Stupidd woman! Your husband has every right to marry 20 wives if he so desire because here is Africa and polygamy is our culture and tradition. You must lose this game I promise you. Seeking a boy's fragile PEN1S is child abuse if you don't know

carr96: ....WOMAN! GET A DIVORCE, END IT ALL he doesn't care neither do you,...so?

what happens to the shedren?moreover I don't want you to spoil the fun,I am on the queue waiting to have my turn with her

SLIDE waxie: u are not insane, u are hurt!
Dnt be sad for me, i'm already a made-man as much as children are involved! And i'm definitely not gonna teach them to cheat as a re-coiling action!
If cheating back makes u happy, u are a sociopath and a definition of a moral-death!
Like i asked,'wot happened to getting a divorce'?

Now you are thorn between what makes her happy and what is right. Would you still advocate divorce if it'l make her unhappy? I am after her happiness so whate'er she chooses to do, let her ride on. Obviously, she has chosen a path to happiness you and the society don't quite conform to. I suggest she takes notes while you 'educate' her on how she lives her life.

Oh and watch your mouth, your wishes for someone else just might hit your beautiful daughter(s). And I aint hurt, just a haPpy bird. Don't call names just because you know their meanings. Your ability to put your feelings on ice distinguishes you as you clearly aren't now

@Creamz are you and your husband still intimate?

@Creamz - never mind, i saw that you linked it from some other (probably fake) publication and it is not your own personal story

Na teeth for tat? Madam have a rethink, get a counsellor. Aids is real and hell is too, hope ur husband is a nairalander too, he will be reading this.

Good and better for u, I dey u can even contact me I sabi hama yash

carr96: ....WOMAN! GET A DIVORCE, END IT ALL he doesn't care neither do you,...so?

what a dumb comment! didnt OP just say that she has 4 kids? who will feed them? you

good job OP. if that makes you happy. .

a dog of a husband deserves a b.itch of a woman. kudos!

i just feel sad for the welps who were born to such unfortunate circumstances.

Think well.

Something must have triggered this whole thing, why can't u sit down and find a lastin solution to it instead of leaving dis fake life of urs cos I know its not ur real person. Think very well before u break up ur homE.

A man suspected his wife was seeing another man, so he hired the famous Chinese detective, Chen Lee, to watch and report any activities while he was gone. A few days later, he received this report:

Most honorable sir,

You leave house.
I watch house.
He come to house. I watch.
He and she leave house. I follow.
He and she go in hotel. I climb tree.
I look in window.
He kiss she. She kiss he.
He strip she. She strip he.
He play with she. She play with he.
I play with me. I fall off tree.
I not see.

No fee, Chen Lee.

There is something called divorce. Tell ur cheating friends to tell you bout the process.

What's my busines? Hawk.

Imagine ur life!

carr96:

....I like you,....

Hear her deceiving herself that Jesus is the source of her happiness in cheating. Lol.

Hear her deceiving herself that Jesus is the source of her happiness in cheating. Lol. I am so sorry for the kids in this family.

hey poster,

if u got no regard for ur husband, show the kids some respect.
they'll understand better if u get a divorce.
ur happiness will only be short lived, it cant last.
put urself in ur kids shoes and imagine hw u'll feel.
this is a shameful act and to even think u mentioned Jesus in the whole ish makes me question ur sanity.

dannie007: Something must have triggered this whole thing, why can't u sit down and find a lastin solution to it instead of leaving dis fake life of urs cos I know its not ur real person. Think very well before u break up ur homE.

na prik and toto trigger the HOLE thing

50calibre: When a man marries a woman, she becomes his property. He owns her completely and gets to decides what happens in the marriage.

You are violating the sanctity of marriage by trying to rub shoulders with your husband. You have to understand that a woman isn't equal to a man.

Go and read the bible, you would understand better. Pray to God to change his ways, worship him as next to God and he would change. If he doesn't then accept your fate and carry your cross gracefully.

I tried so hard to ignore this post but e no gree me so I say, feck you and your warped thinking, you chauvinistic fool.

Well your husband is a typical example of men with weak character!
But I'll advise you to not stoop to his level, be the better person!
God can still heal your marriage but It won't be done if both of you are going the wrong way, at least one of you has to be strong enough to stand by the marriage.
You have children O!

chiover: Stupidd woman! Your husband has every right to marry 20 wives if he so desire because here is Africa and polygamy is our culture and tradition. You must lose this game I promise you. Seeking a boy's fragile PEN1S is child abuse if you don't know

please post your picture online and tell us your full name and where u r from so all the babes can stay away from you and your people because your mentality stinks.. spits.

