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Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by ogawisdom(m): 9:29am On Aug 01, 2014 |
3sha4lyf: Ve u ever heard d word probability, nobody is talkin abt cheatin we r talking abt d probability of LDR working out compare to close DR. D issues to deal wit in LDR is much higher n its probability of success much lower but dt doesn't mean it ll never work out. A wise man is d one who learn frm the experiences of others n nt his own experience. My take |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by Nobody: 9:39am On Aug 01, 2014 |
3sha4lyf: well, dat was quite a hammer u landed on me there. Truth be told, LDR ane F2F or SDR, which of the two has the most tendency of a cheating partner? We all know that absence makes the hrt forgetful, and when the hrt bcoms forgetful, figure out d rest. Now bak 2 d thread, skype, whatsapp, bb, viber, there are many of them out there, u just have 2 choose which would be convenient 4 both of u, bt if u'll rly wanna hear d truth, i call this plan B. My first post stands as plan A, and we all know that plan A, let's just say is always the best. NB: F2F and SDR means Face To Face and Short Distance Relationship respectively. |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by Sugardiva(f): 9:46am On Aug 01, 2014 |
LDRs are not easy but dont listen to those who say it wont work. Ur relationship is not theirs and so it will definitely have a different ending. It can work especially as she is also committed to the relationship as is evident in the fact that she also calls u a lot. I understand how real time voice calls at all times can make u feel so close together that for a moment u forget the distance. Talking endlessly for hours over nothing and everything. Not getting satisfied untill u are both completely out of airtime or battery dies. Constant communication us the lifewire of LDR. So ignore all the negativity on this thread and go get the glo CUG line and enjoy ur relationship. Cheers. 3 Likes |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by xest(m): 10:16am On Aug 01, 2014 |
My friend get a glo cug for ursef n ur girl,d recharge is 1000 each per month. In ds plan calls r free n u dnt hv to recharge until d following month. Try it,is more cheaper than buying card of 400 every day. |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by coolvitus(m): 10:22am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Don't start wht u cannot handle pls becoz love no get bass |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by Nobody: 10:26am On Aug 01, 2014 |
tunde1200: He is not in a postion to be queried. |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by Nobody: 11:25am On Aug 01, 2014 |
i totally understand with you. let me answer the question first. i, also in a similar situation, use globacom's 3 naira per minute. though as at now, i believe its turned to 5 naira per minutes. even as at that, we use viber very very well. just make sure you load her data plan with at least one gb. also make sure the network connection is good. research on good networks in your area and hers. i, as well, cannot compromise the level of comm between me and my woman. if she does not talk to me in a day, she gets soo sad and its been a relationship of one year plus now i see people talking about CUG. is it applicable to just two people or only for companies? i guess i will have to find out |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by 3sha4lyf: 12:00pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
ogawisdom: I quoted two of you (with ashonibarenla)... cheating came into the matter as hour mentioned straffing some other person's real deal. Yes there's more to deal with in LDR but I'm sure Ppl who do it are also willing to deal with the issues to the best of their abilities and if it doesn't work out at the end, they'll beat their chests that they tried their best, and move on. F2F relationship is no bulletproof for this same issues. In fact, it's even more painful to know that some F2F crashes becos some people for example, dunno how to respect their partner's "me-time". So people who wanna respect others' "me - times" while wanting same, last longer in LDRs and are completely honest in it. So pls let's suggest cost effective ways of communicating for op. |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by GamaG(m): 12:20pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
MockingBird: Chatting is not a real time way of communication. Not even the best chatting app like whatsaapp or BBM can substitute for hearing someone's voice, besides I can't stand waiting for 2 hours for someone to read my messages. It has even caused issues before in our relationships when I knew she has come online on whatsapp or read my messages on BBM and delayed for minutes or even hours to answer it. So I had to uninstall my whatsapp and stopped using BBM.make free night calls n u will only say hello to her in daytime. |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by Celenawora: 12:53pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
[quote author=fem30]Well, I don't subscribe to anything distant. Not even long distance bizness. My experience has shown that while some dude somewhere is doing all the lovey-dovey, I am the one servicing and greasing her engine full time. I am not talking of one,two or even three cases; neither am I referring to distant relationships were the lady is in nigeria alone, I am talking uk, US and Germany. The guys are doing the calling, I am doing the strafing. The guys sometimes even call when we are at it. Most of them picks the calls, feign sleep, headache or busy. It is pathetic. My advise is for you to have a relationship where u can see your partner regularly. The European and American winters sometimes, increase the longings of the women. To be forewarned is to be fore-armed.[/quote] and how has this beta ur lif? go get a lif dude n b a man. 2 Likes |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by jennylove7575(f): 12:59pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
Slimmos: Op since u are desperate to keep talking and u don't wanna chat and yet u are complaining of recharge cards, d best for you is to do night calls...moses moses aka slimmos please I take God beg u.. You and your father should give me my money...plot of land I know see, money una carry go..u came to nl. Acting all innocent. My God is not asleep. Slimmos please refund my money..you and ur 419 father should refund my money. I did not pick the £6000 ffrom the street of London....you think u can eat money? Think again. I contacted your ashewo mama yesterday she said she haven't seen you nor your dad for long...keep your fake land I don't want it anymore just refund my money...barawo banza |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by Blov: 1:10pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
u can make use of post paid or contract line, in which u will b charge between N500 per month to call and text unlimited i.e 24/7 every month between numbers that are within your circle. Inbox me for more info....... That is what I'm using with my partner. 1 Like |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by OBONGDON(m): 2:05pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
same shoe |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by bobojoshua(m): 2:11pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
MztrChukwu: Walk into any network service provider and request for a CUG line... last I checked, glo offered me a CUG line to my fiancee and it only costs 1k per month. Trust me, I'm talkin 24/7 calls |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by bobojoshua(m): 2:26pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
