craziebone:


so women like that op who encouraged other women to be an asset to their men are weak women? Do you know the list of women that have been attacked by feminists because they decided not to be identified as feminist? That list also include so many hollywood stars, Omotola and Kim Kadarshian (i am not a very big fan of kim kadarshian). Do these women seem weak to you? You feminists like linking power to money, fame, career and status, and that's why even when there is gender imbalance in the jobs like fire fighting, you don't advocate quotas for such jobs.

Since you link power to money, fame, career and status, can you honestly say that the ladies i have mentioned are 'weak' women? You get money reach those women? Abi na status you get? Pls, understand i am not trying to diss you. I am only making you guys to understand there is an error in your movement and that you guys have to do something quickly otherwise, the gains you have made in the past decades will be reversed.

When you try to monopolize reproductive power, you don't expect that every body including women will agree with you. When you falsify history or tell what Chimamanda would call a "single story", just to impress your narative and further your agenda, you don't expect everyone to agree with you.

Honestly, if feminism can stick to the dictionary definition of it, no person in his right senses would go against it.

Maybe i should tell you a bit about myself: i use to be what feminists call a "real man" and that's because i defended them passionately. Infact, FrancisTony own na smalls. It continued until i got involved in a shocking discussion where feminists were arguing against male reproductive rights- that a man should not have a say at all if HIS OWN CHILD SHOULD BE BORN OR NOT. At first, i thought it was just the thinking of feminist i was discussing with; i never knew it is an article of the 3rd wave feminist religion. I had similar discussions with several other feminists and it was the same vile, disingenuinty, irrationality, hate, pathology and desperate tyranny.

I started re examining all that i fiercely defended and i came to appreciate some more, corrected the others and outrightly dismissed the vast majority!

veave:
Mrs Ugbelase Onuigbo Ijeoma was my boss in DBI when I was on IT. She was very kind to me. A very good mentor I must confess.
Nigerians do not know the difference between office, home, and hang out areas. Most times we think its business as usual... no one will talk or look down on you except you want it that way.


I had another female boss somewhere I worked after service. She wasn't nice at all but I didn't let her yeyerise me like she did others.


Let me just say Personality differ. Just do your job and do it well...

VictoriaBee:

That trash you wrote, and he quoted it.

Which "trash"?

Calm your wet pusssy down and explain like a sensible human being

FrancisTony:
Women are their worst enemy is a "chauvinistic/sexist phrase", as MEN are equally their own enemy.

Human rebellion, frailties, imperfection etc is mostly emphasized on, when it's towards female gender.

I agree that women are their worst enemy but I can still give you many instances of men being their own worst enemy.
Nobody would deny that he/she hasn't seen any man envious of his friend's success - politicians comes to my mind.

For example - If Omotola is having a little misunderstanding with Genevieve, the phrase pops up; but when the role is reversed e.g Davido versus Wizkid, tone would change that they are kids instead of men are their worst enemy.
Even on Nairaland, as a female, don't go on threads about successful female celebrities hating, as you'll be bashed with that phrase but MEN are free to hate on male celebrities. Hypocrisy!

Well, It's not a gender thing but depends on individuals.
Our society isn't nice towards feminine gender.

TV01:
RoyalRoy why spoil my fun now . You could at least have waited until after I'd finish serving. Who was it that went whining to the mods?


TV

VictoriaBee:

Same way you all bounced on that dude, francis.

Example of men being there worst enemy.

bukatyne:


Did you do a secret survey to know the posters who liked a post?

Who are the evil ones? Women? Are you exempt from This evil?

bukatyne:
First you must have lost Some nuts in your head dragging my husband into this. .

bukatyne:

You think posting nonsense posts with a mixture of insults is intelligence or posting hypocritical posts of things you cannot do in your life is.

I quote sermons here really? Stupid nutcase.

Someone is shrewd when the person replies your insults with insults. You can spew gibberish with your acidic Hands yet you are crying someone is a shrew. Pathetic

Mister smart pants, We see you with your smart comments offline. .

bukatyne:
Foolish hypocritical ugly short old man! .

bukatyne:
Now f.uck off my mentions and now you know I am a shrew, watch How you quote me. I.diot.

^{...if you post a grovelling apology and confess that you don't equate to a pile of my wifes toenail clippings, I may consider pardoning you}

TV01:

Hypocrite - after you insulted my wife and used the term "viper" too refer to my womenfolk - keep feigning indignation !


Awwww.....someone is pained and jealous. Hypocrite. Don't worry, I'm dancing on your last nerve today . I'mma do you like toothache !


Please, qualify that with "proud" . Oya, you that you are making mouth, show us what you gat. Trial by combat, combat by picture . Show us pix of your tall, handsome young Jaffa, one of yourself (Not your usual redacted and blurry pix 0), and you both.

