lorretta u: @OP,what did u really expect?that the men will agree to this?the earlier you realize that they are not ready to grow up the better for you.
The basic guy today will want to be like a kid let loose in a candy store.they have no shame in that.they call it their Nature.my sister.you have no idea how many times I've asked myself this same question.one thing I know for sure is that 99% of men in this forum didn't grow up in a home where their fathers loved their mothers.it tells from their speech.it seems like an impossibility to them.as if loving your woman is an emasculating act..u can't blame them.
Like some people say,WE GIVE UP

lorretta u: @OP,what did u really expect?that the men will agree to this?the earlier you realize that they are not ready to grow up the better for you.
The basic guy today will want to be like a kid let loose in a candy store.they have no shame in that.they call it their Nature.

my sister.you have no idea how many times I've asked myself this same question.one thing I know for sure is that 99% of men in this forum didn't grow up in a home where their fathers loved their mothers.it tells from their speech.it seems like an impossibility to them.as if loving your woman is an emasculating act..u can't blame them.
Like some people say,WE GIVE UP

Caracta: Apology accepted!

texaco1: women just want to be in total control of their men,no real man will allow that and when u resist them ,they will start calling u a boy.

gothrones:

Stop projecting. It is evident that your father never loved your mother and that is the reason you label almost all men as irresponsible. You are what you DATE. If 99% of the men that you have fraternized with were irresponsible, then look in the mirror.

bukatyne:

My dear, it is really scary to think that these are the men that wants to build new families tomorrow. For the sake of humanity, I hope they are just fronting with these personalities online

It's well

texaco1: women just want to be in total control of their men,no real man will allow that and when u resist them ,they will start calling u a boy.

gothrones: Obviously this nonsense was written by a woman, disguised as a man. One of the primary characteristics of a MAN is that we have never and will never apologize for who we are. If you have a problem with us, take your case to God in prayer. Bow down bitches.

CAMEROONPRIDE: elle l'a fait sciammment .tu n'as pas besoin de "quoter" tout le topic pour poser une question .

CAMEROONPRIDE: you said it all. E.O.D

Egba girl:

Oui c'est vrai. Ce n'est pas nécessaire mais peut être elle ne l'a pas fait sciemment? Lol

lorretta u: @OP,what did u really expect?that the men will agree to this?the earlier you realize that they are not ready to grow up the better for you.
The basic guy today will want to be like a kid let loose in a candy store.they have no shame in that.they call it their Nature.my sister.you have no idea how many times I've asked myself this same question.one thing I know for sure is that 99% of men in this forum didn't grow up in a home where their fathers loved their mothers.it tells from their speech.it seems like an impossibility to them.as if loving your woman is an emasculating act..u can't blame them.
Like some people say,WE GIVE UP

toshmann:

Girl you want to know the truth?
Can you handle the truth?

Ok, here's the truth;

There are good guys and there are good girls. When they meet, it works and they don't complain.

Anything that disrupts this formular will lead to broken promises and broken relationships.

So if your rlshp is broken or faulty, take a look at the mirror. You will find why your partner is misbehaving. This truth goes both ways. When my ex was misbehaving, I saw the reason in the mirror. But she didnt look into the mirror to also find out why I was misbehaving. And so it scattered.

[s] Now I'm running from hole to hole looking for that first experience I got from that broad that disvirgined me a few weeks after my 20th birthday. She disappeared after introducing me to the adult world. And left me . . . [/s]

So stop blaming the other gender. It's both genders. But only real men and women acknowledge that it's both genders. Those finger pointing are not yet matured. Which is why matured people will not take this OP serious

We're you able to handle this truth? Or d'you prefer finger pointing

Problem solving abilities is not for everybody, you know

Anyi.:
any guy who actually read that poo from beginning to end should prob be in an asylum...
enough said

ocelot2006: Lemme guess, a woman wrote that letter on behalf of men. Anyway, I don't think any man in his right senses will write that joke called a letter. Apology my foot.

Texas.Cowgirl:

Don't need to cuz you know you wouldn't mind reading that to me in HD

DailyNews: Forgive me to say- this can't be from a man and if at all it was written by a man, he must be a British or pure American man

If u want a letter from Nigerian men, 190, Mynd, D.Atheist, etc can jointly compose one for u all...pls where are they

CAMEROONPRIDE: [/color]pourquoi vous les femmes etes toujours entrain de defendre vos soeurs? meme quand ce qu'elles ont fait n'est pas bien. apprenez a appeller un chat -un chat

bukatyne: I have read the OP and I don't seem to understand what is causing the wahala here

That men should be learn to love and cherish women esp. their wives and treat them right?
That men should learn to be more matured and not selfish?
That men also want to be admired and cherished by women and women should learn to do so?
That women should forgive the men in their lives if they have not lived up to expectation and start afresh?

It's well with the kind of men we have here o

rokiatu: So what is exactly hard to accept in this article?

If this was an article addressing women, ya all would be shouting "so true" "better listen ladies" blah blah but since a real man came up with this, self centered, selfish, egoistic men find it difficult to accept.


God help Africa women.

Egba girl:

non. ce n'est pas comme ca. pour moi, ce que t'as fait n'était pas necessaire. meme s'il était un homme, j'aurais dit la meme chose. En addition, tu as fait une grosse generalization à propos d'un groupe.

Egba girl:

[quote author=CAMEROONPRIDE] [/color]pourquoi vous les femmes etes toujours entrain de defendre vos soeurs? meme quand ce qu'elles ont fait n'est pas bien. apprenez a appeller un chat -un chat

Egba girl:

non. ce n'est pas comme ca. pour moi, ce que t'as fait n'était pas necessaire. meme s'il était un homme, j'aurais dit la meme chose. En addition, tu as fait une grosse generalization à propos d'un groupe.

j'ai pas generalise , comment tu peux dire ca? je l'ai appelle idiote+ j'ai ajoute que NL est maudit avec des femmes idiotes(ca ne veut pas dire que toutes les femmes ici presentes sont des idiotes) . mais je te presente mes excuses dans tout les cas.okay?

PS: j'espere que tu es differente , parceque c'est rare de trouver des femmes justes.

Texas.Cowgirl:
I want Nigerian men to read this letter to me (esp first and second line) while prostrating.