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Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by benswagtt(m): 10:56pm On Sep 23, 2014
nekaa: ah don hear....

dis one na non virgin.....
"by their post dey shal b known"

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Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by nwaobitex: 10:57pm On Sep 23, 2014
true.
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by benswagtt(m): 10:58pm On Sep 23, 2014
Dolemite:

The same can be said as advantages for masterbation. grin grin

P.S
Man was created to procreate, sex is completely natural, that is why young males have wet dreams in their teens and we females 'ripen' in our teens too, it's all natural
u again?
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by folba(m): 10:58pm On Sep 23, 2014
Nice .I don't totally agree wif No 6 tho
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by instinctx: 11:00pm On Sep 23, 2014
soldierdollar: My girlfriend,she's as beautiful as a mermaid ... No exaggeration.. (Lucky me) Is still a virgin . The first day we kissed was too emotional for her . She almost ate me angry She held my thing in her hands (a gesture ) . It was much I could do to restrain myself from entering her. Each time I look into her eyes , I see innocence and desperation .... Desperation to know how it feels to be a non-virgin .
Mother fucker,fucking break her b4 someone else does
Tappa like u

She's too beautiful and I just like adoring her ...
She's too tender I don't want to break her
Oh the quake of her body each time I kiss her
The tremble of her body each time I look in her eyes .



Should I break her ? sad
undecided
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by CyracksMrBlogger(m): 11:02pm On Sep 23, 2014
rokiatu: And the disadvantages are?
sorry no disadvantages virgin girls are really adoring. If u aren't one, then am sorry for ur loss.
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by benswagtt(m): 11:02pm On Sep 23, 2014
lastina: :oHmmm!. Recently a married friend of mine said she wouldn't advice anyone to marry as a virgin.she married as a virgin and sounded as if she was cheated. I personally think its worth the wait if u get married to a man who values it other wise
i guess she is too silly nd @ dat tym stil tryin 2 console you
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by benswagtt(m): 11:05pm On Sep 23, 2014
symbian03: Shout out to all the virgins out there. May all our waitings be well worth it at the end.

And oh! it ain't lack of opportunity please, it's all about self control and ''WILL POWER''.
dats d word!!! Over 5 ladies hav tried deflowerin me... Bt i knw wat i want... Its nt a 5min stuf....




One minute of enjoyment can cause everlasting sorrow and torment...!
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by CyracksMrBlogger(m): 11:05pm On Sep 23, 2014
FrancisTony: I am Male and a Virgin.

Oh Lord!, how nice. smiley
this post applies to female not males.
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by Ekken: 11:06pm On Sep 23, 2014
balogundayo: I don't really fancy them so called innocent virgins as i dont plan marrying one.. I like bad girls who's had experience in sex and relationships, girls who know the time to initiate romantic moments nd hw to do them...

I find them real appealing to me... We all have different thinking perspectives...
Why should i marry a virgin? They are boring, inexperienced nd dont have sexy attributes...

One man's meat is another man's poison
#nonvirginsrock!
change your orientation sir
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by shehuakafi(m): 11:06pm On Sep 23, 2014
Go to the muslims girl in the north. Virgin girls plenty.
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by Nobody: 11:07pm On Sep 23, 2014
number 3. What if she's chosen to bear Jesus again but this time for the rapture?
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by Dolemite(f): 11:07pm On Sep 23, 2014
benswagtt: u again?

Have we met? grin grin
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by benswagtt(m): 11:08pm On Sep 23, 2014
Emmalot121: As for me, I can't marry a non-virgin cheesy , they will loose my confidence.A virgin is desirable,if u have been with one.Only if you change your perspective about women and sex and become a sapiosexual, then and only then would you find true love.
In fact, if you are a slightly emotional guy, teaching your innocent girl some styles can bring sweet sorrows to your face, remembering all those chicks and that you don't deserve her. Girls run from guys like this, we all know what they want. smiley
exactly! Dat dude is just sex oriented

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Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by tmanuelle(m): 11:08pm On Sep 23, 2014
On the point No. 10, in as much as I will agree with you that a virgin will be highly respected by her man in marriage, I disagree with your conclusion. Virginity doesn't make a marriage, it's your qualities, your values. That you are a virgin as at the time of wedding does not make you a good wife.

