Orikinla: [size=18pt]You forgot to add:

DON'T LIVE IN DENIAL IF YOU ARE GUILTY OF CAUSING THE BREAK UP LIKE CHEATING OR HARMING YOUR PARTNER.
REPENT AND BEG FOR FORGIVENESS AND RECONCILE INSTEAD OF LIVING WITH THE STIGMA AND TRAUMA OF YOUR GUILT FOR LIFE.

Chris Brown and Rihanna are good example of how to make up after a break up.[/size]

yemi2plus2:
"wat i done" WTF.. This ur english na die

abiL:

I remember when I used to cry me a river whilst listening to Adele non-stop.

Thank God I can look back now and laugh at my foôlishness.

ceejay80s: Wetin i find enter dis thread sef? Na so so lipstick and sanitary pad i dey passive here! "Waka pass,trip and fall,lose 2 teeth"

ItsModella:
very dry.

mitchyy: Breakups can be a very difficult experience. You’re crying, confused, and your heart feels like it’s in a million pieces. It’s not called heartbreak for nothing. But learn to let it go. The world has something better in store for you. But while you’re waiting here are 9 things you shouldn't do after a breakup.

Ready to hear them? Cool, let's go

#1. Don't Stalk him/her
You're way too smart to stalk him or her physically after your breakup. Of course you are...BUT...on social media? That's tempting. Facebook, Twitter, BBM(blackberry messenger), instagram, his/her blog. Never! Do you really want to torture yourself with each new female friend he adds and see cute little comments from babes/guys you know were interested in him/her in the past? You don't need to know where he or she's going or who he or she's going with. It hurts. Move on.

#2. Don't Stay friends
There is no way you can remain friends with an ex if you still have feelings for him. You can eventually be friends but not immediately after a breakup. Haba! Give yourself some time. Remaining friends only gives him/her permission to treat you like crap while he/she borrows money from you, has occasional sex with you when he can’t find anyone else, and sometimes lean on you for emotional support when he has a bad day! Accept the truth. He’s not going to change his mind and realize breaking up with you was a bad idea. He’s just going to use you until he finds someone to take your place. So please, DO NOT stay friends with him for now!

#3. Do not Isolate yourself
You're way too fabulous and amazing to be shut-in. Do not stay cooped inside your room all day with the blinds shut. You'll do yourself more harm than good. Get out! Go to the beach on its busiest days. (We have so many in Nigeria, especially in lagos). Attend events, not those emotional stage plays. Take some risks! Meet with some of your crazy energetic friends at the club. Wear red lipstick and some killer stillettos and work it because you can.

#4. Don't waste energy on revenge
Revenge is utter crap. Don't get even. Get over it.

#5. Do not tell "your story" to everyone
Almost everyone falls victim to this. Hold back. Don't tell everybody how you've been wronged. Boooooooooring! Save it. The longer you hold on to "your story" and keep soliciting sympathy, the longer it will take you to move forward...and we don't want your friends to dump you, too. (That doesn't mean you shouldn't talk to someone about it. The emphasis here is telling 'EVERYONE').

#6. Don't be "on the hunt"
Don't jump on the relationship bandwagon too soon. Contrary to the general belief, the best way to get over a guy/lady is not to date another one immediately. Take your time. Enjoy your new Freedom.

#7. Do not listen to 'Adele - Someone like you' on repeat
I guess that's self-explanatory.

#8. Don’t think your Facebook page is going to convince him to come back
I have a friend who made up a boyfriend just to make her ex jealous. She changed her status, her photos, she changed her BBM display picture and Facebook profile picture to her and a hot dude hugging tightly. But what did the ex think? When i asked him, i discovered he didn't even notice. So, yes, in most cases, it doesn't work.

#9. Do not turn to alcohol
Drowning our sorrows in bottles of beer can sometimes seem pretty appealing. The chances are, you’ll get drunk and then make one or more of the other mistakes on this list.

Know someone going through a heartbreak? Please share with them

http://www.gistville.com/2012/10/breakups-9-things-you-should-never-ever-do-after/

ndala: u made me remember my ex now crying

abiL:


Are you my dad?

Mtcheeew

ceejay80s: Wetin i find enter dis thread sef? Na so so lipstick and sanitary pad i dey passive here! "Waka pass,trip and fall,lose 2 teeth"

190-the-clown:



be nice,

Im your uncle 190

abiL:


You bloödy wish!

berem: "Yawns" abeg make I go sleep before I break pesin head this night!

berem: "Yawns" abeg make I go sleep before I break pesin head this night!

ceejay80s: Wetin i find enter dis thread sef? Na so so lipstick and sanitary pad i dey passive here! "Waka pass,trip and fall,lose 2 teeth"

abiL:


Hahaha

190-the-clown:


its not my intention to break your heart any time soon
and stop talking to that omawumi dude

born2fuck: 1. going to club to see different girls every time or seeing different boobs swags or girls in mini at motel
2.Drinking alcohol every night, include cigarette while listening to musics
3. Ensure you sleep with different girls every weekend
4. If you can go on with weed, that won't dull your spirit but if you cannot smoke weed, add it to tea and take it like agamazinga

Virgin Finder:

Please accept Jesus Christ as your LORD and personal saviour and experience life and peace.

ItsModella:
lmaoooo...and this is coming from someone whose name is Virgin Finder.

cosmatika: Wow, dis is d best thread I'v seen on NL dat affects me directly. I wz a victim to all d 9. But I later blocked her frm all my social networking sites. But d thing is, it's almost 2yrs now she left and I still feel uncomfortable weneva I see ha. And d big prob is dat she's my coursemate and we still hav lyk 2yrs to leave d medical skl so I still see ha everyday in class and clinic.

ItsModella:
lmaoooo...and this is coming from someone whose name is Virgin Finder.

Virgin Finder:

Please accept Jesus Christ as your LORD and personal saviour and experience life and peace.

promire2004: Nice thread poster....*thumbs up*