Recently while driving home from work,I was in a bumper - bumper kind of traffic,it was around 8pm on a friday evening.There was a toyota camry beside me,obviously occupied by a couple and their three children ,they were in a fierce argument,the woman talking loudly,the man also responding with a loud tone,before I knew it,the man shouted on top of his voice"if you do not keep quiet I ll park this car and beat the hell out of you",you know now, the woman said something like" o to be"(u no fit) ,believe me,the man parked,open the door of the side of the car the woman was,dragged her out ,started beating her like a thief,the children were screaming,it was such an embarrassing sight,other road users had to stop to separate them. I could not sleep that night,I was just preoccupied by the thought of what I witnessed,I thought about the woman,the innocent children the fate of the marriage etc if I were the woman what will I do? U nko

That beating will teach her to shut her trap whenever her husband's driving.

There are lots and lots of cosmetic marriages these days. It takes the grace of God to see us through.
But women mouth shaaa.......no matter what, the woman should be able to control her temper at least for the fact that the man was driving.
This is to avoid plunging the whole into a lagoon.

Na wah o. O ma ga ke.

Teacher beat student for making noise.

Efemena_xy: That beating will teach her to shut her trap whenever her husband's driving.

na wa o.e no suppose be you wey go say something like this.you fall my hand no be small moreover shey na for outside husband and wife suppose dey wash their dirty linen.what makes a man a man is SERIOUS SELF CONTROL UNDER SERIOUS PROVOCATION AND NOT BECAUSE HE HAS A TAIL IN BETWEEN HIS LEGS.
however such sight is not new.i have seen it twice.one around ikeja and another at surulere.this one sef park the car and they were beating themselves inside the car.funny enough they were wearing and co obviously comming from a wedding.the man continued doing what he knows how to do best without minding that people were already standing at the verandah,in front of shops,some even videoing the scene while the woman was screaming segun o mapamileni.

Anyway I AM NOT SUPRISED,NOT IN THE LEAST.i have come to realise that some women ENJOY VIOLENCE AND THEIR LOVE LANGUAGE IS VIOLENCE.

abuchilag: There are lots and lots of cosmetic marriages these days. It takes the grace of God to see us through.
But women mouth shaaa.......no matter what, the woman should be able to control her temper at least for the fact that the man was driving.
This is to avoid plunging the whole into a lagoon.

true.the woman should have zipped up her mouth.is not when tempers are flaring that she should be fuelling it by saying provocative things.at least even if them no buy shame when them dey sell am,them suppose know the kain dramas wey them go dey perform for their children presence.if they have a son there na,that disgraceful act by his father will stick to his braim and grow up thinking its normal to beat any lady that provokes them.

Till them beat the kain woman wey go carry them go kirikiri e.g titis husband,them no go know.na for there,their power dey finish.

Infact if you wan see men wey humble,wey no even get ego,na for kirikiri maximum prison.won ma sin won ro ni

Crazy family, husband craze, wife craze.

And you wonder how the kids will end up.
And the cycle continues

Both of them are not matured enough to get married. The people i pity most are the innocent kids. If care is not taken, those kids will grow up believing that is how marriage should be, the males will believe they have to beat hell out of their wives in order to command respect from them and the females will believe that, there is nothing wrong if their hubby beat them in order to correct them, afterall, that is how daddy use to correct mummy.

Smh, now we will be blaming the leaders and the society, is it not families that constitute societies? In other words, families are reflections of what happens in the society.

May God help us all.

Efemena_xy: That beating will teach her to shut her trap whenever her husband's driving.

you mean you support the man beating her in order to correct her

kulyie: na wa o.e no suppose be you wey go say something like this.you fall my hand no be small moreover shey na for outside husband and wife suppose dey wash their dirty linen.what makes a man a man is SERIOUS SELF CONTROL UNDER SERIOUS PROVOCATION AND NOT BECAUSE HE HAS A TAIL IN BETWEEN HIS LEGS.
however such sight is not new.i have seen it twice.one around ikeja and another at surulere.this one sef park the car and they were beating themselves inside the car.funny enough they were wearing and co obviously comming from a wedding.the man continued doing what he knows how to do best without minding that people were already standing at the verandah,in front of shops,some even videoing the scene while the woman was screaming segun o mapamileni.

