₦airaland Forum

osothermal:
The Anti-Men laws is too extreme. Imagine even Cats and dogs are treated with preference than us

Imagine being jealous of a cat and dog.

pansophist:
I blame the man.

It's easy to blame women or others, but if he did the right thing, this thing won't happen to him.

I live in the West myself, and almost all the marriages I see between Nigerians is the women on top and the man under. The system is designed to emasculate men.

Why will one want to be a husband and a father in such climate? A place where you can't father your kids well, and the state has influence and control over your children and marriage than you?

Feel free to move abroad with your wife, I'm not discouraging that, but make sure your immigration status is not at the mercy of someone. Just as most Nigerians won't move to Burundi, it should be the same with the western world.

Not all western countries should appeal to you if you're a married man. Look for those without anti family laws, where they won't teach your kids how to masturbaate in class, and that your son may be a girl.

Lots of Western countries do not support the misogynistic laws, try live in those ones. But you see the US, Canada, Netherlands, Germany, UK, Ireland, Belgium, just avoid those ones.

The man now foolishly go and put himself in a dependent position. I don't care if you promise you won't shoot me, you should not have a gun in the first place. I don't care if you won't cancel my visa status, I won't depend on you.

If I even marry a billionaire women, it's under my roof she will come and live. Her wealth means nothing to me. She will have to follow my directive.

Men should start being men. Real masculine men won't put themselves in a position where a woman can flip the rug under their feet.

Are Nigerian men the only demograpic in the UK? Why isn't the Chinese, Indian or Philippines man under his woman?

Before you start and blame it on african women, the same scene plays out when african men get a white woman.

Mahone05:
7 weeks is enough time for him to get a UK girl convinced to marry him, and activate his citizenship

Because he is God right?

Ladech:
Weak erection and diabetes at 35 is not a common thing. Don't normalize it. Lot of Nigerians marry around this age.

Most young Nigerian men can't do without sexual enhancing drugs. It's concerning. Go to the sexaulity section

codemaniacs:
They were never ever far ahead of Africa.

They were more violent and brutal that's why they were able to do what they did.

Why aren't you an armed robber

Are an armed robbers far ahead of you in life

They had the means, capacity and resources to display more violence. Africans did not.

Why didn't Africans sail the seas and meet them on their land instead of the other way round?

Cassava leaf soup, a popular leaf in Sierra leone/ Liberia.

I thought Nigerians don't eat Cassava leaves

Kobojunkie:
You give am the same job for home do im refuse? Come on now... you and I know that no be everybody get job for Nigeria as we speak.

Are you kidding me ?

Are you trying to say there is a shortage of beer parlour and house girl jobs in Nigeria?

Rossikk:
Africans DID COLONIZE THE WORLD, you historical illiterate.

It was a colonisation to CIVILIZE and UPLIFT the world, unlike European colonisation which was to loot and steal.

The first empires in China and India were black African.

Black west Africans ruled large parts of Europe from 711 to the 1500s.

Europeans actually have annual festivals where they paint their faces black to celebrate their black African kings of antiquity.

Go on Google Images and type in ‘Moorish crests’.

You will hundreds of European aristocrat family crests and coat-of-arms showing their black royal forbears.

It was Africans that pulled Europeans out of their Dark Ages and into their Renaissance, which was the springboard for the Industrial Revolution.

You weren’t taught any of this in our yet to be decolonised education system, so your ignorance and inferiority complex is understandable.

But suddenly forgot to invent the wheel.

We wuz kangs and sheit. Das rite.

Jahwinaboy:
World power I meant. Besides, every country was once a third world country. I guess you belong to France supporters club

Nope. I don't support France. I just think the biggest threat to Africans is Arab Islamic terrorism.

phemmyfour:
All down to leadership. If Europe didn't depend on Africa for raw materials, they won’t be where they are today

But why are african countries cursed with bad leadership?


How comes europeans seemed to make better use of the raw materials than the people they got it from?

mariahAngel:
Prove it!

Africans were never exploitative, seriously? Look at how they treat each other.

phemmyfour:
It's leadership issue. African leaders are corrupt, selling their own and resources for money. It has nothing to do with being ahead. Naira was ahead of pounds in the 60s

That's because Nigeria was fresh from British rule. As time went on, Nigeria went to shit.

The same pattern can be observed in other African counties.

mariahAngel:

Africans were never exploitative in nature.
They were content, living their lives.

A bare faced lie.

phemmyfour:
France wasn't wealthy before coming to Africa

They were far far ahead of Africa. That's why they were able to do what they did.

Why didn't Africans colonize the world?

Jahwinaboy:
Without Africa, France would be third world country

They were never a 3rd world country even when they came to colonize west Africa.

His lower and upper body don't match.

He needs to stop missing leg day.

Akaegwu:
Because it's still unchecked. A 30yrs old dating a 12 years girl is common here in Lagos. Expecially where you have large concentration of indigenes.

It's all over Nigeria.

Akaegwu:
Sincerely speaking, drug usage among southern youth's and adult contributes a lot to this. An average southwestern on drug can sex a 12 years girl without issue. I have seen it happen again and again in Lagos. The parents of this young girls always keep quiet. The number is far higher because of many unreported cases

How is it that you saw it repeatedly?

