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mxxpunkxx!:
^^ nice pic . .

very good badt guy

Vanneni: *smiles @ d witch* funny y sum women r d way dey r.

wetin u want make I call her? My friend only told me dis wen he realised that I was kill myself over a girl(ex). He just told y am I killing myself ova her and dat if I have money, they will flock around me.

mxxpunkxx!:
Alwite!!! Is your facebook name by any chance "Isi I******wonba"

Nope.. that is my bro. I just sent you a message via nairaland. accept. And I will send you name.

2goodbobo: How can two consenting adults remove their panties and be intimate and then come back and claim is a mistake Smh

Bros, that is the new 'word' for it.

mxxpunkxx!:
Saw it as pending here . . Blame the NCC or what are they called?
How's ya weekend going?

My weekend dey jooor and I thank God... how your end? make we use facebook na. btw, my email is in my siggy.

RudySmith: ^ Nobody can help the poster until we have a clear idea of the problem. The problem can b anything from ego 2 past relationships 2 emotional scar 2 fears etc. Only when we get the right diagnose, can this patient b treated.
Luv Dr Rudysmith

i mean me. i have d same problem

RudySmith: Poster
Luv Dr RUDYSMITH 2 DA RESCUE:
B4 we begin and u can b helped, I need more information about the patient (you).So pls tell me more about what u desire in a companion? What turns u on when u meet someone? What made u go 4 the last girl instead of another? How easy it is 4 u 2 get with women? How long it takes b4 u get bored? What criteria is important 2 u when choosing these women? Do u luv these today women like the ones u did all the crazy stuff 4 back in the days? And most importantly HOW OLD R U and WHAT DO U EXPECT FROM THESE RELATIONSHIPS?
thanx 4 ur quick reply.

HABA you no go help sef? ehn?

mxxpunkxx!:
mxxpunkxx!

NOTED! I no receive ya text ooooo

downcasted: Thanks 2sexy thank you

anytine bro... we will get there and the only thing I see is that these girls will always regret their acts till death.

They always a hang their head in shame.

I will be attending a wedding by December in Akwa Ibom. Ah this is a an epitome of real relationship. My very close friend will be marrying a girl who was there when he had nothing... I remember when she would send him 3k, 2k 5k while we were in school.

After our OND, he got a job with TOTAL... and now a BIG BOY, with a brand new car and a house.

[size=15pt]A WICTH, A THIEF[/size] wanted to reap where she did not sow.

Just because she saw a couple of millions in the guys account, she wanted to seduce him. This thief is a staff of a bank where his company pay him his salary into. she saw millions and Total as the payee. Lol, she wan kolo.

But my friend declined and made her to understand that he has a fiancee.



Fear Naija ladies oooo.


I wish my friend a happy married life...

Sammiejokes: I even dey fear to marry because anything I decide to do I do it wit all my mind

You dey fear... your own good say you they feel love. Me no dey feel anything again ooo. All those craze about seeing a lady and wanting to hook up don die Kpatakpata. When I see a girl now, that zeal or excitement isnt there.

It's okay. Looking at the fast response from her end... She felt disappointed but I guess she has learnt some vital lesson that may be applicable to her new relationship which I believe she will fight tooth and nail to protect.

The good thing about this response is that you reply after 3 messages from her. That will send her a good signal that she has lost it all and that you no longer have her time.

Now she knows that she has no choice anymore other than to compete with plethora of girls for the scarce resource(men).

No need for sentiments here...

The response look matured too plus the fact that you assured your present girl that nothing will be rekindle.

Most Nigerian girls have complete lost it. They have lost great opportunity of being with awesome men.

There's currently a thread about a guy whom his gf cheated on. This shows that we can hardly trust girls these days.

I went through the same, you and mxxxphucxxx too.

A friend of mine had the same experience. While he was away on training, his girlfriend started flirting with a supposed doctor who eventually slept with her. To say my friend loved this girl is an understatement. The calls never ends. May be she thought he wouldn't be any good. My friend found about her affair with other guy and end the relationship. As I type this now, my friend is a staff of Mobil upstream oil and gas company.

Is that not a lose? I shared this story before when it happened. You can google it. The title is "Die Minute"

As for my own, she still cant believe that I could stay for a day without calling her talkless of a week or month.

