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Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by ellechrystal(f): 11:10pm On Feb 29, 2016
halfricanadian:


Excuse me? Did u forget to put on your contact lenses

Am i op or u av a blurry sense? .
Lmao. U r d one with d blurry sense, first of all, am not putting on contact lenses , lmao. I c u don't know d difference.
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Nobody: 11:11pm On Feb 29, 2016
Nickymezor:
Showing too much love indeed... sad Therez norin lik showing too much love abeg...its either ur show ing love or u aint
Actually that's wrong and oversimplification , you have degrees of emotions , you can show too much emotions less emotions and no emotions. If we follow your ways we will lose so much in terms of measurement.
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by tosyne2much(m): 11:11pm On Feb 29, 2016
Emaprince:
LMAO!!! @your last paragraph. But for real, you are 100% correct. Showing a girl excess love means you should be ready to be kicked about and completely taaken for granted.

This nonsense attitude seems to be peculiar to Nigerian girls. They like bad guys that causes them pains etc. Infact, a good man who calls them all day and doeas all kind of stuffs to show how much he loves them seems to bore them. No girl is indispensible IMO.
Bwahahaha lmao cheesy
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by tosyne2much(m): 11:13pm On Feb 29, 2016
Been reading comments since... Guys keep the comments coming cool


Don't know if I should air my own view about the matter

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Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by tosyne2much(m): 11:14pm On Feb 29, 2016
Nickymezor:
So
Na fight? shocked
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by halfricanadian(f): 11:14pm On Feb 29, 2016
ellechrystal:

Lmao. U r d one with d blurry sense, first of all, am not putting on contact lenses , lmao. I c u don't know d difference.

Was teasing kiss kiss kiss kiss
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Dyt(f): 11:16pm On Feb 29, 2016
kpolli:


Are you not in Naija If you're not, it's very true!!!!


And when you love a guy too much he doesn't act crazy abi?
undecided
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by rahman3853(m): 11:17pm On Feb 29, 2016
YourMain:
No.
before nko, what will u say as a lady, Yes?. OP, Back to the matter, well in my own opinion its not all of them have same value for love shown. Like my wife will say "Won ti get eee" them don catch u. There are some ladies/wives who knowing the endless love their men have for them will become a daredevil, having in mind that their man so love them and will be sympathetic with them. Therefore, they still do it. This category end up biting their fingers when the man takes more than enough he could take. Though its prevalent while dating than wen married. The other category are those who at all expenses would trust their man becos they know his love for them. Even if they heard a rumor, they won't hide it from him because they knew he won't do wat they said he did, especially infidelity allegation. It also applies to men too, especially when married, they knew there wife loves them endlessly then they start misbehaviing, like hitting them, not eating their meal like before, noticing and complainig her looks, shouting and getting pissed more frequently, not caring how they feeel, not asking for their woman's opinion abt a decision, not attentive to wife's need, coming home late unnecessarily e.t.c.However, its not wrong to show ur woman/man indefinite love, but u shud know that he/she deserves it and does loves u the way u do for him/her.

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Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Nickymezor(f): 11:17pm On Feb 29, 2016
pcguru1:

Actually that's wrong and oversimplification , you have degrees of emotions , you can show too much emotions less emotions and no emotions. If we follow your ways we will lose so much in terms of measurement.
U think so? Well I get ur point sha
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Nickymezor(f): 11:19pm On Feb 29, 2016
tosyne2much:
Na fight? shocked
No nw smiley we aint fighting o... Hw u dey?
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by davidsgal(f): 11:20pm On Feb 29, 2016
skywalker240:
women are like lil children

Too much love and pamper can spoil them juz lik lil children

The best way is 70% love, 30% strict

Or u juz scold her with one hand and draw her close with the other hand.
Yeah... Dats ryt... Wen he wants to scold me he does it very well with a serious look... Lol.. Afraid go catch me.. Buh wen he z peting... Oh oh

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Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by b0rn2fuck(m): 11:21pm On Feb 29, 2016
ladyF:
I'm sure it's the money that OP is spending that is paining him. Abeg if you feel your love/money that you are giving out is too much, please release that girl from your lethal grip. angry Another guy is waiting in line to even give her double.

People funny sha, which one be too much love fa!!!
E bi like say termite dey waka for this girl head, I showed to much love to a girl, she start acting like jet-li until I unleashed the bad side with me and Bleep one of her beautiful friend 3 times, walahi, the girl that pretended she didn't love me start crying I Bleep her friend. She asked me why I Bleep her friend , I said because she didn't love and her friend shown interest then we bleeped real good. Even despite that, she refused to go, she plan revenge on return to her ex, she saw hell and back but me go hit her back with another counter attack,

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Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Nobody: 11:27pm On Feb 29, 2016
Nickymezor:
U think so?

yeap i know so... women/men who show Obsessive love can be said to be dangerous, but if we simplify things, you lose that ............................................. sadly there's no english word that i can use to describe degree of things. cry
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Nickymezor(f): 11:30pm On Feb 29, 2016
pcguru1:


yeap i know so... women/men who show Obsessive love can be said to be dangerous, but if we simplify things, you lose that ............................................. sadly there's no english word that i can use to describe degree of things. cry
well I still get ur point tho smiley
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by skywalker240(m): 11:31pm On Feb 29, 2016
davidsgal:
Yeah... Dats ryt... Wen he wants to scold me he does it very well with a serious look... Lol.. Afraid go catch me.. Buh wen he z peting... Oh oh
*laughs* all the more reason u should respect and never take him 4 granted sista.
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by BrainnewsNg(f): 11:32pm On Feb 29, 2016
nanauju:
I don't have strength to be fighting for a guy who's holding his love back. You'll definitely lose me

Really?
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Ekakamba: 11:33pm On Feb 29, 2016
Reality checked: nothing like unconditional love except in Z nation.
Rukkydelta:
Oh no did i get to close ? Oh did I almost see What's really on the inside ? All your insecurities......All your dirty laundry..... Never made me blink one more time.
........Unconditional.....Unconditionally.. i'll love you unconditionally
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Ekakamba: 11:35pm On Feb 29, 2016
Why the insults? Guess you're talking based on experience. Eyah! Sorry ko.
BoiledHead:


Fool with 1152 BC sense...

