₦airaland Forum

Antimarraige:
I do all my housework and cooking myself and my home is always neat. The lady is not supposed to have any connection with the child after birth, or even see the baby, it's all agreement.

Right. What happens when the kid grows up and wants to know about 50% of who they are?

Antimarraige:
you mean how to take care of my child alone? It's what I've always wanted so I'm sure it won't be an issue, as long as I pay someone to breastfeed the baby well for the first one year, I can handle the rest myself trust me, and I only want one kid. Boy or girl

It's interesting how you say this because alot of Nigerian men don't help their wives with childcare or housework because they think its a woman's job, even if the woman is struggling. It's their child too o

If the mother is still alive, why would you need to pay someone to breastfeed?

Antimarraige:
Surrogacy is the way. I'm taking care of my child myself. With money anything is possible

How are you going to do that?

Those men that say they want kids instead of being married...

Under whose household will the kid be under?

Nackzy:
So oyibo believe in Juju too

He doesn't. His comment was sarcastic

Over here in my neck of the woods, you'd hardly see betting shops in rich Upper class neighbourhoods.

They mainly litter poorer regions because they know poor people want to escape their financial situation.

Perfect example of the rich taking advantage of the poor.

Parents hate sleep over lol

Graysons:
Of what exactly? As if Nigerians living in the U.S Or UK don't get killed over there? Nonsense talk. He was just unfortunate. I have seen a Nigerian who was stab or shot to death in the UK what do you call that?

Returnees to Africa are hot cake, if the locals can't take from you, they'd harm you.

He should have stayed away from poor people

E get why.

They were jealous of him

GloriousGbola:
@cococandy, these scrubs are definitely modified, right? The lady is looking like a nurse in the opening scene of an adult movie

Omg yes, you're right. She looks so sexualized.

At this point they need to stop women teaching little boys

StagethemTVee:
You want to gain the same weight that is responsible for so many salient diseases. All the best.

He wants to gain healthy weight. Muscle is healthy weight, fat isn't.

engrchykae:
forget new testament,there was a giant during colonial era in isuochi abia state.
He is conveyed in a lorry like 911
When he sits with his back in the lorry,his legs come out of the tail end of the lorry.
Taller than Goliath of the Bible

Lol.

Mrscarter:
Wow i never seen pics like these ones. Fascinating. Ur right they're very European style. I never knew the US had buildings like that. Where'd u find the pics?

The buildings look European because the Americans are descended from Europeans, you know that right?

I actually prefer the before pictures

How else are they supposed to make money?

engrchykae:
Chinese have long established themselves as great builders from the time of the great wall.
They don't need to copy from Europe
Europe is the last race to attain civilization that is if they have attained it because they still behave like cavemen.infrastructures is never equal to being civilized

Well to built that church they got it from Europeans, the Chinese aren't Christians are they?

The Romans were very advanced, don't underestimate them. They taught alot to Europeans.

OurTruth24:
Sacred heart Cathedral Jinan, China

Take a look at this. Why does this Chinese building look like it was chopped out of Renaissance Europe?

Well maybe it's just one building right? No it's not.

Because the Chinese copied that style of architecture? or Europeans themselves went there and built it

Cold141114:
I have realized one thing about life which is; no man has control of anything and ask any man with things going well as planned must have some certainly not going as planned


Think about a man well established with well going business and two children of 6 and 10.... suddenly he got diabetes and that's how all money kept going down the drain till he came back one day and saw his 3 bedroom on fire and razes to ashes.....still with diabetes......

Tell me how if he's not financially stable when he started life

Life is not white book you write with pencil and use erasers to clean and re-write
Anything can happen to anybody......

There is a certain level of wealth that's hard to lose unless you're flat out stupid.

So because rich men can become poor, that means women(that qualify) shouldn't bother trying?

People are stating that as long as the man can afford to take care of the finances of his wife and kids, a woman should go for him.

Hello?? A man needs to be middle-upper class to be able to maintain a house wife. You're still saying the same thing as the OP.

A poor man cannot afford to have a stay at home wife with kids can he?

Starz825:
Funny enough the poster made Alot of sense...

But my question is

Shey na every lady go fit eventually find rich man marry?


Na rich man some girls dey find dey wait till weyDem enter menopause ooo...

This life no just balance abeg....

Not rich, middle class at least.

Anyway most people tend to marry people that are similar to themselves.

Persephone1:
You do realize that contraceptives fail right?

Or you are blaming her for dating at all.

Nonsense. Contraceptives do not fail, people fail to use them correctly!

Evening newspaper.

ForestHill:
If you know what we go through you won't be spreading this fecal matter with your mouth

You need to emigrate and see how nurses are supposed to behave.

Persephone1:
You dumped a lady in anger a few days after abortion because she isn't giving " enough sex" but somehow in your selfish entitled mind she's the problem.

I'm glad she realized what a fool she had been allowing an inconsiderate man in her life to the extent of aborting for him. I hope she gets over her guilt and she makes better choices next time.

Ladies,If at all you go date Nigerian Men please go for the Rich ones oooo. That way you won't be risking too much for little.

She's the stupid one.

A medical student but so careless with her own health.

I believe all of them. Don't doubt what you have never experienced.

If you do, your spiritual inner eyes are yet to be open.

Christie06:
I have friends on Nairaland same with Twitter that we haven't met nor seen but we vibe very well on whatsapp . Like i said, some just want friendship.

You won't even give them audience so how would you know what they want from you?? Or probably the kind of men you've been meeting needs to be questioned.

If it was just about friendship, women will equally be sending PMs too.

It's you!!