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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by sleekyonyx(f): 10:46pm On Jul 12, 2016
Misskaycee21:


hmmmmmm
your case is the reverse of mine (female version)
He cheated n left after 5 years
now begging to come back
just let her go, with time she'll realise and you will heal
Exactly... they always come back begging... when they've realised their fullishness, and it's always too late.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by SeyiAyorinde(m): 10:46pm On Jul 12, 2016
she has seen a greener pasture.Take heart and move on with your life bro!
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by nzeakor24(m): 10:47pm On Jul 12, 2016
Oh boy 5 years is too much oh
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by popcykaylah(m): 10:47pm On Jul 12, 2016
I know how you feel bro..that moment when every food smells like shitt..you will be sick from within..o boy truth be told she only used you as a financial instrument.girls like that don't get contented. .they are always looking forward to meeting new guys that can give them nor than what they have ..thank your stars she left you now and not when you are married ..move on and man up!

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Starboy1994(m): 10:47pm On Jul 12, 2016
Broz I could advice u dat u move on wth ur life...let er go surely if u never cheat on er,she will blame erslf @ last broz move on
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by cruz419(m): 10:47pm On Jul 12, 2016
Hmm,, Pele oo,, u see me don't have any thing to say than try moving on with life she has moved on and u just need to realize Dat, dey say d best revenge in life is to be successful,, so bro face life head on,, love hurt I can't start telling u my experience but dese days I don't care any more love for me is a game of lucky some are lucky to fynd d Gud ones but funny d Gud Guyz are d one heart broken!! Such is life,,

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by sweetilicious(f): 10:47pm On Jul 12, 2016
AfroKnight:
She believes has seen a better offer somewhere. Let her go. Nowadays, young ladies are temporary slippery lovers.

I would like to tell you to continue to be a faithful guy to the next chick you meet but honestly, good guys finish last. You need to have substitutes when dealing with women.

Sorry.
Substitute is not a good advice. You don't have to change your personality just because others are doing so. Faithful guys should be faithful likewise girls. It will help you stay focused. Having numerous partner just cos you wanna run away from heart break will give you the worst surprise. Diseases are real biko. Guys don't listen to him for your saftey.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by duscollins: 10:48pm On Jul 12, 2016
AfroKnight:
She believes has seen a better offer somewhere. Let her go. Nowadays, young ladies are temporary slippery lovers.

I would like to tell you to continue to be a faithful guy to the next chick you meet but honestly, good guys finish last. You need to have substitutes when dealing with women.

Sorry.
Good guys often finish last. You are right, a professor of psychology at Havard university came up with such findings in a related research last week. This lady does not to be your wife, please don't regret, move on and move on quickly.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by ReneeNuttall(f): 10:48pm On Jul 12, 2016
She was never meant for u......God's appointed time is always the best...cheer up
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders

This heartbreak is 2016 version and your moniker says it all. May be you should be expecting 2017 version and your moniker then will be "heartbroken2017".

Anyways, if your hope is always that what you do for a woman wont let her leave when she wants to, my friend your brain needs to be reset. Women dont ever remember whatever you think you've done for them when it is time for them to leave. They will leave when they want to leave without looking back.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by taemilola(f): 10:48pm On Jul 12, 2016
Good will heal ur broken heart. But some ladies no dey try o.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Djmetrix(m): 10:49pm On Jul 12, 2016
First n foremost...distance rlationshp is not always a gud idea.Hav gone throu dat n I knw wat am saying.

All u need 2do is hangouts wth friends n watch comedy films for go laughter...dis wll ease d stress u r passing thru..Life goes on n rmemba dat 90% of girls gets advances on daily basis..most definitely,she has fell 4 one. #take hrt bro

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Odunharry(m): 10:49pm On Jul 12, 2016
keypad1:
dont curse her you say?
Do you know how many ladies have curse men with their Unclad va..ginal?

Guy abeg curse her
Unclad ko, umbrella ni..
I tell guys..if gal Unclad swear for u , mk the guy sef Unclad do im own

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Biafrarep(m): 10:50pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:

Thanks for the advise bro, I really suffer in this relationship
Listen attentively bro, Nigerian girls are not reliable, the moment there is no money, they lose interest & start 'grass is greener elsewhere' search. I was in ur shoes recently but I smartly turned the tables on her. I even proposed to her but she returned my ring saying i want to tie her down! She frustrated me into calling breaking up with her, i realised I cant stop loving her & begged her to come back but she told me to move on that she has a new lover! Then I left her & for good one month i stopped all contacts with i.e calls, sms, facebook, wassap etc. suddenly she started missing me seriously & kept call'n & text'n me but i ignored her. @ d end of 31 days, i sent her a message that i'll be coming around her hood 2 see someone & if she is around she should let me knw, she replied me & later i saw her, when i went home, she called me 2 knw if safe home. IGNORE HER 4 A MONTH!!

