Very very true, this has always been my principle, I works like charm.

Godswillnwaoma:
100% true

Never let a girl know how much you love her.

It's better you act as if you don't love her.

Treat her like a rag then she will love you.

Be nice to her then she will take you for granted. So show some bad boy character and don't be a yes man

Don't be too close to her, give her some distance and she will value you and this is where economics comes which says that scarcity creates value.

Don't give her much money even if you have much to spend, but make her believe you have money by spending it on yourself.

Don't call her everyday keep some space.





This is the policy I made about women and it's worked and keep working perfectly for me.
Op if you like emulate me or you keep being mugu to women.

wow! I just feel sorry for whoever you are dating right now... I'm sure you will be bold enough to tell your sister's bf to treat her like rag (that's if you have one ) it's nobody's fault you mingle with the wrong kind of ladies. Or maybe you experienced some bad examples from your parents while growing up. Probably your mum treated your dad badly despite him loving her with all his heart. Of you are a product of a broken home and yu have also had some bitter experience with ladies. I'm speaking psychologically now. I can see through that picture.. and what I see in someone in great pain. Give love a chance
Deny this all you want for NL sake. But as long as deep down you, we both understand what I'm saying

Jacko01:
The ladies i pour ma heart to... Always form activity fo me... D ones i do lik don jazzy to stay .... Hmmm love ur gal in secret dahs inside ur mind.... Talk too much bout ur love for her andbu lose her.... Ah swear 9ja gals na case study.... Dey do opppsite of wat gals frm oda countries do

girls are the same everywhere, iv travelled far n wide.

Rukkydelta:
Oh no did i get to close ? Oh did I almost see What's really on the inside ? All your insecurities......All your dirty laundry..... Never made me blink one more time.
........Unconditional.....Unconditionally.. i'll love you unconditionally

She-diot Wetin this one mean now!?

Dyt:



And when you love a guy too much he doesn't act crazy abi?

That is a lie!

I am a new victim of showing 'too much love' as u guys termed it to a girl folk. I met this girl while in school,we were in d same department. The thing dat drew me close to this girl was her gentility and calmness. We started dating, I showed dis girl all d love I could,but I neva failed to scold her wen she goes north,only to my suprise yestaday I discovered frm her frnd dat she was seen someone else. Truth be told, girls dnt like nice,gud and loving guys. Sometimes I keep on asking myself Y my frnd who treats girls like bins get to be so much loved by these girls.

marvelck:
Is it true that in Naija, if a guy shows his girlfriend too much love, she's bound to misbehave?

There is nothing Nigerian about this

Whilst you make up silly theories, note there is a difference between showing love and being needy.

nanauju:
I don't have strength to be fighting for a guy who's holding his love back. You'll definitely lose me

Uju... I don't wanna lose u

My first gal dumped me, why? Toomuch love I showed her, 2nd dumped me, why? She can lie and I hate liers, third dumped me why? Distance relationship and she can't leave without sex, 4th dump me why?, she want me to knack her without condom I refused, fifth dumped me why, no amount of money can satisfy her, sixth dumped me why? Because I'm a cool guy I hide my identity so she complain she doesn't understand the kind of human being I belong, the latest I'm dating now always want me to be by side but I'm a hustler, I can't be that lazy just cos of woman. If stick to her comment, I go chop sand.. Guys hustle before given ladies that good time of urs. It only happen to guys who keep having more than 10 gal friends. U gonna be confused cos u can't take care of them all..gals can form too cos they having toaster everyday. If we men can hold on to single woman, I bet u ladies will be asking u out, this is were woman will be toasting men. I love women o, but if u too do shakara for me, I dump ur gullible ass. After all it won't take me 1 week to get someone beter than her . what exactly do women want.. They can act like puppy sometimes

Godswillnwaoma:
100% true

Never let a girl know how much you love her.

It's better you act as if you don't love her.

Treat her like a rag then she will love you.

Be nice to her then she will take you for granted. So show some bad boy character and don't be a yes man

Don't be too close to her, give her some distance and she will value you and this is where economics comes which says that scarcity creates value.

Don't give her much money even if you have much to spend, but make her believe you have money by spending it on yourself.

Don't call her everyday keep some space.





This is the policy I made about women and it's worked and keep working perfectly for me.
Op if you like emulate me or you keep being mugu to women.

keep deceiving ursef

If u pour much on women,they make you an unfit company.But treat dem discreetly,then u become a fitter for conversations.

Hmmmn omo am a victim of showing too much love o

Yes. Very true. Just find a balance.

EVILFOREST:
True
That's why I don't take Ladies as TREASURES. I take them for PLEASURES.
Which is the best, most of them can offer

#Word...

