They are just easy to poke fun at. In my opinion they are more capable of laughing at themselves than women are.

These comments are based on opinions. I don't agree with all of them. Just some. Feel free to have your voice heard in the comment section. We will all be interested in your points of view. I'll be sure and share this article with the ballplayer and his darling dog.



Real Men Don't...

Undercover Men

Start drama, they avoid it

Wear earrings

Order drinks that come with umbrellas

Say NO to their wives

Men are appreciated even if they don't always say or do the right thing at the right time

Shave their legs

Talk down to people, they talk to them

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Hinder their emotions

50 Things Real Women Don't Do...

Dye their hair

Wear pinky rings

50 Things Real Women Don't Do...
50 Things Real Women Don't Do is a companion hub to my article of 50 Things Real Men Don't Do. It's all about being equals...

Wear nail polish, including clear coats

Wear pink unless it's a ribbon for Breast Cancer Awareness

Neglect their yearly physicals and PSA tests because real men don't go to the doctors

Walk behind their significant other, they walk beside them

Sexually, mentally or physically abuse women or children

Listen to Coldplay

Sing along to Justin Bieber

Wear eyeliner

Lie

Cheat

Carry purses

Ask for directions, they prefer to get lost and waste fuel

Use LOL

Go to the potty, they go to the john, head, Men's Room or washroom

Wear skirts, unless it's a kilt and never, ever go commando

Get facials or skin peels

Sit cross-legged unless you really "have to go!"

Bathe in cologne, a little goes a long way

Have hands that are soft as a baby's bottom

Scratch themselves in public, they should save that for the comfort of their sofa

Wear high-waisted jeans

Whine or complain

Gossip like a woman

Speak with food in their mouth or while they are chewing

Drink until they vomit

Watch Chick Flicks unless they are promised "something" in return

Have to prove themselves

Eat quiche

Pay for "it"

Wear Speedos unless they are in a swimming competition or from Europe

Zumba!

Watch Soap Operas

Make bodily sounds in public, no matter which hole it's coming from

Wear ponytails

Use a pair of socks anywhere else except on their feet

Ask, "What's for dinner?" they cook dinner

Expect things to miraculously happen, they make things happen

Leave their toe nail clippings scattered about the floor, since they could become weapons of mass destruction

Participate in life threatening behavior unless they have significant life insurance

Break up with a partner via TEXT

Need a list to tell them that they are a real man!

Nigerian Girls...How to Date Them?

Dating Nigerian girls and being able to handle them effectively is one of the few problems of a young Nigerian male, A Nigerian girl, like every other girl in the world is always out to get the best from the crowd, If I am a girl, I world also hope to get the best.

Women generally wants to get the best of all that came knocking,

you know pretty girls have lots of men knocking on their door and they are not definitely going to open to everyone that did knock,

they are looking for the best, they are going to flung the door wide-open only for the best guy or should I say...the toughest guy.

If you are looking to date Nigerian pretty girls, you need to get confident because you are in for a competition, you can be the winner today and lose out to another guy tomorrow, all women are like that, you don't seem to get a firm grip at the beginning till they are pretty sure you are the right one.

you remember those days you really think you have gotten her, then you called a minute later and she refused to pick your call, either you have been toppled or she is just playing one of those Girl Games

Are you in need of a Nigerian girlfriend or are you looking to find a pretty black girls to wed, are you stuck in Nigeria without a pretty girl by your side and you are hoping and yearning secretly to have some pretty face beside you?? are you looking to fall in love?? fall in love??

here is the basic ingredient required for getting a Nigerian girl and every other pretty face out there in the world. Like I previously stated, Nigerian girls are looking for the best in the crowd so if you really want to look at her and get her then you need to get above the rest of the guys, how? Ask them to form a circle then climb above them? or do you climb a taller builder and scream "hey y'all I am now above?" How do you get above the rest??

simply by changing your game, by not whimpering when you are talking to girls and by not covering up your timidity by giving excessive compliments, guys do that a lot...just pouring compliments on pretty girls and thinking it is working, while what works with girls is different.