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Agfrank2(m): 10:50pm On Jul 12, 2016
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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by lebrotin: 10:51pm On Jul 12, 2016
I can understand how you feel...your hope was dashed YES! She has definitely found a supposed better guy. Regardless of gender, human beings tend to ditch loyalty when there is a perceived greener pasture. Don't blame her, nature only explained itself. By leaving you, a future disaster might just have been averted. Work more on becoming a better man in life & you will be grateful she left you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Odunharry(m): 10:51pm On Jul 12, 2016
sleekyonyx:
Exactly... they always come back begging... when they've realised their fullishness, and it's always too late.
Lmao... my friend longest time.

it's no news that the one who invest more in the relationship gets hurt most when the relationship splits

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by harsysky(m): 10:51pm On Jul 12, 2016
[b]Hey Op, I wish I could feel your pain, but it's a pity I can't. I once had a 5 year relationship. Things weren't turning out to be what they should be and one faithful day, she broke up with me. I wanted to cry. I wanted to deny myself food. I wanted to shut out myself from everyone else. Then, came a mirror infront of me. I went closer to this my beautiful mirror, looked at myself, shook my head at my foolishness, and I said , " Man, Respect thyself".

And that was how I got to realise that it was because I don't respect myself, that's why I had thought of doing those useless things I wrote up there. So, now, I'm telling you those exact words, " Man, respect yourself"

Now I'm in a relationship that's now 4-years old. I still call my ex. We are good friends. If God asks me if I want Him to rewind it and make it work out well for my ex and I, I will beg God not to. I'm just telling you this to show that you could actually find true love in another girl. Even if this one leaves, another reliable, gorgeous and well behaved damsel still awaits me. You'll get over this; trust me.[/b]

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by san316(m): 10:51pm On Jul 12, 2016
Poly guys with bad English. La WA ooo.

Sorry sha but I think she left because she's now out of ur league.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Fabulousmark(m): 10:51pm On Jul 12, 2016
Happy Year

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by T3Amo(f): 10:51pm On Jul 12, 2016
She has definitely found someone else and that's why she is behaving this way. It really sucks but such is life. Relationships come and go. My advise is that next time don't kill yourself torso anything to the detriment of yourself for someone you are not married too. You sacrifice to further gee career at the detriment of yours for what?

Trust me you are a good guy and she will regret it. Just take it day by day and although it won't be easy you will get over her. Time heals all wounds.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Valprof: 10:51pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders
so guys still fall in love....paulkillerman and pussyterrorist take
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by dollyrathebe(f): 10:51pm On Jul 12, 2016
am sure she must have been influenced by friends. she will be graduating soon. probably she is planning to settle down as in marriage nd u avnt evn started ur Hnd. dat tym too long for her nw but nevertheless she sud av tut abt dat instead of decieving u nd takn ur resources all in the name of love. Anyways take hrt the deed has bin done. bt d advice frm me is u must neva tink of takn ha bak cos she wil repeat d same

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Koreslee(m): 10:52pm On Jul 12, 2016
5years omg bros u tried ooh..
Just continue with your life kwa
Start a new life bro..
Learn how to cope without her...
I have been single since when i was born it ain't cool tho buh i have to adapt ni ooh.....

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nuahall2k14(m): 10:52pm On Jul 12, 2016
Look for d nearest bridge go try jump... This fit b ur time to blow.. U go enter LIB and vanguard... Baba God Don finally pick up ur call.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by emiye(m): 10:52pm On Jul 12, 2016
Shave your head to the last skin and mourn, do not call her for at least 2 weeks from now. Thereafter give her a short call and tell her you have agreed. Give the relationship a closure. cest fini.

While you are helping a lady, ensure you are also progressing. You cant be teaching a girl tutorial in a course and she is getting A's , while u are getting C's. In no time, she would soon demean you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Adeevah(f): 10:53pm On Jul 12, 2016
Heyaaaa!




What a long story





Thou, I did not read at all
But all I wud advise is that you should take heart...she is not for you
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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Saint83(m): 10:54pm On Jul 12, 2016
Go and hang your self na, a mere girl ended up 5 years relationshop ,and you brocadring it....smh
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by keypad1: 10:55pm On Jul 12, 2016
Odunharry:

Unclad ko, umbrella ni..

I tell guys..if gal Unclad swear for u , mk the guy sef Unclad do im own
how u want take know if she do am for her house very early in the morning?
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by BrokenHeart2016: 10:55pm On Jul 12, 2016
zeongeon:
No girl is mandated to stick with you for ever as long as she isn't your wife.

No man who is reasonable ties his happiness or build his world around a woman or a human being.

As a man you should be bothered about building a career, pursuing a dream or running a business of yours and not being bothered about a girl....

Having in mind that she did nothing wrong breaking up with you..YES she did nothing wrong...she gave u an opportunity to face your life squarely and make something out of your life so that at the end you xn decide to date or marry either a girl or many girls from any race, tribe or religion.

You will be a big fool if you try to figure out why she left you or if you try going to beg her to win her back...You will be wise if you make up your mind at this time to put woman aside and make a life for yourself.

Finally, "In woman was sin's beginning, and because of her we all die. Allow water no outlet, and be not indulgent to an erring wife. If she walks not by your side, cut her away from you"..SIRACH 25: 23-25
God bless you sir
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Hisduchess(f): 10:55pm On Jul 12, 2016
Chai! Pele ooo brother mi.Buh nah guys dey cause did kain confusion. they will be pursuing upandan to the extent that u ll want to try new thing.God pls guard my heart ooo make I no get tempted. amen

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