Perhaps some guys are programmed to be a mugu when it comes to showing affection. They hold on to a lady even though there are tell tale signs that the lady is not treating them well. They think showing and increasing the affection will give them love security instead of working on themselves and their game. But sorry is always their case. Its not bad loving a gal deeply, some girls have the quality that can softly impress the heart but showering too much of affection and attention is a losers and no game. Don't be surprised few girls support this assertion, They all know its the truth.

amokeme:
wow! I just feel sorry for whoever you are dating right now... I'm sure you will be bold enough to tell your sister's bf to treat her like rag (that's if you have one ) it's nobody's fault you mingle with the wrong kind of ladies. Or maybe you experienced some bad examples from your parents while growing up. Probably your mum treated your dad badly despite him loving her with all his heart. Of you are a product of a broken home and yu have also had some bitter experience with ladies. I'm speaking psychologically now. I can see through that picture.. and what I see in someone in great pain. Give love a chance
Deny this all you want for NL sake. But as long as deep down you, we both understand what I'm saying

sometimes I wonder how God created how women think, a boy and a girl can be staring @ a two paths, knowin one is dangerous and the other safe, but no matter how you try to convince her she would prefer to go down the dangerous path and later she will say she didn't know.

just look @ it, a guy just made a random statement on a forum and not pointing fingers to anyone in particular, you still went ahead to bring his parents into the matter(you get mind ooo). am sure to receive some bashing.#nuffsaid

I think it's true

nanauju:
I don't have strength to be fighting for a guy who's holding his love back. You'll definitely lose me

Why would any man hold it, with those long hairs of yours

ellechrystal:

Like a rag? N who d hell is d idiot that will remain if u treat her like a rag? Guy, abeg o. Treat her d way u want to b treated, only girls with low self esteem will remain after d raggish treatment, but a woman with so much confidence will walk away, u loose man.

@agabi123, truckpusher, abeg na true?

If a guy has this thing they need, they would stay.Its just the way it is.Even bring different women every night, they still would return. Seriously I don't understand

It's happening to me right now...

I was calling non stop... but I figured out that the more you show a lady too much love and care.. . The more her love for you is swept under the carpet.... And she will think you just can't do without her.... And it gets into her head... She stops calling you or reciprocating too...

I just stopped calling a nice friend of mine.. Though it's painful.... But I just had to do it.. . It's almost 4days now.... I dint call her.. . And she dint call either...... So you see?? That means I was the one fooling around and pushing too much in the relationship...... But hey!!!!...... Patrick got his groove back.... I ain't calling anymore

Showing to much love and care make me lost many gals i dated, couldnt even bleep anyone..they left me 4 no reason upon care and love i show to dem..bt gals i never show to love or even woo gv me their kittycat to bleep..although i hv a new galfrnd wich i seldom call bt she treat me wel wit love nd care nd i hv bleep her countles time..thank God 4 my new stragedy

AyamBlaze:
She-diot Wetin this one mean now!?

sweet heart i'm not an idiot but a human

AyamBlaze:
She-diot Wetin this one mean now!?

sweet heart i'm not an idiot but a human

Godswillnwaoma:
100% true

Never let a girl know how much you love her.

It's better you act as if you don't love her.

Treat her like a rag then she will love you.

Be nice to her then she will take you for granted. So show some bad boy character and don't be a yes man

Don't be too close to her, give her some distance and she will value you and this is where economics comes which says that scarcity creates value.

Don't give her much money even if you have much to spend, but make her believe you have money by spending it on yourself.

Don't call her everyday keep some space.





This is the policy I made about women and it's worked and keep working perfectly for me.
Op if you like emulate me or you keep being mugu to women.

Yes might work seems ur way to woo little girls or village girl. Good u stay away from smart babe.

Is there any instrument to quantify tooo much love.... So loving a girl that loves u is not a sin...

seaga:


If a guy has this thing they need, they would stay.Its just the way it is.Even bring different women every night, they still would return. Seriously I don't understand

Of course they do stay around to make you pay someday - Women are very vengeful just like some men can be very deadly when you toy with their emotions simply because you're their lifeline.

ladyF:
I'm sure it's the money that OP is spending that is paining him. Abeg if you feel your love/money that you are giving out is too much, please release that girl from your lethal grip. Another guy is waiting in line to even give her double.

People funny sha, which one be too much love fa!!!

That guy really vex you o, to the extent that you forgot "Its [size=16pt]LadyF[/size] again" BTW do you stay or are you from ilorin(you said "which one be too much love fa" )

nanauju:
I don't have strength to be fighting for a guy who's holding his love back. You'll definitely lose me

.what really do you offer in a relationship?.













Nothing.

ellechrystal:

Like a rag? N who d hell is d idiot that will remain if u treat her like a rag? Guy, abeg o. Treat her d way u want to b treated, only girls with low self esteem will remain after d raggish treatment, but a woman with so much confidence will walk away, u loose man.

@agabi123, truckpusher, abeg na true?

You're right , you can only get what you give though not in all cases and this is one reason why you need to give your all - At least when you leave someone will always remember what she had lost in you.

The secret to loving a woman madly and still keep her on a tight leash and well controlled is simple but I won't vomit it here.

@ op,ur post z as straight as ur dick as i stand to confes dt i hav bin a victim of such circumstanc wia my gf allowd me to keep spendin and waistin my tym wit her thinkin we ar 2geda not knowin she z wit anoda.