Women and Confident Guys

Women are looking for confident guys, statistics show that confident guys are more likely to pick up pretty girls than the rest of the men and why is that? Girls and even the world knows that if you have it going for you, you would be out-spoken and confident, if you think you are handsome and cool and great, you would be confident, you would approach the world and talk to people with more

confidence and less inferiority complex, so when you walk to a pretty girl and forget what you need to say, it means you yet to fix your game, it means you're still scared of women...it means you are not yet ready to have them, it is another way of telling them you are not yet matured enough.

And pretty Nigerian girls don't date guys that are not matured enough, you probably land among the many that get them today, and a more tougher guy shows up tomorrow and you would be shelved aside.

Confidence plays an important role in dating and effective communication with women.

Use Fewer Compliments.

Most guys that are successful with women are often the bad guys...the kind of guys the nice guys call the bad guys, but the get most of the beautiful girls The bad guys don't usually give lots of compliments, they don't treat women like gold but they still have pretty girls beat a path to their homes.

I once got a mail from a guy about another guy who is trying to take away his girlfriend, according to the guy the intruder is just using his girl friend, he is pretty sure he doesn't love her that's actually why he mailed me - to inquire why his girlfriend is falling for a public jerk, who everybody know to be a bad guy.

Bad guys look tough and confident...they approach women with great confidence...they give women the impression that they are mature and their little game of hard-to-get gives them added advantage. They make women feel like they know what they are doing.

And that is probably the last thing I would be talking about here...know what you are doing!! or at least behave like you know.

Nigerian girls and every other girl out there wants to hang out with the guy that knows what he is doing. You need to know what you are doing before they could wrap themselves around you, no pretty Nigerian girl wants to be led by a confused guy

Women and pretty Nigerian girls don't like feeling like they are stuck with one old fashioned baby-man, they want a man they can be able to show off to the streets, not the shy guy who couldn't say a word in the front of her friends. women wants to present you and smile, not to do that and cry home so confidence plays a crucial role in getting girl to fix their gaze on you and here is more on

Be Honest and comment with your relationship status, add and hook up!

• Single and looking
• Single and not looking
• In a Relationship
• In an Open Relationship
• Engaged
• Married
• Divorced
• Widowed
• Player (A person who dates/sleeps with multiple people at the same time.)

mine: Single and Looking



25 Reasons Why You Should Break Up With Your Boyfriend






There is no reason good enough to break up with someone. You can break up for just about anything that suits your fancy but ideally, a relationship should not be ended without a strong and logical reason. A relationship is something to be cherished for as long as you can but then again, at times, the situation becomes so bad that couples/partners aren’t left with much in the name of alternatives. Here is a list of reasons for you to break up with your boyfriend:

Similar posts that you may also like: 1. Questions To Ask A Guy, 2. Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend, 3. Break Up With Your Boyfriend and 4. Get Over a Guy You Love.

1. The most common reason to break up with your boyfriend would be to catch him cheating on you with another person. Irrespective of what reason he uses to justify his behavior, it should not be pardoned because nothing can be worse than a partner who has been caught cheating you.

2. If you have ever dated anyone while dating him or had a one night stand that qualifies as cheating and you should break up with him and set him free.

3. At times, relationships just faze out and when they do, it’s time to move on. It doesn’t involve any blame game or bad feelings. If you feel your relationship has ‘fazed’ out, you should break up with your guy.

4. Another reason would be if you or your partner suddenly develops feelings for another person. A lot of relationships have succumbed to this hard reality of life but when things are over, they really are and there is nothing anyone can do to change or influence someone’s love for another person. In fact, there isn’t much point to be in a relationship with someone who isn’t in love with you. Irrespective of whether it’s you who has developed strong feelings for another person or your partner,it’s better to end the relationship.




5. A key element that keeps a relationship going is understanding and without understanding, a relationship loses its charm. If that’s the case, you should break it off with him.

6. If both of you are polar opposites and both of you aren’t willing to do your share at compromising with each other, then you should end the relationship.

7. A long distance relationship can become a source of worry rather than comfort. Some people are just not meant to be in a long distance relationship. Instead of being faithful to their partners, they end up cheating on them while their partners go away for long durations and there isn’t much point in ending things in a bad way when you know yourself well enough to have a cordial mutual break up in advance.

8. If you are a career woman and your deadlines are more important than your anniversaries, you should break it up with him before things get messier!

9. You should break up with him if he has hurt you in any way. There is no point in being in a relationship with someone who has broken your trust or made you feel very bad about something.