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Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by elspycey(m): 11:14pm On Sep 23, 2014
All this kpomo men.

Either you stay a virgin till your dying days or you lost yours in the womb, prick is prick and anytime e enter ram, e don enter ram be that.

See ehn, person wey go wild go wild no matter what.

No way you go hold bold5 wey no go 'hang'.
No matter how long you keep your virginity, unless you wanna die with it, someday, the chicken will come to roost.

All you have is the bragging right ' I remained a virgin TILL I got married'...meanwhile na story for the witches.

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Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by godman01(m): 11:15pm On Sep 23, 2014
lalasticlala: It's a mixture of medical and social advantages.


1 STIs: there is no way a virgin an be infected with STIsĀ·

2 HIV-AIDS: There is no way a virgin can have AIDS or HIV infection, which is transmitted by sexual interactions. She may still be at risk with the blood infection through cut skin etc but this last category forms only 5% or less of HIV infections.

3 Unwanted pregnancies: There is no way a virgin can become pregnant

4 Falling in love: A virgin does not fall in love with any and all persons ho comes her way the way non-virgin do and therefore make some avoidable mistakes. To most virgins, love is not blind; it has some sense, although it may be a little vision impaired.

5 Lust: Most of the activities of non-virgins are borne out of lust which we shall define here as an exaggeration of the feeling of love to such a point that it becomes closer to hate than love. Most people have seen how those in 'lust' have harmed their objects of affection in the name of jealousy or anger etc. True love is calm and never violent and never wants to harm. What teenagers call 'crush', infatuation' etc are just naked lust. And most sexually abnormal behaviors, which tend to inflict harm, are all borne out of lust and not love. Here we define anything abnormal as one that provides more harm to the biology of the individual (that is his true nature), than good.

6 Love: There is a lot of true love in virgin marriages. A woman who marries as a virgin rarely sees, or complains of problems as often as the non-virgin. Sometimes (or most times) in interpersonal relationships, it is our perception of situation that created problems which ordinary do not exist.

7 Getting married: It is difficult to find a virgin who has a problem getting married and usually at very early age which biology teaches is the optimal time for conception and establishing long and lasting relationship. For most female this must be under 25 years. A woman of the age of 27 and above is considered in medical science to be past her prime of having safe first conception.

8 Preparation for marriage: Virgins tend to be better prepared for marriage than non-virgins because of excitement. The non-virgins are worried about the future and have to make conscious effort to let their marriage work if they so wish.

9 Fun: There is lot of fun and excitement for the virgin couple on wedding night. I know a couple he spent two nights trying to break a thick hymen. The bride jokingly told the groom to please hire someone to do it for him if he cannot perform.

10 Respect from Husband: Most men tend to respect virgins throughout their marriage vows. Virgins rarely have break up marriages. I am yet to see a man who will divorce a woman whom he married as a virgin.

11 Sexual deviation: It is difficult to define deviation in sexual behavior but we can say it is any form of sexual behavior that causes biological harm. But it is impossible to see a true virgin involved in any form of sexual behavior that may be considered deviant by any standard.

12 Infertility: It is difficult to find a woman who got married as virgin having problems getting pregnant. Although there may be some born with infertility problem, but the acquired ones are not found in virgins. For example STIs which cause infertility by scarring reproductive organs in both male and female are no found in virgins.

13 Beauty: The beauty of an innocent woman is indescribable. It is like new rose.


http://www.oluwoleogunranti.com/afash/scientificvirginity.htm


Do you agree with all these points?
Your post is directed only to the ladies, is there no male virgin?
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by benswagtt(m): 11:16pm On Sep 23, 2014
Dolemite:

Have we met? grin grin
yea... We hav... Am scared of u... I dnt jst knw y..... Dere was 1 of ur post dat gave me a shock
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by Nobody: 11:17pm On Sep 23, 2014
In as much as I agree with some things you have listed.
Some points are not true.