Anyway I AM NOT SUPRISED,NOT IN THE LEAST.i have come to realise that some women ENJOY VIOLENCE AND THEIR LOVE LANGUAGE IS VIOLENCE.

greatgod2012:

you mean you support the man beating her in order to correct her

Oh please! Will you two just get a grip??!!

I do not in anyway support f00lishness and what that woman demonstrated was f00lishness at it's peak! So if beating the daylight out of her is what it took to avert a fatal accident then so be it.

Seems like you've quickly forgotten the story of the Nigerian man that got killed on the M25 highway, just to escape the his wife's caustic tongue. Do you not think that stooopid woman regrets that action everyday of her life now? Can she undo what's been done?

As a driver myself, I know how much concentration I need when driving - moreso if I'm carrying my husband and kids (my life) in that vehicle. The last thing I want is to lose focus and hit some innocent soul or God forbid, endanger the life of my loved ones, just because an uncouth spouse hasn't got the decency to curb their tongue!

What on earth could they be arguing about that can't wait till they get home? If descending to her level of ignorance is what it takes to avert a fatal accident, then so be it! Besides, he warned the illiterate woman to shut her gob but what did she do? She dared him to beat her up!

What arrant nonsense!

Efemena_xy:



Oh please! Will you two just get a grip??!!

I do not in anyway support f00lishness and what that woman demonstrated was f00lishness at it's peak! So if beating the daylight out of her is what it took to avert a fatal accident then so be it.

Seems like you've quickly forgotten the story of the Nigerian man that got killed on the M25 highway, just to escape the his wife's caustic tongue. Do you not think that stooopid woman regrets that action everyday of her life now? Can she undo what's been done?

As a driver myself, I know how much concentration I need when driving - moreso if I'm carrying my husband and kids (my life) in that vehicle. The last thing I want is to lose focus and hit some innocent soul or God forbid, endanger the life of my loved ones, just because an uncouth spouse hasn't got the decency to curb her tongue!

What on earth could they be arguing about that can't wait till they get home? If descending to her level of ignorance is what it takes to avert a fatal accident, then so be it! Besides, he warned the illiterate woman to shut her gob but what did she do? She dared him to beat her up!

What arrant nonsense!

Instead of beating her, would it not have better if he parked at the side of the road and told her find her way home, so he could concentrate on his driving. Instead of behaving like a wild animal.

^^ They're both wild animals as far as I'm concerned - but she the wilder one.

Efemena_xy:



Oh please! Will you two just get a grip??!!

I do not in anyway support f00lishness and what that woman demonstrated was f00lishness at it's peak! So if beating the daylight out of her is what it took to avert a fatal accident then so be it.

Seems like you've quickly forgotten the story of the Nigerian man that got killed on the M25 highway, just to escape the his wife's caustic tongue. Do you not think that stooopid woman regrets that action everyday of her life now? Can she undo what's been done?

As a driver myself, I know how much concentration I need when driving - moreso if I'm carrying my husband and kids (my life) in that vehicle. The last thing I want is to lose focus and hit some innocent soul or God forbid, endanger the life of my loved ones, just because an uncouth spouse hasn't got the decency to curb her tongue!

What on earth could they be arguing about that can't wait till they get home? If descending to her level of ignorance is what it takes to avert a fatal accident, then so be it! Besides, he warned the illiterate woman to shut her gob but what did she do? She dared him to beat her up!

What arrant nonsense!

You married?

I laugh in Tagalog

Very immature pple. Father no well, mother need a dokita. Asap.

The man wouldn't hv descended that low.
If I were him, I will look for where to park, respectfully take the children home and leave her in d car.
I pity d inocent children.
In all, never distract a driver. Never. Even if u r fuming. Rather tell him to stop so u can get down.
Like I said b4 they all need deliverance.

