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olamoses75:
deleting her number and clearing all their chats and call history is the best. Blocking her means he’ll still have her number on his phone(block list) then wait to see if she calls or text back

Yeah true
You are correct

luminouz:
Deleting her number showed he reacted and that means she won. Just ignore... If only you know how it drives them mad ehn... Women thrive on attention. It's their oxygen. Just deprive them of it and they lose their power

ignoring is for OG who have master the game
He came for help
That shows he needs direction
You can't fight the villain as a novice at the beginning of a movie and win
He will definitely lose

I am 💯% convinced if he leaves her number on his phone he will text or call her one day

Then who won

So the best option is for him deleting and blocking her number for now
That's my opinion tho

luminouz:
No need to be that emotional...let him just focus on his own hustle and out his mind of her.

I feel she is playing the usual rope-a-dope game on him. I've seen it countless times. And I never reply them or call...and 99% of the time they ALWAYS CALL BACK AND APOLOGIZE.

JUST MAINTAIN FRAME

Maintaining frame is the best

She purposely change the dp so he will be trigged and yes she got him where she wanted him to be

If he had delete and blocked her number she won't be able to pepper him and she won't believe he can move on so fast

SPAMBOX7:
My fellow brothers I need your opinion on something.

Me and this chick being dating like 7 months now and she been all good, zero red flags till recently.

In short lemme list her advantages:
1. She doesn't bill me. Unless I decide to just do something for her
2. I do the billing instead. Most times to test her and she Deh always drop
3. She Sabi Bleep
4. I control her like a remote. Like if I say make she show not go work for one week she won't and all that

So what happened is she had a fight with her sister and she called to hear my opinion. I told her it's a family issue let them settle it amicably.

Omo na so this girl sent me a message on whatsapp that she doesn't blame me.
I was like how? What did I do?. She didn't answer. After like 30min I called and she didn't pick. She stopped picking my call.

We was to meet that day so I told her I don't understand her behavior so there is no need for us to see again.
Na so the girl just replied with "wow nice, have a nice day"
"good bye".

Note that she's never displayed this type of behavior before. Maybe she was only pretending all this while.
But since then we haven't spoken to anyone it's been over a week now. So recently she changed her dp to one guy.

This na person wey never put my pic on her dp before. I'm thinking she's just trying to get on my nerves or play games but since I am not the type that play their games. So my mind is telling me to be more lenient and just ignore her completely like she doesn't exist. Like even act like I haven't noticed the change on her dp. But my other mind is telling me to lock her and move on.

What do you guys think?

Cc:
Pansophist
Ubunja

No need of story
Just delete her number and block her on all apps if she really want you she will get in touch with you

Or you can continue begging her maybe she might consider you back

The choice is yours

Olasyke:
men don dey bomb her dm as e stands .
Not knowing na another hairy balled nigga dey behind this account

What konji cannot do

omo dm go full oo

When you marry a Bitçh
You will begot Bitchesss

A girl of 10years in my street wore a top and trouser👖 which is normal
The annoying part is she consciously pull her top up like every few seconds so her butt can be seen as she walk by

50k salary
So if she decides to come twice a month
More than 30k is gone

I like your babe sha
She no send your papa
She is ready to milk you till you have nothing left

MetroLane:
Not really going for Alphabet.

The X here represents 10.... It's Roman Numeral.

Remember this is the 10th movie of the franchise

True
Didn't even think about it that way

lemme go watch it and confirm the lamba people are talking about

NaijaMemes:
Family is forever.

Fast and furious 20 to come out 2033

I think they are going for the alphabet series since this one is X

Fast and furious Z might be the next shiit

MJBOLT:

I doubt if any loan app will give such amount of money just like that.

Well they do
If your credit score is good
One of my guy is offered 1million to pay 1.9million in 1½years with no collateral

Baddestguyp:
how long till these guys release episode 3?

May 5

Citadel
Season 1 episode 1-2
7/10
So yummy 😍🤩

imagine troll quoting me that i even starve myself my own attention 😍

Canada2021:
Hello brothers, i need an advise. I currently live in Yankee though i never get my pali. I met this single mother also a Nigerian who is a divorcee. She really helped me settle in with gifts and everything but recently anytime i try to bring up the issue of settling down, she always brings up one excuse or the other and I am beginning to fall for deeply for her.

Please how do i gain control back.

Are you guys even dating?
Cus it sound like you are dating yourself oo

She should be the one pushing for settling down not the other way round

My advice : Enjoy the gift and the other stuffs while it last aunty isn't ready to settle down with you 👍

CaveAdullam:
Random

God didn't die on the cross of cavalry for you to persistently beg your crush to accept your love or probably give you a second chance.

