chaircover: To be honest, it is going to be virtually impossible to get this exercise to mimic the reality shows that we watch on TV.

Why? because first of all we are all a judgmental lot and no one is going to confess to insulting her husband/slapping his wife on here even though we know that these things do happen and also because as far as I know, there are only 3 married couples on nairaland. . . . of course there may be more but to get a real fly on the wall rounded view of the full marriage, both husband and wife have to be on here to give their own personal thoughts/views/narration of events.

I may also come and share something which may be totally different from the way that my husband sees it. So I am not really sharing the REAL BALANCED experience and I am just stating things from my own point of view which though may be true for me, may not sit the same way with my husband.

At most, what we will get from this is a diary of events seen from one part of the marriage side (which I gave an example on happy friday) and so I think that we should treat this as it is, which is just some fun to peer behind some curtains.
It is certainly not a marriage seminar or marriage counseling course, and therefore anyone should be welcome married or not, happy or not to share anything at all about their relationships.

chaircover: I am almost certain that coogar is married
BOY oh BOY how could I forget Jaybee
errrrrmmmmmm saga is not married but please pretty please can he be on the list. Id just like to see how he will deal with his woman using his razor to shave her eyebrows
PS I sent you a PM

Tgirl4real:
I will include Coogar then.

agiboma:

I am glad you responded CC because tbh i see you are totally into the concept of the reality show because you share the same beleifs about marriage as the OP so birds of a feather flock together as the saying goes. Even if its one person sharing the expereince from the marriage it is ok. But let their be variety for crying out loud. Look marriage today with so many obstacles does not replicate the disney cinderella fairytale etc. People have issues and this good and bad marriage thing is simply too old and played out. You mentioned no one is going to say they slapped their wife/husband. Well perhapes you may not say so, but i have always been completly honest to a fault on NL and yes i would say if i fought physically with my DH.

The truth is some of you people are to secrative hiding behind you know what putting up a personna that does not exist. Making it look like your relationships are problem free, deceiving yourselves and that is why you cannot come and NL and admit to any issues in your marriage. Then their are teh one's like me who post with brutal honesty and get crucified for it. Any how you people do your show but in my opinion it showed be called fantasy land and not a "reality show" because it just does not have the fundations for such IMO.

Wislet: yea, I agree with CC.
NO JUDGING, NO SNEERS, NO RAISED EYEBROWS OR 'ADVICES'.
Just a REALITY show.
The participants should lay it down as it is, NO ONE is perfect.
There are no prices to be won. No marks to be awarded.
.
There'll be reactions though, to spice it up

ifyalways: @OP, simply put, throw the "show" open.
Regardless of how happy/unhappy one have portrayed his/her marriage online, everyone is entitled to participate or be nominated.

On that note I nominate :
Zayhal
Lastpage
Johndoe
CC
Agiboma
Manmustwac. Lol

chaircover: agiboma there was absolutely no need for any of that and I am not going to go down into the gutter with you which is what you clearly want. You have been conveniently ignored for long enough and it will surprise me if anyone bothers to rise to your bait.

However for the record, By all means its a free forum, so feel free to paste whatever you want about your relationship. No one!!! absolutely no one!!!! is stopping you.

Just one small thing whilst I have your attention . . . .errrmmmmm how do you know that anyone is putting up a persona that doesn't exist & deceiving ourselves as you say? and since you know this already, shouldn't you just deal with yours and leave everyone elses?

anyways have a good afternoon and I am looking forward to hear from a true marriage as per the gospel of st agi.

BB your attention is needed here!!

jennykadry: I nominate Sagamite and TV01

Tgirl4real:

Why sagamite biko?

jennykadry: I nominate Sagamite and TV01

taryour:

jenny but saga isnt married na, tgirl abeg no put that guy jare,i no get time to read long epistle oo....

jennykadry:

Which Kain queshiun is this one? Sagaamu? The king of my heart that is why

chaircover:

LOL you havent seen anything yest . . . wait until Busybody, jenny and efe start fighting over Sagalulu, then you will know the real meaning of the word fight

anyway you are right and me too cant wait for the show to start . . . . . .all this side attraction and small small bands singing is not the real thing . . . .

Some of us have paid good money to watch this show in 3D HD

Sagamite:

You want me to reveal to all my okpekes on NL that I am actually married?

You want me to tell the story of my marital life where my wife is the one that goes to pick up my girlfriends for me and she then excuses us by spending the night in the Guest room based on the contractual terms of our prenuptial agreements?

jennykadry:

Sagaamu is legally married to me. Stop jealousying us

chaircover:



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