maryjames9: Many reasons i guess. Disapointments and broken hearts, desperation, Unwise decision and missed opportunities, Materialism, falling for the wrong guy and shuning the right guy. Also, financial issues and trying to meet certain standards and the list goes. I guess we had rather hear from horses mouth. Oya

maryjames9: Many reasons i guess. Disapointments and broken hearts, desperation, Unwise decision and missed opportunities, Materialism, falling for the wrong guy and shuning the right guy. Also, financial issues and trying to meet certain standards and the list goes. I guess we had rather hear from horses mouth. Oya

horny4u: Abeg leave all single girls alone na so una go push them into the hands of a monster in desperation and when they are abused na una go still dey shout why are you with him.

Inu won lefa inu won leje....

Humans! single na disease....pls mind your own life.

horny4u: Abeg leave all single girls alone na so una go push them into the hands of a monster in desperation and when they are abused na una go still dey shout why are you with him.

Inu won lefa inu won leje....

Humans! single na disease....pls mind your own life.

mediainspired: Educatn & 'civilsation' has blinded so many ladies 4rm working on what is most important/attractive to a responsible/eligible bachelors who want to settle down (pls, not b/f or guys wit ulterior motives oo): which is XTER, GODLINESS, PATIENCE &SELFLESNESS (these used to be d definition of feminity). U see all dese very pretty &educated ladies in d offices, streets &churche, but xter is painfully missing as dey're quick to ventilate &shout down on d next man over flimsy issues (cos he's not dere b/f). Most of dem don't even realize dere xter flaws &4get dat most men think alike in dere criteria for a marriagable lady (not bedmate oo). LADIES, PLS UNDERLINE: if d next responsible guy doesn't think u're marriageable, ur b/f wil likely think alike wen he finds out d same flaws &might soon grow cold feet. WORK ON UR XTERS! It's feminine &stop gender competition

hardbody:

The handsome ones will start coming into the world in another 20 years, by then you will be left with just 3 teeth, a canternkerous old woman quarreling over everything and remembering with nostalgia what it was like being young without the benefit of a man to call your own

Rhino.5dm:
Funny, How the "single ladies" came all out to attack the OP.

Am very much interested in this thread, cos I have a friend which is extremely pretty and a medical doctor with car and house, but still searching and it bothers me much.

#Just that I am married, would have marry her.

blackbalang: Like seriously try not to insult me this hot sunday afternoon. I saw a funny picture and decided to share.... I didn't ask for it to be placed on the front page sooooooo plzzzzzzzzz park well

megareal: Na wa o. SMH. The thread was meant for ladies to answer the question, now the guys are crawling all over it with unreasonable explanations that is far from the reality of why some women are single. Now how in the world will any real babe say something? Guys abeg shift joo, give the ladies some space to answer.

Cherryslim: Because some guys are hurtly wicked, they can lie, i mean what they cant do in their next generation they wil say they can do it within an hour, they are like a wolf in a sheep clothing, uhmnmnm, except few among all that are sincere and truthful

mediainspired: Educatn & 'civilsation' has blinded so many ladies 4rm working on what is most important/attractive to a responsible/eligible bachelors who want to settle down (pls, not b/f or guys wit ulterior motives oo): which is XTER, GODLINESS, PATIENCE &SELFLESNESS (these used to be d definition of feminity). U see all dese very pretty &educated ladies in d offices, streets &churche, but xter is painfully missing as dey're quick to ventilate &shout down on d next man over flimsy issues (cos he's not dere b/f). Most of dem don't even realize dere xter flaws &4get dat most men think alike in dere criteria for a marriagable lady (not bedmate oo). LADIES, PLS UNDERLINE: if d next responsible guy doesn't think u're marriageable, ur b/f wil likely think alike wen he finds out d same flaws &might soon grow cold feet. WORK ON UR XTERS! It's feminine &stop gender competition

DailyNews: Lolz...this was supposed to be ladies' thread, but men have hijacked it, so let me join my own words too to assist the humble, well brought up single ladies out there ready to heed to good counsel.
Many Nigerian girls are single today for the following reasons:
1. The economy is bad, scarcity of job & unfavorable business environment have kept most men idle with no financial capability to establish a stable home they dream of & hence they tend to avoid the ladies; even when they truly cherish her.

2. The Nigerian ladies not minding the aforementioned point still live in daydream of waiting to meet a PERFECT MAN (handsome, rich, God-fearing, loving, faithful, trustful) before they will say YES I DO.
3. To be honest with you, majority of the Nigerian ladies of today, lack manner, good character, etc that attracts men, both strangers.
4. The statement of: whatever a man can do, women can do it better has affected our ladies so much to the extent that they now rock shoulders & ego with men- hence turn so many men off unknowingly.
5. The working class ladies always feel so on top they ignore real guys coming their way in a low approach, while accepting the wrong guys coming for a fling in a flashy big approach, & after so much heartbreak, they start to sing: ALL MEN ARE WICKED, DEVILISH, THE SAME...blah, blah, blah.
5. Majority of Nigerian ladies of today live under the influence of movie, music, & entertainment lifestyles which are never real or obtainable.
6. Most girls put material quest & money first before friendship & hence scare real guys away while attracting the big bad guys after fling.
7. Living a life of comparison must also not be ignored, & peer-pressure.
BRB!

Rhino.5dm:
Funny, How the "single ladies" came all out to attack the OP.

Am very much interested in this thread, cos I have a friend which is extremely pretty and a medical doctor with car and house, but still searching and it bothers me much.

#Just that I am married, would have marry her.

chucky234: Most single women are too egocentric and garrulous,pride is the major reason why they are still single.

linda_1: Because i'm too shy lol

str8_talk:
Welcome on-board,but b careful while swimming in shark infested waters. u can b shy,but no dulling. so hit me up,may b i can help u in taking away dat shyness.

bakila:

He is someone who deserve indomie without egg. Ignore him.