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Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by bobojoshua(m): 2:31pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
igbsam: My brother, Install Viber on your phone and have your chic install also, Load N200, subscribe for 50MB MTN data, place a viber call which is very very clear and talk for over 2hrs. This is what's been helping me. With N200 i dey talk until i tire to talk. Mind you, this does not include video calls o! If na video calls i wan do, i dey always use my normal 4G Swift network. |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by bobojoshua(m): 2:40pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
mimi4eva1619: There is a sim card called (CUG ) meaning close user group on glo network, u buy the sim 2k and recharge 500 naira monthly. And talk as much as u want with only her alone and if u want to call another network or another number that is not in ur group u have to recharge. It is also called forcecom. Call me for details on how to get it. THAT IS IF UR INTERESTED. 08070779066 |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by bobojoshua(m): 2:44pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
watino: both of you should dowload viber for free call and skype or yahoo messenger for cam sex |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by henchez7(m): 2:52pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
Both of you should download viber and Skype, as well as Facebook calls. its cheaper. good luck! |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by bobojoshua(m): 3:14pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
tidymaster: Get Visafone CUG there is the campus package. buy from any participating campus and register it there..then you are good to go. that's what I use. N500 for each line every month. |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by bobojoshua(m): 4:08pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
Princenady: since u need a very cheap means for local calls, i will advice u to go for glo cug. a cug as defined initially means closed user group and it z a kind of group of subscribers on GLO that can call one another and send sms to 1 another free of charge and call others that are not in d group at a very cheap rate. it is a post paid package. the group is made of 2 or more individuals. i hv seen 3 different cugs in GLO. |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by Princenady(m): 4:18pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
loladeking: i totally understand with you. it works for 2 people also. just buy it for 1k at any glo shop and pay N600 after every 1month. |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by crowntoro(f): 4:29pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
Blov: u can make use of post paid or contract line, in which u will b charge between N500 per month to call and text unlimited i.e 24/7 every month between numbers that are within your circle. Inbox me for more info.......yu funny die, why u no com put the network? |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by unikchyka(f): 4:29pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
MztrChukwu: Walk into any network service provider and request for a CUG line... last I checked, glo offered me a CUG line to my fiancee and it only costs 1k per month. Trust me, I'm talkin 24/7 callsMine is #500 2 Likes |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by unikchyka(f): 4:30pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
MztrChukwu: Walk into any network service provider and request for a CUG line... last I checked, glo offered me a CUG line to my fiancee and it only costs 1k per month. Trust me, I'm talkin 24/7 callsMine is #500 per month 1 Like |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by Odika1: 4:41pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
MockingBird: Hello, Pls I need help and reasonable solution to reduce my recharge card cost to my girlfriend. I'm in a distant relationship and I need to be talking to my girl everyday as I'm in Abuja and she is Lagos. We are so close and so fond of each other that we can gist for hours on a stretch. Sometimes I end up borrowing credit from MTN only to finish it on her again, she would do the same until even her borrowed credit is finished too. This is straining my finances as I need to load at least N400 recharge card every day to talk to her. She also buys recharge card to talk to me constantly as we both are working.Break up with her naa. |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by Nobody: 5:24pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
When i was younger I was spending between N400 and N600 calling my girl everyday. It wasn't the era of smart phones. I cannot try that now when there is Free Viber calls, Free Facebook chat calls and Whattsapp Messenger.. Ordinary Data of N4000 will serve me for a month.. Poster, download latest versions of Facebook messenger and Viber and make free calls with your babe on VOIP. |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by Nobody: 5:26pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
shachris: distant relationship is a waste of time, when you are not there, just know that someone else us polishing that kongo! |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by Nobody: 6:40pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
3sha4lyf: My friend, my post and your response can be likened to me advising the OP not to speed above 120km/hr because speed kills and you are giving the excuse that even those that drive below 80km/hr are killed at that speed and as such it is very okay to drive above 120km/hr. I understand there are exceptions however, the person quoted below and me are telling you the hard but bitter truth. And by the way, I agree that even in same house, a cheat can always cheat however, my point is that LDR's multiplies the chances of cheating and in all honestly, it rarely leads to marriage which is the aim of a good intentioned relationship (correct me if I am wrong). mecussey: LDR does not not work and that is simple. You are doing the calling and someone is doing the banging. Better bring her close or forget about her. |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by Nobody: 6:50pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
MockingBird: Hello, Pls I need help and reasonable solution to reduce my recharge card cost to my girlfriend. I'm in a distant relationship and I need to be talking to my girl everyday as I'm in Abuja and she is Lagos. We are so close and so fond of each other that we can gist for hours on a stretch. Sometimes I end up borrowing credit from MTN only to finish it on her again, she would do the same until even her borrowed credit is finished too. This is straining my finances as I need to load at least N400 recharge card every day to talk to her. She also buys recharge card to talk to me constantly as we both are working. BBM call has also helped me,but it seems its for android phones alone. prefer to hear my partners voice than chat |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by MztrChukwu(m): 8:03pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
unikchyka: Show us the way... |
Re: Distant Relationships And Phone Calls by unikchyka(f): 10:00pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
MztrChukwu:I can't really say if there are types of cug line but I bought mine #4000 about 3years ago somewhere in delta state. and since then its bin #500 1 Like |
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