WHAT A SHAME TO THIS SET OF GIRLS

Congrat to you! I'm glad you got a good conversation with your mum.

I am a fresh grad and honestly, I don't about the pay for now, but the experience.

Asiwaju9ja: Where u go since?

ID has been limiting her post since she was reported as always being on nairaland 247. Na lie ID?

slimyem: Usually,if i like a guy enough and the sparks start to fly ,i hit it with him off straight...and get to KNOW him later..
#no time#

Bold and Beautiful!

Achieverbb: Welcome to the club

the thing they do you too? I was initially scared o.

Even one babe they give me signal sef... But me no too dey ginger. I go try collect number sha.

authecosta911: @2sexy I don send u msg now now, chk it out.

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nex: My people, me sef don tire for the matter. I had earlier downloaded some of the photos so I could post on my blog about it. This her propaganda shows that she has some massive hidden agenda. DIEZIANI's PETROLEUM INDUSTRY bill. Na she get the petroleum industry.

Good work bro. I have copies of these too. Please if you have that GEJ pls upload as well so that people can see how bent on this people are to deceive gullible Nigerians.

breathing: Me too. Or even how people claim to have kissed someone mistakenly. It's like they come from a different breed of mankind. The breed with no self-control! Human beings think about these things continuously until they act it, then they claim it was mistakenly. Smh!

@Op: which one is mental fatigue biko. You don't owe her anything, you must not call her and raise her hopes only to leave her again for her to relapse into another 'mental fatigue'. She owes it to herself to sort herself out, you owe her nothing.

God bless you... It is obvious that you are an adult. The present sets of girls are COMPLETELY nothing to write home about.

Sammiejokes: @ sexkilz thanks I think that is wat am gonna do, a friend of hers keep calling that even if am going to be with her I should just be a friend

look this girls are increasing everyday. Yet they claim it was a mistake. My ex did it to me, she claim it was a mistake. But I could cope with her anymore, i let her be.

But do u know dat she went back to the whom she claimed did the mistake with? And dey kept fvcking for 3 years?

But in the end nko, dey both got tired of themselves without either person telling other to go. U know dat kind thing.

She later blamed it on bad advise from friends , age, too many guys bla blah. She even said I was too serious back then( see how she shot herself in th foot?) ehn? So na nw u wan serious abi? She said many things that even injured her more and why I can never accept her.

No mind her o. She was saying all this so that I will accept her back...

Another thing is that they have this craze for bad boys, guys that treat them like trash, guys that have no plans for them other than sex..

Such girls don't like nice guys. It's their nature even though majority of them deny it here on nairaland. They only act as if they appreciate a nice guy only after tasting the bad ones, which often never favours dem.

That's i can say for now.
GOODLUCK!

This one na small... I have over 6 ads copies displaying GEJ or Dezani... all downloaded each time I see such ads.

I thought of opening a thread for it but it seem that will not be necessary anymore.

[size=20pt]OP, SORRY BUT LET HER CRAZE... AND MAKE THE SANITY NO EVEN RETURN [/size]

Oga Kobojunnkie... what excuse? you atlk about youth ... Can you take the lead to fight the Nigerian Government on this telling them you want a change?

I wouldnt dispute your stand but despite the efforts being by various individual to help this country move forward, what has been the results?

You say I am giving excuses right, will you take the lead in fighting for this country?

Naija I hail thee. Anyway, I like the brilliance of your argument...

Kobojunkie: End of 2012 and PIB Bill still never pass?? lol . . . .

I don grow white beards finish wey take the wait

Kobojunkie: Sorry but "To each his own" only applies when you are working with valid opinions -- opinions that do not attempt to override facts.NOTE here that I compare your opinion with FACTS to arrive at it being INVALID. In your post, you suggested that raising kids the "Nigerian" way is the best way. However in the face of facts, there is absolutely no evidence to show or support your claim.

Picking one person's story and deciding to base everyone else's story on his is one of the best ways to ruin whatever else you have to say, especially if you started off with generalized statements and claims such as the one you made in your last post.

Again, in Nigeria, there are well over 70 million youths who were not only raised in Nigeria but raised the Nigerian way, who do not know their right hand from their left. Majority of them are considered Educated illiterates in their own country, and they remain largely unorganized, unfocused and unable to come together to push for change in their own country. You attempt to compare that to the number of youths in say a country like America where, even with the high crime rate, the vast majority of the youths are still more focused, more educated, and more sure of their futures than their "Nigerian-way" raised Nigerian youths. How dare you try to perpetrate such a ridiculous lie and then pretend it is just an opinion?

