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FOJEM:
Dear Sharon, this is on a lighter note, I think I find you quite interesting to chat with. I assume you are pretty too. Care to send me your recent pictures? Are you on Facebook? Surely you are on WhatsApp.

FOJEM:
I stated clearly that Ned Nwoko does not do hook-ups, because he has more than one wife.
Also, he respects his wives because he married them virgins. That's why he can spend millions on them without even thinking twice.

And for the poor men who do hook-ups they are usually forced to do it because of the very bad attitude of the wives plus the fact that the wives might not be helping out with some financial issues.

FOJEM:
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Dear Sharon, why did you mention Ned Nwoko. Ned Nwoko cannot do hook-ups because he has more than one wife.
Abi, are you willing to be his 5th wife?
Unfortunately, Ned Nwoko cannot marry you because you are not a virgin!!!
He only does tear rubber virgins!!!!
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FOJEM:
Dear Sharon, are you not aware that the well-off men regularly patronize the young girls who are into hook-ups because they have no respect for their wives. Infact, most of them do not find their wives attractive anymore.

FOJEM:
I have given you my advice, but you are free to reject it of course. But I am convinced that many years from now you will remember FOJEM!
Good luck to you.

AntiChristian:
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But the Missionaries that brought the Bible still enslaved us!

FOJEM:
Dear Sharon, if you ever get a man to put you in his house, please do nothing to support him financially, and see how long your marriage will last, and how much peace and respect you would enjoy while it lasts. Best wishes to you.

FOJEM:
Why should you be domesticated? Are you physically challenged, unskilled or uneducated that you should not work to support your family?
What if a man dies? Would the wife start begging on the street?

terrezo2002:
There are many story books, but one book of truth

elated177:
There is a difference between anger and frustration.

I, elated177, can get angry enough to strike you, kingxsamz, down by thunder and lightning. If you don't mind yourself, kingxsamz, I will torment you with the Sun and the Rain, another servants of the Creator, YHVH Almighty. Kingxsamz, do you want the rain, the sun and the wind to be a terror to you? These are not idle words.

Kingxsamz, you are too infinitesimal and inconsequential for YHVH Almighty to be bothered by. I am a human being like you and I am the one who will be striking you, kingxsamz, down by thunder and lightning. YHVH Almighty has given me, elated177, his chosen vessel, the Power to do that. Mind yourself and respect the Scriptures of YHVH Almighty, the one and only true God, the Creator of the heavens, the earth, the seas and everything in them. No one is compelling you to read or accept what they say.

El Elohe Yahshrael! Hallelu YAH!

FOJEM:
So the only thing you can contribute to a marriage is what a house help can do?
Little wonder many of you are unmarried at age 45!!!!

nazicartel:
I have always avoided them. I don't know why many of them are too easy.

Guyman01:
She is Ada in the family and in Igbo culture Adas are a very powerful force in the family especially when their father is getting old.

Moreover, Igbo culture has no place for adoption once a man declares an adopted child as his daughter to Umunna she is 100% his daughter like the son pointed out.

This girl can even prevent her step mother from coming into the family compound if she reports the matter to their group called Umuada by simply tying a palm frond on the gate and even the Igwe will not override them without an agreement.
Igbos here I hope what I said is correct💁‍♀️

FOJEM:
What stops you from paying school fees for your own children if your husband wants to take a little break? Why are some women like this?

BeardedmeatR:
Ibu is a serial philanderer. I know of a girl he got pregnant and abandoned her.

Originalsly:
Naive? No doubt... anybody can say anything ... but the point is why quote part of what he said as evidence..... that she is not his biological daughter and not quote the other part where he said she is not his girlfriend? That's where her bias is sooo obvious.

ubreal:
Abi ibu adopt girl dey nack?
The story no understand me o

Originalsly:
The rumor is Jasmine is not his daughter but his girlfriend. In the link.. didn't you read he made it clear she is not his girlfriend? Why not highlight that? The video posted .... was it a collaboration with you and the wife?.... I strongly believe so with your one sided comments. Is him holding her hand assault? ... why not screenshot the violet parts that's too violent to post? It was better for the wife to remain quiet.... she has just lost respect by airing this video .... now we know she is a lazy woman and should Mr Ibu abandon her... we can see why. Did you suggest to her she can sell the nose ring to help pay school fees?... or not dye her hair to save for school fees? Do you know if that's where the fees have gone? ... to her high maintenance? Remind her he is the celebrity and entitled to live a celebrity lifestyle with his money.... not her wanting to live that lifestyle when she is a nobody. Look at the car I'm driving... shows she's not contented .....what should it be?.... Rolls Royce? Shame on her and you too OP .... you tell us who you are and don't even know.

litaninja:
So your father encouraged to be a liability to a man?

grandstar:
21 years is too early for marriage.

A lady should be at least 25 years before marriage while a man should be 26.

Anything below isn't wise. There the bloom of youth to contend with.

CHoccolaTE:
Please dont join the males in typing misogynistic nonsense.
There is nothing wrong in wanting a husband who can provide in a situation where the wife has to quit her job in order to be married to him. Even the men here criticizing her will also look for a woman who can provide before marrying her.

traihit:
Korean Kdrama come to mind.

Nollywood should go and learn from them instead. There's no scenario in Nollywood movies that Korean Kdrama hasn't played and they do that with minimal nudity.

The problem is Nigeria always thinking that the standards of Caucasians is always the best. We don't copy the good thing the white do in terms of relational integrity. It's the bad sides of their society we want to copy and prove that we're civilized.

litaninja:
leeches everywhere o

Sleekfingers:
Most Nigerian women stop taking care of themselves, after giving birth to kids .....start gaining unnecessary weight,

Stop giving doggy style, Mouth Action.....

I have been married more than 10 years . Still find my wife attractive, after 3 kids.....but lately she has started gaining unnecessary weight....we already talked about it.....or else na to find my small girl be that ooo....