kulyie: my dear respect begets respect.a woman can never respect a man that consistently abuses her.infact he will supress the best in her and brings out the worst in her

yes yorubas are respectful BUT TO THOSE WHO DESERVE IT

You know, I really do not think a man would walk up to his quiet wife who was minding her business and start pouncing on her because she was quiet.

Women have a way of bringing out that animalistic nature in anyone with their tongue. We need to control that. People that say people should "think before they talk", ain't crazy, they have seen it work. Let peace work in marriages. We will be surprised how happy one will be in the end.

2014 is around the corner, I expect married couples to include 'marital peace" in their New year's resolutions and steps to make it happen. And it does not matter who respects first in a relationship. Let the women start to respect their husbands and see if the man will not love and cherish them in return.

K

coogar:

how did the dude eff up?
he's put the final stop to a reoccurrence. this couldn't possibly be the first time. if they were at home then no excuses - he should have stormed out of the house to cool off.

on this day, he was driving. he couldn't possibly park the car & abandon his wife & kids on the road. the only solution is to silence the parrot the only way he knew.

the man is a hero.

Toyinletstalk:

You know, I really do not think a man would walk up to his quiet wife who was minding her business and start pouncing on her because she was quiet.

Women have a way of bringing out that animalistic nature in anyone with their tongue. We need to control that. People that say people should "think before they talk", ain't crazy, they have seen it work. Let peace work in marriages. We will be surprised how happy one will be in the end.

2014 is around the corner, I expect married couples to include 'marital peace" in their New year's resolutions and steps to make it happen. And it does not matter who respects first in a relationship. Let the women start to respect their husbands and see if the man will not love and cherish them in return.

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Ewuro707:

You're hilarious, until most of y'all get it in your skulls that everybody is responsible for their actions, male or female.

Also , why do y'all have soo much expectation from someone from different background and trying to figure how to adapt to same conditions( marriage) as you? He is human too , get it? stop all these he's a man brouhaha, it drives me nuts.

The reason why most marriages hit the rocks, too from too much expectations from same human as you.



Jidegirl maybe? now jets hear your take, yimu.

In my present country of residence, you'd be jailed for ONLY thinking about violence, do you know that? Let alone laying your paws on anything female. Lmao, dude, just forget about moving to a liberal country if the post above is the best you can make of this argument



ps: Who's Jidegirl? I'm not her.

I have always been asking this question, but no answer, maybe I can get one here, 'can Violence in marriages ever stop?' I see and hear a lot daily, and it is just bad, it even scares those that want into that marraige thing sef.

Why would a reasonable man raise his hand to beat a woman, or why would a man use a 'turning' stick on a woman, it is just crazy! Mainly, violence,( and some others like distrust, cheating, egoism) has always attached itself to almost every marraige, WHY?

nitrogen: I have always been asking this question, but no answer, maybe I can get one here, 'can Violence in marriages ever stop?' I see and hear a lot daily, and it is just bad, it even scares those that want into that marraige thing sef.

Why would a reasonable man raise his hand to beat a woman, or why would a man use a 'turning' stick on a woman, it is just crazy! Mainly, violence,( and some others like distrust, cheating, egoism) has always attached itself to almost every marraige, WHY?

it's human nature.
there's violence everywhere you look. it's very prevalent in marriages too. i suggest couples should be having intensive psyche-evaluation before tying the knot.

Eminado01: Lmao, coogar nke a!

who's this?
too many new monikers these days.

Eminado01:

In my present country of residence, you'd be jailed for ONLY thinking about violence, do you know that? Let alone laying your paws on anything female. Lmao, dude, just forget about moving to a liberal country if the post above is the best you can make

And where could that be, Iran? Abeg leave matters for Mathias , who cares where you reside

And I'm done with this convo. Thanks.

nitrogen: I have always been asking this question, but no answer, maybe I can get one here, 'can Violence in marriages ever stop?' I see and hear a lot daily, and it is just bad, it even scares those that want into that marraige thing sef.

Why would a reasonable man raise his hand to beat a woman, or why would a man use a 'turning' stick on a woman, it is just crazy! Mainly, violence,( and some others like distrust, cheating, egoism) has always attached itself to almost every marraige, WHY?

A very clear understanding from the intending couples and those who are already in it, can make it stop. Just simply don't argue when you know you can't drive a decent word in. We all have our moments, there is time for everything. I also think the women, should work more on this. You are not as strong as the man, why engage him in a fight at all? You can talk politely and assertively without causing any problem.