10. Every relationship needs a certain amount of kindness, compassion and compatibility but if you have been fighting little power struggles with him at all times, you should give up on the relationship

11. A lot of women can’t tolerate lying and if your guy has been a constant liar, you should end it with him now than to face more serious issues due to his compulsive lying in the future.

12. A common reason these days for break ups is the lack of career prospective. Many women who want to see a future with a man will look for someone with a bright career and at times, when things don’t exactly work the way they had planned, instead of supporting their boyfriends, they go away to look for new ones. If you are a materialistic woman and your boyfriend’s career doesn’t look that bright, you should end the current relationship.

13. If both of you have different demands from life itself, break up with him right now and live your individual dreams. That’s a lot better than missing out on your dreams due to someone or something.

14. If your boyfriend is a commitment phobic and you are not, you should end things with him right away instead of waiting for a couple more years before you realize that your relationship will not end in marriage. It can save you a lot of hurt!

15. Your friends should always receive top priority and if your friends say that he isn’t worth it, then you should believe them and leave him. They are your friends so they will do what’s best for you.

16. Every guy might not be very comfortable with the idea of taking care of someone’s children, even if they are yours. Make sure your boyfriend likes your kids (if you have any) because if he doesn’t, you should break up with him.

17. Every girlfriend needs emotional intimacy as much as a boyfriend needs physical intimacy and if he’s not giving it now, chances are he never will so you should end it with him.

18. You should break up with your boyfriend if he has a gambling, alcohol or drug problem. Most of the times, people who are addicted end up destroying the lives of everyone attached to them along with their own so it’s always better to stay away from a relationship with someone like this.

19. If you think that his parents don’t like you and if he’s a mama’s boy, you should leave him before he leaves you!

20. If your guy values money more than you and he’s fine with cancelling a date just to save some bucks, you should end it with him because he certainly loves money more than he loves your happiness.

21. Many people don’t realise this but they might still be in love with their ex boyfriends. If you are one of them, then you shouldn’t stay with this guy and give him false happiness.

22. There is no logic in being with a guy unless he can give you a lot of happiness and treat you like a princess. If you spend most of your time in your room crying or feeling bad about yourself because of him, you should dump him and try to find your happiness first. Relationships are meant to keep people happy and if yours isn’t, then it’s not worth it.

23. If you feel that you are putting in more time or efforts to maintain the relationship than your boyfriend, you should end it right there and pack your bags.

24. Some men have a tendency to make their female counterparts feel less worthy and if your man is one of them, you should let him go and find someone who treats you as an equal.

25. If your boyfriend abuses you physically,verbally or both, you should leave him immediately. Being in such a relationship is not only psychologically and physically harmful but it can also have serious repercussions in the long run. Irrespective of your reason for being in a relationship with someone like that, you should end it with him immediately to save yourself from further damage

Popular Cute Nicknames For Your Boyfriend

The nicknames you use for your boyfriend should describe some aspect of his personality. The fact that he calls you 'babe', instead of some short form of your original name, gives you the incentive to call him 'cute names' not necessarily a modification of his original name.



Nicknames Based on Personality

Here are a few cute nicknames based on personality types:

Your boyfriend loves cuddling with you

Since he loves using you as his personal soft doll, you can call him some of the names below:

Snuggly

Snuggy

Hugster

Cuddly

Snuggleable

Cuddles

Cuddly Bear

Honey Bear

Cuddle Cakes

Your boyfriend has a quick temper

If your boyfriend pipes into rage with the quickness of a hornet, you can call him the names below:

Snapper

Snapster

Bugbear

Tiger (or Tiggy)

Snappy

Chief

Your boyfriend is super attractive

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. So it goes without saying that you find your boyfriend to be the most attractive guy around. Here are some names to express the same:

Hot Chocolate

Hot Lips

Hot Stuff

Handsome

Good Looking

Sexy

Movie Star

Hero

Superstar

Heart Throb

Romeo

Knockout

Mr. Perfect

My Prince

Prince Charming

Your boyfriend is full of humor and laughs a lot

Since he has a cherubic personality you can call him some of the names below:

Cherub

Elf

Poppins

Chucky (since he’s a “chuckler”)

Mickey (if he has a mickey mouse smile)

Jerry (based on the Tom and Jerry character)

Your boyfriend is chubby

If your boyfriend has chubby cheeks and well endowed waistline, you can call him the below names:

