debosky: I support jaybee's nomination.

Rukemi291: I'm so loving this. This will keep me glued to this section. Hope my boss wouldn't catch me on Nairaland...

bjcole: I m not against ur idea o, it is until when we see it, that i really can comment. I dnt knw d criteria u used in arriving @ those names, as a moderator, i dont think it is fair 4 u nominate people & some of d names u mentioned have postedsome comments that are unbecoming of a married person. This is a family section 4 God sake, D yrs of experience shd be d 1st criteria & anybody wit less than 15-20 yrs married life is not qualified. That is my thought

alleviate2002us:

My boss caught me on NL today and was like:..."What are you doing"..."You are browsing"..."You are on NL"...then I was like not really sir....and he said ..."What do mean by not really I saw you using our official hour to browse nairaland"....Mehn as the man dey talk na I just they close all the pages weh I open.

Couldn"t tell him I pro actively handled all my task for the day and could afford to look thru NL(couldn't gamble with not being converted to a jacky (if he knew I had time to spare) and besides I had mails and comments to respond to)

Siena: Interesting.

Tgirl, could you please email me a rough template, citing an example of how you'd like things presented?

Johndoe100:

Thank you for this observation. It seems this whole exercise is just to further the view point of the cabal. What is worse is the open identification of the moderator with a particular view point. Is there anyone on that list who is not a member of the cabal? Anyway the part that I loved the most is this statement -
"I would like to nominate the following people that I think have a stable marriage" those of us not on the list do not have stable marriages? This truly amazing from a moderator, because we ALL interact here don't we?

@Tgirl4real
If you will take a suggestion, will it not be better to have the family living in Nigeria? I mean no disrespect but of what relevance and resonance is the day to day life of someone who lives in Timbuktu? Do most of the silent readers sitting in their offices hiding and reading this relate with the average day to day life of the internet Nigerian? I would love a peek into the life of a stable family in Nigeria, but could care less about someone in Australia (for that I have DSTV) Please take this as a suggestion from we Nigerians here in Nigeria.

Oh, yes, before I forget - Nigerians who don't want to divorce every other year.

Julesbloom: cabal even in nairaland..... na wa ooooo. Anyway the only female worthy of my nomination is chaircover, dnt knw her or relate wit her but i fink i like her comments on every marriage issue

Tgirl4real:

This is an example how/why someone was nominated.

Tgirl4real:

I haven't gotten the mail. I hope the PM thingy is not acting up again. I will include Coogar then.

MBJ wouldn't be a bad idea with his numerous baby mamas.

What do u think CC?

Odunnu:
Tgirl!! How did you miss Debosky? Choi!
Abeg, I nominate Debra jor.

Is Jaybee married? He is supposed to be my fiance. Did he marry someone else?

Tgirl4real:

Odunnu, is Debosky married?

Abeg, I need u to show for backyard.

bjcole: @ moderator, i think johndoe is somehow correct, some of those ladies u ve there, r d one requesting their hubby being a houseboy, doing d domestic chores 4 them @ home, is that what u want us 2 come & learn? let us not pass wrong things 2 d younger generations pls. Some homes r suffering becos of their advices here, i dont even pray 4 my wife 2 be close 2 any of them. D only female worthy 4 me here is Jidegirl, & her name is not even on ur list, her comments tend towards a virtous woman.

jennykadry:

Debosky is a father and a husband

bjcole: @ moderator, i think johndoe is somehow correct, some of those ladies u ve there, r d one requesting their hubby being a houseboy, doing d domestic chores 4 them @ home, is that what u want us 2 come & learn?

Tgirl4real:

Sienna (very interested)

Single "N" in Siena, please. Unless you're referring to my daughter, who's got two "N" in her name.

Siena:

Single "N" in Siena, please. Unless you're referring to my daughter, who's got two "N" in her name.