Treat her like like a rag and she will fvck your brother.. and probably find the one who will show show love. Fool

Are you married? I guess not

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Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Ekakamba: 11:37pm On Feb 29, 2016
And someone will definitely gain him. wink
nanauju:
I don't have strength to be fighting for a guy who's holding his love back. You'll definitely lose me

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Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Panzerfaust(m): 11:37pm On Feb 29, 2016
Godswillnwaoma:
100% true

Never let a girl know how much you love her.

It's better you act as if you don't love her.

Treat her like a rag then she will love you.

Be nice to her then she will take you for granted. So show some bad boy character and don't be a yes man

Don't be too close to her, give her some distance and she will value you and this is where economics comes which says that scarcity creates value.

Don't give her much money even if you have much to spend, but make her believe you have money by spending it on yourself.

Don't call her everyday keep some space.





This is the policy I made about women and it's worked and keep working perfectly for me.
Op if you like emulate me or you keep being mugu to women.
Wise man.
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Panzerfaust(m): 11:40pm On Feb 29, 2016
Godswillnwaoma:
100% true

Never let a girl know how much you love her.

It's better you act as if you don't love her.

Treat her like a rag then she will love you.

Be nice to her then she will take you for granted. So show some bad boy character and don't be a yes man

Don't be too close to her, give her some distance and she will value you and this is where economics comes which says that scarcity creates value.

Don't give her much money even if you have much to spend, but make her believe you have money by spending it on yourself.

Don't call her everyday keep some space.





This is the policy I made about women and it's worked and keep working perfectly for me.
Op if you like emulate me or you keep being mugu to women.

Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by KingTom(m): 11:42pm On Feb 29, 2016
b0rn2fuck:
E bi like say termite dey waka for this girl head, I showed to much love to a girl, she start acting like jet-li until I unleashed the bad side with me and Bleep one of her beautiful friend 3 times, walahi, the girl that pretended she didn't love me start crying I Bleep her friend. She asked me why I Bleep her friend , I said because she didn't love and her friend shown interest then we bleeped real good. Even despite that, she refused to go, she plan revenge on return to her ex, she saw hell and back but me go hit her back with another counter attack,
wale Baba werey grin

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Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Damfostopper(m): 11:43pm On Feb 29, 2016
Too much love ko... Less love ni.... Who love don help.... If am in a relationship.... It's tit for tat. wat you do to me... Is wat I do to you... U don't call me once n expect me to call u 100tyms.... Dere is nothing like revenge is of d Lord... I take my own revenge here

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Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by sirjakez(m): 11:44pm On Feb 29, 2016
Misskaycee21:
too much love undecided wonders shall never end embarassed
ur cute sha
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by nanauju(f): 11:51pm On Feb 29, 2016
Ekakamba:
And someone will definitely gain him. wink
Yeah
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Synzu(m): 11:54pm On Feb 29, 2016
nanauju:
I don't have strength to be fighting for a guy who's holding his love back. You'll definitely lose me

See brezz everywia! shocked
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Nobody: 12:02am On Mar 01, 2016
ayusco85:


U just described me and my gf. U are a wise girl. U deserve a medal for this sensible post

Nice, love is better that way.
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Nobody: 12:04am On Mar 01, 2016
MrPresident1:

I like what you say, this is how it should be.
You have a great head on your shoulders wink
Thanks.
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Leke001: 12:06am On Mar 01, 2016
...in that case look for a wife and show her love
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Doubleagent008(m): 12:08am On Mar 01, 2016
ladyF:

Sorry, no I haven't. I thought the "fa" was a Northern thing tho...
it maybe so. I know with Ilorin people. I've not been to the North. they say it with such commanding tone like they own it grin
Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Nobody: 12:12am On Mar 01, 2016
Beat her join sef.

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Re: When You Show A Girl Too Much Love, She Will Misbehave by Nobody: 12:17am On Mar 01, 2016
Xiadnat:


.......but, why would you tell another human being that you cannot live without him/her?

Do you realize a huge burden that places on an individual? You set them up so high on a pedestal, that they themselves out of fear of failing you will start misbehaving even subconsciously.

I agree, never ever tell anyone that you cannot live without him/her. It's grossly unfair to say that another flesh/blood like yourself.

Simply unattainable goal, the minute you say that, is the moment you set them up to fail/misbehave. You might as well start writing the obituary for your relationship.

@bolded....sometimes, you can just be so overwhelmed with emotions when you are with a particular person and discover that the person means so much to you and your existence. You have this feeling of butterflies in your stomach whenever the person is with you or you think of them in their absence.

That kind of feeling is what can make you so helpless as to having your self-will and one day, you'll be so lost in the moment and may just let that person know that without them, you can't just be! It's an emotional and subconscious thing and like you rightly said, you put them at a pedestal and they "unconsciously" begin to misbehave.

I have felt that way before and when i made that mistake of letting her know it, i paid dearly for it few months later.

Being the Alpha Male is KEY

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