Cutiepie

Pumpkin

Jellybear

Winnie (based on Winnie the Poo)

Your boyfriend has a hunky personality

If you boyfriend is well muscled, or carries himself with panache, you can call him the below names:

Stud

Super Stud

Jocky

Jock

Hunk

Hunky

Raunchy (makes for a sexy nickname)

Superman

Tarzan

Big Guy

Playboy

Soldier

Your boyfriend has a soft and warm personality

If your boyfriend is on the “soft” side and has a sensitive aspect to his personality you can call him the below names:

Puppy

Teddy

Pup

Toddy (short for 'toddler')

Sweetum

Teady Bear

Love Muffin

Baby Cakes

Sugams

Honey-Buns

Adorable

My Sweet Boy

Sugar Puff

Of course, “cute” nicknames make more sense when you tell your boyfriend why you are calling him by that name. You can use three or four nicknames for your boyfriend, one for every mood of his.

Quick Tips for Choosing the Perfect Nickname for Your Boyfriend:

Tip# 1: You can make a nickname out of his name, but be careful as some guys might find it offending. For example, Miggy for Miguel and Jake, Jakey for Jacob and Dally for Dallas. You can also consider a combination like 'Ally Bear' or 'Ally Poo' for Alex and 'Andy Roo' for Andrew.

Tip# 2: Don't base the nickname on negative traits your boyfriend has.

Tip# 3: There are men who might find some nicknames offending because of the negative feelings they associate with it. Like for instance, a nickname his ex-girlfriend used to call him with. So if you find that your guy is not reacting positively to that word you used, use some other name instead. There are plenty of cute nicknames out there, so go for something else.

Tip# 4: Base your nickname on the nickname your boyfriend calls you with. For instance, if your boyfriend calls you 'kitten' call him 'tiger'. If he calls you 'Princess' call him 'My Prince'. You can also use names of popular comic/movie/Television characters, like for instance:

Romeo and Juliet

Superman and Supergirl

Tarzan and Jane

Xena and Hercules

Pebbles and Bam-Bam

Cinderella and Prince Charming

Daredevil and Electra

Batman and Catwoman

RobinHood and Marion

Neo and Trinity

Tip# 5: If your boyfriend knows any other language like Spanish or Japanese for that matter, find out a romantic equivalent in that language and use it as a nickname. For instance, 'Mi Amor' which translates to 'my love' in Spanish, or 'Cheri' which translates to 'dearest' in French.

1. Dress Up for Him
A long, long time ago, your husband bought you some lingerie. Remember? You wore it once or twice, then stuffed it deep in the back of a drawer. Well, the time has come to dig it out. "Consider dressing for his tastes and not just yours once in a while," says Barbara De Angelis, Ph.D., author of Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know. "Take him shopping and have him choose outfits he would like to see you in or some lingerie he finds sexy."


2. Touch Him All Over, All the Time
I'm not talking about sex, and I'm not talking about massage -- just plain old run-of-the-mill touching. Whether you're playing footsie under the table or placing a hand on our shoulders while scooting behind our chairs, men find the touch of the woman they love unbelievably reassuring. In our treasured nonverbal language, it translates as: "I accept you...I love you...We're a team."


3. Give Him a Night Out with the Boys -- No Strings Attached
It may seem odd to you that a romantic gesture might not involve you at all. But dogs run with dogs, wolves run with wolves, and every so often, guys just have to break away and run with the guys (drooling and howling optional). All the married men I know miss those carefree nights out with the guys -- a fact many of the married women I know find unnecessarily threatening. When I look back on my single days, it's the male companionship I miss, not the cornucopia of gorgeous single gals (okay, okay -- the handful of pretty good-looking single gals). Honestly.

4. Show Up at His Office
I don't mean that literally — showing up unannounced just as he's getting his head together for the Big Meeting can be catastrophically disruptive. I mean it figuratively: Make your presence known throughout the day. I know, when we were just dating we tried to discourage you from calling us at work. Many single guys consider work a safe haven from the minefield of dating and don't want that sacred space violated. In marriage, though, it's different: News from the home front serves as a nice reminder of what you're working for.