Know what you want and seek it. There is violence, because unknown to the couples, that is what has been unconsciously sought after.

Not that there won't be arguments and disagreements, but it would be a healthy one for the growth of all, and not the degrading-dragging on the floor- bottle breaking-hospital admission- kind of fights.

Ewuro707:

And where could that be, Iran? Abeg leave matters for Mathias , who cares where you reside

And I'm done with this convo. Thanks.

Eku ijometa. I missed you sha . Oya shed this disguise.

Toyinletstalk:

A very clear understanding from the intending couples and those who are already in it, can make it stop. Just simply don't argue when you know you can't drive a decent word in. We all have our moments, there is time for everything. I also think the women, should work more on this. You are not as strong as the man, why engage him in a fight at all? You can talk politely and assertively without causing any problem.

Know what you want and seek it. There is violence, because unknown to the couples, that is what has been unconsciously sought after.

Not that there won't be arguments and disagreements, but it would be a healthy one for the growth of all, and not the degrading-dragging on the floor- bottle breaking-hospital admission- kind of fights.

Words on marble @Bolded. I'm touched.

coogar:

it's human nature.
there's violence everywhere you look. it's very prevalent in marriages too. i suggest couples should be having intensive psyche-evaluation before tying the knot.

Intensive psyche-evaluation

Seriously, this matter is quite baffling o, I witnessed one where a so called husband threatened/wanted to separate his wife's head from her body with a nice cutlass, if not for interventions, he would have carried out his threat. Just crazy!

Ewuro707:

And where could that be, Iran? Abeg leave matters for Mathias , who cares where you reside

And I'm done with this convo. Thanks.

Lol, are you that pained? sorry o

Eminado01:
Lol, are you that pained? sorry o

This thread na waya!
5 pages already?

Very heated indeed!
Efe don hear am today!

For some of us that were insulting and cursing, there is no difference from what that man and woman displayed on d road and what u guys just did here. Period.

Toyinletstalk:

A very clear understanding from the intending couples and those who are already in it, can make it stop. Just simply don't argue when you know you can't drive a decent word in. We all have our moments, there is time for everything. I also think the women, should work more on this. You are not as strong as the man, why engage him in a fight at all? You can talk politely and assertively without causing any problem.

Know what you want and seek it. There is violence, because unknown to the couples, that is what has been unconsciously sought after.

Not that there won't be arguments and disagreements, but it would be a healthy one for the growth of all, and not the degrading-dragging on the floor- bottle breaking-hospital admission- kind of fights.

Nice one!

Ewuro707:

yellowpawpaw: This thread na waya!
5 pages already?

Very heated indeed!
Efe don hear am today!

For some of us that were insulting and cursing, there is no difference from what that man and woman displayed on d road and what u guys just did here. Period.

Lols, ah ah, give us some credit nah, biko nu

Ewuro707:

Jidegirl maybe?

Nope! That's you.

baby_123:
Eku ijometa. I missed you sha . Oya shed this disguise.

Lmao!! she's still feeling stealth with her bad self!

ileobatojo:

Lmao!! she's still feeling stealth with her bad self!

Lmao. Jide has a personality that cannot hide itself. She needs to just give up. Hahahaha. I know the way my Jide writes wella. . The day you guys asked her I was just laughing. The moment she commented I knew she was the one.

baby_123:
Lmao. Jide has a personality that cannot hide itself. She needs to just give up. Hahahaha. I know the way my Jide writes wella. . The day you guys asked her I was just laughing. The moment she commented I knew she was the one.

Lol!! Extremely easy to figure out.

Toyinletstalk:

Women have a way of bringing out that animalistic nature in anyone imbecilic, low self esteemed, cavemen with their tongue.

Fixed.

I hate disgrace personally, so I've learnt self defense including a little karate . When I registered in a gym for weight reduction, I spent almost all my time boxing cos I know it will be useful in the near future. Women are too lax that any threat from any man to beat you ,you start cowering for shelter. I try my possible best to bridle my mouth but at times you need to shout, nag ,rant and all what nots. at least while doing that you know you can defend yourself very well.
The woman in question was wrong for ranting while the husband was driving and the husband also a tout for parking the.car just to beat his wife.

Toyinletstalk:

You know, I really do not think a man would walk up to his quiet wife who was minding her business and start pouncing on her because she was quiet.