Don't be unfortunate.

God never died
His son did👍

Suffering and smiling 🤩

¹ Once a week sex 🤔
² She has no Respect for you
³ Won't cook for you
⁴ She even told you if the marriage ain't working you should divorce

Yet divorce isn't an option for you 😂☺️
What exactly are you enjoying in your marriage?

Red flag : Don't date and sleep with girls you are not sexually attracted to


For Suffering Promax & smiling - Marry Her 😍
For Probability - Marry someone else 💔
For Peace of mind - Don't marry at all 😂


Choose your poison wisely 👍

Marry her
Good woman are rare

You found one
Thank your ⭐

Yeah she is your bestie bruh
Do whatever makes her happy

Karlifate:
They're born Machiavellians.

They always uphold their standards — only tone it down a bit when the wall 🧱 is fast approaching — Though some still carry on with their unrealistic fantasy

Men, since time immemorial, are the ones that constantly shift the goal post 🥅, to accommodate their excesses, when it comes to demanding accountability from women.

Yeah
Most men don't have standard only few do

Most women won't marry their husband if the reverse was the case

Men came to suffer and they are proud about it

I love women for always having standard 😍

Women are not wired to provide bro
Is either you pull her up or she drags you down😊

You need to find means to make the 💰 cus hyenas are all around you willing to give your wife anything just to báng her 😫

TheFreshVanilla:
You're already blessed with two children, take your time. Else, you will start by furnishing the apartment.

Without suffering men are nothing 🤗

sajmark:
The sentence "I love you" should be deleted from your vocabulary, do not make your woman 100% comfortable... The thrill of knowing that she doesn't have you all to herself should not be taken away from the relationship.

My friend can't even wait to say i love you at the end of their calls 😂😂
Come see his expression when his girlfriend sometimes tease him like she didn't hear him make him repeat the words

Baba will be like : Babe i said i love you
won't you say your own back🤔
She : After few seconds I love you

..

I manage my Uncle business for 2months (Nov-Dec) controlling 2branches plus the Headquarters
Just cus they think am the owner son cus we look abit alike come see how these women flirt directly and indirectly with me 🤭

Even one uni girl that helps her mum stays in their comestics shop with a young lady around 24/25yrs that's owns a makeup shop became co wives

The makeup is the First wife
The Uni girl is the small wife

Just cus they think am the heir to the throne 🤤 they become besties to the extent the mum of the uni girl calls me (My Inlaw)

Women bow in the presence of power

ubunja:
women love the chase too.

Remember what we have been saying.... A guy plays hard to get by closing his heart and being Emotionally Unavailable.

The moment you let a woman know you're Emotionally available for her, that you're have caught feelings for her, ITS LIKE HOW A GUY FEELS AFTER FINALLY SLEEPING WITH A GIRL HE'S BEEN PURSUING FOR SOME TIME.... There's no longer any challenge. Nothing to look forward to. No more wondering "he loves me, he loves me not". No more late night discussions with her friends trying to figure you out whether you love her or not. The fun is gone. The ambiguity of the chase is thrilling. But when things are confirmed beyond doubt after you assure a girl of your love, the fun part has ended.
That's why you always keep the chase alive. Tear that pucc up while being mild about how you feel about her. Tear that pucc up but be very slow on the romantic front. That's how you stay Emotionally Unavailable. The physical is there (sex) but the Emotional/bonding/connecting she has to work hard for.

True my brother

Funny enough they chase the chosen guys like their life depends on it although they won't have much to lose but when a guy is chasing a girl he tends to lose alot

MzErica:
If you don't toast a girl, how are you then officially dating? I'm not talking fvck-and-go or horñy kinda shit.

Stop making it sound one sided
Some girls won't even dating you but will knack you and still give you boyfriend treatment

So back to your Question
Official dating start with séx for men
For women it is your commitment

So do you wanna play by her rules or yours?

chikasnight:
I had this experience recently and I feel not really all ladies are wired like that.
Some girls who have interest in you might be willing to give you gf treatment and even sex but will freak out once they hear commitment.
Some others girls who have interest in you won’t give you any gf treatment, because they want to be sure where they stand in your life.

I think if you’re already getting the girlfriend treatment and she’s investing already there’s no need to toast her, until maybe she asked you herself.
Toasting should be to a means to get those treatments and get her invested if she’s not doing that already.
Either ways what matters is man should be ready to move on ASAP if it doesn’t work out

My views 🥂

Modified:
Also try to escalate things without asking her out, that’s how you’ll know if she’ll invest without commitment...

Alright boss🤗

AlphaAlex:
lol she wanted to friend zone you forever

Na so life be