Missmossy: Jeeeez! You both are married,ooops....his actions are so unreasonable. Birthdays are special days to be celebrated,whatever happened between you too ought not to affect whatsoever actions he takes.

Eeyah,that must have hurt,you both are married anyway, he should make it up to you the right way it is well.

Just tell her sorry too... Since she felt an apology is enough

Tell us the full gist then we can judge this is only half of the story

I believe you must have hurt him especially if its something you've been doing and always say sorry..

I think he is tired of hearing sorry,he needs change...anyway make i no conclude first,since you didn't state the cause of the problem.

Wat did u do nw, next time try not to mess up wen ur bday is very close u hear

op, u already brought d issue here n ur husband might read some persons comment which might not be fair to him. As long as u say d truth abt wat really happened n nothing but d truth, i dont think ur hubby ll see any bad in it. Except u re planing to lie on his head. I knw ur hubby wld ve said hbd at least. Thats mean i know. But wat did u do dat made him ignore a whole ur bday? Explain op

Odunharry: Happy new month nairalanders

Same to U

you guys dont even know if this woman went and f*ck another man two days to her bday, and you expect the man to forgive just like that. Madam Op, picture of your offence or wedonbilivit

Yo are wickedt

ednut1: so wat shud we do

Nollywood... i think i have seen that movie..Jim Iyke and Genevieve Nnaji..(Birthday Heartbreak)

She no wan tell us wetin she do

Happy new month.

Czechrep: Hi Nairalanders, my hubby is emotionally mean

We had an issue 2 days to my birthday, i apologised, but he ignored me, my birthday came, from beginning to end, he never uttered " Happy birthday"

You can imagine how i felt, people all over were calling me to wish me, but he didnt, even cancelled the dinner we were supposed to have, i feel so heart broken!!!

One would think i did something so atrocious , meanwhile i didnt,marriage is so difficult

dayuuummm !!!

madam, issues have grade. issues is embodiment of many family problems define the issue u mean. as a man i can not see a man caressing and kissing or even making love with my wife and u simply see it as easy to forgive issue. as a man, its only cheating that will put me in the situation that ur man. so the word issue means many things.

OP my sincere opinion, since u know ur husband will c dis don't u think he ll be further infuriated? If u feel u did nofin crious I don't c any reasons y u cannot employ ur graceful charms as his wife nd a woman. Dey say every man has a weakness u shuld know ur husband s own nd apply the tricks am sure it'll work. Nb- any man I don't know how to calm wen he s upset is def not my man

I can't comment until i hear about d issue dat brought abt d action of d husband. What if d husband caught her wit another man? and becos its her birthday he should 4get just like that.

You have told us what your husband did...
So what did you do that offended him...
It's easy to come here and say anything...
You must ve done something terrible if not horrible...

Marriage is not "hard" we make marriage hard for ourselves by:

1. Marrying the wrong person just because "all my friends are married" "Time is not on my side"

2. Marrying someone with issues we overlook hoping we can "Change" them. Note: YOU ARE NOT GOD, even God doesnt change people, people have free will to decide how they want to be and how they want to act

3. Deliberately acting up and pushing the buttons of our spouses because we think and hope "sorry" will sort everything out.

Now for your issue: WHAT HAPPENED? What made him so mad?

Be that as it may, I find it excessive that he wouldnt put whatever issues you have aside on one special day of the year and resolve it and make it a good day for you. That is not "Head of the House attitude". He has now created a bigger problem by letting anger and vindictiveness take control, the issue now wont be the original issue the issue will be his childishness and using your birthday to "Punish" you for what happened between you two.

My advice: Lay low, say nothing and do nothing. When he feels ready to make up talk with him and let him know that the action was not very nice. There are 363 days a year to fight, Birthdays, Anniversaries are not one of them.

softsparkyy: @Czechrep tell us the truth, Did you apologise to him because of your upcoming birthday or because you were truly sorry and remorseful?

If U ask me, na who I go ask? D mata wey U see so, eh tey wey eh start, no be me go talk am, eh heavy for mouth....
Seriously, I don't know if op has shared all the details with us, since U invited us into this matter, be ready to open up coz me no dey talk for matter wey no complete.

You must be a wicked woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are the one that is insensitive because you don't care how he feels deeply over the sin you are covering here. That's ur monkey woman

It's really so unfortunate you're experiencing such. But you weren't really holistic in presenting the issue; rather, you were one-sided. Not to play the devil's advocate here, but I think you must have so upset your hubby. Instead of branding him the way you did, you should look for the best means to communicate with him and settle your differences. Marriage is not a bed of roses; that's because the two people involved are not a species of flowering plants. Work it out, girl!

maybe u cheated on him and he got to knw

Czechrep: My husband saw me kissed my ex, there were no strings attached, I apologised though, but he is taking it too far

You tactically avoided what u did in your write up.

Saying sorry wouldn't wipe off some transgression in marriage, sometimes there should be punishment for bad behaviour.

Maybe, his own way of punishing you is ignoring u on your birthday.

You are not dead, there will be many more birthdays in this marriage, next time, be of your best behaviour towards your husband when an event so dear to you will soon take place.

You can't go pissing him off and expect just sorry to do the magic.

Op is lucky that the hubby has not kicked her out...I smell infidelity,that is one thing that hurts badly.

Na for Nairaland you dey report me ifunaya eh? When I come back from my trip I will escort you and your things to your uncle's house. Emotionally mean indeed see you dey speak grammar, why you no tell them say na me train you for school?

cassette: Please post pictures of your marriage certificate or I don't believe this

Ode
Happy new month house

Okudiover: Na for Nairaland you dey report me ifunaya eh? When I come back from my trip I will escort you and your things to your uncle's house. Emotionally mean indeed see you dey speak grammar, why you no tell them say na me train you for school?

Rotfl... Na u even pay for antenatal when her mama dey carry am for belle.

softsparkyy: @Czechrep tell us the truth, Did you apologise to him because of your upcoming birthday or because you were truly sorry and remorseful?

A thinking woman. The fact that she refused to tell us what she did shows the birthday is more important to her than the fake apology she tendered to her husband. people can tel sometimes.

She calls her transgression petty, another wrong assessment. Whatever will make your husband ignore u on your birthday is not PETTY. She really did hurt him bad.

Dis is a one sided tori to the juri, you expect us to chastise him?? And some mumu sef fell for it, dat guy dnt care if u go bleep urself,ur marriage success lies in ur hand sisimi.

softsparkyy: @Czechrep tell us the truth, Did you apologise to him because of your upcoming birthday or because you were truly sorry and remorseful?

How many days passed before you apologise

Op tat is bad of him oh, its like ur husband go be expert for malice keeping, anyway ask for me oh am not really a birthday person most times I don't remember my birthday until d text or calls start rolling in or wen my husband say it to me by 12midnight b4 d actual day, but my husband na freak for birthday oh him birthday he done begin preparation a week and he likes celebrating or marking it, so if he does tat to me I sure knw how to revenge and tat is wat my husband hate abt me, I go make sure I no bake cake for him or cook his favourite fried rice on tat day with him favourite chin chin too. revenge is sweet wen serve hot and spicey, but no follow my pattern oh, e fit purge u oh one mans meat is another mans fish, hahahahaha.

MzMariah:

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