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Burchester:
There is this lady we been talking for a while now and have good rapport. All of the sudden I told her I have interest in her. Then she stop replying my text and call. Wow.

tensazangetsu20:
Abeg gurus I wan ask o. My girlfriends birthday is coming up soon and I offered to cook for her on that special day and I have been having second thoughts doing it. Does a man cooking for a lady make him a simp. Please help before I do something I regret

Zarzah:
Two Words For You.

Be

Careful.

Make your Anointing no come carry you laslas.

seekthevision:
This is very helpful. I'm still learning, so I can't play very well for now. In the future I will.
I will initiate contact when next we meet and make her have fun around me. That's what I gained from your reply.

seekthevision:
Hello everyone,

I appreciate the good work you all do here to inform men about how to be better and understand life.

I have a question to ask. I'm in university and I just met a new girl. She's Nigerian and I approached her after an event in school. She didn't want to go to her room because she was bored. We talked for a while and she looked like she was very interested in me. My friends told me later that her body language was encouraging. I think so too because we talked for about twenty minutes straight and our conversation flowed. We talked about different things and I told her that I will walk her to her room. She did not hesitate and we went together.

We got to her room and I entered in. She sat on her bed while I stood by a table as we talked for sometime. Then her roommate (a Ukrainian) came into the room and the girl told me that we should leave b/c she did not feel too comfortable. Especially because she was not very close to her roommate. She also said she wanted to see my room and I gave her my jacket (it was snowing) while we walked to my dorm. She liked my room (it has a guitar, nice shoes, a drone, tv, etc) and she was admiring things while I just kept up small talk with her. We exchanged socials and she left back to her place.

I have some questions and I hope some experienced men would help me navigate this smoothly.

1. I did not escalate or make any sexual/romantic moves. It was our first time meeting, so I did not want to mess things up and I didn't want to look desperate. She is Nigerian so I suspected she would try to play hard to get based on African morals and such.

2. She looked really happy and we were in synch. How do I move forward and not get stuck in the friendzone?

3. I did not initiate any physical contact but I plan on doing so when we meet next. How can I be smooth with this?

4. I plan on inviting her to my room for a movie on Friday or Saturday night. Then, i'll see her body language and proceed from there.

What can I do?

Dan8969:
Listen to the lyrics of the songs she plays in your presence. Does it talk about wining and dining, receiving lavish gifts, flying to exotic destinations, and just spoiling and pampering women in general? If it does, she is trying to condition you.
#Take the redpill

Haydens:
Thank God I didn't ask her if it. My eyes are getting redder everyday.

Lordfranklin:
Kill shot!
Thanks for your input

drmuchin:
How do you change the name from Truecaller

Lordfranklin:
Good morning brothers of the red pill!
I went to visit a female friend yesterday. While we were conversing, I noticed a change in her tonality, her body language and my instinct kept telling me to make a move.


While I was a bit skeptical initially was because she's made it point blank that I am not godly and I am a bloody Casanova; she's attempted to invite me to her church and fellowship countlessly which I always cockily decline.

And then I remembered the golden lessons I've learned from here about women having dual sexuality (the Madonna-LovePeddler Complex), their predisposition to gratify body desires even if goes against their core principles, belief and upbringing. I learned never to judge them by what they said, but by their actions and body language.


It didn't take long for me to surmount my doubts and I put my hands to work almost immediately. She resisted at first but it was in a faint manner so I continued. We romanced and kissed, it was a very intimate session.


I didn't have condoms with me so there was no way we could continue plus she paused; maybe she was waiting for me to start telling her those pointless declarations of love all to woo my commitment. I maintained silence and her face was awash with guilt and regret.

She'd suddenly realized she let her guard down and I, being the one they refer to as the "Silent Devil" struck.

She just couldn't bare the guilt and I had to excuse her to get a hold of herself. I've got this stone-cold aura, albeit wearing the face of a pastor. People often mistake me for an innocent soul.


I left her place and never bothered to call or text her until this morning. She's a student actually and she's writing an exam today.
Checked her Whatsapp updates this morning and she's literally begging God for forgiveness after going "astray". Lol


I texted her this morning and here are the screenshots.
Thing is, I really don't want to engage her in any conversation about what happened between us yesterday.
I'm confused right now and I really do not know my next line of action.


How should I handle this?


@Ubunja @Pukkalolo @JESHAL

Amongst others that have affected me positively in various lights.
I look forward to your wise inputs.

tomdon:
Go and verify, not come oo

Mustea:
U ar evil i swr🤣🤣

LikeAking:
Those online and platforms can do dis...

fattprince:
I so love this advice. Thanks bro, I will do that.

fattprince:
Guys help me with this girl matter. You already show no desire for me. I wrote epistle about how I can't be her just friends. If we aren't fvcking, we can't be together. But she still wouldn't stop greeting me on WhatsApp every fvcking day with her boring chats and all.

WHITELIGHTER:
It's love.
They are helping their wives nau...
I laugh in hullabaloo

greatdeal1408:
Whatever you do as a man, always be there for your children.
The girls child are very delicate and they look forward for fatherly love, discipline and respect.

Don't let your girls child learn from society what you should have impacted on them as a child otherwise they will grow up to become internet porn Star, society rebels and pleasure givers.

While making money for your children, be there when they need you.

Show up at their school parties.

Take them out.

Watch cartoons with them.

Buy them clothes.
Buy them shoes .. don't just send their mother to buy everything for them.

Share your sadness with them as well as your happy moments.

The rate at which small girls are going wayward these days shows they lacked fatherly love.

VeryWickedSimp:
I'm the one who calls her after like a real man should.

VeryWickedSimp:
Simping is the best thing to happen to me. As I'm typing right now I'm about to send my last card to a girl for recharge card.

Beebah321:
"Women will never be with a man that doesn’t spend money on them, like never."


Lol
E seems like say u never see relationship way na the girl dey spend on the guy.