5. Tell Him What a Big, Strong Guy He Is
We men are famously incompetent at expressing ourselves verbally ... but that doesn't mean we don't appreciate hearing a little praise now and then. In particular, we draw a lot of our identity from our maleness. Nurturing our big-ape fantasies — me Tarzan, you Jane — lets us know you value us as males, which is somehow important to the continued production of testosterone. So tell your husband he makes you feel safe, thank him for working so hard (even if you're working just as hard), tell him you pity friends who don't have husbands like him.

6. Engineer a Break-the-Routine Date
Your weekly "date night" doesn't count. I'm talking about whisking him off for a weekend getaway or getting a babysitter and surprising him after work with movie tickets. To make sure the evening works, try to determine what your relationship needs at the moment. Are you both overworked and feeling disconnected? Try a relaxing night at a local hotel. Getting bored with the daily grind? Take off for an exciting weekend someplace exotic but affordable. Once you determine the proper mood, make all the plans and pull the surprise.

7. Make Sex with Him an Event
I remember taking a shower one evening after coming home exhausted and emerging from the bathroom to find that my wife had made a bed on the living room floor out of couch cushions, pillows and blankets. It gave the least sexy room in the house a very exciting, exotic feel — part hotel room, part pillow fort. I won't share the details of what happened next.

When married men say they miss the kind of sex they had in their single days — and we do say it to one another, even if we don't dare say it to you — that is what we're talking about. While single sex was full of wild abandon and the unknown, married sex gradually becomes more about comfort than passion, and once you know all of each other's secrets, ruts become unavoidable unless you make a particular, focused effort to keep out of them. The upshot: Break the routine. If you're in the habit of making love with the lights out, try keeping them on or illuminating the room with candles. Rent a blue movie or get some massage oil and surprise him on the couch. "Have a conversation with your husband and try to get at what some of his sexual fantasies are," suggests Goldstein. Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable, or it'll backfire horribly. But making sex a celebratory event will show him in no uncertain terms that you think he's special.


8. Score Him a Pair of Tickets to the Big Game
Which would you rather receive from your husband: a weekend at a spa or a new set of cookware? The spa is by far the more romantic gift, if only because he doesn't stand to gain anything from it. Gifts that don't benefit the giver are somehow purer because they demonstrate you care only about making your spouse happy. So when you're thinking about gifts, try not to think about what you'd like to get him, but what he'd like to receive.


9. Show Interest in His Outside Life
We live in a fast-paced world, and Lord knows it's easy enough to get wrapped up in our own routines. But finding ways to let a man know you care about all aspects of his life, not just the parts he shares with you, is a great way to show you love the whole man. Shoot him a few well-directed questions about work to help him unwind, surprise him with a book relating to a hobby, track down a Website that deals with some problem he's having — all are touching gestures I guarantee will be well-received.


10. Tell Him a Secret
Men want to be soul mates, too. Telling him a secret — symbolically letting him deeper inside you — demonstrates total trust in him and faith in your relationship. Because you're making yourself vulnerable, it's an incredible bonding experience. What works just as well: Encourage him to tell you a secret or two. And don't laugh.

11. Slow Down Dinner
Sure, the idea that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach is a cliché. But it reached such status for a reason: It works. (It worked so well with me that I married a professional cook.) And it's tough to miss the basic, underlying romantic symbolism of cooking for your man: You satisfy his hunger, his craving.

The modern version of cooking as romance, it seems to me, is to use an elaborate meal as a way to slow things down. Start with wine, end with coffee and divide even the most mundane meal courses — first the macaroni, then the cheese — thereby delaying your husband's gratification and whetting his appetite. Slowing down the meal not only makes the food taste better and gives you more time to talk, but it returns a sense of ceremony to the meal, turning it into a kind of date. Your husband can't help but sit, tuck in and take notice.

12. Do a Sexy Little Bump-and-Grind Striptease
Well, you can't blame a guy for asking.


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Single

Single is a very basic relationship status on Facebook. You would think it would be as easy as "I am single," but honestly, it usually isn't. What Single really means on Facebook is:

1) I am angry at my significant other and I've changed my status to Single to make him mad.

2) I am really single. Don't make a big deal over it.

3) I am dating someone, but since she is not on Facebook, I don't have to admit it and I can fool everyone.

4) I have been married for two years, but I am too lazy to change my relationship status.