For every action theres always a consequence........now that you are 'happy', remember the future when you will be burdened with the load of old age... Furthermore, don't creat whores in your house cause your children silently watch you and bet me, except God intervenes.......your children will be greater LovePeddler than you and your 'husband' combined. Above all, you are know 'happy'.. Please remove that JESUS.this kind of happiness does'nt come from christ

two wrongs don't make a right, ma! I pray both of you have aids!

Jst 1 question 4 u madam,what role model ar u 2 ur children,u ar doin urself no gud,wat u ar doin wl gt u into troubl its jst a mattr of tym,keep it up til u regret it

50calibre: When a man marries a woman, she becomes his property. He owns her completely and gets to decides what happens in the marriage.

You are violating the sanctity of marriage by trying to rub shoulders with your husband. You have to understand that a woman isn't equal to a man.

Go and read the bible, you would understand better. Pray to God to change his ways, worship him as next to God and he would change. If he doesn't then accept your fate and carry your cross gracefully.

I'd like to see things from your point of view but I can't seem to get my head that far up my A S S.

So what are we supposed to do about it?

Digital Signal:


Was he forced/deceived into marrying you?
What happened to make him start cheating on you during your pregnancy? Didn't you let him in any longer or your looks took a dive so much that you lost your appeal? What happened?




There's something definitely wrong somewhere but what it is, I can't really put my finger on it! If there was something in you that attracted him into marrying you, I think that thing is long dead and perhaps you should think of reviving it, if this marriage is still anything to you instead of hopping from one boy to the other! Did you at any point, in a quiet moment, reflect on what these other girls could be given him that you were not giving?
Could it be your romantic life is so appalling?
I know a man should satisfy a woman in bed, but we also want to be made to enjoy the act! It's not a one way street!

Though child bearing can distort ones shape, I think you should try to look your best for your husband, if you're not doing so; try to seduce him!



I'm not in anyway in support of what your husband is doing but you think your 4 kids can guarantee you a permanent stay in that house if your husband finds out you've been sleeping around? Well, you may ask ''What about him''? But when it happens they will tell you it's a man's world!




The text in bold keeps me thinking!

No, I don't think you should be proud of that!
To me, I'm sorry to say but, it's disgusting to see a married woman, with kids, jumping from one bed to another because she can't mend her home! Two wrongs can never make a right.



Jesus doesn't put a smile on a woman's face for cheating on her husband!

Pass this message to the appropriate quarter.

I don't know you but one thing I can say about you is that you are logical and mature.

Digital Signal:


Was he forced/deceived into marrying you?
What happened to make him start cheating on you during your pregnancy? Didn't you let him in any longer or your looks took a dive so much that you lost your appeal? What happened?




There's something definitely wrong somewhere but what it is, I can't really put my finger on it! If there was something in you that attracted him into marrying you, I think that thing is long dead and perhaps you should think of reviving it, if this marriage is still anything to you instead of hopping from one boy to the other! Did you at any point, in a quiet moment, reflect on what these other girls could be given him that you were not giving?
Could it be your romantic life is so appalling?
I know a man should satisfy a woman in bed, but we also want to be made to enjoy the act! It's not a one way street!

Though child bearing can distort ones shape, I think you should try to look your best for your husband, if you're not doing so; try to seduce him!



I'm not in anyway in support of what your husband is doing but you think your 4 kids can guarantee you a permanent stay in that house if your husband finds out you've been sleeping around? Well, you may ask ''What about him''? But when it happens they will tell you it's a man's world!




The text in bold keeps me thinking!

No, I don't think you should be proud of that!
To me, I'm sorry to say but, it's disgusting to see a married woman, with kids, jumping from one bed to another because she can't mend her home! Two wrongs can never make a right.



Jesus doesn't put a smile on a woman's face for cheating on her husband!

Pass this message to the appropriate quarter.

I don't know you but one thing I can say about you is that you are logical and mature.

As far as I'm concerned, sleeping around is doing yourself more harm than good, it would have been best to leave the bastard, no one should stay suffering in a useless and loveless marriage all in the name of children.

50calibre: When a man marries a woman, she becomes his property. He owns her completely and gets to decides what happens in the marriage.

You are violating the sanctity of marriage by trying to rub shoulders with your husband. You have to understand that a woman isn't equal to a man.

Go and read the bible, you would understand better. Pray to God to change his ways, worship him as next to God and he would change. If he doesn't then accept your fate and carry your cross gracefully.

freecocoa: I tried so hard to ignore this post but e no gree me so I say, feck you and your warped thinking, you chauvinistic fool.

is that the same thing you would do if your wifey is caught fourcking all your family and friends like MTN? worship him her as next to God and he she would change. If he she doesn't then accept your fate and carry your cross gracefully cry on your pillow every night like a bi*ch.

I am 100% sure the OP is not happy because cheaters are always fearful.

Better get divorce and be happy.