whatever.

clemmonce: Then I think you are the one that is insensitive. going by your comments.

mstik: I almost used the word 'immature' but changed it last minute. And I say Things as they are, no matter how serious the issue claims to be.

You would have gone ahead to use the bold. No biggie, because you feel you are more matured. Funny stuff

But I thought you should know that the word "insensitive" is judgement word and If you must pass judgement, the two parties will be present and must have presented their accounts.

Take it or leave it, whether you are saying the right thing or not, don't allow caution to fly away through the window when you choose your diction as partaining to someone's marriage.

clemmonce: Then I think you are the one that is insensitive. going by your comments.

1000likes

Whaaat

jnrbayano:

You would have gone ahead to use the bold. No biggie, because you feel you are more matured. Funny stuff

But I thought you should know that the word "insensitive" is judgement word and If you must pass judgement, the two parties will be present and must have presented their accounts.

Take it or leave it, whether you are saying the right thing or not, don't allow caution to fly away through the window when you choose your diction as partaining to someone's marriage.

mstik: Whaaat

It will be clear when you get married.

jnrbayano:

You would have gone ahead to use the bold. No biggie, because you feel you are more matured. Funny stuff

But I thought you should know that the word "insensitive" is judgement word and If you must pass judgement, the two parties will be present and must have presented their accounts.

Take it or leave it, whether you are saying the right thing or not, don't allow caution to fly away through the window when you choose your diction as partaining to someone's marriage.

wtf r u on abt?? dere's nothing wrong with mstik sayin op's husband is insensitive. wat he did is downright insensitive to his wife. what's wrong with using d word? she didn't call him any names, just dat his action is insensiitive n she's right. ignoring ur wife n not wishing her a happy birthday is 2 much

Thanks a lot, bro.

aflyingbird:
wtf r u on abt?? dere's nothing wrong with mstik sayin op's husband is insensitive. wat he did is downright insensitive to his wife. what's wrong with using d word? she didn't call him any names, just dat his action is insensiitive n she's right. ignoring ur wife n not wishing her a happy birthday is 2 much

mstik: LOL. I say insensitive because she apologised and he still is not talking to her-even on her birthday! And you know how important birthdays are to us women lol Anyway, marriage is not a bed of roses and he should know that forgiveness is an important aspect in marriage.

this is an attempt to present ignorance as intelligence.

jnrbayano: Op,

I know how hurtful it is to you for your hubby to ignore you on your birthday.

There must be a way to reason with him, employ all your feminine charms on him, he will surely come around.

Good luck.

dis is d kind of comment I expect from ladies, but it is a shame dat they dnt even realise their strenght.

@OP Ur hubby no get money for birthday and did not know how to tell u.














Nah correct guy man









































better luck next year

A big K to you,man

Jenams: this is an attempt to present ignorance as intelligence.

jnrbayano: Op,

I know how hurtful it is to you for your hubby to ignore you on your birthday.

There must be a way to reason with him, employ all your feminine charms on him, he will surely come around.

Good luck.

@op, follow this advice

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mstik: A big K to you,man

Please post pictures of your marriage certificate or I don't believe this

Czechrep: Guys what could i possibly do that would warrant such meanness? Its so petty and i wouldnt ever bother to mention it, he visits nairaland and would probably see this and write back, Fyi i ddint cheat or steal or even commit any offense.thanks y'all for your comments, Whatever will be will be, i didnt ask for any gifts or money, i just felt " Happy Birthday " would have meant alot, cheers guys

czechrep's hubby, since u r a nairalander, i know u will read dis...

whatever d issue is, u shud've put it aside n show luv to ur wife on her bday... not just on her bday but daily. don't get angry over little things to da point of hurting ur wife, wat u did was very hurtful. 12-yr olds act dis way, not adults. u r an adult n u r married. anything bothering u? speak up, work it out with her, don't hold grudges. d petty issue happened 2 days before her bday, she apologized to make u happy but u still chose to snub her n treat her badly on her bday, a once a yr occasion, y nau? u r being a bully to ur own wife, it's not good

GoodFaith:
Learn to respect your man

Let her say what she did first before you judge her.

You better pray for him, because no room for divorce o. And he'll still have to deal with more hurt, because you don't have to please him all the time because you fear his reaction. Just pray for him, talking won't change him but if you want, find someone he respects to do that. HBD in arrears

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ednut1: so wat shud we do

Tell her sorry naaa. U sef mean too.

Your husband is cool but mean.

ednut1: so wat shud we do

Wish her "happy birthday".

I don't comment on threads like this one.


But when i decide to, the Op has to tell me (us) what she did to her husband. C'est fini

edited : except the OP, quote me and thunder will fire you!

mstik: So sorry that you have such an insensitive husband. Maybe you should try talking to him. Do not repay evil with evil, keep talking to him as if nothing happened, that would definitely get him to break he ice

an eye for an eye...

Speechless.

mstik: Ehen? warris the matter?

he's a boy not a Man!

Tallesty1: Issues get level madam so what really happened?




It is funny how people think that saying "sorry" would make you automaticaly 4get everything they did to you.

Tell them o... Especially the girls

This thread just confirmed the romance section is filled with kids having mucus running down their noses.

@op
You need to tell him how his actions hurt you. He is just plain insensitive and childish.

No matter what the fight is, a simple happy birthday is the least thing he could have said to you. We even wish our enemies happy birthday on their facebook pages let alone your spouse.

Op so sorry to hear this. See that's why I believe in serious courtship before marriage, so you can both know each other well enough and always know what to expect in various situations. You and him really need to talk! Maybe you hurt him deeply and he decided to hurt you back? Its time for a serious talk with him, one that should lead to decisions.

@Czechrep tell us the truth, Did you apologise to him because of your upcoming birthday or because you were truly sorry and remorseful?

Marriage na another institution
Learn hw nt to involve third party whenever u ve issues
You nvr mentioned the actual thing u did dat got him infuriated to this extent,perhabs u ve been doing this recurrently.