₦airaland Forum

flokii:
Only Aunties in present day can relate.. timberlands those days na biggest boys dey rock am.

Yes but only the original.

maasoap:
Who's saying some Muslims are not supporting it? Not me. Many Muslims and Christians are still secretly circumcising their daughters in Nigeria till today.
For some, it has to do with religions, some have to do with culture while some have to do with the agelong belief that uncircumcised females tends to be more promiscuous.
My point is that this reversal here has less to do with religion

What is it to do with?

Truvelisback:
Yes, some women are aggressive and may bring up a fight or quarrel because that. Some men being gentle, may overlook somethings for peace to reign in the home.

In other words they give out their birth rights to women.

Negroid001:
You're making things hard for yourself.
If you like don't employ a maid or babysitter. Na you sabi.

Oh really I should employ a maid and then you'll turn around to call women lazy?

Truvelisback:
Some men know but are helpless about it because of the reaction of the wives.

A man helpless? Okay now.

Negroid001:
Are you a mother?
Or yet to be?

The babysitter can be anyone.
Let's be practical.

Okay now. I see why children get abused.

Negroid001:
Gadgets will babysit your kids when you both go to work or need time out right?
Gadgets will do laundry, cleaning and other household chores when you're both busy right?

Put your kids with a proper babysitter and don't be cheap. Nothing like househelps abroad. You will learn.

I see how you're saying they can both be busy, yet you guys will turn around to say women own maids because they're lazy. Okay now.

Truvelisback:
She might lie about it.

Oh and the haggard appearance? Stop making excuses abeg.

Truvelisback:
The head may be busy at work and may not know what's going on. She might pretend to be nice to her when the head is around. Don't you see the same in Nollywood movies?😔

So he doesn't see the scars and how haggard the maid looks?

Negroid001:
Life and circumstances. People who send their kids away often have no option.
When i was little. My mum's sister kids were living with us. The way my mum catered for them, everyone just assumed they were my sisters and not cousins.
Long story short, my mum is now late and my cousins are all grown up and married. They never stop talking about my mom, the bond we have is really strong, i treat their kids like mine. Love transcends generations if it's genuine.

Life can happen to anyone. If you find someone cohabiting with you, please treat em well. No one knows tomorrow.

Invest in extra gadgets. There is no need for maids.

Both of you are guilty if you sit back and do nothing.

danvon:
It's now he's the head of the house? What happened to equality and feminine power (responsibility)....

If he interferes it would make things worse for the maid, it would be implied that he has some sexual attraction to her and that would worsen her situation, besides the maid would become a woman one day and if she has anyone working beneath her she will most likely replicate the cruelty.

It's a feminine cycle of cruelty

Why should you have them in the first place and not put your foot down when you see the maid being maltreated?

In the eyes of the law, both of you are culpable, stop making excuses.

Invest in extra gadgets instead of maltrating people's children.

Negroid001:
In the first instance, I can't marry a woman that maltreats other people's kid. I will send her packing. I also don't support child labor.

Why should you have other people's kids living with you? Why don't these so called head of the households put their foot down?

nonhuman:
fool, have you been to Afghanistan before, you don't even have sense of reasoning, as black man nothing concerns you about tomorrow you just want to enjoy

Are you there right now?

Negroid001:
What can a man do?
Before she change am for me. You know how you guys pass aggression.

What can a man do? Aren't you supposed to be a leader and head of the home?

Negroid001:
He has a point. Women maltreat housemaids a lot. They only care about their kids.
Funny how i was discussing this same issue with a friend today and she said it's the way women are wired.

I'm not disputing that. But what is the so-called head of the house doing? You know he is also culpable right?

Yugoslavia247:
Now if one reads this it appears like you are reasonable.

I have lived among hausa people too and a lot of them treat house maid with disdain

Same Yoruba

And Igbo


The one common thing you refuse to outline is that they are all women.
It is safe to say women are wicked when given little power.

Nonsense

And what is the useless head of the home doing when the house girl is maltreated?

You're both culpable.

By his dyed hair we shall know.

It will end in tears or death.

maasoap:
You have been told in the report that it has nothing to do with religion but your stubborn brain found it difficult to believe. Religion enthusiast, damn!

Their words mean nothing, actions say more. Why is it mainly Muslim African shitholes that engage in this practise?


See a Muslim here supporting the practise:

AntiChristian:
It must not be banned!

Orinechi:
Are men not circumcised? What have we said about them?

You are mad.

FGM is not the same as male circumcision. Male circumcision doesn't impact your ability to conceive or climax in anyway.

You are free to not circumcise your son. Female AND male circumcision came from religious circles anyway.

African leaders have done it again. Of all things to fixate on.

Bunch of haters in the comments.

If you're not ugly, why are you mad?

Nigerians are still wearing timberlands.

themanderon:
They are being radical for Jesus. Don't worry you may soon join them someday. then you will realize the joy that makes them do these things.

Sure.

themanderon:
It was recorded that David danced wildly till he stripped himself naked in public, wasn't it?

Sure !

Mikuni:
Lol
You want him to wear earring?

It will suit him

You aren't even ugly. Working out will suit you so well. And a silver stud in your ear will go well against your rich skintone.

themanderon:
If you do not have anything good to say about God's children at times it's wise you pass by without saying anything. You call people serving their God morons? You better ask forgiveness from God because David's wife mocked David because he danced crazily before God and her womb was sealed.
People bring great condemnation upon themselves with their very own mouths and you have done exactly this.

I hear you 😂

Nlkay:
Na fear babe. Guns are licensed in the west. They are immigrants still learning alot

What happened to strength with the Lord?

SPAMBOX7:
Have you witnessed this yourself?

Yes!

lendahand:
how true is this submission?? If it's true then it's totally wrong. Evangelism is the sole work of a believer in Christ but noone is exempted as a target. They probably are avoiding being called the cops on, well they might have their reasons. Real Christians flow like water running deep and penetrating the rocky parts and crannies.

Very true.

White people will completely shut them down in a debate. They embrace rational thinking. They laugh at Africans that say they were sent by God. You should keep your beliefs to yourself. You wouldn't like it if Muslims persistently did that to you.

These moròns will see a white person/muslim on the street and completely bypass them. They only approach other black people.

Don't white people need their souls saved too or are they too much of a target? Cowards.

It was never a writing system. Just a random pictogram