₦airaland Forum

Samantha124:
Why do you have to post a picture of a beautiful cat? You make me miss mine..😭😭😭😭

Aww what happened to it?😯

I used to be so indifference to cats but lately I've just realised how adorable they are. Cat videos are now a thing with me

Jahwinaboy:
Smug, NOTED. Marriage, peace of mind with someone you never met is absolutely possible considering their upbringing and clime. It's not rocket science. How many Nigerian seem not to achieve or feel a bit of relief from Meeting or Marrying a foreigner? Few. Crazy? I take that as a compliment. Tame your pride and you will understand that man's way is not your way. You can continue forming St. Agnes or feminist, once an old rich man comes knocking, you japa once. Abegi

Yeah, like I said before you sound crazy.

Once I japa? Lol I was never even born in Nigeria

Who is St Agnes?🤣

What was wrong with the body of the girl that committed suicide?

Jahwinaboy:
Life is all about choices. I am not the first man to smug with a woman from far away place and I won't be the last. If it favours me, good and fine. If it doesn't, good and fine. If the financial strength is there and she's my sister, that can be considered. Afterall, it is obtainable worldwide except you are forming. Caucasian, Indians, Latin Americans, Africans etc do give away their daughters on similar grounds. A foreign woman that gives me joy/rest of mind is better than Nigerian girl with her entitlement mentality. If a foreign rich old man comes for you, wouldn't you go? Make I hear

Lol. Learn what the word smug means.

And yeah, you sound a bit crazy. You're talking about "marriage" "peace of mind" with a person you've never met.

osmosis101:
4-7yrs ago,girls do hide waistbead.even if its one or two,but nw dey flaunt it anyhow with lyk 10 dangling.

Blame African Americans lol. It's western blacks that started that trend.

That's not how they're meant to be worn

chuksville:
Women are awesome! To carry another human being is not easy at all.
Women will still carry pregnancy and be:
-doing house chores.
-going to the market.
-preparing meals.
-washing husband's clothes.
-going to work.
-making love to the husband day & night.
-having mood swings.
ETC...

Women I twale for una oo!!!

And this is why when it comes to 50/50, the woman ends up doing more🥴

Husbands can come back from work and relax.

But wives that come back from work, simply cannot.

Why are you asking us?

If you claim to be a polygamous man, this is how it should be. You walk the talk.

You don't cheat, get caught and use polygamy as your defence🥴

Polygamy is not done in secrecy.

Jahwinaboy:
A man is supposed to choose where to marry from, how many to marry etc. It has been so since creation. That's why you have polygamy more than polyandry. It's easier for men to get and marry foreigners but harder for the women. In a nutshell, no matter how women try to measure up with men, it will always show.

My comment is not about men's choices. My comment is about you being smug with a woman from a far away place meeting up with you. You're okay with her choice because it benefits you.

Would you be okay with her choice if she was your daughter or sister?

Samantha124:
But you asked that SA guy to arrange an SA girl for you as if we're just mere objects.

Stop objectifying us.

Lmaoo..imagine how tired Nigerian women are.

Thats the ego of the nigerian man.

"Arrange a woman for me" as if the interest of the woman doesn't matter to facilitate that arrangement.

XAUBulls:
Samantha, hows it going? Have you ever taken a DNA test from an ancestry DNA company in SA to determine the percentages of
Khoisan genetic markers?

A couple of genetic tests results I have seen from black South Africans on YouTube are very revealing. The bushman genes were found in the iconic Desmond Tutu and Nelson Mandela.

This is not surprising at all. Modern South Africans absorbed the genes of the indigenous Khoi-san people. It shows up in their phenotype.

Jahwinaboy:
Well, life is all about choice. Nobody said you must marry from your country. That's why we have interracial marriages. Whether you support the idea or not, is insignificant. It's normal world wide

Life is all about choices now? All because the girls choices benefit you? Aren't you the same Nigerian men that judge women's choice incessantly ? Okay!

Samantha124:
I listened to the song and I found the part where you said you heard the click in the song.

The part where they say " you'd swear I'm Xhosa", the Xhosa word itself has got a click.

You're very attentive..😂😂😂

Now that's what I'm talking about 😎🤩..I knew it!

My kind of couple. I love edgy and open minded Nigerians.

There's nothing wrong with clubbing as long as you are both into it.

Lol.

They are either fascinated by black people or disgusted by us.

baralatie:
Well Gambia is just one
Also serria Leone and liberia

You are wrong again! Don't you do a quick Google before making your statements?