Chizzy7890:
Yes I worked in the beer parlour it was temporary, my latest job was househelp

How is going all the way to Togo better than doing the same thing back home?

IamBlessed20:
Stop this talk. I'm a Christian but I won't support this in anyway. This is simply ignorance at play. Admission of guilt is the first step to growth..

Satan has taken control of you.

Chizzy7890:
Thank you for the advice , I didn't abandoned my daughter since when leaving a child with her grandparents as become abandonment or a crime , they are so many children who are leaving with grandparents when their parents are away working hard to secure their future I did the same for my daughter's sake , I didn't go there for fun or to sleep with men I went there for work and to secure my daughter's future just like any other parent would do and I don't know why some people are judging me and criticise me like I am the first person who as left a child under the care of grandparents, they are my parents they are not strangers , neighbours or friends that I left her with , I left her with my parents because I knew she was in good hands and I can closed my eyes and sleep at night knowing that she is safe my daughter is not dead I strongly believed my dad was angry with me for leaving so he punished me was by selling her , I agreed that I had disobey him but he didn't have any right to sold my daughter no way and he as to provide her or else .........

So did you end up getting the waitressing job in Togo, or you did something else?

1stGenAmerican:
Ooo, I understand—-he misses mediocrity.
I knew 1Sharon would give it to me straight!

🤣🥰

Exactly.

If you really want her out, you can report her to immigration.

Happy Potter, the boy who lived.

adonainana:
Always two sides to a story

Someone doesn't just wake up one day and decide to kill someone. It takes years and years to build resentment and hatred.

Some Nigerian parents living outside Nigeria are even more wicked than Nigerians living in Nigeria . And we know how wicked Nigerians are generally anyway

Some physical body is in London but their mental and mindset way of life is in Nigeria.

Some gaslight you, insult you, abuse you, financially control you.

RIP to the dead

If you are a toxic human being and you are reading this, Change Change

A day of reckoning is coming

Some victims know how to walk away, some will harm you before walking away, some will do both and walk away

Good day all

Yes, somebody can wake up one day and indeed decide to murder someone. The perpetrator was mentally ill.

Update:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12465751/amp/Schizophrenic-killer-stabbed-mother-death-thought-using-black-magic-stopped-taking-medication-wanted-lose-weight.html

Banged up abroad 🤣😟😂

Unperturbedpota:
Oh well.... 🙄
None of em is a hoe and they all happily married the youngest being married now for 4 years.

Go figure, nanny mcphee

So being married means a woman has made it In life and isn't a hoe😂

1stGenAmerican:
Why would a rich person have to sell his possessions in order to move to Canada? People who are rich have the resources to move without having to sell their possessions.
Was he used to getting paid salary in Nigeria for doing nothing? Because just about everywhere in the world, you actually have to work in order to get paid— I don’t understand him complaining about labor. Is he upset because in Canada, he is unable to talk to and treat patients like animals? Is it because in Canada, he is treated just like a regular person instead of a god? Is it general culture shock? Don’t know.
Many of the things this man says are very suspect—I’ll leave it at that.

😂😂


The work ethics in Nigeria is poor! In Nigeria, 30 minutes can spent sitting down, another 30 minutes can be spent on the phone

I'm sure he's shook because in the West he actually has to do some WORK.

Karleb:
You can't blame people who do that even tho it's not the nicest things to say.

When UK people are leaving, they are so quiet and secretive but once they land or are coming back, they will tell you a million reasons not to go. Which is not even a problem to me, but some, if not many of them still secretly going back.

There should be a balance of information.

You can't tell me you work in care job and not tell me it was this same job that sponsor your visa.

You can't say you work all week including weekend and not say you actually get paid more to do the extra hour or say you are actually making money.

They will never disclose their salaries but tell you they live paycheck to paycheck.

Boyfriend and girlfriend no dey UK but they won't tell you they rejected their fellow VISA bro and sis with the hope of getting hooked up to a citizen, which may or may never happen.

There are many instances like these and it's always UK-Nigerians.

🤣

You said it all

And citizens tend to stick to each other. Nobody wants to be taken for a fool.

The entitlement and delusion.

Sonnobax15:


As soft and tender as a banny's bumbum is,why and what on earth will motivate me to chose OgheneTega nyash wey be fellow guyman nyash over am?


I'm still praying to witness the day a gay will walk up to me and say--"Obax,can we do things?"

The kind smack down wey I go give the madman that very day,I believe say even undertaker smack down go be learner for where my own dey..

Mumu gays

Now you know how women feel. This is how women feel when ugly men approach us.

Brandiebird:
But why are you gae?

Who says he's gae?

The more Nigerians are homophobic, the more their sons and daughters will keep suffering the consequences.

Why won't he marry you and use you to hide his sexuality when Nigerians won't accept him as he is?

Legalise gay marraiges. You don't need to love gay people, you can't force an emotion. Just tolerate them and let them go about their business.

There are many Nigerian women/men in lavender marraiges like this.