Women have a way of bringing out that animalistic nature in anyone with their tongue. We need to control that. People that say people should "think before they talk", ain't crazy, they have seen it work. Let peace work in marriages. We will be surprised how happy one will be in the end.

2014 is around the corner, I expect married couples to include 'marital peace" in their New year's resolutions and steps to make it happen. And it does not matter who respects first in a relationship. Let the women start to respect their husbands and see if the man will not love and cherish them in return.

stories that touch.abegiiii,let me hear word o jare.an abusive man is an abusive man,whether his wife always kneels down to greet him every day or kneels down to take permisiion before she lies on the bed or has completly gone haywire

coogar:

it's human nature.
there's violence everywhere you look. it's very prevalent in marriages too. i suggest couples should be having intensive psyche-evaluation before tying the knot.




who's this?
too many new monikers these days.

is a lie.violence is not everywhere.

I do not support violence in marriage cos it could lead to something else

Women sometimes are crazy, they will run their mouth to the end and provoking the man to raise his hand on her even thou the man is not a beater.

But a good woman wouldn't want to provoke her hubby to an extent violence would come in.

So when something like this happen, the blame is on the woman, she called for it but beating her up in public was just total out of it... That shows he doesn't respect her wife. He should have control his anger... Drop her wife and take the kids home wit the car @worst.

The man was total wrong on that one... If I was indoor then fine..they will resolve their issues but public...the wife will be going thru some emotional trauma *cant believe her hubby will beat her in public* that's insane! Madness at the highest order

kulyie: yes na.some people will be videoing the scene,some analyzing,some snapping pictures,infact that scene na free entertainment.na wetin dan foster go call ROAD SHOW

Well.... does that only happen in nigeria....

There is really no justification for any form of abuse,be it verbal,emotional or physical.I strongly believe the beating did not start that day,that man is used to beating his wife,am not absolving d woman of any blame either.Men should know that women will always rant,nag and even yell at least once in a while,what makes you a man is that ability to control yourself.Any man that lays his hand on a woman,be it a younger sister,girlfriend,colleague or wife is an animal.once u do that d woman is ever justified.

I don't get this women can bring out the worst in a man. What about the man? don't they sometimes bring out the worst in their women. Its ideas like women should bridle their tongue and then ignoring what a man should do that makes marriage a burden for women. If a woman should bridle her tongue aka learn self control then a man should learn to tame his anger as well.

For posters saying the woman deserved the beating et al,I guess the man would also pounce on a fellow man that way.

We do not even know the cause of the arguement afteral they were both shouting on each other. I believe the woman should also do the same if she was the one driving.

If the woman had ran into the road and died, I am sure we will all blame the man for been a violent man.

Let us make up our minds and support beating et al if we want to. It is all this talking from both sides and insincere lip service that doesn't make some things work in our society.

If a man driving has the licence to park his car, drag his wife out and beat her up because she was assumed to run her mouth in public with the kids in view why can't he beat her at home?

It is well

andromida: I don't get this women can bring out the worst in a man. What about the man? don't they sometimes bring out the worst in their women. Its ideas like women should bridle their tongue and then ignoring what a man should do that makes marriage a burden for women. If a woman should bridle her tongue aka learn self control then a man should learn to tame his anger as well.

GBAM!!! it goes both ways

bukatyne: For posters saying the woman deserved the beating et al,I guess the man would also pounce on a fellow man that way.

We do not even know the cause of the arguement afteral they were both shouting on each other. I believe the woman should also do the same if she was the one driving.

If the woman had ran into the road and died, I am sure we will all blame the man for been a violent man.

Let us make up our minds and support beating et al if we want to. It is all this talking from both sides and insincere lip service that doesn't make some things work in our society.

If a man driving has the licence to park his car, drag his wife out and beat her up because she was assumed to run her mouth in public with the kids in view why can't he beat her at home?

It is well

No oh! when its a fellow able bodied man like him, that's when he'll know how to pick his battles wisely and control his anger.
A woman I know used to get beaten by her husband regularly in the early days of their marriage in the presence of their 2 kids, up till the extent that she lost a six month old pregnancy.
Soon the wife decided to take care of her self and started taking self defense classes, I suspect she practised her newly acquired skills on him one day when he tried to hit her, because these days he has suddenly misplaced his violent side. She doesn't even beg or ask nicely when she wants something all she does is say what she wants, if hubby doesn't answer, his own don finish be that.
They have the most dysfunctional marriage I have ever seen, the man is now so timid in his own house, At times I start pitying him, then I remember he is getting a taste of his own medicine.