tuffgongjo: Those gals wey dem dey fvck for Arseee nko?but not d virginalllll nko?

eckersley: Virginity is for males and females. But this article is skewed/slanted towards female. Its a good piece. But endeavour to correct this notion [of virginity being a female thing]u conveyed throughout the article.
I'm a 30yr old virgin guy and will remain so till marriage. God has helped me thus far.

benswagtt: yea... We hav... Am scared of u... I dnt jst knw y..... Dere was 1 of ur post dat gave me a shock

temigracie: ....hmmmm...**sighs**...

Honestly, it is not easy....One of the hardest thing to do in this present age or century is to be celibate....You get distracted, you are always tempted from different sides, etc...

I also do not blame non-virgins....Most are victims of circumstances....Most do not believe in its uniqueness....Most are brought up in a really harsh environment....

To me, Virginity is special...To some people, it is a normal thing....I think the major koko or contributing factor is 'true love'....

jmoore:

Tear rubber all the way!!!!!!!!

Reasons why I will marry a virgin
1- Virgins are brand-new, untouched. I get to commission her.
2- No abortion, I don't want to marry the mother of dead children .
3- I don't want to see her ex releasing a new album titled "I hit her first".
4- Free from Stds.
5- It is a sign of self-control which means she has a higher chance to remain faithful when married to me.
6- An Incredible Wedding Day and Night + honeymoon.(A night of two virgins)
7- A great role model for our kids.

gmyguy:
Exactly, the world has changed, any 30+ virgin around now...you are OYO....Abeg, cut off limit should be age 24. But, that said, sex is overated. and topics like this. If you can keep it fine, but if you are over 30 and bragging around about still being a virgin

gmyguy: lol, what does it profit you to be a virgin and have an attitude your partner can't stand

jmoore:

Tear rubber all the way!!!!!!!!

Reasons why I will marry a virgin
1- Virgins are brand-new, untouched. I get to commission her.
2- No abortion, I don't want to marry the mother of dead children .
3- I don't want to see her ex releasing a new album titled "I hit her first".
4- Free from Stds.
5- It is a sign of self-control which means she has a higher chance to remain faithful when married to me.
6- An Incredible Wedding Day and Night + honeymoon.(A night of two virgins)
7- A great role model for our kids.

Dolemite:

Not my intention to shock, what was is please? I am really a fun person to be around (my friends say so anyway), lets hear what gave you shock.

Gaidenk: The funny thing is that most virgins i have met don't want to marry virgin men. Wish i could grab a screen shot of a lady who married a virgin and asked me to not to marry a virgin,or disvirgin the girl first before i marry her,i asked her why,she replied "you don't wanna find out". I also knew a woman who married as a virgin,a few months after her wedding she started sleeping around. True "abstinance" has it advantages,its all in the mind,purity in its trueness is a soul thing. Some virgins are just walking time bombs. To be honest I'd rather marry a non virgin that has values ,ethics,principles and is really HOT,wey sabi

tmanuelle: On the point No. 10, in as much as I will agree with you that a virgin will be highly respected by her man in marriage, I disagree with your conclusion. Virginity doesn't make a marriage, it's your qualities, your values. That you are a virgin as at the time of wedding does not make you a good wife.

lordnammy: Most virgins also prospers in life than non virgins

majekdom2: where did you get this from .... you got a R and D centre in ur house?

hoyinkansola: nice post.. very true

Xsenga: YES.

eckersley: Virginity is for males and females. But this article is skewed/slanted towards female. Its a good piece. But endeavour to correct this notion [of virginity being a female thing]u conveyed throughout the article.
I'm a 30yr old virgin guy and will remain so till marriage. God has helped me thus far.

balogundayo: I don't really fancy them so called innocent virgins as i dont plan marrying one.. I like bad girls who's had experience in sex and relationships, girls who know the time to initiate romantic moments nd hw to do them...

I find them real appealing to me... We all have different thinking perspectives...
Why should i marry a virgin? They are boring, inexperienced nd dont have sexy attributes...

One man's meat is another man's poison
#nonvirginsrock!

majekdom2: some guys no get experience .... th best bj of my life was from a virgin.

ggrin: say

bennyemmy:

lwkmd o...shuoo y d tnk God?..re u stil a virgin?

benswagtt: sumtyn lyk.... I love the devil... Ur eyes too, i love dem bt am scared of it..

lalasticlala: It's a mixture of medical and social advantages.


1 STIs: there is no way a virgin an be infected with STIs·

2 HIV-AIDS: There is no way a virgin can have AIDS or HIV infection, which is transmitted by sexual interactions. She may still be at risk with the blood infection through cut skin etc but this last category forms only 5% or less of HIV infections.

3 Unwanted pregnancies: There is no way a virgin can become pregnant

4 Falling in love: A virgin does not fall in love with any and all persons ho comes her way the way non-virgin do and therefore make some avoidable mistakes. To most virgins, love is not blind; it has some sense, although it may be a little vision impaired.

5 Lust: Most of the activities of non-virgins are borne out of lust which we shall define here as an exaggeration of the feeling of love to such a point that it becomes closer to hate than love. Most people have seen how those in 'lust' have harmed their objects of affection in the name of jealousy or anger etc. True love is calm and never violent and never wants to harm. What teenagers call 'crush', infatuation' etc are just naked lust. And most sexually abnormal behaviors, which tend to inflict harm, are all borne out of lust and not love. Here we define anything abnormal as one that provides more harm to the biology of the individual (that is his true nature), than good.

6 Love: There is a lot of true love in virgin marriages. A woman who marries as a virgin rarely sees, or complains of problems as often as the non-virgin. Sometimes (or most times) in interpersonal relationships, it is our perception of situation that created problems which ordinary do not exist.

7 Getting married: It is difficult to find a virgin who has a problem getting married and usually at very early age which biology teaches is the optimal time for conception and establishing long and lasting relationship. For most female this must be under 25 years. A woman of the age of 27 and above is considered in medical science to be past her prime of having safe first conception.

8 Preparation for marriage: Virgins tend to be better prepared for marriage than non-virgins because of excitement. The non-virgins are worried about the future and have to make conscious effort to let their marriage work if they so wish.

9 Fun: There is lot of fun and excitement for the virgin couple on wedding night. I know a couple he spent two nights trying to break a thick hymen. The bride jokingly told the groom to please hire someone to do it for him if he cannot perform.

10 Respect from Husband: Most men tend to respect virgins throughout their marriage vows. Virgins rarely have break up marriages. I am yet to see a man who will divorce a woman whom he married as a virgin.

11 Sexual deviation: It is difficult to define deviation in sexual behavior but we can say it is any form of sexual behavior that causes biological harm. But it is impossible to see a true virgin involved in any form of sexual behavior that may be considered deviant by any standard.

12 Infertility: It is difficult to find a woman who got married as virgin having problems getting pregnant. Although there may be some born with infertility problem, but the acquired ones are not found in virgins. For example STIs which cause infertility by scarring reproductive organs in both male and female are no found in virgins.

13 Beauty: The beauty of an innocent woman is indescribable. It is like new rose.


http://www.oluwoleogunranti.com/afash/scientificvirginity.htm


Do you agree with all these points?

Dolemite:

Lol, guy you serious? well I do not believe in the devil or God, so that comment I made was tongue in cheek.

P.S
Don't be scared homie.