Lionessza6:
Mental laziness. They are waiting for the whole of Africa to unite and be one country * again* ......I don't know where these deluded pan- africans got the idea that we were ever one or one country . There is no way that you can turn a continent with so much diversity into a country unless you're looking for un-ending wars and centuries of chaos. We are just too different.

Thank you. It's easier to talk and moan than do anything.

If the whole of Africa was to be one big country, 10 simultaneous civil wars will break out the next day.🤣Africa has always been different and divided, along tribal lines

Where have you been?

Samantha124:
That's Sepedi and Tswana, some call it spitori..😂😂😂

Nice try..

Really? 🤣 I thought I heard the click in their songs

Are there other tribes that click?

Samantha124:
Which song do you think it's in Xhosa?

Nkao tempela😌

kay29000:
I think about that too. I was amazed as a student on excursions like 20 years ago when a University professor in Togo was struggling to communicate with us in English, he now asked if we understood Yoruba, and there is a resounding Yes...the man immediately switched to speaking Yoruba...fluent Yoruba. I was shocked.

I later learnt that the old Yoruba kingdom extended to parts of Benin Republic and Togo. It made me think the colonial masters did this on purpose...put together tribes/people that have nothing in common and you diminish their potential for greatness.

And what is stopping them from dismantling those borders and going back to live how they were?

Team foreign women!!

Revolva:
It is finished with Nigerian girls , 80 percent of them around big cities are on codedruns and michat , if you gi those app you wont want anything to do with any naija gal again

Is the codedruns a prayer group?

What the hell were you expecting?

Divorce the man and take half of what he owns?

OP, If you live in Nigeria, what does that have to do with you? Is that your reality? Is that what happens in Nigeria? Abeg!


And hookup culture has always existed in Nigeria, the Internet has just made it easier.

Creeper:
It’s not Central Africa.

Bantus migrated from the Eastern Nigerian and Western Cameroon axis - to other parts of Africa.

They were pushed out by the expansion and migration of the ethnic groups that occupy West Africa today.

Below is the Bantu expansion map

The thing I don't understand is if bantus came from West Africa, how comes west Africa is the only uniquely non-bantu region?

Where did west Africans come from?

I'm guessing the devil tempting him and all the married women were dressed indecently ?

Samantha124:
The whites are a minority... I'll say 4 out of 10.

Some whites can communicate with us using our native languages, I remember years back me and my friend were in an elevator when this white man got in.. He was dressed funny, so we started making fun of him in our native language thinking that he wouldn't understand.

When the elevator stopped and before he could go out, he talked to us in Sepedi and told us of how he heard every single thing we said, we were left humbled and speechless..🤣🤣🤣

🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

😂

Samantha124:
Showing of breasts is not a big deal here... Our men are already used to it... I have female neighbours back at home who'd just walk outside with their bear chests and no one would say anything about it..

That's the thing. Africans never used to sexualize the breast, colonisation taught them that.

The Europeans that called Africans savages for wearing very little are now fighting to free the nipple.

themanderon:
Swaziland or Eswatini has only one tribe.

Nope. Swazi's are the dominant ones, but they aren't the only ones.

Samantha124:
The relationship is now okay, but because of our history, they'll always be that bit of tension between both ethnic groups.

Even the Indian and Chinese South Africans were oppressed during those days of apartheid, because they were also regarded as blacks by the white South Africans.

We communicate in English or Afrikaans.. Some job opportunities require that you be fluent in Afrikaans... I did Afrikaans in primary school as a second additional language.

Some white South Africans are also fluent In our native languages like our late music artist Costa Titch... He was a white South African and in all his music, he'd sing in both English, Zulu, and Tswana.

Wow...so what's the percentage of white to black south africans?

I never knew the black SANs had to communicate with them in Afrikaans? I thought they should be the ones mainly speaking in african languages

GeneralPula:
I dislike the Wig ehh..

Wig is not for naija girls! It doesn't suit them at all! It makes them look old, more artificial and not pleasing to the eye! I wonder why them no dey tell them the truth..

Make a Weaving, Shuku, Kojusoko, Patewo, and see how beautiful & natural you'll look!

Most African women haven't mastered wigs yet,

african Americans are the best at it

For africans, braids are their expertise.

baralatie:
I basically believed that SA was three ethnic groups based on their national anthem.
And I considered the Afrikaans as an ethnic group in SA.since they can't go anywhere
Zulu and one major ethnic group .I can't remember their but I guess other ethnicities disapprove of the domineering effect of the Zulu

Even just 3 is small for any african country