That's what you get for dating someone not on the same page with you. BB is the latest craze for the young now...its either you accept until she wanes herself of it or you stand your ground by maintaining your NO. Either of the two options won't come easy. Sorry.

Wu Zetian:



I tried to ignore it but I have to say I am embarrassed by these posts. Pls don't quote me based on what another woman said, I stand by my initial post on this thread.

You can be embarrassed till Kingdom come for all i care. People don't like to hear the truth. The lady is a Bit..ch and the guy is a fool. Enough said.

Subomi-luv:
I never justified the girls actions, where did i say that what the girl did was good but the guy is a fool too. So upon all the signs(4months) yet he did not get the picture and now he is here crying. Am sowi but i call a spade a spade. What is worse is he smashed the phone yet he could have sold it for money which he does not have. Let me give you men a tip. If you behave like a Mumu trust me some girls who treat you like a mumu.

poshdiva:

Look...I don't care about whether she is shouting him down or walking out on him. He must have shown himself to be a wimp of a man or those 'I can die for you' type of men. My own is that breaking her phone was just out of it! He went too far and I still don't think he should dump her.

From the two posts above i think i can reach a logical conclusion that many ladies will treat you poorly if you show love and Patience and understanding because of love wanting a strong hand (not too strong) yet will still bash you when you decide to take a strong action.

guy.. the girl is not the problem... you are.. you are dating a small girl.. at 23 her yansh still gallant and her suitors plenty.. f'course she will misbehave. anoda thing, you are a nice guy.. na last you go carry even when you marry. smack da biatch sometimes because na so her secret boy-friend dey do am. get real, get a 27-30 year old girl-friend who has played out her game and is ready to behave or be a badt guy and treat her fcukup

Uhhhhhh. They've started cursing.

WackyJ1:



From the two posts above i think i can reach a logical conclusion that ladies will treat you poorly if you show love and Patience and understanding because of love wanting a strong hand (not too strong) yet will still bash you when you decide to take a strong action.

This is false. A good woman who loves and appreciates her man would not treat the guy that way. I believe that a relationship is two-ways. How can you keep on doing so much for someone yet their appreciation is shit to your face yet you keep doing more and more than at end of the day you wonder why some women are wicked. Men should treat the women who deserve to be treated well and appreciate it. If they dnt then why kill yourself. If i give 100 percent and i get 10% back, i am not a fool and i won't wait months and years doing same ish. Truth hurts but it's so obvious from beginning what was happening and unfortunately he could not manage the situation.

50calibre:
Yes I'm a Nigerian, so why won't I talk like a Nigerian. My Nigerian culture comes first before that of any other nationality.

Brainwashed slave

person, and your Nigerian culture is to batter women?

Cretin!

voltron: guy.. the girl is not the problem... you are.. you are dating a small girl.. at 23 her yansh still gallant and her suitors plenty.. f'course she will misbehave. anoda thing, you are a nice guy.. na last you go carry even when you marry. smack da biatch sometimes because na so her secret boy-friend dey do am. get real, get a 27-30 year old girl-friend who has played out her game and is ready to behave or be a badt guy and treat her fcukup

@Adaeze003, you have spoken well. I bu ezigbo ada ada.

POP corn and Drinks, Get them here, You can't enjoy this late evening showdown on an empty stomach, get them here while they're hot. YOU!! YES YOU !! I'm talking to you viewing this topic, you need this

WackyJ1: POP corn and Drinks, Get them here, You can't enjoy this late evening showdown on an empty stomach, get them here while they're hot. YOU!! YES YOU !! I'm talking to you viewing this topic, you need this

WackyJ1:
Before the rest of them get here let me say this first. Will you marry me?

Are you the 'I can die for you' type?

May God bless you. Your mama train you well. And we wonder why a few ever get married from the plethora of women that grace the earth?

It's right here staring us in the face. The answer is in this thread.

Ada, may your days be long on earth and your marriage be fruitful.

Adaeze003: @ poshdiva, even wimps deserve respect! That a guy is the 'I can die for you' type according to you doesn't excuse stupid behaviour. Was he immature by smashing the phone? Yes! But when analysing an issue you start from what led to it and not make conclusions by the final action.

Every action produces an equal and opposite reaction.

Op needs to let go cos if she truly luvs him she'll definitly come back and if not, why waste more time and resources?

Adaeze003:
Are you the 'I can die for you' type?

I am the "whatever type is needed" type , so how about it?

2s£xy:


Ada, may your days be long on earth and your marriage be fruitful.

ada see our marriage is already being blessed

Ada, that dude is one of those rare gem ooh. He would fit you well? And guess what, he is handsome and very intelligent

Adaeze003:
Are you the 'I can die for you' type?

Subomi-luv:
You can be embarrassed till Kingdom come for all i care. People don't like to hear the truth. The lady is a Bit..ch and the guy is a fool. Enough said.

This is what I was expecting one of the ladies to say since instead of justifying juvenile behaviour.

@op your girl is a b"itch. you are not the type of guy that can handle a girl like her. Pass her to me. I have a masters degree in bitchology.

Nonsense and ingredients.

jmoore: @Adaeze003, you have spoken well. I bu ezigbo ada ada.

*my head haf explode*