In a Relationship

The In a Relationship option is actually the most complicated of all the Facebook status options. Yes, it is really more complicated than the It's Complicated status. Who knew? Some of the many real meanings behind it are:

1) I am dating a new guy and switched my relationship status to In a Relationship to see how he responds. Wish me luck!

2) I am trying to make my ex-girlfriend jealous. I am really not dating anyone.

3) I am actually dating several guys, but I won't link any names to the In a Relationship status because I don't want them to know about each other.

4) I have been talking to someone on Match.com for 2 days and I am in love!

5) I am tired of my friends that are in relationships looking down on me. I am going to have a fake relationship for a few weeks so I feel better about myself. I might even buy myself flowers.

6) I am so annoyed with guys hitting on me all the time. Maybe if I am unavailable it will stop.

Engaged

Oh, the Engaged relationship status on Facebook. Chances are, Engaged actually means you are engaged. However, there are a couple of other options:

1) I am hoping that changing my status to Engaged will encourage my boyfriend to finally propose.

2) I think this will fool my friends and family members long enough to have a peaceful holiday meal this year.

Married

Married is another one of the relationship status options on Facebook that seems pretty cut and dry. However, depending on how special your friends can be, it could have other meanings, such as:

1) I am going to pretend I am married to Edward Cullen. I seriously need to seek help.

2) I am tired of dudes hitting on me. I will pretend I am Married for a while since In a Relationship didn't seem to work.

It's Complicated

Oh, the infamous melodramatic It's Complicated Facebook relationship status. Woo-hoo! Let's break the meaning down for you:

1) I've broken up with my boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, etc. several times this year. I've actually lost count. I need counseling, but instead, air my dirty laundry on Facebook. It is therapeutic for me.

2) In my head, I am in a relationship with someone who is emotionally unavailable. In that special someone's head, a relationship really doesn't exist.

3) I am still waiting for my mail order bride to arrive.

4) I am in the middle of a love triangle. The excitement never ends in my life!

In an Open Relationship

In an Open Relationship is a pretty easy one. The two meanings behind this are:

1) I am posting In an Open Relationship as my relationship status on Facebook in the hopes that my girlfriend will go along with it. Chances are, I will be changing the status back to In a Relationship or possibly Single by tomorrow.

2) I am kind of sleazy and I don't care who knows it. Hi Grandma!

Widowed

Widowed is the saddest of all the Facebook relationship status options. Widowed can only pretty much have two meanings:

1) I am sincerely widowed. Stop asking me about it.

2) I am so angry at my husband, I will be widowed by tomorrow. Beware!

Separated

The dreaded Separated Facebook status update rears its ugly head! This could also technically go under It's Complicated in my opinion, but it does have its own status. So basically, the meanings for Separated are:

1) I finally dumped that no-good loser of a husband!

2) I want to dump my wife, but this is my passive-aggressive way of letting her know!

3) I am legally separated, but didn't feel like telling any of you on my friend list. Don't ask!

Divorced

Of course, Divorced typically just means you are divorced. I can't really think of anything exciting to go along with this one other than you might just get invited to an awesome divorce party if you read this on one of your friend's Facebook profiles.

In a Civil Union

In a Civil Union is a recent addition to Facebook's relationship status options. Basically, this only has two meanings:

1) I am gay and decided to use the In a Civil Union status since I can't legally get married in my state.

2) I am an insensitive idiot who is not gay, but thought it would be funny to change my relationship status to In a Civil Union. I wonder why my friend list is going down in numbers?

In a Domestic Partnership

In a Domestic Partnership is another recent addition by Facebook. This also has only two meanings:

1) I am gay and felt more comfortable using the In a Domestic Partnership option rather than the In a Relationship option.

2) I am an insensitive idiot who is not gay, but thought it would be funny to change my relationship status to In a Domestic Partnership. Why do my friends keep unfriending me?

Romance is the language of love. It is the way that you show your partner that you care about them. Every person has their own idea of what they might consider romantic. For some it will be dressing up for the other or buying flowers or jewelry. There is no way to know what is romantic without knowing the person. Romance is created by the feeling that you are genuinely cared about. All romance has one thing in common; it must show the other person that you care enough to find out what is meaningful to them.

t is a bit of a cliché, but beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.

Some people see only the outer beauty, some see only the inner beauty. Some are lucky enough to see both.