Post by 20:00 hours - loser deactivates.


How crass and uncouth. As ever you expose your dark and damaged self. Guttersnipe. I'll-mannered, shrewish, thick and low-bred. All your pretend piety and bogus empathy for other women. You are sickeningly emblematic of the OP.

There's no way that broda isn't suffering at your hands. Either from your base manner or your wretched presence.

Tick-tock, your time is at hand - you sourpuss


TV

^{...if you post a grovelling apology and confess that you don't equate to a pile of my wifes toenail clippings, I may consider pardoning you}

bukatyne:


I know I am late to this party however, your posts do not have bearing with this thread

If you want to discuss feminism, please open another thread for it.

Please post a link to the wives are assets for us to view. I doubt a lady just saying women should be assets to their husbands would generate rancor.

TV01:

Hypocrite - after you insulted my wife and used the term "viper" too refer to my womenfolk - keep feigning indignation !

TV01:
Awwww.....someone is pained and jealous. Hypocrite. Don't worry, I'm dancing on your last nerve today . I'mma do you like toothache !
Please, qualify that with "proud" . Oya, you that you are making mouth, show us what you gat. Trial by combat, combat by picture . Show us pix of your tall, handsome young Jaffa, one of yourself (Not your usual redacted and blurry pix 0), and you both.!

Post by 20:00 hours - loser deactivates.

TV01:
How crass and uncouth. As ever you expose your dark and damaged self. Guttersnipe. I'll-mannered, shrewish, thick and low-bred. All your pretend piety and bogus empathy for other women. You are sickeningly emblematic of the OP.

TV01:
There's no way that broda isn't suffering at your hands. Either from your base manner or your wretched presence.

...if you post a grovelling apology and confess that you don't equate to a pile of my wifes toenail clippings, I may consider pardoning you

craziebone:


i have ended my participation in this thread already. The reason being: i cannot continue to engage in a discussion that will lead no where. Although, from time to time, i will still be coming around; it is important we don't give you monopoly of cyber space. Many people are reading and as they read, they get an orientation. Allowing a feminist dominance of cyber space is a threat to societal security; they feed the good, the bad and the ugly. It is the responsibily of other good feminists to call out the bad and the ugly ones. But in a case where these good ones refuse to do the needful and instead protect the others, people like us will stand up and do the job.

craziebone:
My leaving this thread is not a runing away. As a matter of fact, it is a precautionary measure. No matter how strong you are, you are what you see, read, feel, hear and exposed to. Doctors do wear protective gears, don't they?

craziebone:
As for the proof you want me to bring, i will definitely provide it. But pls, don't go chery-picking through the responses. That op may or may not be looking for a man; but for a feminist to come up and say something like "on a softer note, how many men have sent you private mails since you started this thread?" is completely wrong! Would it be ok too...to acuse FrancisTony of looking for women?

https://www.nairaland.com/1969656/women-becoming-assets-rather-than

bukatyne:

Who knows, with your constant hate for gays, you might be a closet one yourself.

VictoriaBee:

Kinda true. He asked that dude francis if he's top or bottom and I had to google it.

He spent time knowing a lot about gay.
How wierd of a straight dude except he's bi-curious bisexual.

bukatyne:


What is top and bottom

Stillfire:
This topic again? Thought it had been dealt with. My stance doesn't change either. From experience, I've been in girl groups to know that the ones who at the drop of the heart scream their lungs out to say women are their worst enemies are the biggest troublemakers in those groups.

Stillfire:
This topic again? Thought it had been dealt with. My stance doesn't change either. From experience, I've been in girl groups to know that the ones who at the drop of the heart scream their lungs out to say women are their worst enemies are the biggest troublemakers in those groups.

Stillfire:
This topic again? Thought it had been dealt with. My stance doesn't change either. From experience, I've been in girl groups to know that the ones who at the drop of the heart scream their lungs out to say women are their worst enemies are the biggest troublemakers in those groups.

VictoriaBee:

I've dealt with that foolish girl called ewu4 = goat.

She's also a tribalist. Very hateful thing.

Stillfire:


What happened? I didn't read the thread o. You people can agree to disagree without fighting now.

VictoriaBee:

She was supporting men.

She thinks licking men butt and getting validation fron NL guys would mean she has a happy home whereas, she's a frustrated housewife.

Stillfire:
This topic again? Thought it had been dealt with. My stance doesn't change either. From experience, I've been in girl groups to know that the ones who at the drop of the heart scream their lungs out to say women are their worst enemies are the biggest troublemakers in those groups.

Stillfire:


That's harsh. She can support whoever. We can all agree to disagree, that's my policy for NL women only . For NL men, they don't have such privileges, we fight to the end.