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Rokiat:
She’s looks over 18 though.

okoroemeka:
this is a very wishful and funny post,you see a girl with such size of boobs and you dare to say she is underage?are you mocking God?that breasts that I watch dangling on Facebook is the prove she is ripe not her face,moreover she is aggressively advertising her assets for interested men to salivate on

ford101:
take your father's advice.when I was a boy I would never infact I would always take the opposite of my father's advice.but wen I started growing more I always stick to his advice yes it's always difficult and he doesn't need to explain to me.a man ll also see what another man saw.he might have seen something which u are about to see.

Exodus15v11:
Control him as a means to what end? This isn't about control, but care [as a Physician, he knows all about this]. Besides, the only "ultimatum" I see is him saying if the son doesn't tell her, he will, and I see no big deal with that, more so because his intentions are pure. He's simply trying to ward off any potential problems for both the son and the fiancée [she, too, will benefit from knowing the results of the tests or any areas of concern, if any, beforehand], AND for their potential offsprings. A lot of Indian parents with their culture of arranged marriages [which have lower divorce rates than their non-arranged counterparts like OP's] do a lot more than this. Compared to them, a Physician Father asking his son and wife-to-be to do pre-marital medical tests is nothing to complain about. His concern is for their own good and not his.

Exodus15v11:
And you didn't see that I used the word "advise" in my post or you can't read?

Klass99:
I am still learning how they operate. If a topic is interesting and I feel like sharing my thoughts I do so, not knowing if the story is fake or real. I truly can't tell sef.

Our diasporan brothers should actually be feared like you rightly said, the colleague who left her husband over anal sex issues said the guy lived in the US for years and picked up the practice from there, first it started with always wanting to insert his finger in her bum bum while taking her from behind, then it proceeded to wanting full blown action.

There was also a front page thread where a naija lady said she discovered her naija hubby had been visiting prostitutes for anal sex and all sorts in Canada before she moved to join him. Apart from their sexual practices overseas, you are spot on about the gun violence and drugs too, not to mention the skoin skoin some of them acquire from living there

Depriest2020:
My brother as a medical doctor your dad is, he has seen a lot which you could never know. I know of a girl who uses potash for abotion, whenever she's pregnant she inserts it into her vagina, it will heat up the futoes till it falls out from her womb. How did we know? She fainted one day, her madam took her to the hospital, she was treated of malaria & typhoid thinking that was the case.

After some weeks she began to develop some strange body odour which was very offensive, her madam kept asking her till she opened up to her what she did, her madam rushed her back to hospital, after examining her, it was discovered that the recent one she did, the futoes didn't fall-out all, it began to decay in her womb, that was the cause of the smell. It's like they flushed her womb abi stomach & treated her before the smell stopped. Her friends taught her to use potash.

Please there's no Godly girl in Nigeria take note. The girl you are chatting on Facebook might be the same girl I just discussed about. Be greatful to your dad for insisting on fertility test. There's no big deal in fertility test, HIV, UTI, STD, STI. Anyone that makes a mole out of it has something to hide.

My neighbor has been married for over 20yrs now no child and she doesn't want her husband to marry another woman, her female friend from same town as her, told me she got pregnant while they were in junior secondary school, out of shame and not wanting her parents to know, she went to quack nurse that has a chemist shop to do the abortion where her womb got damaged, today her husband is not aware of her little secret, they've been praying and waiting on God. So dear be greatful to your Dad. No one should marry this days without fertility test.

Samantha124:
Sounds like your father wants to get your girlfriend pregnant on your behalf.

Don't be surprised next time he asks you how many times you guys have sex in a week and and kind of sex positions you guys do..

Anyway, I don't have any respect for a guy who claims to be ready for marriage but still lives under his parents shadow... How will you be able to make your own decisions in your house if you're still daddy's pet

beekind:
Standing my ground will mean my dad, mom and other members of my own family will not attend the wedding cos my dad said he will not attend the wedding if she does not do a fertility test.
No I haven't met her physically yet, we have only been dating online for 10 months now and haven't had a chance to visit Naija b ut I am visiting naija and will spend 4 months in naija when I visit later this month.

beekind:
Let me explain, he says he is not forcing her but if she does not take the fertility test he will not attend the wedding, and he is very likely to prohibit my mom from also attending the wedding and maybe other family members too.

That puts me in a very difficult spot, very difficult spot.

Exodus15v11:
As a Doctor and as your Dad, he has your best interests at heart. He's in the best position to guide and advise you accordingly, and is trying to do just that. It's up to you to listen.

Besides, these are normal pre-marriage protocols and he asked you to do them first, so it only makes sense that she does the same. I don't see the big deal in asking her to also do them, unless you're afraid to ask.

Juliearth:
Funny enough, I don't blame him. He may have acted dismissively because he paid too much attention to the redpillers here. In no time, people will come to realise that feminism and redpill-ism are demonic agenda.

May her soul find rest.

DJInfluence:
If it the person that posted this knows the danger he's inviting. Imagine someone called that number and set him up. They can gang rape him or just beat him to pulp. In the society we live in, even registered prostitutes are not safe.

graceilina:
These men are so cheap u can get them with 50 naira biscuits

LilMissFavvy:
Will you shaat app you emptyy barrel. I don't care about your stupiidd examples. I responded to the post based on it's content, but you feel the girl may not be sure of what she said, it's your opinion. Wether heterosexual, gai, or whatever, my point was that a sexually active teenager needs to be monitored to avoid such a teen influencing or abusing other children in the environment. Now get lo$t and fuckkk off my mentions.

LilMissFavvy:
Yes, you will talk 100, that's how fools waste words. I want to know the cave' you live in, such that you have never seen teens engaging in stuffs. Tell me about your $ickening sexual orientation, your conscience is dead that's why you don't care if the child the OP talked about, can be a threat to other teens in her environment. My concern towards the Ops post is to advise that the 14yrs teen be monitored, and It's exactly the same thing I would say if it was about a male teenage who claims to be gai.

You definitely are the one who abu$ed the teen in the OPs post, that's why you talk like you know her disregarding the content of the post, bi!itch.

LilMissFavvy:
You must be out of your mind, you dafttt thing. Read the Ops message again and tell me if you haven't seen where it is mentioned that the teen girl said she's gai...