VickyRotex:

I don't want Love!

MrBasketball:
Babe, you need it.

VickyRotex:

I don't need it either

coha:
y

MrBasketball:
Let's give ours a try.

Odunharry:

bring ur ears lemme tell you

VickyRotex:

No!!!

coha:
am listening....

MrBasketball:
Baby, stop!

VickyRotex:

MzPecs:

I had to keep quiet so I don't get u to quote me again buh you still went ahead to quote and also abuse me!

What was that for?

VickyRotex:


I don't want Love!

postmann:


I believe with the strongest conviction that having an opposite sex as a best friend is not only abnormal but dangerous for obvious reasons.

For little kids this can be of little worry, but should be corrected as early as possible before such people grow with such sick behaviours into adulthood or adolescent.

-- People having the opposite sex as best friend have poor person-to-person boundaries

-- people who have the opposite sex as best friends are emotional cheats at best. Full blown cheats at worst

--People who have the opposite sex as best friends have divided loyalty

--people who have the opposite sex as best friends find it a challenge to be highly committed in their relationship with their boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance/spouse

--People who have an opposite sex for a best friend are selfish people who put their needs first in their relationship with their partners


--People who have the opposite sex as best friend look beyond their partners for emotional bonding and fulfilment.

--people who have the opposite sex as best friend are security risks to their partners ----- they seek advice from and divulge a lot both of their personal lives and families and partners to this best friend.

--people who have the opposite sex as best friends are not worthy to have a committed partner.


--women/girls who have the opposite sex as best friend are more prone to rape and/sexual assault.


This behaviour is not normal. I believe it's a disorder.

Nothing personal but if you look at the list above, you'll see many are familiar to you

A man's mind works very differently from a girl's mind. A man is 60% more prone to sexual thoughts than a woman and he is very visual in his sexual process. So I speak with unspeakable confidence to say an overwhelmingly vast majority of men who have females as best friends are not completely innocent in thoughts, hopes, and desire in such relationships. They are not completely innocent!
Same goes for women but in a much lesser degree.

These people, male and female are always a click away of committing adultery or fornication or cheating.

There is always something that makes an opposite sex a best friend; something that just make them a step away from being a lover, a sex partner. Most times it is people of the opposite sex whom you once had a crush on, whom you could have dated but either he or she was a friend to one's brother or sister. Or he or she is in a relationship with your friend. Or something else just stopped the process of a full blown love relationship. So the only alternative is best friend or just friends.

That's why I said such relationships are rarely honest relationships. And by no means healthy or normal. It's a very deep problem in that very individual. But I won't go further than this.

vingeophysicist:
am very sorry but pls don't have a male bestie and a boyfriend at the same time pls am a guy and I know what am saying

surestsam:
since you dont want love... I can give u dat tin dat u want

MrBasketball:

VickyRotex:

What's the thing?

VickyRotex:

hedonistic:


Absolute rubbish.

Let's assume for the sake of argument that sex is not part (and would never be part) of the equation, which sensible man would be comfortable with his girlfriend or wife discussing their private life with one shameless bearded goat somewhere that calls himself her "bestie"?

So my girl would be telling you how I like forcing her to give me Mouth Action in the morning and how I don't like to Bleep her if her pusssy is not clean shaven? And you too would offer her your useless opinion or advice on our private life? You people are very sick indeed.

femi4:
nice face

Titidi:

What if they were besties before boyfriend came

Titidi:

What if they were besties before boyfriend came