Jamean:

mosquito...

Tallesty1: Issues get level madam so what really happened?


It is funny how people think that saying "sorry" would make you automaticaly 4get everything they did to you. Maybe he has taken enough, or maybe he know what you are after. You know some women automaticaly become nice and angelic when they need something from you. It doesn't work on everybody. Only a woman wrapper can be bought so easily. I'm not trying to be mean too but chances are the reason you apologised is because your birthday is around the conner. You Need That Gift Badly.

curiouslad:

Hmm
Let's turn the table over
Your own hubby refuses to wish you happy birthday, He apologizes the next day
How long will it take you to forgive him and FORGET about it??

I don't know what she did or why the husby is angry,
People deal with hurt in different ways.

Adikam: you want to get some attention from nl girls abi?well most fooliest man on earth is much more better than you may your wife did to you what she did to her hubby x4 in future &if you re a woman let your hubbing be a nagging 1 always.

What is this one saying self
I can't even comprehend

Please re-type in a language you are comfortable with and don't disgrace yourself here

And about getting attention from "NL girls"
You've got to be kidding me mehn
Who's got time for that

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mstik: Wow...nice to hear this sort of thing from a man.

2sExy1: bros, I hail o.

can we talk via email please?

andromida:



In this example e reach to vex sotey bone her birthday sef but what does it solve? So sulking, walking around with a frown, refusing to celebrate her will now humble her and "show her" who is boss. Would you not rather address the issue?

hayorbaami:

Finally bro. I was beginning to think the thread was a joke full of clowns. The silly comments and the likes they have amassed just left me speechless. Imagine one poster making a fuss over the word insensitive which aptly describes the man. And just like you said we wish exes who hurt us or even friends who have betrayed us happy birthday not to talk of one's spouse. Sometimes I don't think people understand what marriage is. Isn't it the height of insensitivity to ignore one's child on his or her birthday just because he misbehaved? Sometimes I think majority of nairaland men are just out to bully the womenfolk. I am saying this because I'm certain These comments would not have taken this dimension if the poster was a woman. All of a sudden everyone is interested in the other side of the story we obviously can not get (except the hubby comes around).


The mischievous poster that modified Op's post is sick. Why mislead people. And to think I fell for it. Was wondering why Op will kiss her ex, get caught and still have guts to open this thread and claim she didn't cheat.

mstik: Wow...nice to hear this sort of thing from a man.

okparaugo:

Sorry, he is a toddler..

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OLD Man

onegig: You should have learnt by now not to expect more than that on here. The forum is a reflection of the jaundiced society.

retepmurt: Marriage na another institution
Learn hw nt to involve third party whenever u ve issues
You nvr mentioned the actual thing u did dat got him infuriated to this extent,perhabs u ve been doing this recurrently.

Czechrep: Hi Nairalanders, my hubby is emotionally mean

We had an issue 2 days to my birthday, i apologised, but he ignored me, my birthday came, from beginning to end, he never uttered " Happy birthday"

You can imagine how i felt, people all over were calling me to wish me, but he didnt, even cancelled the dinner we were supposed to have, i feel so heart broken!!!

One would think i did something so atrocious , meanwhile i didnt,marriage is so difficult

dayuuummm !!!

himkers:

IYANGBALI: the husband sawed a love message in her bb and also caughted her with her ex boyfriend in a dark corner

Sagamite:

So you now understand that without knowing what she did, then we cannot judge if what he did was deserved?

Kai! Your student go slap you today. Onegig go dey vex say you dey teach am rubbish "immaturity".

mstik: I almost used the word 'immature' but changed it last minute. And I say Things as they are, no matter how serious the issue claims to be.

rokiatu: He is an insensitive husband period. If he was really in for peace he would have even just let it go for the sake of her birthday.

Trust me people this lady didn't commit any serious crime to warrant such.....she probably did something we all have done some point in our marriages/relationships , maybe she pissed him off, say something offensive, didn't do something he wanted or so on......I'm no supporting her action am only saying that shes human, we all makes mistake and marriage is...tying a bond with someone to piss off each other for the rest of your lives. How you handle it is what sets your marriage apart. And this young man or old man is not handling it very well.


A little advice to @ You the wife, this thread is uncalled for....yes I say so. I mean whats the essence of this thread? How is what we're writing here gonna help you in anyway? and you said that hes on nairaland as well this thread could even gets him more angry. What you should have done is tell him about how you feel about what he did.......even if that means a day later because I know when some people get angry pride gets in the way.........and that's individual differences even me my heart is not near here.......no marriage is perfect me and my husband fight sometimes..........and a lot of irrelevant fights but we always make up.... we dont go a day without making it better. And this is a result of team work, sometimes I try to swallow my pride and patch things up even if hes wrong and sometimes mostly he does because i have quicker temper, and big heart so he try to put his down a bit so we can be balance. Someone has to come down a bit one way or the other, it don't matter who.


And you the hubby, if you are reading this, You have conscious, and I am pretty sure it must have told you the right thing to do by now. Be a man and make things right you still have time to make this lady feel special......it was her birthday for God sake I mean you could have atleast put aside your anger for the sake of this one day.

aflyingbird:
wtf r u on abt?? dere's nothing wrong with mstik sayin op's husband is insensitive. wat he did is downright insensitive to his wife. what's wrong with using d word? she didn't call him any names, just dat his action is insensiitive n she's right. ignoring ur wife n not wishing her a happy birthday is 2 much

heatmeup: you must have noticed this small small when you were courting

okparaugo:

Let her say what she did.

Is it too much to ask ?

Your opinion is only yours...

naijaboiy:

What is this one saying self
I can't even comprehend

Please re-type in a language you are comfortable with and don't disgrace yourself here

And about getting attention from "NL girls"
You've got to be kidding me mehn
Who's got time for that

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naijaboiy:
Cool
It seems you were the one the op had sex with that made the husband angry
Right

honeric01: See "kids" assuming for the man.

Some are even saying she didn't commit any offence

How come she skipped what she did?

Or you think every offence is worthy of the same punishment?

Well, there are some offences you can't even stomach to tell people, maybe this particular one falls under this region.

Until you give the forum a clue of what you did, sensible people won't even give you any legal/illegal advice.

Enjoy your pity party.

Adikam: i just told you what you are & what your marriage will look like in future.you're such a fool

See person dey take panadol for another man head ache

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