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We were all living together in peace until someone became a President in 2015.

EzeYezzuz:
Can you imagine

So all this pigs has NURTW Tout and Agberos in their fuvking state Now my question is why are igbos full of hatred for MC Oluomo and call him all such of unprintable names when you guys haven’t removed the log of wood in your eye!

Oh I got it (Tinubu) your forefathers nightmare is MC Oluomo’s mentor, funny y’all like to transfer hatred!

Try and travel outside your state. Your failure to travel is the reason you're this low. You accuse other people of hate when you are hate itself. Show me one Igbo who hates MC Oluomo or bury your face in shame.

The5DME:
Please bear with me as this is very long.
Ok, here goes.
Beginning.
I don't know why people find it so hard to understand me. I don't why people find it so hard to understand that I love being b myself, wallowing in my loneliness more than I love hanging out with friends. M family keeps insulting me, calling that I'm a 'mumu' and not "wise". I've been told that since I was a kid, before I could form a defence around my mind, before I could protect myself. Do you know what it feels like to be told you're useless, a mumse, not sharp, almost everyday of your life? Nobody in my family believes in me; they all believe I'm an idiot.
I grew up as a very shy kid. Extremely shy in some certain situations. It's like I was born that way. According to some researches I've carried out; mine seems genetic. My dad's was that way, so I guess the 'dirty' genes were transferred to me. Everyone keeps insulting me, but they don't really understand what I go through. They don't understand that I don't consciously choose to be shy, it's like I'm not in control of it. It happens automatically, but no one understands.

I grew up in a 'broken' home. My father left since I was five. So, they're some things I never really learnt from my father what a man should learn. I'm constantly being insulted all because I don't know how to fix electronics. I'm being told that it's the responsibility of a man to be able to fix anything that get spoilt at home. I mean, is it my fault I can't fix the damn thing? I know these are things boys learn from their fathers, but since I never had one; how am I supposed to know how to do that? Even when I make attempt to try, I'm constantly being berated. I've been insulted to the point where I don't even bother trying anything again.

Well, my main issue is this: due to my 'solitary' nature, having virtually no friends(I do have some though, but don't hangout with them), there are some things I'm lacking in. I grew up most of my life indoors, where almost everything was done for me. They cooked, washed, took me to the market to buy clothes for me. I mean, which boy at 19 years old still follows his mother to the market to buy clothes? I feel like these are things I ought to know how to do by now. Though I'm learning.


My main problems are:
1) I hate the way I'm being told I'm not smart or wise. Yeah, I get that I might not be " street" smart because I was raised like an 'ajebutter' even though I'm not. I hate my family for calling me that. As much as I try to deny it's not affecting me; it is!

2)I hate the way I was raised. Maybe I should have hung out more with the street kids. Maybe I would've been street smart. Maybe I wouldn't still be taken to the market to buy clothes.

My only hope of making myself better is when I leave for University. When I get exposed to the real world, when I leave my comfort zone and I'm choosing a very rough school. I must develop by force. I basically want to 'redesign' myself.
Please advise me sir.

Hey! I'm just reading this and I felt passionately for you. But, after telling you this, you will never need anyone's compassion.

Do you know what? There are 'breeds' of human beings. Some of the breeds are common and others are rare. How to know that YOU are a rare breed is IF YOU ARE NOT LIKE MOST PEOPLE IN YOUR THINKING AND BEHAVIOR.

Based on this, I tell YOU (whoever is behind this name The5DME) you are a rare breed. Rare breeds are the likes of Albert Einstein and Steve Jobs.

But there is a responsibility for being a rare breed (which I also think I am). That responsibility is that you must develop THE COURAGE TO BE DIFFERENT. Without this, you will never give birth to your great self.

I have a lot to tell, but the expediency of it all on this platform is in doubt. However, this is one thing I want you to do: Use the opportunity of your unique life to develop something unique that the world will envy you for. Do you know that Mark Zuckerberg was called a jerk when he wore a grey t-shirt for weeks as he was coding what is now known as Facebook?

I am not saying that you must be a global brand founder like Mark Zuck. Rather, just find a positive passion and follow it and let it consume you and you will be the happiest person alife.

The happiest lives are 'donated' lives. So, ensure that your passion is adding value to other people's lives whether anyone appreciates that or not.

Don’t join bad gangs at college because you will regret doing so. Why? You're not cut out for pedestrian lifestyle. Instead, promise yourself one thing: That, you will die fulfilled. And you can only be fulfilled if you live YOUR dream to the full.

By the time you TRULY start working on living your dream, you will be grateful if it is really true that no one wants to have anything to do with you. See why: It means you will have less people to distract you from manifesting the INNERMOST YOU. Did I bore you? Ask me for clarifications if you need to.

A good presentation, I must say. But, please, can you shed some light on the difference between "EDUCATIVE" and "INFORMATIVE"?

I got it. Thanks for letting us know.

Following. You have a different dimension to this.

It's better to spend your mental energy working to be richer, than spending it getting mad at the rich.

Nawa oh! Why nah?

Kestolove:
D op is a Igbo boy

Why?

Ha!

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etrouble:
Muslims don't hate Christians, only Christians hate Muslims.

Northern Almajaris and Middle East bombers are not Muslims but animals with human covering.

The 'IS' in ISIS stands for what if you say so?

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SEE ALSO: CHRISTIANS, MUSLIMS, ATHEISTS, ETC, DISCUSSING JESUS CHRIST.

A trending video on social media has attracted the attention of many Nigerians, especially on Twitter.

In the video, the Emir of Bauchi, Dr. Rilwanu Suleiman Adamu is seen leading a gospel song when a women group - ‘Matan Zumunta’ paid him a visit.

The group is a popular women wing amongst Christians in northern Nigeria and they are known for rendering soul-lifting gospel songs.

The video was shared by Isa Gusau, the chief press secretary of Borno state governor, Babagana Zulum, and has so far gotten almost 1,000 likes.

SEE ALSO: CHRISTIANS, MUSLIMS, ATHEISTS, ETC, DISCUSSING JESUS CHRIST.

Source: https://www.legit.ng/amp/1396580-emir-bauchi-leads-female-choir-visit-by-matan-zumunta.html

Cashsteady:
This hatred for Yoruba people won't take u anywhere... So all Igbo guys are now rich?

Meobizzy didn't mention that she is Igbo, did she? But I condemn her pettiness totally. As for you, don't allow fools to make you behave foolishly.

Why do great sinners live so long? It's for them to have the opportunity to repent. I hope this one repented. Shekau too and his BH devils will die one day.

So, if she wasn't the mother of a billionaire nkọ? Mammon worshippers everywhere.

Tell us more. We are all ears.

GTBank? I'm surprised. It's among the best in the country.

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Are you a Bitcoin enthusiast? Then you need to know this:

One of the hottest topics across the Bitcoin community is the prediction among investors that the popular cryptocurrency will clock 30k as the world crosses into 2021 (GMT).

To help you to understand what's happening, here are some of the episodes I captured. 2021 really looks good for BTC.

Escabado:
Weed is not good for your health

Maaaadooooooh!!!!!

dannyrhymes600:
it makes sense until you start selling your properties to please her.
how come TRP people never reach this thread

Hahahahahahah! I'm not disappointed. I know NLers. Una no dey quick gree. But, you're funny guy.

yahjac:
lol
they die quick too !!

you Don kill me.

Are they declaring a war on the media? I hope they can fight social media too. Their connecting NIN with phone number can never muzzle social media like Whatsapp and other platforms beyond Nigeria.

Hmmm! Is this like saying "we can but we don't want to kill you"?