Well, I wouldnt deny the fact America is better than Nigeria in many ways. And by the way, I was not generalising but speaking based on what I have experienced.

Talking about Nigerians not knowing their left from right, would that be the case if they had the same opportunity many Americans have today, yet some still dont know value of what they have?

I remember trying to knock some senses into the skull of an American girl less than 16 years of age. All she does is talk about love, boyfriends etc.

After a few lines of discussion between us, she did confess that its due to peer pressure wherein she was trying to do what her friends were doing. I also did find out that she didnt like her mother whom she probably stays with, and who wasnt doing her job in raising this girl well.

If Nigerians could have just 30% of the benefits currently enjoyed my American citizens, I doubt you would have the space to call them "educated illitrates"

and I never assumed my statement as facts, just my personal experience.
I still stand on my choice of raising my kids the Nigerian way if you so wish to call it that.

Are you a Nigerian?

bayulll01: mumu multiply that in 30days and covert it to naira then u go knw say there beta pass here

bros no vex o.Why would you grade both countries by same standard. Did you make any effort to factor in the bills gulped by that money over there?

Kobojunkie: Wonderful . . . the over 70 million youths currently in and raised in Nigeria, who so far, have that country operating the way it currently does, are, I am guessing, your example for why it is better to raise your child the Nigerian way, right Yes, the Nigerian youths, raised the Nigerian way, many of them with no way of telling their left from their right, and with no idea that they are the one's to make the change they need happen, are the excellent reasons for why those Abroad need to raise their kids the "Nigerian" way(heritage, morals and all).

To each his own. I would have given more details but I cant do that now because I am on mobile.

But left for me a lone, I will prefer to have my kids do their primary and secondary education here before sending them to the US. I know of a woman, a nurse in US, who brought her 4 kids all the way from US to school here. Given, they were all born there. You think she and her husband is stupid for doing that?

My half American brother is a different thing. He was born here but spent all his years over there. Did he even bother to come look for his mother? I spent series of nights digging the internet in search for him when my mum couldnt bear it anymore till I found an email to reach him. I have seen people searching for their parent, they come all the way from UK, London etc just to find their parents.

But this particular guy never cared. No matter how hard I tried to make him understand his mother needed medical attention, did he care till my mum died in my arms. I watch life slowly snuffed out her helplessly. And not to mention that he is a medical doctor o.

Would you, under any circumstance allow your own mother go through that, even if she didnt raise you? I WILL BET MY LIFE THAT YOU WONT. Why? because there's this connection or bond we have as Nigerians raised in this country, even though things arent the way we want them to be.

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Temi 23: first time my post make it to the FRONT PAGE.... Somebody shout HALLELUYAH for me

4 of mine has made it to front page. Just know the secret.

All those America wannabe, the worst you could do to your child is raise them in the US without a trace of their Nigerian heritage. Morally, that country is fvcked.

I would prefer to give my children their primary and secondary education here before sending them to the US.

As for the mother of this girl, she have started this long ago and not now that her daugther has grown to this level. But I cant blame her much because she seem to be the one paying the bills.

And to be honest, I dont see this yielding any fruit. She may end up running a way from home and get worse.

America, the pride of the world, has completely lost it morally!

This what you get when you give a child too much freedom. There's a girl in my house less than 19 and I tell you that she has been with numerous boys. I dont talk since the people who are suppose to do it aren't talking, why should i?

deols: Not anyone mentions d fact that OP claims he told her to go if she wldnt be able to deal with his status. I don't see any1 staying wv him if he keeps speaking that way.

You shld try to understand that it is scary enough that u are SS and u wld need to be nicer more jovial,more respectful than an average guy. That is the truth.

About opening up OP,I thnk it shldnt be from d very begining. Let are see d other sides of u beyond d genotype and she might find you irresustible.

While I understand your point but I tend to disagree with the bolded because that would look like begging someone to love you. The truth is that wouldnt solve the problem. if someone dont love you there is nothing you can do about it.

This is the 3rd time I am reading something like this here. I will also like to know what would be the best type of Genotype one have SS could marry? I ask in case I come across some having the same probleam so that I can know how to help them.