I am sure we all know couples where one person is a beauty, and the other is quote the opposite. Sometimes we even shake our heads in amazement but obviously, outer beauty isn’t everything.

We also all see everyday things differently. What is a work of art to one person is an eyesore to someone else. What is beautiful to one person is a nuisance to another.

If you are an animal lover you probably appreciate the beauty in animals that I could never appreciate. Sure there are some things that maybe I appreciate on a superficial level, but not quite the way someone who truly loves animals would. (Though I do love flocks of birds soaring in the sky. They fascinate me.)

Top 4 Things What Guys Like About Girls




If you want to get the attention from guys, you must know what are the main criteria that attract the guys. Most of girls thought that physical appearance is the only thing that will catch the attention from guys. Even if so, it is just a small percentage. Other than physical appearance, there are a lot of qualities that make the guys fall for a girl.

In this article, you will get to know more about what guy likes about girls.

Natural Beauty

Most of the guys are easily attracted to the natural beauty in girls. You dont have to makeup like a super star to make the guys like you. Be natural and apply minimal makeup whenever you are going out. A light makeup with lip-gloss is sufficient to stand out your natural beauty. Choose the right clothing that suits your outing. If you are going for shopping, remember not to wear a pair of 4 inches high heels because this will only hurt your feet after walking for whole day long. Just be yourself and this is what guy likes about girls.

Be understanding

Guys are easily attracted to girls who are adorable and lovable. Dont be too fussy and demanding. Guys will easily get annoy because of your clingy attitude. You dont have to sound like their mum and demand to know where they are and what they are doing. Let them have some free time to chill out with their friends etc. Like what people said, absence makes the heart grow fonder. You have to learn to understand guys and try not to be the trouble maker.

Be confident

Guys like girls who have confidence in themselves in everything they do. Dont be too dependent on guys. Guys would prefer girls with confidence attitude but at the same time humble too. Show them that you are the one they can rely on to ask for opinions and suggestions. Self confidence can build someones character as well. If you are confident, you can manage your things accordingly. Confidences also make yourself more attractive and eye-catching.

Hone Your Skill

Guys are easily attracted to you if you have certain skills especially cooking skill. If your cooking skill is good, you would want to cook for him once a while to impress him. Sometimes, on his birthday you can cook all his favorite food and celebrate at home. This is sufficient enough to make him happy. If you are not good in cooking, you can grab some recipe books from magazine shops or bookstores to learn. Besides that, you can develop your cooking skill by watching cooking series on TV or through YouTube online.

After knowing all these, start to reevaluate yourself if you have all the qualities mentioned above. This is actually what makes guys attracted to girls easily.

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I want a boy who...

will move the hair away from my eyes, and then kiss me. Who will hold my hand in line at the mall and make all the girls jealous. A pretty boy, but not so pretty that I feel awkward.

I want a boy who...

who thinks I'm b-e-a-u-t-i-f-u-l. A boy who will sing to me at random moments. Who lets me sleep on his chest.

I want a boy who...

will tell his mother I have beautiful eyes, a guy who will make me soup when I'm sick, who writes poems about me because he doesn't know any other way to tell me how he feels.

I want a boy who...

is more goofy than romantic, but knows the right things to say at the right times. I want a boy who will call me 20 times a day if he went away. A boy who will apologize for calling too much, and no matter how many times I tell him its okay, he'd still do it.

I want a boy who...

will let me gossip to him and just smile and agree with everything I say. A boy who will throw stuffed animals at me when I acted dumb and then jump on me and kiss me a million times.

I want a boy who...

will write me notes in class, and give me flowers every once in a while for no real reason at all. Who will bet kisses on who could beat who at game.

I want a boy who...

makes fun of me just to make me laugh.

I want a boy who...

will surprise me with 25 cent ring and we could have contest of how far we can spit our gum.
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I want a boy who...

will take me to the park, put his hands around my waist and give me big bear hugs all the time. A boy who will kiss my neck, just to have a reason to tell me how much he loves my new perfume.

I want a boy who...

at night, will dance in his pajamas with me. A boy who will take pictures in photo booths with me, someone who will never turn down a trip to the lake and who will play tag on the beach. Who will tell all his friends about me and smile when he does it.

I want a boy who...

could sit with me on the kitchen floor and eat sandwiches. Who will make out with me in the pouring rain and will tell me when he doesn't think something looks good.