Efemena_xy:



Oh please! Will you two just get a grip??!!

I do not in anyway support f00lishness and what that woman demonstrated was f00lishness at it's peak! So if beating the daylight out of her is what it took to avert a fatal accident then so be it.

Seems like you've quickly forgotten the story of the Nigerian man that got killed on the M25 highway, just to escape the his wife's caustic tongue. Do you not think that stooopid woman regrets that action everyday of her life now? Can she undo what's been done?

As a driver myself, I know how much concentration I need when driving - moreso if I'm carrying my husband and kids (my life) in that vehicle. The last thing I want is to lose focus and hit some innocent soul or God forbid, endanger the life of my loved ones, just because an uncouth spouse hasn't got the decency to curb her tongue!

What on earth could they be arguing about that can't wait till they get home? If descending to her level of ignorance is what it takes to avert a fatal accident, then so be it! Besides, he warned the illiterate woman to shut her gob but what did she do? She dared him to beat her up!

What arrant nonsense!

so you mean to tell me that disgracing himself by beating the wife in the presence of yhe kids is the best way to keep her mouth shut.what is wrong in parking and calming her down so you people can talk like normal adults

Eminado01:
You married?

I laugh in Tagalog

And what's that supposed to mean?

You can laugh in Swahili for all I care.

Efemena_xy: ^^ They're both wild animals as far as I'm concerned - but she the wilder one.

Oh yes, she was wrong to push the man to his limits but obviously he is an animal, what sort of thing would beat his wife, the mother of his children in public!, so if it was his boss that was in the car daring him, he'll come and beat him/her abi ?

yellowpawpaw: Very immature pple. Father no well, mother need a dokita. Asap.

The man wouldn't hv descended that low.
If I were him, I will look for where to park, respectfully take the children home and leave her in d car.
I pity d inocent children.
In all, never distract a driver. Never. Even if u r fuming. Rather tell him to stop so u can get down.
Like I said b4 they all need deliverance.

gbam.that is better.han han.why do nigerians like violence too much.everything is gra gra.every mouth must be silenced with violence.nawa o

Efemena_xy: ^^ They're both wild animals as far as I'm concerned - but she the wilder one.

Efe do vex no be small.
I know its bc of the innocent children.
Who wouldn't be mad at them especially d woman?
When some hv been looking for children for yrs. U c life is not fair.
Had they suffered to get them, I don't think they will ever do that cos they will consider d children's safety first.

Efemena_xy:

And what's that supposed to mean?

You can laugh in Swahili for all I care.

Yeah, and you can keep posting your primitive opinion for all I care too.

Efemena_xy:

And what's that supposed to mean?

You can laugh in Swahili for all I care.

baby yi cool down na.oya take cold coke and use it to cool your nerves.why you dey para this evening like this mr efe vex you ni abi na the little efes wey vex you

GRA GRA IS NOT THE SOLUTION TO EVERY ISSUE.CHOIII

Eminado01:
Yeah, and you can keep posting your primitive opinion for all I care too.

broda yii,keep calm,no tempers rising.dede mirawo.small small 8-)

kulyie: so you mean to tell me that disgracing himself by beating the wife in the presence of yhe kids is the best way to keep her mouth shut.what is wrong in parking and calming her down so you people can talk like normal adults

Kulyie, you and I wouldn't do what she did because we respect ourselves too much.

If that woman had any iota of respect for herself and moreso for her husband, she would have kept her big mouth shut in the first place! According to @OP's story, they were having a heated argument in front of their kids.

We women tend to have whiplashes for tongues and words spoken sometimes cut much deeply than being hit. The man was driving. He asked her to keep quiet or else there'll be repercussions. She dared him to lift a finger. So he did and she got what she wanted.

