₦airaland Forum

Emaprince:
The black men you call failures are the ones you have depended on all your life.

It shows you yourself is worthless and at the bottom rung of any class of human.

You are still under a black.man. and you will remain at his mercy all your life.

Black women couldn't depend on black men. You got us all conquered.

What are you talking about?

That is not a white woman.

I hope that has taught them that not all black men are savages.

Staged.

coputa:
You are spiritually blind.

Where has your spiritual 'open eye' taken Nigeria to.

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GoWithGood:
Format for what?

Scam.

jaephoenix:
Not enough faith

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Earthstorms:
Divorce will affect the children whether they are with the mother or father.

If I were to be a woman, and my husband cheats and I want to leave the marriage, I will be leaving all the children and all the burden from the marriage for the man. Men generally have better finances to cater for the children than women, so why should a woman take on more financial burden after the divorce.

I will not take on avoidable financial burden because a man was unwilling to keep to his vows.

A step mum maltreating the children can happen. But then the man will also see the maltreatment and experience the outcome of his indiscretions.

What do you mean it can happen? It happens, I'd say 60% of the time.

Is the man going to solely raise the kids or he going to find a new woman?

Dimaya:
She's willing to date a 50 year old man, but doesn't want them to date 20+ year old.

The foolishness!

Cos that 20 year old has nothing to offer her?

coputa:
Is mostly when you are doing the right thing that God's grace normally got activated.As a student you must study hard to pass your exams first before praying for grace, ditto a sick person who is sick should see a doctor for proper diagnosis and treatment first before backing it with prayers and maybe healing from a pastor.
The pastor is not a doctor to consult when you are sick,the pastor is not your books to consult when you want to pass your exam.Grace always visits at the place of your works,Works in all ramifications.Grace doesn't come when you are doing the wrong thing.

So you're saying the OP's uncle was doing something wrong, which is?

Interracial dating makes a mockery of black people . They get the best of ours, while we get the worst of theirs. Nonsense

These women are only allowed to be angry If they've never dated older men themselves.

New format🥴

Earthstorms:
It hurts when the trust is broken that is why some women leave a cheating husband.

However life later force such women to either become someone else side chick or a second wife. So the women do not really escape sharing the men.

What can the women really do? It is a man's world in Africa so it is more difficult for women to survive and take care of the kids alone. The first mistake they make when leaving is that they take the kids along.

To me, if a woman is leaving a man because he is cheating, she should leave the kids for him and bother only about herself.

And the man will in turn leave the kids to a wicked step mother that will be abusive?

Or is the man going to be a single father?

You concentrate on your driving but you speed.

Are those negative things about Indians and Africans not true?

Draslo:
Care to explain this thing you said?

They didn't have enough faith.

coputa:
Churches are not useless,it's the followers and the pastors that are practicing it wrongly especially in the African continent.
There is this wrong notion that it Is the pastor that will heal you and solve your spiritual problems,no,the church is to build your faith and beliefs,and when is done every other thing Will fall in place.
Many pastors has noticed this and they have taken great advantage of it to swindle guilible adherents.
Church is not useless.

Churches in Nigeria are very much useless..

In other words you're saying the man's faith wasn't strong enough and that's why he died. Asides from visiting a pastor, you think the man didn't pray?

So what the hell happened then?

Hathor5:
Maybe they are not wearing decent clothes.

Yes. Let those dead women come and tell us what they wore to their funeral. They tempt men to sin then complain about rape from the great beyond.

Islam protects women they say.

That's what radical Islam does to men and a society, it creates sexual repression.

South Asians men are prone to perverted and pedophilia tendencies.

Thanks to their role model Mohamet.

Banbanna:
Strange times indeed! If an African man does this, what comes to mind is, he's done it for power, wealth or fame. Not for mere sexual relief like what these pyschos are doing it for.

They can do it for sexual relief aswell. Not everything you don't understand is spiritual.

Nigeria is not special, there are necrophiliacs there too.

Average9jaman:
Don't be surprised this thing will be happening in this country

It definitely happens in Nigeria. Necrophilia are everywhere.

Those aren't keloid scars.

Matrix137:
Dear Nairalanders, so I was born in Nigeria and have lived all my life in this country till this moment ( I'm 22 now). However, my aunt based in United States has offered to bring me to the country. Processing my documents already.

However I'm scared I may put me or her family in trouble when I get there cos America is a civilized country and I'm used to the crude ways and behaviors here which is already part of me and will likely replicate them in America which will surely put me in trouble with the law.

Behaviors like urination on the streets, throwing garbage on the road and many uncivilized behaviors too numerous to mention. So please how do I Behave myself over there. Thanks for reading.

You have an agenda with this post and you're lying just to make a point.

Your lack of self-preservation here is pretentious and disingenuous.

If your story is true, I don't trust your aunt, she may want to use you as her personal errand boy.

oyatz:
Where did you see this wrong notion? How will a female nurse know about health problems of males if she is not exposed to male patients?

Why does she need to know?

That's how it's done in sharia countries

Wittysmith:
Get rid of her if she doesn't love your girl. The bitter truth is that she doesn't love you. She is with you for an ulterior motive

That's the thing. An emotion cannot be forced, you either have it or you don't.

The key is for her to tolerate the girl, but she isn't doing that.

donbachi:
Naija women...dats why they all want a son like hakimi,but will never want a husband like him.

Would you like your father to treat your mother like Hakimi? 🥴

You married her because you wanted a step mother/nanny, not because you wanted love.

She in turn married you because she wanted to be married. Your daughter is just an excess to her. When she has her own kids, it's going to be much worse. Your daughter will be forgotten.

Men tell each other all the time not to marry women with children, women too should do the same.

You're a weak man if you cannot stand up that jackass of a step mother.

iyatrustee:
That is not feasible anywhere! Nurses are professionals and should be able to attend to patients regardless of sex.

No be how sharia countries dey do am?

And you don't hear stories like this

sholikay:
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No be lie my brother...kobojunkie can argue for life..if we can get her to argue for peter obi,about his stolen mandate,I'm sure the president elect will give up power..😄

Kobojunkie be like: "Oh wow, I'm trending I don't know why"

So demons now have xy chromosomes...