kulyie: is a lie.violence is not everywhere.

bukatyne: For posters saying the woman deserved the beating et al,I guess the man would also pounce on a fellow man that way.

We do not even know the cause of the arguement afteral they were both shouting on each other. I believe the woman should also do the same if she was the one driving.

If the woman had ran into the road and died, I am sure we will all blame the man for been a violent man.

Let us make up our minds and support beating et al if we want to. It is all this talking from both sides and insincere lip service that doesn't make some things work in our society.

If a man driving has the licence to park his car, drag his wife out and beat her up because she was assumed to run her mouth in public with the kids in view why can't he beat her at home?

It is well

drmary: .Any man that lays his hand on a woman,be it a younger sister,girlfriend,colleague or wife is an animal.once u do that d woman is ever justified.

pickabeau1:

What do you call a woman that lays hands on a man, brother or male colleague/.//

PocketEconomist: That one na male abuser.

steph7:
No oh! when its a fellow able bodied man like him, that's when he'll know how to pick his battles wisely and control his anger.
A woman I know used to get beaten by her husband regularly in the early days of their marriage in the presence of their 2 kids, up till the extent that she lost a six month old pregnancy.
Soon the wife decided to take care of her self and started taking self defense classes, I suspect she practised her newly acquired skills on him one day when he tried to hit her, because these days he has suddenly misplaced his violent side. She doesn't even beg or ask nicely when she wants something all she does is say what she wants, if hubby doesn't answer, his own don finish be that.
They have the most dysfunctional marriage I have ever seen, the man is now so timid in his own house, At times I start pitying him, then I remember he is getting a taste of his own medicine.

bukatyne: Birthday mate,

I can see you

coogar:

so tell us one country where there's no domestic violence.




yes, you are very correct!
there has never been a case of 2 men fighting each other in the history of nigeria.

pickabeau1:

Well.... does that only happen in nigeria....

kulyie: yugoslavia and some other countries i cant remember

coogar:

how did the dude eff up?
he's put the final stop to a reoccurrence. this couldn't possibly be the first time. if they were at home then no excuses - he should have stormed out of the house to cool off.

on this day, he was driving. he couldn't possibly park the car & abandon his wife & kids on the road. the only solution is to silence the parrot the only way he knew. ;Dyeah the man is a hero in your village.oya make una go give am chieftaincy title na

the man is a hero.

coogar:

how did the dude eff up?
he's put the final stop to a reoccurrence. this couldn't possibly be the first time. if they were at home then no excuses - he should have stormed out of the house to cool off.

on this day, he was driving. he couldn't possibly park the car & abandon his wife & kids on the road. the only solution is to silence the parrot the only way he knew. yeah the man is a hero in your village.make una go give am chieftaincy title na.animals that look like humans

the man is a hero.

Chillisauce: ;Dkulyie did you say Yugoslavia .

My belle o

I actually pee in my pants laughing now.
Of all places. Chai.

kulyie: @coogar yeah the man is a hero IN YOUR VILLAGE.make una go give am chieftaincy title na

coogar:

she's never serious....
eastern europe where you have the highest human trafficking & girls are forced into pröstitution is kulyie's best example. sometimes, i think kulyie takes alomo bitters before posting.




he's a hero in lagos.

kulyie: an illiterate with no parental supprt/upbringing is not different from an ape,chimpanze,dog,monkey etc.education kills innate animalistic instincts,it refines a person so i dont see how a normal person will slap a conductor who doesnt even care about his own life talkless of others and expect not to be beaten to stupor.

This is a married man with kids we are talking about here and not a conductor,those ones are not human beings as far as i am concerned,they just look like one,in behaviour and characteristics,they are animals so as a married man,the same way a woman has responsibilities to a man is the same way a man has to his wife.on the day he was making vows,he promised beforeGod and man to love,cherish,protect and defens her and not abuse her.

Why will a man that calls himself a man that has shame will not control his anger till he gets home and mind you there are other ways of dealing with a woman without touching her instead of violence.e.g leaving the house for her for like one month or just comming to the house to sleep without saying anything to her or eating her food.no matter how acidic a womans tongue is,i have never seen a man hitting a lady in public in sane societies,that is the day he will be locked up and not see his kids again so what are we talking about.infact,they will say leaving kids with him is dangerous since he cannot even control his anger with his wife how much more kids.

Chillisauce:

Long epistle you dey preach give Efe. Once someone has an opinion here, you can't change it. You go write tire. Just move with the flow. Anyone with brain will choose how he wants to manage his life.

ileobatojo: Ok, now that the entertainment's fizzling out, let's get to the million dollar question.... Which regular poster is Eminado?

Efemena_xy:

I will NEVER support such a woman. She pushed her man to the brink, to the end of his tether and even then, he offered her an opportunity to save herself by shutting her darn mouth. Did she take it? He warned her that he'll beat her. She dared him!

Abeg make una talk another one jare.

Efemena_xy:

Someone who claims to be 'new' in nland. Been here for less than a week and claims to 'know' me.

My stalkers dey multiply in ten-folds

steph7: There are so many ways to resolve issues. Violence is not the answer.
Someone once told me a story of a woman who was always giving her husband headache with her sharp mouth. Never did he hit her, instead he spoke to her on numerous occasions. With all the talking she refused to change. He gave her a last chance, she thought he was joking until he locked her out of the house one day and brought in another woman.
That's when her eyes cleared. After months of countless begging and family intervention she came back to her home a changed woman but it was already too late.
Men if your wife gives you too much headache pack her things back to her father's house instead of hitting her.

Efemena_xy:

You've just described a long-standing situation with no immediate threats or risks to human life.

The man's situation in this story is different. He was driving and warned her to shut the hell up so he could focus. She refused and continued with her tirade. He stopped the car and she refused to get out. What more should he have done to stop the flow of hurtful words from her pit of a mouth?

kulyie: nope

alutacontinua: I don't see where the op stated that the wife started the verbal abuse. They were both shouting on each other, dt's what she said! The kind of shouting dt people outside the car could hear them clearly! If we want to judge this on the basis of action and reaction, we cannot judge right cos we dunno who started the cycle! No woman out of soooooo much joy and happiness starts shouting on her husband in a car!

[b][/b]Also, beating her does not in anyway save lives in this situation. For God's sake, they could have pushed each other towards an oncoming vehicle, the kids could av attempted to intervene and another vehicle hit them in the process. In a society where bikes are always emerging out of nowhere, everybody could get in trouble as dt place might start getting rowdy! If he really had the intention of saving lives, he could have quietly ordered her out. If she disobeys, he shld take his kids and get a cab or something. IMHO, what he did was wrong!