Let's start from the beginning on assumptions here: Most men are quiet by nature. I bet you, she probably started the argument. The man being a man probably ignored her for as long as he could...which begs the question - do we even know how long he'd been subjected to her foul mouth? Eventually he snaps and trades words with her, but is still in control enough to warn her to keep quiet. If she had any sense at that point, she would have heeded the advice. But no, madam de madam don see red and just had to trade words fire-for-fire. Eventually the man snaps.

Not everyone is the same or has the same threshold for withstanding insults. Some people have low boiling points. If this idi0t of a woman really understood her husband, she should have known she was treading thin ice, that he was dangerously close to losing his cool. Hopefully, her eyes go done clear now.

At least, there was no fatal accident and hopefully, she's learnt her lesson and, I am grateful no lives were lost!

Shikena!

Smh @some mothers here
and when your male child ask you for advice about his wife, you'l advice him to beat his wife? Have you thought what kind of mother you'l be.

The Op didnt tell us what caused their quarell. What if the man made the woman angry that she couldn't hold her tongue anymore. Anger has its peak that even a patient woman needs to talk. Stop judging them, no one knew what hapened. How can a man beat his wife. No matter what the cause maybe,shes nt an animal. How many men that beats their wife has stamina to beat men at kirikiri prison. Practicing their skills on their wife. I can't be submisive to that level. I rather leave than to stay.

Efemena_xy: ^^ They're both wild animals as far as I'm concerned - but she the wilder one.

as usual,its always the woman that should be blamed in everything.even when she is the victim IT IS STILL HER FAULT.

violenceeeeee.smh.hiaaannn

kulyie: broda yii,keep calm,no tempers rising.dede mirawo.small small 8-)

No tempers ma'am, I just don't encourage and approve of violence cos once it's involved, I don't always care who's at fault...

yellowpawpaw:
Efe do vex no be small.
I know its bc of the innocent children.
Who wouldn't be mad at them especially d woman?
When some hv been looking for children for yrs. U c life is not fair.
Had they suffered to get them, I don't think they will ever do that cos they will consider d children's safety first.

Exactly! now you know where I'm coming from.

Eminado01:
Yeah, and you can keep posting your primitive opinion for all I care too.

Yeah? and you can go phock yourself silly for all I care. Next time you see my post, just waka past.

Mtcheew!

Cykik: Smh @some mothers here
and when your male child ask you for advice about his wife, you'l advice him to beat his wife? Have you thought what kind of mother you'l be.

The Op didnt tell us what caused their quarell. What if the man made the woman angry that she couldn't hold her tongue anymore. Anger has its peak that even a patient woman needs to talk. Stop judging them, no one knew what hapened. How can a man beat his wife. No matter what the cause maybe,shes nt an animal. How many men that beats their wife has stamina to beat men at kirikiri prison. Practicing their skills on their wife. I can't be submisive to that level. I rather leave than to stay.

na wetin dey suprise me o my brother,that even women/mothers can encourage domestic violence if women dont see anything wrong in what the man has done then the generation of our kids is finished,smh

Efemena_xy:

Exactly! now you know where I'm coming from.



Yeah? and you can go phock yourself silly for all I care. Next time you see my post, just waka past.

Mtcheew!

han han efe,you don old pass all this levels na.yorubas say we dey meet adults for respectable place,we no dey meet them dey do anyhow,abeg cool down,be calm,otito,oya pele

kulyie: baby yi cool down na.oya take cold coke and use it to cool your nerves.why you dey para this evening like this mr efe vex you ni abi na the little efes wey vex you

GRA GRA IS NOT THE SOLUTION TO EVERY ISSUE.CHOIII

I'm cool jare.

Fact is, I won't see wrong and sugar coat it because it's a fellow female. Life is precious and losing the lives of innocent kids out of carelessness is unforgivable. If that man had hit some other vehicle and killed the occupants in it, will she still have found the mouth to carry on arguing with him?

Some people only learn the hard way, and that wife unfortunately, is one of them.

Eminado01:
No tempers ma'am, I just don't encourage and approve of violence cos once it's involved, I don't always care who's at fault...

exactly my point