I want a boy who...

would try to teach me how to play the guitar, even if we just end up laughing at each other.

I want a boy who...

will run his fingers through my hair, share his lollipops with me, and get along with all of my friends.

I want a boy who...

would never be afraid to say I love you in front of his friends and someone who would argue with me about silly things just to make up.

I want a boy who...

will take me to Target to just make fun of some of the stuff there.

I want a boy who...

will kiss me at midnight on New Years and who will make funny faces at me when I'm on the phone.

I want a boy who...

will count stars with me and be friends with my family.

I want a boy who...

will stay home with me on a Friday night just to help me make dinner and watch movies together under the same blanket. Someone who will squirt water guns at me in the house after I've got him soaked.

I want a boy who will hold me closer than normal when I'm sick, and would play with my hair.

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I want a boy who...

will tell me I'm b-e-a-u-t-i-f-u-l but not too often. I want a boy who looks me the eye and tells me something serious, that was also funny and make me promise not to laugh. A boy who could make me laugh like no one else can.

I want a boy who...

will hold me closer than normal when I'm sick, and would play with my hair.

But mostly I want a boy who is my best friend and will always be there for me.

hello good afternoon plz what advice will you give me if u introduce your girlfriend to your mother n she doesn' like her. what can I do plz post this cause it importa
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(ANSWER WITH NUMBERS)

Be Honest and answer about your
relationship

(1) Single
(2) Sleeping Around
(3) In A Relationship
(4) In A Fight
(5) On The Rebound
(6) Engaged
(7) Married
( About To Get Divorced
(9) Divorced
(10) LOnely
(11) Its Complicated
(12) Cant Talk About It
(13) In An Open Relationship
(14) Its A Disaster
(15) Deciding Between 2 People
(16) Happily Cheating

Things A Woman Shouldn't Do While Dating A Guy!









There are some things a woman shouldn't do while still dating a guy just to prove that you love him!!!!

How can you wash his cloth?

You just taking yourself so low, washing a man's cloth doesn't mean you are a wife material..it proves nothing.

Cooking his food is okay cos some men don't really know how to cook.

Your bf is a bachelor, let him do what bachelors do!

He has to wash his clothes himself to show how useful he is.
You aint married and you washing his cloth for what stupid reason?

So that he will think you are a wife material?

Mtchew.. no wonder guys take most girls for granted, if you do everything you are supposed to do in marriage while courting him, I wonder why you should marry him, just keep on doing boyfriend and girlfriend then..

If you ask guys for money they will say you are too materialistic but they want us to wash their cloths as if we girls are jobless...

My sisters, if you want to wash your boyfriend cloth, do it because you want to not because you want make him think you are a wife material..

Love isn't one sided - they need to prove to us that they are husband material too by buying us things, taking care of us, then we will also prove ours by coooking e.t.c

Ladies please don't bring urselves low or he will go bragging to his friends that you can't do without him, that you dying for him. Believe me, guys are the worst gossips..

Let me see those immature guys that will insult me for this post

U mean like dis

TIPS ON HOW TO HAVE A SWEET KISS


*** BE RELAX. Don't be in a rush. Kissing is not a competition that you are in contest to become the champion.


*** KISSING IS NOT A SHOW-OFF.. Remember, you are noot kissing your partner to impress him/her. Instead you are kissing your partner to ignite the passion in him/her.


*** START WITH YOUR LIPS. Even if you are giving french kiss, you should always start with the lips and not your tongue


*** FIND THE RIGHT PLACE. A sweet kiss can not be done everywhere. You have to find the perfect spot, somewhere conducive with no form of distraction.


*** CREATE THE RIGHT ATMOSPHERE. You need the right atmosphere to help you and your partner relax and enjoy the action. A good slow, non-party music will do the magic here.


*** MAKE USE OFF YOUR HANDS. You hands are your good tool but you shouldn't use them roughly. Be slow and gentle with your touch.


*** NEVER FORGET THE EYES MAGIC. Stop for a few seconds intervals to look into you partner's eyes. Such sweet look will build more passion in you and your partner.


*** SEAL THE EYES MAGIC. When you take the little break to look into your partners eyes, accompany those with sweet looks with sweet words.


*** WHAT NEXT PLEASE?. A great sweet kiss will surely end somewhere. Know in what direction you want the kissing to go.





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