Being a virgin for me was one of the most distracting burdens i ever faced, and it nearly ruined my life.
I was not a very sharp guy and i was a V for sometime, and i even mean V for masturbation.
The hormones really distracted me...so your love points and lust points are just boloney.
Virgins are more likely to suffer heart breaks and insecurity except if they are fortunate to marry early.
Besides, who says non virgins can't be as happy as virgins


And you can get HIV or other Stis from means other than sex...like blood transfusion/ needle pricks/ making out

Lets just say my V days were not rosy...very embarrassing stories. I know its religiously kinda wrong, but what about other sins...like Lying/ Stealing/ Killing/ Cheating/ Not honoring your parents...i don't know why the only sins people regard as sin is premarital sex, but they can commit all the others and then some without conscience...like the $20 billion lie/ theft, seems more sinly than screwing around to moi. But hey, am no judge

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Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by benswagtt(m): 11:18pm On Sep 23, 2014
instinctx:
undecided mother fucker fucking break her b4 someone does shocked
hmmmmm... Advyc from d pit of hell...
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by Nobody: 11:18pm On Sep 23, 2014
Good for the virgins.... but are they really virgins. I once dated a chic who was a virgin . we did everything aside vagin*l penetration ... such would vouch no man has touched her I guess when I pratically played with everything unclad. I only respected her tho because I knew she was in a dilema whether to let go or keep it. I advised her to ... she only was keeping it because she wanted to impress her dad may be when she gets married not that she was willing to..... its not just virgins of the vagin*l , it is about being virgins in mind too.

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Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by benswagtt(m): 11:19pm On Sep 23, 2014
shehuakafi: Go to the muslims girl in the north. Virgin girls plenty.
na lie!!!
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by tziz(m): 11:21pm On Sep 23, 2014
See advantages witout disadvantages! Well all dese "advantages" mean nothing to me cos despite d fact dt iv had two vry boring relatnships wit virgins in d past, I dnt fancy dem and never intend marrying one..

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Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by tuffgongjo(m): 11:25pm On Sep 23, 2014
Those gals wey dem dey fvck for Arseee nko?but not d virginalllll nko?

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Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by Nobody: 11:26pm On Sep 23, 2014
Spot on OP.... Ur write up is kool
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by Nobody: 11:28pm On Sep 23, 2014
Eyop: Some girls and ladies will keep saying God bless you,wonderful post OP,OP please tell them,etc when in reality they are not even virgins but rotten tomato smh undecided
lol, what does it profit you to be a virgin and have an attitude your partner can't stand

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Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by AspDrone(m): 11:28pm On Sep 23, 2014
Come dey see how disvirgins go dey beef de post while Virgins go just dey smile...hahaha
Even some wey don taste tha banana go say 'my body is a temple of.....'
@op advantages of being disVirgin next abeg no let dem feel like sinners....am sure it surpasses the advantages of Virgins ImO.
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by Nobody: 11:28pm On Sep 23, 2014
Emmalot121: As for me, I can't marry a non-virgin cheesy , they will loose my confidence.A virgin is desirable,if u have been with one.Only if you change your perspective about women and sex and become a sapiosexual, then and only then would you find true love.
In fact, if you are a slightly emotional guy, teaching your innocent girl some styles can bring sweet sorrows to your face, remembering all those chicks and that you don't deserve her. Girls run from guys like this, we all know what they want. smiley
do you know what some virgins have done that non virgins wouldn't have done .... what you should look out for is her reason for still being a virgin. don't be suprised you may be heartbroken by her some of her actions when she is disvirgined.
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by eckersley: 11:29pm On Sep 23, 2014
Virginity is for males and females. But this article is skewed/slanted towards female. Its a good piece. But endeavour to correct this notion [of virginity being a female thing]u conveyed throughout the article.
I'm a 30yr old virgin guy and will remain so till marriage. God has helped me thus far.

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Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by Nobody: 11:31pm On Sep 23, 2014
gmyguy: lol, what does it profit you to be a virgin and have an attitude your partner can't stand
some guys dont see this .... some can allow their wives slap them because she is a virgin .... jonesing men.

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Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by ggrin(f): 11:31pm On Sep 23, 2014
Xsenga: THANK GOD. smiley
sayundecided
Re: 13 Advantages Of Virginity by bennyemmy(m): 11:32pm On Sep 23, 2014
Xsenga: THANK GOD. smiley

lwkmd o...shuoo y d tnk God?..re u stil a virgin?

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